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Proud versatile bottom here. In fact, I fucked a guy bb yesterday in the sauna. I get fucked WAY more than I fuck, but I am not going to "mislabel" what I am. To be honest, I don't really like the labels we have in the gay community. I think we as gays think labels save us time, but they also cost us some pretty hot sex too. Chats online basically rule out someone because of the box they have ticked. But in a bar, darkroom or sauna, you don't necessarily have this label. If you see a guy that turns you on, you are free to do whatever you want with him. And enjoy it. To the 100% bottoms reading this, focusing too much on tops is causing you to miss out on some great fucks from versatile bottoms and versatile guys. And it makes tops even pickier. This is turn makes bottoms feel even more discouraged. It's a vicious cycle.

He's too young for you. I'm surprised you let him move in. Sorry, but the bit about the mom kicking him out does not mean you need to become his legal guardian. If you are going to pull boys off Grindr in search of more than just sex, you need to screen the guys better. I do hope you will be gentle with this kid. I actually hold you more responsible than I do him for how this has turned out because you're older. It sounds like you were perfectly fine to play along until you got tired of him, and now you want some sort of validation for wanting to kick him to the curb. What goes around comes around so proceed with caution.

On some level, I do understand why people find rape a turn on. However, that being said, rape is an awful, dreadful act that is more about power than sex. I've said it on other posts, but gay men can be some of the pickiest people out here when it comes to sexual partners. So the next time you are tempted to fantasize about rape, imagine having someone you find absolutely disgusting just assault you. And they do it when you are powerless to resist. These rapes are not happening with your favorite lube and poppers after you have douched your ass and happen to be horny. The victims are left with physical and emotional scars for life because someone decided that they wanted to have sex. Please please stop glorifying this vicious act.

To that remark about spunking in the bible, I ask everyone who read that to form a prayer circle around this young man and pray with me. Father, I stretch my hands to Thee, No other help I know; If Thou withdraw Thyself from me, Ah! whither shall I go? Loving father, touch this young man with your healing hands...for he knoweth not that he shalt not shoot his bodily fluids in the pages of your sacred scripture. Let the church say amen.

I think when a bottom sends a top a message like that, it's his way of saying "I'm not that into you but you can increase your chances if you bring in more dicks." He's either too lazy (or unable) to get the guys himself. If you were crazy enough to organize it for him, what would you do if he flakes? The best answer to that type of selfish prick would be: "I changed my mind. I found someone else in the meantime. You are welcome to try again some other time." That oughta teach him. LOL.

Not a size queen. In fact, if you are packing more than 8 inches and above average thickness, your chances of getting my ass are much lower. Now of course, I have taken some monsters in my life. If the guy is really hung, then it is important he lets me control the penetration until I have opened up. Then he can go to town on my ass. But yeah if you've got 6 to 8 inches, you've got my attention. I *really* like longer thinner cocks. A tall thin guy with a long thin cock can have half my paycheck. LOL. One other observation: if I've just been bred, I'm much more open to above average cocks. Because at that point, I'm in heat and all bets are off. I once saw a guy at a sex party...beer can length and thickness. Get this: his dick was pierced and he had what looked like rhinestones down the shaft. I look one look at that and was like no way are you going to put that pussy destroyer near my hole. I've learned in life that some dicks are much nicer to look at.

If he has had unprotected sex since he last tested, he might not be negative anymore. And please stop trying to gauge how much risk you might be taking because you just don't know. Why not play safe the first few times but leave it open to playing raw later? Or as someone earlier said, go on PrEP. Guys are not stupid. If a guy knows he is dealing with an inexperienced partner - and he wants to bareback - he is not going to admit to giving and taking random loads from strangers. Just assume that he is a slut. But please don't end up as one of those guys who takes a load off a stranger and then freaks out when you find out he is the community cumdump. You are kidding yourself if you think you are the ONLY person he is trying to get his raw dick into. Sounds like you need to beat off to bareback porn a bit longer and really get informed about the risks of bb sex.

Even though I have had success on Grindr, I deleted the app a few months ago. Guess what? I don't miss it and I'm still getting laid. I was mostly getting contacted anyway by these guys who tried to direct me to some paying website. Apps like this eat up a lot of time (and battery life) - time that could be spent on more productive ways to get laid. I agree that apps work better when you are traveling and are the fresh meat in town. By the way, I can tell whenever I'm in Berlin if someone has never visited the city. The naive ones post parties on BBRT. Trust me, unless you are a 15 on a scale of 1 to 10, there are way hotter guys in the bars that will drop their pants right there in the bar. They don't need to send pics or wait to be screened out by some queen who is comparison shopping!

