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I don’t know it this qualifies but… I met a guy who didn’t want to touch… he just wanted to watch me inflate a balloon until it popped (made him climax). It was so weird and the implications so isolating that I couldn’t say no. I did recommend that for a more emotionally rich life, he might want to explore this with a therapist, because a lot of people might tot connect with this.

It's remarkably rare to contract HIV through oral sex. It's remarkably easy to contract a bacterial infection that way, however. Take your antibiotics and take care of that. When I first started playing with dudes, I ended up having my tonsils colonized by a persistent staph infection and they had to be removed, and an adult tonsillectomy is NOT fun. Also, this is a PSA for everyone: clean your sex toys!

i really like what you said here. just that.

Cumdogs commentary is on point. That said, I’m opinionated and critical and have been on this site a long time… surely at some point I’ve had something to say. I’ll put the dumb stuff up top if it’s irritating, skip down. In thinking about it, I think my comments were limited a few problematic issues. Trans dignity feels non-negotiable in this day and age - and I think the offending comments were just that - comment not story. There a problematic portrayal of race in porn, generally. I’m pretty pale, but I understand the history of hypersexualizing African Americans - and now, layering Black men with the freight of presumed socioeconomics, sophistication, danger, masculinity, physicality, and position preference. And that’s before we get to how, in my lifetime “thug” went from a quaint leftover from British Colonial India that had been stripped of race, meaning “criminally violent”, generally, to a commonly-used, hyper-specific term, synonymous with Black-men-seen-through-white-eyes. It can not only fetishize skin color, but a perceived sociopolitical station with its implied hierarchy. Arguably, social shorthand serves to rob effeminate Black men of dignity, Black bottoms of legitimacy, small Black cocks of existence, leaving Black mens’ value, sans BBC, open to debate. This particular form of caricature has a real and bloody history, so, arguably, these stories have ramifications outside this community and warrants reflection. Asian men suffer the same distortion, but in the opposite direction, and Latinos are left with the indignity of not being recognized to the same extent of either for that kind of fevered fantasizing… I suspect Native Americans and Australians are wondering wtf they have to do to remain historically relevant on the fetish wagon. BUT. It’s not lost on me that the function of this site is to fantasize about (and by extension fetishize) a number of disadvantaged communities. That’s part of the draw. It’s certainly not lost on me that everything I just described makes my dick hard, especially if you toss in a biohazard tat, so I’d be a liar and hypocrite if I professed to not reading many stories with race play with my dick in hand, and worried about ethics during cleanup. Another area of squeamishness has been “bug collecting” or what I’ve perceived as a minority fetish in AIDS mortality (I didn’t fetishize HIV until it became survivable - there are interesting differences between the two flavors that seem superficially similar). There have been some rules put in place, just as with issues concerning the underaged and non-consenting, intended to reduce harm to the greater community .. but also to safeguard this site, its members, and its admins. And again, I’m aware that some of this turns me on and that a lot of this amounts to yucking someone else’s yum, or to closing the barn door after the horses are out. All of that said…. The Black community doesn’t need a white savior, HIV+ guys aren’t victims, and it’s tough trying to argue that this point of view is more virtuous, or more equitable, or more morally righteous. And this is a very strange place for righteousness. SO… for the most part I *dont* comment on the writing - or read the comments. When I was 25 I won a (very small) erotic fiction contest (of dubious competition). I was writing about things I’d never experienced - I was barely a sexual being. The judges said they “worried for my mental well-being” but I got my free subscription… Others have focused on the time and energy put out. I think I can say with some very small knowledge that I see all the glorious risks they take. . They’re sharing deep, minority-view, “transgressive” sexual fantasies in front of total strangers - and that’s the friendly audience the general public would vilify much of this. And they’re writing stories for others to read and critique. Individually either of these would be a big ask: these guys are walking a tightrope with terror on one side and scorn on the other And they’re doing it for free - most are not even asking for your applause. So yes - if you have written a story here, I have probably read it You don’t need my approval but you have my admiration. I’d love to tell you that a thread like this will moderate or eliminate pot shots from the cheap seats, but that’s not true Don’t read the critiques, or have a friend cherry pick the comments to weed out the ones with lots of opinions but nothing to say Keep writing Please! if you’re a critic, take a seat Better yet, make a contribution to the erotica here so you have some skin in the game and understand what goes into each of these submissions And without sounding like Pollyanna, just be nicer and more supportive way more than my two cents but…

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Your comments are disgusting.

I have never understood why syringes - fucking uncomfortable. wtf is wrong with a translucent enema bottle?

For some of us, sex isn’t sex if it’s wrapped in latex - casual, marital, or otherwise. Some guys are in relationships. The choice where they’re not related has a totally unnecessary second clause about barebacking only with a partner. The third option again creates a specific mindset that makes it untenable for those with the same practice, but different motivation. The fourth option links testing after every potential exposure as a pre-req for considering casual sex and barebacking separate. to refine your poll, try separating choices into more discrete statements with a single concept. If you want to get at motivations, consider a second question.

