NWUSHorny
-
Posts
2,814 -
Joined
-
Last visited
-
Days Won
2
Content Type
Profiles
Forums
Blogs
Events
Gallery
Everything posted by NWUSHorny
-
Can you get pozzed from a cumdump?
NWUSHorny replied to BritishCumdump's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I'm almost certain this is how I became HIV positive. I barebacked cumdumps at bathhouses and orgies for years, while only rarely allowing bare cock in my hole at all and never let anyone cum in me. While it is possible I was stealthed, it seems far more likely that I caught it from one on the cum filled holes I indiscriminately stuck my cock in. -
Is the Cumunion party at All Worlds worthwhile? I haven't been to one there, but my non-Cumunion experiences have been mediocre, i.e. lots of foreplay and sucking but very little fucking, at best. I always leave CCBC with empty balls and a full hole, and have not seen a condom used there in several years.
-
The guys that want to waste your time, with all sorts of activities that they can do without having to even touch a dick.
-
The weirdest thing I've seen in this regard was one night in Palm Springs, I happened across 4 guy going at it, one bent over taking it at both ends from the other 3, and several others standing around watching both the action and their phones. I hung back to start with thinking they were filming the orgy, but once I realized what they weren't filming I jumped into the fray. Eventually probably a dozen guys joined the fray and at least that many more showed up but just watched while diddling their phones.
-
I don't know of anyone here that actually caught MP at a bathhouse or ABS. Ironically a no touching below the belt, clothed cuddle party was the disease vector for the 2 local guys I know caught it. From what I've heard the cuddle parties are still popular.
-
I'm curious, did San Francisco see a brief but big increase in cruising fucking after COVID? Here in Portland the summer of '21 was the best I've ever seen it, and I've lived here since '07. Things tapered off gradually until Monkeypox hit in the summer of '22 before unfortunately returning to normal.
-
I was in a park in LA this summer, where this form of cruising seemed to work. Once I got past everyone staring at their phones and looking like zombies, I managed to use Sniffles of a couple of decent fucks. Here in Portland, I have know idea what would actually work well for cruising.
-
I believe we are fairly rare. It can be really difficult for those of us that moved to a place that the other rare breeds within the subset have flocked to. I live in the PNW an area that has a much higher than normal percentage of the population that is openly gay, unfortunately that does not necessarily translate into a sex scene that is full of "wanton lust",. It seems to have attracted a combination of those that are gay but want the heteronormative monogamous relationships, and those that are into kinks and fetishes of all sorts that don't see cock as the primary object in a sex act. We exist as some percentage of the population everywhere, but that percentage varies widely. It is actually easier for me to find guys into quick easy hookups in the smaller conservative Midwestern cities with almost no openly gay population that I've lived and worked in than it is in Portland or Seattle with their large gay populations. Here in the PNW even the local cruising spots and fuck venue, and there are a lot of them, are dominated by men either looking for Mr Right to start a long term relationship with or they are functionally lesbian, or I suspect in many cases both.
-
Sounds like is the same as the PNW region of the United States. My sympathies.
-
I see the same problem in Portland, it is perfectly acceptable to be openly gay and indulge in any and every fetish or kink, just don't ask them to fuck. They know at least 1001 ways to have "really great sex if you promise not to touch my icky dick and I promise not to touch your icky dick." The bathhouses both host events that cater to the men who want to see and be seen as gay but aren't into casual sex, it is probably the only way to keep the doors open.
-
My peak years for acting on my sex drive were in my 30's. My sex drive hasn't diminished, I moved from a city where I could almost always find a willing partner if I had a free hour to one where I couldn't at 38. After spending 16 years here, the availability of casual sex will be a factor in where I decide to move next.
