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While I "panted like a bitch." He would pull out when I stopped panting. It either wasn't memorable or bad for him. He has hit me up on multiple apps the last 3 or 4 times I've been to PS since then, once was enough for me.

Do requests during the hookup count? I hooked up with a guy in Palm Springs that wanted me to "pant like a bitch" while he was inside of me, and basically just lay there with him in me and let him talk about getting his buddies to fuck me. He also stopped me or pulled out any time I tried to fuck myself with his dick or even milk it. I put up with him mostly keeping his dick in my ass for about an hour, but eventually told him if he wasn't going to fuck me I needed to go back to my hotel and get some rest.

and for the most part I don't run into those strange requests outside of the PNW.

Neither of those scenarios sound that strange to me after living in the PNW for 16 years. I've learned that not mentioning fucking in their profile or in the initial communication usually means they don't. The salad scenario not only doesn't involve penetration, it doesn't even require a dick, which is another problem I run into frequently.

I'm not sure it is the weirdest, but certainly the most frequent is to walk him on a leash, in the park, like a dog. There are a few parks around here where it is a common sight, so my refusal shouldn't hurt them that much.

I didn't move to a smaller city per se, I moved from Denver to Portland, but it is a night and day difference in piggyness. When I 1st moved I found myself spending twice as much time and getting maybe a quarter of the sex. Portland has multiple gay sex venues, but most of the guys at them just want to see, be seen and socialize. The same with cruising spots, they love the attention from cruising, but don't want to actually hookup. I was never a fan of the apps, but it is an even more extreme version of trying to hookup in person.

I did remember that it was in the same building as a gay bar, but hadn't made the connection that it was the one where mass shooting occurred. It has been 6 or 7 years since I've been, or for that matter to either Denver bath. I had a major health crisis sideline me in 2018 and was just starting to travel again when COVID hit in 2020. Unfortunately travel for my line of work hasn't returned post COVID and I'm starting to think it never will, which is why I need to move out of the sexless PNW. When I was able to travel outside of the PNW regularly, I could meet my needs on the road and not put myself through the frustration of trying to hookup here. We still have bathhouses, but they have never had the kind of activity on their best nights that you would find at DSC even on a slow night. I lived in the Tech Center when I lived in Denver and used to go down to Buddies about once a month from the time they opened until I moved to Portland in 2007.

I guess I'm going to have to make that trip to Buddies and make the report. Colorado Springs is on my shortlist of cities I was thinking about relocating to, but close to 1,300 miles from where I live right now. DSC was the my 1st bathhouse, and almost my 2nd home for the next 8 years that I resided in Denver. DSC is my standard for a great bathhouse, so I am almost always disappointed by other bathhouses. The amount of fucking on Friday and Saturday nights, as well as Sunday afternoons was difficult to match almost anywhere else I'm familiar with. Even weekday evenings and nights, you were pretty much assured of finding a willing fuck partner in less than an hour. Denver Midtowne, is also in my great category, and Denver is a fairly small city, but with an abundance of horny men.

I'm firmly in the anon loving group. Even finding fuckbuds that are willing to go along with my proclivities, seems to be a problem in less sexually active regions of the country, they simply have too many inhibitions and restrictions about the types and frequency of fucks they are willing to participate in or even that their fuckbuds participate in. Which quickly becomes boring for me, and what I am doing with other guys as aften as I can seems to terrify them. That said I spent some time at a fuckjoint in a city that has an abundance of fuckjoints, none of which would be considered active by most standards, and the only guys I hooked up with were 3 guys that I fuck with regularly. Counting the 3 fucks I participated in, there were only 5 fucks that I witness in the almost 4 hours I wasted, and not a single one of them involved more than 2 guys. Sadly there wasn't even sucking going on, there were usually at least 6 guys standing on the lower level of both gloryhole ramps, but no cocks being offered for sucking.

I like your attitude. I don't mind fucking in a public place in view of others that are there to intentionally watch or join in and participate in the activities. As long as we aren't doing it somewhere we are likely to be accidentally view by people who don't want to see, and potentially complain to law enforcement, I will happily fuck in public.

Want to fuck? Suck and rim long enough to get the dicks hard and wet, and the holes relaxed and wet, and then let the fucking commence.

I'm versatile and am sure I average at least twice a day. I typically start the day off jacking off unless I'm reasonably sure I am fucking someone that day, and if I am planning on going to an orgy I will often hold off the day before. With the right inspiration, I can still cum 4 times a day at 54 and even if I can't get it up to cum again, I am always good to keep getting fucked. One of my favorite things in the world is to breed a man and immediately flip over and have him breed me, knowing I just dropped fresh load in his ass.

