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That sometimes works. It seems like more often than not, I find someone who is thrilled to chat, but has no interest in actually having sex. Which guarantees they will seek you out like at chat seeking missle everytime they see you. I'm usually horny enough to take the shot.

I asked about whether I needed to wait on the COVID booster, and was told I didn't have to. I wound up getting the 1st MPOX vax 3 weeks before my COVID booster and my 2nd MPOX vax 6 days later. I had a lot of difficulty getting the 2nd MPOX shot, but the clinic that was giving them was offering MPOX and COVID vaxes at the same time. I know I didn't have any side effects.

I really enjoyed gloryholes when I 1st started having gay sex, and made excellent use of them on campus, parks, stores, malls, and ABS. During the AIDS crisis I only experienced having a guy try to back their ass onto my raw dick a handful of times, however I did get guys rolling a condom onto me, or passing the condom through the gloryhole so that I knew they wanted fucked, and even did it myself more than a few times and then impaled myself on the dick. Once I started going to sex clubs/bathhouses I mostly quit using gloryholes other than for quick blowjobs at lunchtime in some cities. I've also found that their are cities where gloryholes are used primarily by guys who just want to cruise each other without ever sucking, fucking or in many cases even touching ach others hard dicks, which has pretty much turned me off them completely.

I wish you were closer. There is nothing better than flip fucking with another a big dicked verse guy with just spit for lube.

A little spit to get started, most bottoms get naturally wet and slippery once they open up, much more so if they don't use any artificial lube.

Given the potential population of gay and bi men, by the time you remove the total and mostly bottoms (I have met and fucked several that legitimately had more than 9 inches), the ones that are already doing gay porn professionally (probably at least 5% of gay porn actors legitimately meets this standard), men that are impotent, and the previously mentioned group of professionals that aren't particularly interested in becoming known as a big dicked porn performer (regardless of whether it would negatively impact their careers), it is probably realistically less than 0.05% of the population. While I'm not in the truly monster dicked category, at around 8 inches, fairly thick and versatile, I'm am still in high demand as a big dicked top, even out of shape and over 50 years old.

I'm not even sure you have been dumped since this is a casual relationship and his statement was he wanted "to slow things down". I don't think you should have lied to him under any circumstances. Sometimes that means you don't get to fuck, but it is what it is. You said that he is married, so it is possible that his partner is the impetus for his change of mind. He also could have many other kinds of scares that could be causing him to alter his behavior, which may or may not be permanent. I would wait a while before completely giving up on him.

Keep trying, and go when you travel to other cities since some are definitely better than others. I'm sorry your 1st experience lacked intensity, but at least you had sex.

I had a fuckbuddy in grad school who would regularly push his ball in my ass with his cock once I was open, and have to say I enjoyed it a lot. I've tried doing it as a top, but find it painful, I've even tried doing it to wide open fisting bottoms but even their loose holes put painful pressure on my balls.

I would! I have actually tried (videos of guys who can fascinate me) but couldn't do it (my dick is either too soft to penetrate or too hard to bend that way). I did after all learn a lot about blow jobs (both giving and receiving) by sucking my own cock in my teens and twenties. Like sucking my own cock fucking my own ass would be fun, but would be a poor replacement for fucking or getting fucked by another guy. On the other hand I do love having fucking with versatile guys who share my sexual attitude and appetite.

At 53 and being a major slut for almost 40 years, I have a lot to choose from, so it is hard to say what the raunchiest thing I've ever done was. From your examples, in a church (with a girl), in a store (several times), on an open street (several times, I have at least 1 story about it posted in the " Your Last Load" forum), yes. Train and foyer, no. By far the most disgusting thing I've ever done was breed a guy, then took a shit in his mouth and then let him wash it down with my piss straight from the tap, the last time I did it to him was in a bathhouse with other guys watching. It wasn't really my thing, but he talked me into it and I tried it a few times just to be sure, I definitely never kissed him. A regular thing that I do that is fairly raunchy in sex clubs, is to loudly offer to lube bottoms up with the cum leaking from my hole before I fuck them.

I've always enjoyed being watched, as long as it is an appreciative audience.

Hope you recover soon.

I have never seen the point in responding to contacts from those types of profiles. I guess some people consider it rude, or as missed opportunities. I also have no problem blocking local profiles if I sense something is off.

If I suck a guy to completion I want to taste his cum, even though I'm not really into sucking. I also almost always taste cum that has been shot up my ass. There is nothing better than snowballing the cum after a blow job or a fuck. I'm always up for felching and ATM and then kissing.

I think this sums it up pretty well. I'm not sure why, but there seem to be a lot more gay men in the PNW that are always on the lookout for a relationship than other parts of the country. Personally I would drop it and ignore or block him, but then again I'm not looking for romantic relationships.

