NLbear

So true. Condoms were for straight people.

That's how I was found out cheating on my (ex-)bf. Hardly got any sex at home and went straying....

Would love to see that!

By: FeralSwine https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/more-sunday-fun-day-part-2-32252342 More sunday fun day- part 2 Marcus is definitely making up for lost time of last week. John just looking loaded his ass out in the sling and came into the master bedroom and laid down-- Marcus wasn't done with John yet. What a long weekend! 3 times just today alone

@bbzh Thanks. You're not overanalysing, I have been thinking about those scenarios too. Usually I want to be in control too so to let go and see what happens is a change for me as well. I have decided to go because it has always been a fantasy and this may be the only opportunity I get to experience it. It could very well be a big disappointment for the reasons you mention (and I will make sure I have checked all info I need if I want to leave early). But at least I will have tried it. And it's only 72 hours, I'll manage to get through them even if it doesn't play out as I think it will and some of the scenarios occur that you describe. Some of the tops I will already have met at their regular parties, some will be new. So I know at least some like my hole And I know the hosts do! Same for knowing or not knowing the other bottoms btw. But I'm a voyeur as well, so even if other bottoms get more action than me or if tops start fucking the vers tops it'll be fun. I'll volunteer to be the cameraman (if that's what some want)! About the cost splitting. It's supposed to be fun for all and the organisers are trying to set this up to be fun for all. They want guys to return for a next time or to their regular BB parties. And they will organise it, book the house, provide the supplies etc. Travel costs are your own. And yes, they decide who sleeps where and so on, but they know all the guys and even though I don't know yet what arrangement they make I'm sure they will take personalities and 'types' into account (or I hope so...). They are still looking at houses and haven't decided yet but (when I asked) they sent me a few pics of houses they booked the previous times to give me an idea. It may be one of these one again (if available) or another one. Anyway, it may not be the best experience of my life as you say but I do hope it will turn out to be fun. And if not, then follow an exit strategy.

If I could I would. Only person I can think of is my FB. But he's a top and not into groups (3somes sometimes at the most). But I am not the one determining the guest list. The organisers only invite guys they know well enough.

Sensible advice, thanks! Yep, there is a possibility it turns out that way, although I hope not. But it's good advice to have a back-up plan. I don't have a car but the organising couple offered me a ride when I brought that up. I think I know them well enough by now. I'm sure if things will not work out they can drop me off at the nearest train station. It will be a disappointment for them but they wouldn't object if I really would want to leave. They are nice guys.

Í will share the details. Don't know what the plans are for taking pics or making vids. I wouldn't mind but others may object. As much I love outdoor sex it probably will not happen. It'll be freezing cold by that time, snow even. Then again, taking a few pics getting fucked in the snow is appealing ;-) The remote location would certainly offer that possibility.

I remember reading "City of Night" (John Rechy) many years ago. Was and eye-opener at the time.

I need to go on a business trip with you....

Have fun! What's he going to do with the tape?

Good question. I have wondered myself. Easy to see why they became popular (open back and front) but also asked myself how they went from something that was worn by cowboys to protect their jeans to something used in (mostly) leather sex and when that started? Probably in the 60s?

I have only been to Pride in London although I have to say it was years ago. I stayed at a friend who took me to the event in a park during the day with two of his friends. Huge crowd. He got drunk as a skunk in no time (I had my share of the champagne too). I had to stay with him but if I had had the chance to roam I swear I could have hooked up a gazillion times. Lots of roaming hands, horny looks and invitations. But alas... As for my buddy: One of his friends and I finally got him home (he could barely stand on his feet) and dumped him on the couch. Friend fucked me in the living room practically in front of my buddy. He never knew LOL. Not sure what London Pride is like today but if it's still what it was then you should not have a problem hooking up. Dress 'inviting' ;-)

I read Faggots by Larry Kramer. I think it's still available. Supposedly caused a scandal at the time.

Thanks guys. It's still almost two months away but I will be getting more details in the coming weeks. Still have questions/concerns but the organisers say they have done this for a few years now and it has always been fun for all (they would say that of course. They're tops, they 'just' have to get hard and fuck...). But I indeed hope it's going to be a blast! I hope I'll be hearing soon who they have invited ;-)

Thanks for your reply. The opportunity is too good to decline. I may never get another one like it. So yeah, more or less already decided to go. Just wanted to get my head around a few practical things. They told me they only want a few bottoms. Less bottoms = more (room for) tops = more fucking = more sloppy holes and more chance of sex going on day and night (for others to watch as well as participate in). As for drugs, I am usually a poppers-only guy myself. Only used X once. Can't really tell what it made me feel like except very relaxed and horny. I know I could take dick for hours even after cumming (usually hit or miss for me if I want to continue after cumming but not then, couldn't get enough) The couple told me they take viagra, X and G and it makes them stay hard for hours. Others will likely do the same. I know I will just be a hole for tops to fuck and/or dump their load in. In a 1-on-1 situation I still need to have some sort of attraction to a guy but not in a group situation. It's different then. The whole idea is a major turn-on. I wanted to know if there are others here who done something similar and what their experience was. There may be a few things I haven't thought of or tips about what to expect or do (or don't do). Could be from bottoms or tops.