Most of the time in the toilet, but my back yard is fully private, so I will pee just about anywhere the urge strikes me if I'm already in the backyard.

The 4th of July was the 4th day of my sexcation, and I decided to get a day pass at CCBC for the afternoon/early evening. I was now fully recovered and ready to fuck as well as get fucked. There was a good sized crowd, and even though there were a lot of couples and groups of buddies making the rounds together without joining in the fun there was also a lot of action. To be fair, there was on group of 5 really young latino friends who were trying to out do each other in sluttyness and another group of 3 guys in their 30's that definitely weren't there to prevent each others from having fun and one of them seemed to be trying to compete with the 5 young latinos for the biggest slut award. Due to the heat, there wasn't much outside fucking but the quonset, the porn viewing/playroom and the cargo container setup for sucking were seeing a lot of action. The 5 latino guys were even fucking and enticing men to fuck them in the cargo container that is setup for sucking. I spent most of my time in the other 2 areas. Maybe it was the heat, but my afternoon was kind of a blur. I know I got bred at least 7 times and dropped my loads in 3 holes, and it was all the dogpile group type sex I really enjoy there were only really 3 memorable events for me. The 1st was fucking and breeding a guy that I later found out was the boyfriend of guy I used to hookup with occasionally in Portland that had moved to Palm Springs. He and I spent a little time reminiscing while eating ice pops, when he told me I had just bred his boyfriend. I didn't tell him, but he needs to have his boyfriend teach him how to act in a sex venue, he was still acting like he was in Portland. The 2nd event that stands out was getting in line to breed a hole that was getting men to breed him one right after another on the fuck horse, I was 4th and licked up the cum that was dripping out of his hole before taking my turn in his heavenly loose cum sloppy hole and replacing what I had eaten. The last event was right before I left, a really fit older guy that had been there the entire time I had been there finally railed my by then loose cum sloppy hole on the U shaped bench for at least 20 minutes before he bred me, while having 3 other guys offering me their dicks to suck while he was fucking me. Unfortunately by that point time was up on my day pass, and I was hungry so I decided to head out and get something to eat rather than renew. After I ate, and rested a little I decided to head down to the river area where I had been fucking and getting fucked the previous 2 nights, only to discover that it was also the ideal place to view multiple firework shows, so a little to busy for cruising to fuck. Since I had observed that the action didn't really get started until around 11 I sat down on a rock with 7 loads slowly dripping out of my hole and enjoyed the fireworks. Luckily the last fireworks display ended around 10:30 and the area was back to normal by 11. I didn't even really mind the fact that the back of my shorts was soaked with cum. I didn't get any more loads, but was so loose the 2 guys who weren't really hard were able to get their dicks in my ass and commented on how nice and loose and cummy my hole was. Around midnight a really hot black guy bent over for me and I shot my 4th rocket of the day up his obviously well used hole. Since I was pretty certain I didn't have a 5th load in my balls (I am 54) and did have 7 loads in my hole I called it a night and great 4th. You really have to love how slutty you can be and find men who are equally slutty in a place like Palm Springs.

It was July 1st 2023, I had just finished a long work week and flown to LA with plans to drive to Palm Springs for CumUnion at CCBC and learn how to be a slut again after a long year being mostly stuck in Portland. I may have had a few adventures traveling for work in between, but hadn't had a chance to really indulge my inner slut since my 4th of July sexcation in 2022. I finally arrived 2 hours later than I planned in Palm Springs, because I had to wait to get a rental car and then the usual SoCal traffic jams. So I was really tired and frustrated by the time I finally arrived and then needed to rush to get ready for CumUnion. Luckily this CumUnion did not disappoint, as soon as I made it to the play areas I got a refresher course on how hooking up at a sex venue is supposed to work. Guys were groping each other and quickly moving on to fucking and sucking with out the lengthy courtship I have to put up with in Portland, and group sex was actually happening. I'm sure that I saw guys spit roasting and fucking in threes, fours or more in the 1st 10 minutes than I saw in the last year at home. My 1st fuck took place in the outside play area past the cargo container with the multilevel setup for sucking. An asian guy got me on my back on one of the benches and after briefly sucking his cock I raised my legs welcomed him into my hole and was very quickly bred. I thought I would be well primed for a night of fucking after that. My next stop was the quonset building where I fucked the guy in the sling, the guy on the fuck horse and at least one guy just milling around for a few strokes and got a couple more cocks in my ass for a few strokes well. After just a few minutes I went across to the other porn viewing/play area and found 2 couples fucking on the U shaped bench, plus a tall larger built black man that was just my type presenting his hole to be fucked, so I more than happily obliged. He was loose and obviously already had a load or 2 in him so fucking him was awesome, maybe too awesome. I really intended to fuck him for a long time, but as luck would have it one of the guys who had just been fucking me in the quonset came up behind me and started fucking me while I fucked my perfect fuck. I don't think I lasted a dozen strokes in that silken cum filled hole and the big dick filling me on the back stroke before I came. Unfortunately due to the circumstances of the day/week, I wasn't able to get it up again. I did get fucked a lot more over the next several hours and took at least one more load in my ass. My biggest regret came shortly before I left around midnight. A really cute cub joined the fun and I really, really would have loved to have fucked and bred him. For some reason he didn't seem to be able to attract anyone who could get hard, and at one point we were side by side on the U shaped bench, while I got railed by an older guy and he was being occupied by a hot younger guy who spent a lot of time eating his ass and trying to fuck him, but couldn't get hard. Because I was so tired, I called it an early night and headed back to my hotel and slept like a well bred slut, and knew it was going to be a great sexcation.