-
Hearing all of this makes me realize how lucky I've been with this. The only ART I've ever been on is Triumeq, and while it has not been quite as effective at suppressing the viral load as my Dr would like, it stays in the 30-50 range and has only been below the 20 threshold twice, it 2as over a million when they started me on it. Other than while I was taking chemotherapy my CD4 count has stayed comfortably above 500 hundred, usually 850-900. My CD4 count was at 550 when I simultaneously started Triumeq and chemo and while it did drop dangerously low for a few days when I was neutropenic and stayed around 200 for the duration of the cancer treatment, my CD4/CD8 ratio always stayed around 2 so they did not make any changes to my ART. I'm yet to have a blood test that indicated problems with kidney function, the only thing that has ever come up was a single test that showed slightly elevated liver enzymes about 2.5 years ago. I hope that the rest of you can find a treatment that works and does not have serious side effects.
-
It has been so bad at the in person fuck venues here recently that I couldn't motivate myself to go and even try this weekend. I've been working really long hours so I'm both horny and tired, which combined with the normal behavior leads to nothing but frustration. I did manage to find a couple of hookups that were actually there to fuck last weekend, but it took so much time to find them that I had to shortchange other aspects of my life. Even in the gay fuck venues most of the men in attendance are more lonely than horny, and will happily waste the time of anyone who is there to find a quick fuck or two. I don't even know what the current hot hookup app is here they all get quickly overrun with men looking for activities I don't even consider sex, and then abandoned. Meanwhile I'm taking things into my own hands 3 or 4 times a day.
-
I will admit that I only jack off 2-3 times a day now, it was more like 4-5 through my middle 40's. If I'm visiting an area where casual sex is readily available I will still breed 3-4 holes a day and take as many up my ass as I can find. Sadly where I've lived for the last 16 years I'm lucky to find 3 guys a week (bottoms and tops combined).
-
I'm in my middle 50's and still have a very high sex drive. At this point I don't anticipate it diminishing any time soon.
-
Sorry to hear this. I wish we could put this message on every single one of the damned bugchaser threads.
-
I don't understand the desire to get pozzed
NWUSHorny replied to btmdad's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
That is the biggest reason I hear. Ironically I've heard from at least a handful of online profiles that never want to have sex again after they have joined the "brotherhood". -
A4A, at least here, is mostly used as a dating app. The profiles mostly have long lists of what they are looking for in a LTR, with the sexual preferences left blank. I gave up on it.
-
The primal lust is really important, I guess I've never really considered that a connection. The general lack of primal lust in the fuck venues is probably what I dislike the most about living in the PNW, it seems like really good fucks are few and far between.
-
Do you bottom with guys that have small dicks?
NWUSHorny replied to Iker80's topic in General Discussion
I will let anyone who is who long enough to reach my hole and can get hard enough fuck me. I have tried with a few guys that weren't long enough to reach my hole unfortunately. -
I'm curious, what makes up the "connection" in wanton casual fucking? I for one enjoy , or maybe is the better term love, wanton casual fucking. Do I have guys that I really enjoy the act with, and guys that it is nothing more than getting my rocks off with, yes. So am I making a "connection" with the ones I really enjoy? I traveled 75% or more of the time for many years, and have found favorites in many places, even some I make a point of trying to find if I am in their area. Does that constitute a "connection"? I also frequently have guys come up to me at fuck venues wanting me to fuck them again, even though I don't remember them. Are they "connections"? I'm not sure whether I should be ashamed or proud, but I have fucked thousands, and been fucked by more than a thousand. I definitely understand the urge the OP is describing, but I've also had many favorites.
-
Yes, and unfortunately the areas it is the biggest problem are the very same areas where the locals complicate in person hookups. The hookup apps merely magnify the worst idiosyncracies for a given location.
-
I understand that feeling quite well.
-
why do tops care what a cumdump looks like?
NWUSHorny replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
Most of the time if I'm looking for sex, I'm looking to indulge a few more sense than just feeling a hole on my cock. While I'm not big on extended foreplay I do actually prefer to be able to see my partners. This is why I've never liked gloryhole fucks, and gravitate to better lit play areas in fuck venues. While I prefer no strings, semi anonymous sex, I do want to experience more from my partner than using him as a human fleshlight. -
I'm not going to put any stock in it, but can have a little fun: Fits me perfectly. This only seems to apply when I'm in OR, WA, ID, AK and BC. I will be on the lookout to see if my penis bends differently when I'm in this particular geographical area.