Cool! Can't wait to see them. He's hot!

You can always ask if they're into 5-somes. If not then try the other set up. Will not be easy but you can always try! Would be hot to present your cum filled ass to the 2nd couple just a few minutes later.

Need some advice. The two guys who organise BB parties occasionally (last Friday was the most recent one) have asked me if I would be interested in going to a bareback weekend in November/December. A popular region for the Dutch to go away for a long weekend around the Xmas period is the Belgian Ardennes. A long weekend is arrival on Friday from 2pm and departing on Monday at the latest 12pm. They want to rent a large mansion and invite between about 16-20 guys (depending on # of beds in the house) for a bareback weekend. Costs (aprox. €1000-€1200 for rent + other) would be split evenly. They will supply viagra, X and G (they're a fan of those). The house/mansion(/castle even if they can get it) they will be looking for would be remote (i.e. no direct neighbors), would have 5-6 bedrooms and large living area. Sleeping arrangements to be determined by the hosts. They will be looking to get a good 'mix' of guys to cater for everyone's different taste (e.g. bears, twinks, average Joe, older/younger and so on). Most guys will be top or top/vers and about 4-5 bottoms (including me). Their specific question to me was if I would be OK with that because it would mean bottoms would need to be ready to be available for tops at any time. No exceptions. If a top wants to fuck you, you need to take it. The hosts are top & top/vers themselves and most guys I met at their parties are too with a few bottoms (like me). So the weekend would be similar to their parties but just longer. It has always been a fantasy to do this but now the opportunity is here I am wondering about how this will work out in reality. Main question would of course be how you make sure you are ready for tops at all times. Let's face it, you cannot be clean 24/7 for almost 4 days so it means constant cleaning. Another one is how it will be to be in one house for 3 nights/days with maybe 20 practically strangers. Some I may have met at their parties before but it's one thing to be fucked for a few hours at a party and another to spend days with them. There may be guys I really don't get along with (or they don't like me) but there will be no escape or leaving early (I need to hitch a ride to the location so depend on the ride back too). There won't be sex 24/7 so you will need to get along socially as well (live/eat/sleep/doing other stuff). Maybe it will turn out to be lame weekend and you're stuck in there. From a selfish sexual POV: what if the other bottoms are more 'popular' than you and you just get to watch them getting it on? It sounds like a very horny thing to do but will it be? Just a few thoughts that come to mind. They sent me a few pics of houses (& bedrooms and living) they rented before and those look really fantastic. It's a very appealing invitation but I need to figure out if it will be something for me. My hole says yes, my head not yet. LOL! So my question: Has anyone ever done something like this? How did that work out? Any advice?

New kid on the Xtube block. Bottom Scottish guy from Glasgow, UK. Put up three vids so far and plans on posting more. https://www.xtube.com/profile/otter-monkey-48471572/about-me

This may have been posted before but here's an impression of FSM from about a year ago on Xtube https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/fickstutenmarkt-berlin-27662051

@pervinmt I only realised after posting that Joey Stefano never did BB (BB was still a taboo at studios at the time). Not on screen at least......

At least you can take dick, not everyone can or wants to. Now it's 'just' enjoying it too. Getting your prostate worked over certainly helps but it takes a skilled top to make me pre-cum and shooting my load handsfree doing that. Doesn't always happen and actually I only have one fuckbud who does it to me every single time he fucks me (which is why he is my fav and FB I guess). I love the feeling of a dick popping me open and sliding in and out, pumping my hole and going balls deep. Hearing and feeling his balls slapping me is a major turn-on. I don't know HOW you can make yourself enjoying that to the extend that you get pleasure out of it though. I concentrate on the feeling of having that dick inside and what the top does with my hole and I follow his lead (I don't just lay there like a sack of sand). If he's very good he can reduce me to a shivering drooling mess fucking me. But even if he's less skilled I just enjoy the feeling of having him inside and knowing he's going to blow and fill me up. I move my ass to get the most out of his dick, milking him. This is why I like long fucks and not so much a 2 minute pump-and-go (although that is perfectly fine in a group setting or BH). Maybe the book helps, I haven't read it. But I do hope you start enjoying it more than you do now!