Spit works for me.

Has anyone been to Buddies in Colorado Springs recently? I haven't been in more than 5 years, it was a smaller venue than DSC, but similar vibe. Hopefully someone has and can report back as to whether or not it is still a very active fuck club.

I almost wrote pigs in blankets, but decided to make a little bit ambiguous. I also realized after I published it that they had a special on pancakes and bacon and that was what I ordered, so there a little bit of literary licence any way.

Obviously you never been to an orgy or sex club in the PNW. It usually feels like I'm the only one there to fuck and get fucked. Yes they have CumUnion parties here, but they aren't well attended or attended by men who are fuck pigs.

Personally I think "none" would have been a better descriptor, most if not all of the apps have the option to list both oral and anal positions, so I don't think that is who they were catering to. I often call them "functionally lesbian", but can see why a lesbian might find that offensive.

It definitely helps, but they get men from all over that bring there local customs with them. I ran into a couple of guys at CCBC, that I knew that moved from Portland to Palm Springs. One is a total pig and fits right in. The other is fairly promiscuous by Portland standards, but not Palm Springs standards. He was at CCBC for Saturday night's CumUnion and during the day on the 4th of July and still acting like they do it in Portland. His hesitance and what looks like prudishness to me, seemed pretty comical especially during the day 4th of July, but I'm sure most of the guys feel that way about how I act in a Portland bathhouse. I need to do a "Last Load" post on my 4th of July which took place mostly at CCBC. I've never actually stayed at the gay resorts, just day passes. As best I could find out there are only 3 left that do day passes at all. CCBC 24/7, All Worlds on weekends, and Canyon Club had a couple days a week but I don't think weekends. Things change, not necessarily in the direction we would prefer.

I'm not really sure moving to a more liberal accepting place will necessarily help. At least in the PNW being liberal and accepting translates to you can go out openly in whatever outlandish fetish gear you want, you can eve get a buddy to walk you through a public park on a leash in broad daylight while dressed in your most outlandish fetish gear, just don't ask anyone to have penetrative sex with you and if you do "hookup" with someone there is only a 50/50 chance that they will even want to touch your cock or let you touch theirs. I frequently joked during the COVID lockdown that social distancing really had no impact on cruising and casual hookups here, but to be fair you can't cuddle at 6 feet. The better than thou enlightened flamboyantly gay cockblockers at the ABS, park and bathhouses are just as effective as stopping gay sex act as the bible banging holy rollers. They both are determined to prove their point, and both are getting their way. I know there are better places, I just came back from one, but it definitely feels like there are fewer of them.

I observed last week that even where there are still active cruising spots, guys at them are using their phone apps with sex going on right in front of them even in the parks. The 1st night I went in Palm Springs their were probably 30 guys in a very small area, with lots of sucking and fucking going on, with half of the guys who weren't actively engaged on their phones. At 1st I thought they were filming the participants and hung back, until I figured out what was going on. There was a huge difference, in that guys on their phones were actually putting their phones away and joining the group action, versus here where if they do decide to hookup either the old or new way most men will insist on taking it somewhere private rather than try to get a group going. In LA I visited a couple of parks, that didn't have the group action, so the men on their phones kind of struck me as zombies walking up and down the paths glued to their screens. They were still hooking up and pairing off and I did see a couple of 3 ways, but not the groups that I prefer. I was familiar with both the group sex cruising spots and more one on one type spots going back 35 years so despite being one of the older men in both scenarios I was still able to get some action. So I haven't lost all hope. I really only struck out completely at one location I went to. I bought a day pass for the All Worlds Maze, there was action, but it was almost exclusively oral which wasn't what I was looking for (I had the same problem at that venue 5 years ago). I also went to a warehouse party, and a CumUnion party that did not have much if any app use at them and a lot of fucking, but the age of the men definitely skewed older.

