einathens
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didn't I read that the repub platform also mentions reparative therapy for lgbtq kids?
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I believe that if you have to ask what to get or where to place it, you're not ready for a tattoo. you can always do it later when you're sure, but you can't undo someone else's bad judgment on your skin.
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one thing that I learned years ago from being an adult in a college town is that some of those boys know how to fuck, but they don't know how to leave. they haven't learned it yet, and you have to teach them. quickly. the polite way to phrase it is 'we both know this isn't working, neither of us are getting what we need. we're both grown men, and we both realize it's over.' then you watch him pack his stuff. buy him a bus ticket back to his hometown, block him on all social media, delete him from your phone and change the locks on your doors.
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farts happen. we're men having sex with men, so they should be expected and can be a source of merriment, not trauma. as for the painful pooping, take a non-laxative stool softener for a day or two after.
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breederboy, you might be fishing in too shallow a pond. grindr and scruff and such are geared toward younger guys, who tend to seek what's familiar, guys just like them. most of what I hear from there are 20yos with daddy issues. if you must search online, I'd recommend sites like growlr, bbrt, bear411, barebackbears, and such. I bet a better option would be taking a break from the online world and venturing into the real world. go to the places grown men go, do the things adult males enjoy. volunteering is a great way to meet men share your interests. if nothing else, know that you're appreciated here.
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I believe that the rate of gay-related suicide is getting lower. there may be other factors, but in my opinion, that one is on the decline. shame and secrecy are no longer automatically part of dealing with sexual orientation. the issue is more open, more matter-of-fact, than it used to be. it's no longer seen as a bad thing by everyone. yes, there are cultures and religions and individuals whose thought processes are stuck in the past, and growing up surrounded by that and knowing you're different can still be difficult, overwhelming, seemingly impossible. but now there are support groups, coping strategies, and safe spaces like never before, both online and in real life. acceptance is out there, and it's easier to find than ever. I don't mean to minimize anyone's pain or trivialize their experiences. I just want to point out that we are not alone.
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there might be some variance between studios, but from checking out the websites and reading the model info, it seems pretty much that the performers are tested beforehand, and may then serosort if they choose. -
there's a beautiful pozzing scene in TIM's We Are Coming For You, but the dialogue is coded. However, in Sick Fucks, it's right there, "You want my poz load?" followed by a resounding, YES!"
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I'd like to beat my record of 24 loads in one night.
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i prefer Magic Shave. It's inexpensive, has a nice pepperminty scent, and you can find it at Walgreens. The directions say not to use it on your naughtybits but I've never had a problem from it.
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@bareall77-- you could post an ad here, for starters, and on any number of hookup sites.
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my copy is arriving later this week. which movie has bloodplay in it?
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doubt means don't, I always say. sounds to me like your mind isn't ready for what your body wants. take your time, don't stress about it, and don't let anybody talk you into playing raw if you don't want to. you might also need a 'Netflix and chill' buddy, someone you could talk to about it, and proceed slowly in a mutually affectionate, pressure-free way. then eventually, you might work your way up to taking an OraQuick together, and seeing if that makes you more comfortable. maybe you top him bare, and that might make you ready to receive. or not.
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doubt means don't. if you're not 110% sure it's something you're ready, willing and able to do, don't do it. you have the right to say no or to stop at anytime. you don't owe sex to anyone. I don't think you're being a bitch. I think you're being 22. don't rush yourself, and don't allow anyone else to do so.
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my first thought is that these guys are not your friends. my second thought is, you're lucky you didn't end up dead from overdose, violence, or accident. my third thought is, drugs are a great excuse. they let you rationalize truly insane behavior and absolve yourself of responsibility for your actions. and finally, relinquishing control of your body and mind is scary enough when you're sober. what would you do if things go wrong and you're incapable of processing the information you need to save yourself? being a blindfolded cumdump shouldn't require chemical enhancement. if it does, it's not an activity you're ready for. what's the hurry?
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might just have been visitor's luck, but I never had a problem giving, taking or swapping loads at eros. I really miss mack folsom. can't wait to try 442 when I'm there in july (weekend before dore), if any of you local studs wanna show a guy a good time.
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in other threads we've discussed the difference between trying to become poz and just not trying not to. active vs passive chasing, if you will. I've been at all points along that spectrum. I think many of us have. I've been playing raw for most of the last 40 years. when my (mostly older) friends started getting sick in late '84-early '85, I figured my number would be up, because I refused to shun them. as irefuse to shun them today. if you'd care to do the math, figure a conservative average of 4 new partners a month for 38 years, and easily 1 fourth again of that number for gangbangs and group encounters. that's a conservative estimate. I'm an unashamed slut. and yet I've tested negative for 31 consecutive years. chatted this morning with a buddy who just home-tested + twice. he hasn't been to the doctor and doesn't feel the need to go as of yet. we'll behaving sex the only way both of us know. raw.
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our patron saint, larry townsend, insisted that the safest ratio for alcohol enemas is 10 parts water to 1 part alcohol. if you don't wanna do the math, that's half a cup of booze mixed into 5 cups of water. like I said in another thread, do this carefully because it can kill you, and who wants to be found dead with a bottle of ripple sticking out of their ass?
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a cheap motel might be better than a nicer one. direct room access without your guests having to go through the lobby would make things easier. as far as ambiance, maybe a few red light bulbs, maybe some bb gangbang porn playing. beer would be nice, but bottled water would be okay. make sure there's enough lube and towels. do you have a buddy who's going to be there to co-host, such as answering the door, keeping an eye out for crazies, maybe being special guest bottom if you need to rest for a bit? and definitely make sure your valuables are locked up.
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i ued to have a book titled D-I-Y S&M, or something like that. dozens of dungeon items you could make yourself. one of the easier ones was the rimseat. take a wooden toilet seat and attach bench legs to the bottom. also check the lawn & garden store to see if a portable hammock would have the right height frame for a sling.
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folsom and dore weekends in sf are definitely worth the trip.
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there are always guys claiming that's how they got it. to my knowledge, the bareback studios serosort on request and will test upon request those unsure of their status.
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chatted with a few years ago, here and on bugshare, but the TIM forum was best. and they used to have meet'n'greets where you could hang out with the guys, and it always turned into an orgy. fun times. I guess the only way to know for sure is to meet in person.
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depends on what they've got in their system. alcohol, I'd guess no, but meth is a yes. if you're gonna do a booze enema, dilute the alcohol 10 parts water to one part booze. otherwise it can be fatal, and who wants to be found dead with a bottle of ripple stuck up their ass?
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you have to respect their choices, just as they should respect yours, even if you don't agree. the load belongs to the top, not the bottom. it's theirs to give, not yours to take. that said, I get cruised a lot by 'safe only' poz guys, and when I point out our incompatibility, quite a few say that that's just for show, that they secretly play raw. you never know unless you ask.