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We all could be a bit more fair play (tops and bottoms) in how we approach sex. I'm guilty of wanting to get fucked, but not fucked by someone in my rotation - or not wanting to drive to the dick - or not wanting to get fucked by a guy in my rotation who has a dick above a certain size. ....in other words...I am running all sorts of algorithms to decide if I am going to fuck when asked. LOL. 1) If your dick is in the 6-8 inch range and you are a good lay, I will stop whatever I'm doing to let you fuck me. Guaranteed. 2) If you are a hung top, a bit too rough for my tastes and selfish, you are only going to get some pussy off me on the first Tuesday of every odd month and only then if I haven't been fucked the day before. LOL. Seriously, to the original poster, if cleaning out is an issue, it might be worth slightly changing your eating habits and/or taking in a bit more fiber to bulk up your stool. You can get ready in minutes then. But generally speaking, I'm with you. I don't want to be asked for my ass at the drop of a hat and certainly not after a big meal - especially if you have a really big dick. Again, this is why I'm in favor of looking for sex in a bar or sauna or park. Everyone is focused. Most everyone is ready. Unfortunately, when we are sitting behind our keyboards, there is an inverse relationship between our requirements and patience. Our requirements ramp up considerably and our patience falls just as rapidly.

My guess is that an older bottom probably has to: 1) become less picky (e.g. anonymous sex like darkrooms where people are less likely to screen you out based on appearance). 2) keep their bodies/faces looking youthful (e.g. exercise and manscaping). 3) do what older straight men do - i.e. get out the wallet. I think older tops have their issues too. A hot (young) bottom is probably more interested in a hot young top. I'm convinced that we all tend to be attracted or drawn to what we cannot have (or have easily). So I'm sure there are plenty of older tops who are not happy that they can no longer snap their fingers and fuck the bottoms they want. I'm pretty good friends with some total tops and the thing I hear them complain most about is that the guys they lust after won't bottom for them. So imagine the irony! Bottoms are in heat wanting dick and the tops are crying in their beer over a fellow top that doesn't want his prostrate bumped.

I'm convinced after reading this thread again that RideMyBlkDik and misterpiggy are the same person. I'd be willing to wager major $$$ on it.

My moral compass would prevent me from ever doing something like this. It's probably one of the highest forms of betrayal. And I believe in karma. I wonder what the karmic debt would be for having done something like this. If a jury convicted the wife of manslaughter, she'd probably only get community service - and that seems like a harsh punishment for catching your husband in your bed with another man.

One of the best ways to meet other gays is through your hobbies and other interests. It doesn't even have to be a gay social event, although if you live in a bigger city, those should be easy to find. Or you could simply search profiles on gay websites for people with similar interests. I started playing sports with a guy I met on the chat lines a few months ago. We haven't fucked and I have no plans to (he's not my type). It's actually quite nice not to have that sexual tension when we meet up. I can tell he's not that experienced sexually. Oftentimes, I'm sitting across from him thinking, gosh what would be think if he knew I take anonymous loads?

I don't disagree. But I do find that if people sense that you're insecure about something, they often pounce. I was recently at a leather event and there were some "condom nazis" there. Once upon a time, I would have been intimidated by their rhetoric. Now I'm just like "if you want to use condoms, use them, but I'll be damned if you are going to lecture me because I choose not to. Now run along before I have to put my gold-plated bible in my purse and start swinging."

I find this is the type of stuff younger/inexperienced guys tend to worry about. That's not a read or a diss by the way. I just find that once a man reaches a certain age, family and friends tend to show a lot more respect and don't ask such personal questions. If someone did try me like that, I'd ask "Why do you need to know that?" That usually ends that conversation right there and gives the person ample warning that they are about to get verbally chin-checked. And whenever I am tempted to talk about such personal things with people, I usually ask myself, "Why do I need to tell that and what could they do with that information?" You can't untell people something once you've told them.

I've been throwing the pussy from the free throw line here lately. I spent 5 days in Antwerp for Leatherpride last week. Dressed in my leathers, I took loads at the Meltdown party and back in my hotel room from a local guy I found on gayromeo. One of the highlights was this leather daddy I found on Grindr. He was very patient with me and chatted me up while sitting in a chair in my hotel room. I could see his cock bulging and I really wanted it, but it wasn't clear he wanted to fuck. He touched it and I said "nice cock". He said, "you want to suck it?" Next thing I know, I was high on poppers and fighting his chunk. After fucking me doggy for a while, he said,"boy take a long hit of those poppers and get ready for my load". He didn't disappoint either. He emptied his balls in me and left. The next night I went to the sleaziest place I've ever been in my life called The Boots. I saw this guy fucking another guy in a sling. Apparently I was just what he wanted and he stopped fucking that guy, walked up to me, bent me over and flooded my guts. Two other guys watched in amazement. I thought but did not say, "That fellas is how it's supposed to be. No texting. No apps. No time wasting. Just Attraction. Erection. Fucking. Ejaculation." I've got jack-off material for years now. I am now in Paris. A fuckbud who I've known a few years stopped by on his way to work. He ate my bubble butt out really good before we fucked. Although we were speaking French, I yelled out something in German during the fuck and he burst out laughing. That's good dick when you forget what language you were speaking. Over the last couple of months, I have used all 4 languages I speak to score raw cock in 5 different countries. I have a couple of friends who tease me about this. I'm just a very practical ho. The hot pigs I need are not where I live, so I travel to them. And when I get to them, I need to be able to tell them just what I need for them to do.