That sounds like my kind of cuddling, I love the taste of fuck sweat, especially fuck sweaty balls.

So, I just got back from my sexcation and for once am not sexually frustrated. I spent 5 and a half days in Palm Springs and 3 and a half days in the LA. I bought day passes at 2 gay resorts Palm Springs, when to 2 CumUnion parties (one in each location), cruised parks in both locations, as well as going to a warehouse orgy and a bathhouse in LA. Where I went in Palm Springs: Palm Springs is a gay mecca, and I would expect it to draw the full spectrum of gay men, I was not disappointed. All Worlds Resort did not seem to have unrepentant ass fuckers like myself and the regular clientele seemed to be heavily oriented toward oral, which just isn't my thing. Despite there wonderful mazes, indoors and out, I did not manage to fuck or get fucked while I was there. I don't know if it is always like this, but it has been my experience the 2 times I've been here. Like everywhere else I went in Palm Springs there were also guys there to social, look for a husband, attention whores and sides who don't do anything that even remotely meets my definition of sex that frustrate me so badly in the PNW. I'm sure more than a few of them were trying to slut shame me. I did not either fuck or get fucked while I was there. CCBC, I went to both a CumUnion Party and bought a day pass on a different afternoon and stayed until early evening. Both times I was there I was able to both fuck and get fucked which matches my past experiences (I've probably been there a dozen times). While there were enough unrepentant fuckers at CCBC for me to have fun, there were also plenty of oral only, and all of the other groups that don't do anything sexual. Another observation I made, was even at CumUnion, there were couples and groups that stuck together and prevented their partner or friends from straying into slut activities. On the afternoon I was there, there was also a group of 5 really young friends who were trying to outdo each other as total sluts (fucking and getting fucked by almost anyone willing, so my kind of men). The Barracks Bar, had a nice mix of men, both the kind that I can hookup with and the kind that frustrate the hell out of me. Both groups were represented in large enough numbers that I would guess all but the guys that get off on cock blocking left satisfied. Parks, there were numerous parks in a very small area that I was able to find through Sniffies and Squirt (interestingly they did not both list all of the same cruisy parks, so it pays to check both) where there was a lot of activity. The mix of guys in the parks was similar to what I found at The Barracks, during the day and up until about midnight I'm pretty sure I would be able to find a willing partner somewhere. Where I went in LA: LA is a large city, and seems to have the full spectrum but has places you can find that are very specific to your wants Men's Meat Up warehouse parties 2 days a week in Van Nuys, this is one I have been to before my last trip and it did not disappoint. Other than a few voyeurs it seems to attract mostly older men who are into both fucking and sucking. It has a very darkroom that has a sign at the entrance encouraging groping and fucking, as well as beds and sling in better lighted areas. I am totally in my element at these parties, I always get exactly what I'm looking for and don't have to worry about wasting time with guys who aren't looking for casual sex. CumUnion, while the party at LAX Sanctuary has always been great for me, this time was even better, for whatever reason it did not even attract voyeurs or even oral only guys this time. This time it was the same as the Men's Meat Up party with a larger crowd and no darkroom. Everyone was groping each other and my aggressive sexual approach didn't offend anyone. I stayed the full time and left a very happy boy. Parks/beaches, were pretty much the same vibe as Palm Springs, the cruisy spots I found were further apart but easy to find, and had men looking for the same thing I'm looking for. This is consistent with my experiences in most of North America. Flex bathhouse, I had never been to Flex, but all of the bathhouses I've frequented in LA in the past are now closed. It had the same mix of men that I found at The Barracks and in the parks of both cities. I was very successful in finding willing partners to both fuck and get fucked by. This is consistent with my bathhouse experiences in most of the US and Canada. Slammers, I didn't go this time, but in a past visit I was able to fuck and get fucked but it took more effort due to the posers and outright cock blockers (there was one guy that occupied a prime fuck spot in the darkroom whose only purpose for being there was to shout no and swat away anyone who tried to engage him for any kind of activity. It is halfway in between what I enjoy in most of North America and what frustrates me in the PNW. I can get laid, but it is more effort and there are men there that do not welcome my style. Where I currently live in the PNW: I won't go into another rant about the lack of fucking in the PNW, if anyone wants to look I have made plenty of past posts about it. Having lived other places and traveled extensively throughout North America for work I know I can easily find at least some casual fucking even in small cities east, northeast, south and southeast of the PNW. Unfortunately I've never found it here. Feel free to add your own observations and places you are familiar with to the thread.