I don’t think I understand the question. There were a lot of options not included in that poll.

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lol... my offers are mutually exclusive... happy to beta test, also happy to serve up my hole... both can be true at the same time 😉

I love turning over access / control of my hole to guy(s) who is eager to put me through the ringer... or to offer up my hole and take what comes. It's physically gratifying, but also psychologically incredible on several different levels. Logistics are a problem, but I am definitely interested in being a cumdump without veto. (I just think having limited availability is bullshit for a self-labeled "cumdump" - for me, a cumdump drops everything to do his job).

CA? I think I know that guy - cute, kinky, fun. Guy on the central coast did the same - exactly the same - with me.

mother of god, man... please... more

I think we can make a case for a partitioned CO, NV, and that gets us NM. AZ? We just shut off the water and things will e care of themselves. IA and VA are worth keeping. DE should go. ME had better behave. As for Canada … way less cohesive than we are, just more tolerant. If partitioning starts, expect the Bloc Québécois to seize the opportunity and watch Ontario try to strip the Hydro Quebec lands in the north off

outstanding start - and great dialogue.

It would seem to me that given an outbreak with limited supplies it only makes sense to go with a single shot to create a bulwark while we allow industry to spin up and get more supplies ready. Also, why haven’t we been getting vaccinated for this before now?

i don't like to piss on anyone's cornflakes and if this is well-loved that is great. i certainly don't want to detract from the effort that's gone in, or the story. my issues with this are tonal and stylistic and just hearing how snobby that sounds makes me certain that this is entirely my problem, not yours, and that what's far more important is how twisted you are and how willing you are to share it with everyone - so thank you for that. me, i can't read exclamation marks, buzzwords, and super-"up" dialog... and it kills me because underneath the superficial there's a hot af kinked story here. **keep doing exactly what you're doing.** don't slow down - we all know how few authors here contribute and even take our characters on their fully perved out, fucked up, story arcs 🙂

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They’re pretty ad hoc and contingent on hosts and who gets along and what the vibe is. At least the ones I become aware of - my available hours are incredibly inconvenient.

I love that you’re conscious of the niche identity fetishizing. I feel like folks deserve to be more than a presumably large dicked top based on their tan, but by being aware of that and taking it over the top it’s not that at all - in my opinion. Don’t listen to the guys who pick. Wtf wouldn’t a person msg that offline or offer to copy edit (hereby offering my editorial services) …

As everyone’s pointed out, it’s complex and depends on a number of factors starting with critical mass (enough guys to bother with). From there the flow of dudes is critical because otherwise it’s just the same old guys. Tourist town? Suburb? Big city? then, just to make things complicated, each has its own rhythm that’s kind of based on the features of the app. Some are intrinsically better for immediate action and some are far better for the network of well established buddies u know and love. a few specialty sites are out there but I’m not that confident in those precisely because it they seem to attract those with too much spare time (not working, few friends, no place to go) and the single-minded/hyper-focused. Core apps: Grindr, scruff, A4A - note that thanks to apple, A4a is functionally very different in a browser than in an app. Check for tourists or when in city: bbrt. sniffles can be total hit or miss - a lag of dings leads to missed messages. Best place around for finding current cruise spots. I’m told by some that double-list is great for posting ads if you like straight guys and can host. Honorable mention: tindr, believe it or not. Grandslammerz, asspigs, partyandplay, nastykinkpigs, and recon have never produced satisfactory outcomes for me, but that could be different in a city center And yes, we all know that getting older is hell for play and requires strategies. Looking younger helps - put in the effort without making it look like you’re trying too hard. Drugs are amazing for creating common cause, lowering inhibitions, and obliterating standards… and putting everyone on the same t-dick level of functionality, removing one of the biggest differentiators of age. Learn how to rim. Treat your buddies like gold and have patience. And no whining - pouting, being pissyness, hostility, all of those are conducive to clearing a room: no one fucks eeyore. have something people want (around here playspace gets you laid). learn to top or be versatile, and get right with kinks other than your own. You’re firmly into the realm of needing game theory to get laid: be excellent. Because I know a 67 year old who takes on something like 25 guys a week (he’s all oral because his master restricts his hole; he’s generously allowed me to play stunthole to please tricks who fuck), and two of my favorite buddies (who have sadly passed over the past year) were both well into their 70s and hosting group fucks a couple of times a week. Roll with the punches, keep your chin up, find the “sexy” in guys that’s not visible, make changes when needed, accept that no, it’s not fair, and most of all be grateful you’re still here to enjoy a fine cock, and I promise you there’s more action to be had.

I was reviewing my little black book and numbers for players and also for loads are almost exactly half what they were this time last year. Wtf.

Depends. If I’m cruising I’ll lube with Vaseline. If it’s online, I block them.

buddy and i got into a debate about what constitutes a "slut" - i said we needed an objective standard... he said 365 loads/year (which i think is high for slut status, more like fucking legend)... 2020 - 315 received, 40 given 2021 - 286 received 11 given our rules don't say anything about counting distinct individuals - a lot of those came from some reliable cum-producing friends...