This guy I've been fuckbuds with since late 2014 stopped by my hotel today. We made a little small talk at first before we both realized we had huge boners. He rolled me over on my stomach and proceeded to fuck me a good 15 minutes before filling me up. It was a pretty big load too. Some of it has leaked out on the sheets. I like the sound when I finger my slick hole. I will now head to the sauna next door and offer this sloppy, pre-seeded hole to any takers.

i always interpreted it as "it was nice to plant my seed in a nice tight warm hole instead of shooting it on my stomach or in a wad of tissue". No top wants to see his seed wasted.

It may not be interesting for some, but the topic is highly relevant. I've heard some influential people in insurance say that they are ready to reward those who share their personal data. I'm not talking just Fitbits either. It could quickly come to the point that those who choose not to share will pay more. In other words, the healthy, low risk individuals' willingness to share will lead to lower rates for them.

I usually do what the top wants as long as I'm comfortable and not in pain. I find knees apart to be more comfortable but if I have had enough penetration and I know having my knees together for a couple of minutes will get the top off, I can do that. The thing I really don't care for is being fucked missionary by a guy I'm not that into. That's way too intimate for me. I don't want to look in your eyes if I am being your cumdump.

I saw the original post in this thread when it first appeared and thought, "ok here we go, a chain yanker - someone on here to stir the pot just to get a reaction." I was actually fairly ok with the post until I got to the word "deviant" and then things went left. This whole discussion here since then has been fascinating. I too wonder if one day that (proven) barebackers could face discriminatory practices in the insurance market. I'm not talking about poz people on meds who take them regularly. I think the insurers won't go after them, because while they are costly for the insurance pool, they are at least not spreading the virus. And I am of the opinion (and my doctor is too) that it is much cheaper to keep poz men alive with medication than to let them spend many years being sickly and out of work - and therefore not contributing to society by working and paying taxes. But the question of who should fund PrEP intrigues me. Should an insurer/society subsidize medication for someone who is negative and could stay negative if he/she practiced safe sex? Hmm. I could see people having an issue with that. To use an analogy, would I want to pay higher car insurance premiums because I am in a pool with reckless teenager drivers who race each other on the weekend? I'd probably be the first to say, segregate those kids in a pool and charge them astronomical premiums. And most people would be fine with that too. We already are using telematics in cars to reward good drivers and punish bad ones. But health insurance somehow raises this prickly issue of what's moral or fair or humane. If I have some rare illness that I am genetically predisposed to get, should I be segregated and charged higher premiums? Hmmm a very very slippery slope. I don't know what the answer is. I do know many of these drugs out here cost pennies to manufacture, yet big pharma charges thousands of dollars for them. Heck, you've got big pharma asking upwards of $80,000 to treat HepC when there are generic drugs in India that cost $1,500. But I digress. I guess the question I am asking myself is would I stop barebacking if there was a bareback tax? In other words, if a health insurer treated us like (reckless) drivers and said because of our behavior, we must pay more - how much would we be willing to pay to forego the rubbers? Or if they said, if you don't submit to an HIV test, your premiums go up. Or if you catch syphilis, your premiums go up?

I didn't ask. I was too busy being embarrassed . I did meet him at a sex party, so my guess would be that he doesn't care. Lord knows he has left cum running out my ass for others to enjoy.

Don't feel stressed. Not all cocks fit. Choose another one I say. I know a couple of tops who are hung. I rarely hook up with them unless I'm really into the mood for a big cock. One of them is kinda rough which I don't appreciate at all. The other one at least allows me to get comfortable first.

Just a few weeks ago, I was fucked by a fuckbud who shot an unbelievably huge load in me. I thought I had absorbed it all until I was getting fucked a couple of hours later by another bud. As I was opening my ass to take his cock, I heard the unmistakable sound of a huge gob of the first guy's cum hit the hard wood floor... I was so ashamed that you could have bought my ass for a penny... I usually tell a guy there's been a deposit, but I thought I could get away with it. In a sex club, I wouldn't have cared, but this was a private 1-1 situation so I was hella embarrassed. And as someone pointed out, some tops DO care. In fact, the guy who had fucked me first that day tells all his bottoms that he expects to be first in line. He doesn't do sloppy seconds.