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What Is Your All-Time Favorite Bb Scene Ever?
einathens replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
not technically bareback cuz it's pre-condom, but any of the scenes from 'leo & lance' or anything from YMAC such as 'bayside boys' or 'surfer blue' gives me a nostalgiarection andi have to pump out a load or two in memory of the good ol' days. -
"Son... I'm HIV Positive."
einathens replied to Spermpig's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
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you're definitely overthinking things. you're worrying about what might go wrong with a relationship you don't have with a guy you haven't met. there are as many steps between where you actually are right now and where you might end up as there are between wheat in the field and bread in the supermarket. I know almost nothing about trans issues, but to me it sounds like you're just fetishizing the behavior in the hope of perhaps being more desirable to an unknown partner at some unspecified point in the future. you've got a lot of issues. my advice? pick one, any one, and work on it. then pick one more and work on it. and so on. personally, I'd start with the fact that it freaked you out that a sex partner treated you like a person, and not like a receptacle.
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never passed out, but I've definitely dissociated using both poppers and max, which is one of the things I like about them. horrible headaches the next day. also had what looked like glass boogers after heavy use, and scabbing from mild chemical burns on my nostrils and above my upper lip. had to explain that it wasn't herpes. never tried warming the bottle. I keep them in the fridge so they'll last longer.
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a sexclub is, to me, about men sharing their energy, passion and magick in a safe, welcoming, inclusive, non-judgmental space. It's an ecosystem of sorts, separate from the outside world, with 'rules' and standards of behavior that don't apply elsewhere. all of the ones I've been to have (liability-limiting) guidelines posted. number one is always 'no means no.' perhaps the guy you're all bitching about had never been before, had no one to guide him, and didn't know of the convention that if you're in the sling or on the fuckbench, you're expected to take every cock that approaches you. did anyone take the time to think past their own cock, quietly suggest to him giving someone else a turn, and help him find another spot? he might've been caught between his fantasy of taking every load in the place and the reality of unknown men approaching. we all started somewhere, and saying this cumdump is real and that one's fake doesn't help anyone. sounds like it was probably his first time there. snotty, derisive behavior from the crowd could make it his last.
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Looking for a specific story
einathens replied to Skeithavatar's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
have you tried a keyword search? might help you narrow your options down. -
how about if you're in doubt, ask the moderator via private message before you start the thread?
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it's the money shot, proof of orgasm. it's a convention in porn that I've never experienced in real sex. best compromise is the top pulls out, you see the first spurt on the hole, and then he goes back in and finishes shooting deep inside, where loads belong.
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I don't think RawNerd has ever posted a bad story here. always nice to rediscover one of his classics.
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check the websites for your favorite studios. they'll have 'be a model' or 'contact us' links. then follow the instructions and apply. good luck.
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never lost a friend due to my sexual practices. lost a few potential sex partners, but I've gained more.
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my name popped up at or health dept in a cluster study when someone I'd once had sex with had sex with someone who had sex with someone who got syph. went in, got tested, and when they pressed me for partner contact info, I said 'for the last year, anonymous encounters. might have given my number to someone, but I didn't save any of theirs.' and that was that. I did contact all the guys I'd played with, gave them a heads up, and it turns out that they'd all been contacted already. small town, I guess.
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damn, I wanna go to flex with you sometime!
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i have full dentures. I don't bring it up until it's necessary. if the guy is ambivalent, I mention that it means twice the work room and no rough edges. have not had one complaint.
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Cheating and catching something
einathens replied to BBear89's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
i guess i'm lucky. when I was cheated on, all I got was a broken heart, shattered trust, ended relationships and ongoing intimacy issues. I've said before, you may have the right to take whatever risks you want with your own body and health, but you don't have the right to endanger anyone else. many guys here will probably disagree with me, rationalize or excuse their behavior. I don't care to hear it. if you're cheating, shame on you. period. -
Should I let him bareback me
einathens replied to bottomforu's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
i always say that doubt means don't. if you're asking strangers on the internet for permission or advice, you're not ready. I'm guessing that you haven't talked to this guy about your doubts and fears. if you have and he's still insisting it's bare or nothing, he's probably not the right guy for you. you have the right to say no, to change your mind, even if he's in you balls deep and three strokes away from shooting. when the time and the guy are right, you won't need to ask anyone. you'll know. -
please continue
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damn. I wanna meet those guys.
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my dad told me 'if you won't kiss it, don't fuck it,' so I always have a taste before and after.
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hey, writers, may I suggest the obvious option, just writing 'he was young' and leaving the specifics to the imagination of your readrers? if for creative reasons in the name of artistic freedom you must include an exact age which may or may not be legal in all areas, send your story to the Nifty Archive, not here.
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i tried the link. got an error message and a pop-up ad.
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to me, 'bareback' implies choice. you haven't made that decision or said the words yet.
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I've seen some legendary vid of that beautiful hole in action. one thing that worries me about the tatt is how do you keep it clean and uninfected while it's healing? two weeks is a long time to not wash your ass.
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hot hot hot
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I always say that if you need drugs to do it, you're not ready to do it. after you take the third or fourth load, you'll know. a regular bottom will have had enough. a cumslut will feel that the fun has barely begun. don't expect too much of yourself, though. a full night in the sling taking loads from any and all is a hot fantasy and a lofty goal, but if you've only been fucked twice you might not be able to take it. my advice? in the days and nights leading up to it, spend as much time getting acquainted with your hole as you can. lots and lots of lube. one finger, two fingers, three fingers, four (two from each hand is the best way to teach your ring to stretch, in my opinion). toys. vegetables. the increasingly larger cocks of good friends. whatever you can get in without pain, introduce it to your anus. and don't forget to relax. it's supposed to be fun. at the event itself, perhaps provide a sharpie marker so your tops can leave a message or you can keep track of your count. my own bathhouse philosophy is that when I'm there, I have sex with anyone who asks or offers. and I like having a friend there so we can check in on each other. might not be a bad idea for you to do the same. and don't forget, no matter what your fantasy is, you're free to say no or stop at any time.