Having traveled to and lived in many different places across North America and tried to hookup, I have observed some things about both the hookup apps and in person cruising. The same problems that exist for in person cruising carry over to the apps and get magnified there. Population density does make a difference, that said there are other factors that make a huge difference as well. There are small to medium size cities that have a fairly active in person cruising scene at a parks, tearooms, maybe 1 or 2 ABS. Because of the limited population it may take some time, but there is a good chance that if you do meet someone you can connect and fuck regardless of whether it was initiated in person or from an app. There are larger cities with several bathhouses, sexclubs, ABS, parks, tearooms, and etc. Where you can find guys cruising and hooking up quicky to actually fuck 24/7. In these cities the apps work really well. There are also large cities that have several bathhouses, sexclubs, ABS, parks, tearooms, and etc, and there are a few guys at them but they are mostly there to see and be seen, hooking up is long drawn out process and when you do hookup you find out a lot of them have so many inhibitions and so little experience actually fucking that the sex is far less than satisfactory. Practice really does make perfect and they have very little practice. The apps in these cities are, at least for me even more frustrating than the smaller cities. There is lots of interest, but the negotiation to do anything takes numerous back and forth over hours and days, then when they do agree to meet to "fuck", you find out in a lot of cases that their definition of a fuck is nothing more than cuddling and maybe some light petting, not penetration. In person cruising is also be extremely frustrating due to repeat offenders that after the hours of courtship that resulted in a nonfuck, that want to hook up and spend a couple of hours not fucking every damn time you encounter them. In summary you can find willing partners, in both the smaller cities with active hookup scenes and larger cities with poor hookup scenes if you spend enough time at it on either the apps or in person, but it can be both time consuming and potentially extremely frustrating.

While I'm not partial to using a feminized name for a man's fuckhole, I'm not going to get up leave if either a top or bottom uses it while we are fucking.

This certainly feels like it. This is a new event that I haven't been to, but it certainly has that feel and I have refused similar promotions in the past, and I'm almost certain I could get the discount possibly without even asking for it. Pre-COVID I had a stack of free passes for this bathhouse, that I chose not to use.

So based on your definition, given the fact that most bathhouse customers are there to bottom, letting guys who are generally desirable willing active tops in at a discount or for free qualifies it as a brothel? I can confirm that there are some bathhouses doing exactly that. From a moral/ethical point of view, I'm glad I for the most part rejected the offers.

@tighthole64 Just curious are you actually using BZ to hookup?

I think I'm a little confused. I don't consider paying to enter a bathhouse to have sex with someone else that has paid to enter the bathhouse to be a brothels/prostitution situation. To me that is no different than paying to enter any other kind of establishment and interact with other customers. There are some gray areas however, like offering discounts to tops and or letting guys they know are active tops in for free/offering special perks and discounts. Another thing, that I know happens, is that one of my local bathhouses let's masseuses in for free on their weekly spa nights and for their quarterly parties, oddly enough it is the clientele they attract on those nights that prevents it from turning in to prostitution (most of them are extremely adamant that spa nights are NOT for sex, and that people like me are not welcome at their event). I know it isn't what is being asked, but from the perspective of actual prostitution occuring on the premises it seems a lot less likely for bathhouses than adult bookstores and theaters, and is more likely to involve the owners and employees since they don't seem to have as many rules about having sex on while they are working. Most bathhouses won't allow their employees to play while they are working, even on breaks, some of them won't even let them do it on the same day before or after their shift. I assume this is to remove any possible idea that the employees are being compensated for sex. Also the vast majority of bathhouse employees are total bottoms, so their sexual services are not really the ones that would benefit the club financially. I have been propositioned in all 3 types of establishments, but as far as I know the owners and employees were not involved, and in most of the occurances I was offered the compensation and did not accept it so no one could ask for their cut, so that may not be full confirmation.

@BootmanLA The other retail activities are somewhat unique to the adult book stores in my experience. I don't think I have ever seen an adult theater advertise what is playing on the outside, let alone on the marquee, and very few of them have any significant retail operation. As to facilities in bathhouses, I have been to some that had multiple large pools, some that emphasized their steam rooms and saunas, but it has been a long time since I've been in one that still has any kind of gym equipment, I assume the potential liability for injury is too great. Portland is really unusual, bathhouses here do not have any other facilities to speak of compared to most cities, or any legal need to hide what they really are, but they seem like they are continuously promoting nonsexual activities and events to get paying customers in the door. To be fair a significant number of guys do seem to patronize them just to use the extremely limited spa facilities and in the summer the outdoor nude suntanning decks. I've also been in line with 6-8 guys in front of me when they announced the steam room or hot tub was out of order and watched more than half of them leave. Yelp reviews also indicate that they do get a fair number of guys to come in once for the nonsexual activities, only to discover what they really are. I've often wondered what those reviews would read like if the reviewers had stumbled into a sexclub in a city where guys actually participate in fucking each other's brains out.

I think there are several issues here, that aren't specific to cumdumps. 1) Guys that are using the apps to fuel their fantasy jack off sessions rather than actually hookup. 2) Guys that enjoy the pursuit more than the sex itself. Some posters here have expressed that they enjoy looking for the hookup far more than the actual hookup. Also having attempted to cruise hookups in the PNW has led me to the conclusion that there are guys that enjoy the attention that comes from the pursuit sex, but have absolutely no interest in the physical act of sex itself. I'm convinced some of them get off on actually preventing fucks from happening.

Height differences don't have to be a problem, as long as both parties are willing to find a position that works. I frequently run into to the problem that a lot of guys think they can only fuck or get fucked in one position, and the most popular position for these guys where I live seems to be standing, which at 6'2" with long legs can be an obstacle either top or bottom. Why do some guys get offended when you suggest a different position, especially if the one you are trying clearly isn't working?