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Just did a few minutes ago 😈. He loved it, but I think many tops don't like it because of the lose of control to the bottom.

It was at a bath house in Providence RI around 1993. He was a younger guy. He started to fuck me covered in his room. After a little while he said he had he needed adjust the rubber and pulled out. Then he went back in and I didn't notice anything, but after he came and pulled out I turned around right away and saw no condom on his cock. He first denied it but couldn't produce the filled condom. Then he said he was OK and I didn't need to worry. I was very pissed. I am not a violent person but I wanted to punch him in the face. Form then on until I got pozzed in 2012 I would always reach back and feel any cock that was about to go in my ass to make sure it was covered

Here in the US Quest Diagnostics has a cut off of <20, LabCorp uses <40. Those are the big testing companies. My ED Dr. says that there are tests that can detect down to 1, but they are not in common use and anything less then 200 is "acceptable"

I love it when he stays inside me after cuming. I like to give it a little squeeze every so often. Sleeping with his cock still inside would be heaven. It is just a shame that so many tops want to pull out as soon as they cum.

I actually consider myself to have had 2 first fucks. The first time a man put his cock in my ass, was in 1982. I used to go to the World Science Fiction Convention (not to be confused with ComicCon) every year which are held in a different location each year. The 1982 on was in Chicago, Il (Chicon IV), while I was there I also visited the local CBC bath house. While there I met a guy who wanted to fuck me and went back to his room. Unfortunately he proceeded to just stick it in with no first fingering it or any other prep and it hurt so much I made him take it out and I left for the day. In a way that was a good thing because in 1982 if he had cum in my ass there was a good chance I would have gotten infected with HIV and back then that was a death sentence. In any event I don’t really count that as my first time being fucked, although some might. The second time and what I consider my real first time being fucked was a year later. That summer I rented a house at the Jersey shore for a week. The first day I went down to the beach in my Speedo and saw a couple of people body surfing. I love to body surf, but I am terrible at judging the waves so I went near them and started jumping in the waves when they did. One of them, also in a Speedo, noticed me and we started talking. He was a tall slim blond who I found very attractive and as we were leaving for the day I casually mentioned the address that I was staying at. That night one of the locate TV stations was showing The Boys in the Bad. As it turns out my father worked on the set of that movie (the tile in the bathroom is his work) so I wanted to see it. I just started watching it when there was a knock on the door and there was my blond friend from the beach. I invited him in and told him that I was watching the movie because I had a connection to it. He must have interpreted that to mean that I was gay. We sat and watched it for a little while but soon he started to rub my leg and from there we ended up in the bed room and soon after that I was on my back with my legs in the air and his nice long cock in my ass. This time there was no pain, he was very gentle and I had bought a dildo to practice with, and it was a pleasant experience. After a while I told him to cum and I got my first load in my ass. He ended up staying the night and sometime in the early morning he woke up and sucked my off. In the morning he asked if I wanted to exchange numbers, but he lived in Philly and I lived in northern New Jersey and didn’t think it would work out, and I am not a morning person, so I said no. A decision I have always regretted. Maybe he is on here and will PM me 🤞

I have been UD since 2012. Within the first year I have 2 blips of ~40 each. Since then I have been solidly UD until this fall when I had a blip of 126. My ID Doc's opinion was that it was because I got a flu shot a few weeks before the VL test

I got Shigella once from it at a bathhouse. Definitely not fun.

I am 5'3". Years ago I signed up for a gay dating service which was supposed to find you several matched a month. After everything was signed he says: "BTW because you are so short we cannot guarantee finding you any matches". So apparently a lot of gay guys don't go for short guys.

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It is also a good idea while urinating after sex to interrupt the flow several times by squeezing then releasing urethra. This helps clean it out.

Looks like it does not work as a treatment [think before following links] https://www.sciencenews.org/article/coronavirus-pandemic-hiv-drugs-do-not-work-treatment-clinical-trial No word about it acting as a prophylaxis

I am also a hypochondriac and while hypochondriacs are usually the butt of jokes in TV and movies I can attest that it is a serious condition. I spent years thinking that every time I had sex, whether safe or not, that this was the one that would infect me. I was for the most part a real condom Nazi. You would think that now that despite all my efforts I became positive it would cure the hypochondria, but it doesn't. There are still plenty of other things to catch. There is really no excuse to get on PrEP and I would highly recommend that you do. It won't cure your hypochondria but it will be one less thing to worry about

Is it possible for me to turn off the red circle with the number of people in chat? I find it distracting. I just want to do it for me, not everyone

I had it done once by a guy who took his dentures out. It made me feel very uncomfortable, and I would not want to do it again.

Check out this video https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/how-to-clean-your-ass-arsch-spuelen-15265461. It makes the case for just the rectum and not beyond

Apparently there is no "gay gene". Not sure if this is the right place so feel free to move it https://science.sciencemag.org/content/365/6456/eaat7693

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The term "undetectable" is really a misnomer. I get my testing done at Quest and their standard is <20. But if you read the fine print at the bottom of the test it will some times say that something was detected, but was less then the "limit of quantification" (LOQ). So something was detected, it was just too little to be able to "count". My Dr says that there are tests that can quantify down to 1, in which case we would probably all be detectable, they are just to expensive to use for anything but clinical studies. Since 2012 when I started on meds I have had 2 blips of ~40. In both cases my Dr says to test again in 3 months rather then 6, just to be safe and in both cases it was back below 20. The Partner study used a count of <200 so anything below that is good enough for me.

Before the days of internet dating I once signed up with a gay dating service. They guaranteed to connect you with at least one guy a month. I had to go to their office and had to sit through a long sales pitch and interview. Just as I was about to leave the sales person says Because of your height (5'3") we can't honor the 1 match a month guarantee.

I have been told that the US CDC recommendations are not to Floss, brush your teeth, or use mouthwash within 2 hours before or after oral sex. Also make sure you have no sores cuts or abrasions in your mouth.

I have been with my partner for 25 years now and always never used condoms. Hew is the top and I am the bottom in our relationship, but we play separately too and then I sometimes top and he will rarely bottom. In January 2012 I tested poz, and when we checked he tested neg. The Dr estimated that I was probably poz for 3-5 year prior. We started using condoms when I tested poz. I went on meds and within 4 months I was undetectable, but we still used condoms for ~1 year. Since then we have not used them and he is stil neg.

Still a prescription

Did you mean UDETECTABLE means UNTRANSMITTABLE, U=U?

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