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Mamabicho

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  1. Like a lot of folks said, it depends... If I had my way, I'd want a good long, rough fuck that ended with him shooting his load deep in my ass. I love to take the load, to feel it and know it's there at the end, the same way I like for a guy to cum in my mouth. Without the load, it just doesn't seem like you really "did it." But I can be flexible. I have a BBC I suck pretty often and he's a fast cummer. But we've been messing around for so long I'm used to it, and I like being of service to him. Occasionally he wants to cum in my ass, and I know it's going to last about 10 seconds. But I let him pop it in and bust. I get the load, he's gets off, but it's hardly what you would call a traditional "fuck." But I still kind of like it. There are times I have a random online hookup and you end up with someone who cums fast, and frankly I just don't walk (or limp) away disappointed. For me it's often about the idea of being fucked the way the top wants. If the guy pumps a load in 5-10 minutes, I might have wanted him to go on for another 15 minutes, but I still feel good that I got fucked and got his load. I think that's the part of me that likes the idea of being fucked as much as getting fucked itself.
  2. Yes, we want it all. Like others have said, I love the friction and the feeling of the pistoning in and out, but when you feel them pressing against you and you know it's balls-deep, that's a great feeling as well. Accomplishment, like reaching the bottom of the well, breaking through. If nothing else, it just gives you more friction since they can go in and out more completely if they have the whole thing inside you. I remember the first time a long, but thin dicked guy went all the way in and breached my "second hole" for the first time. I remember it was in the backseat of my car, and I will never forget seeing stars as I immediately knew he had been where no man had gone before. There has to be some sort of nerve endings deep in there that make it more pleasurable, but I'm no expert. Now if a top wants to just get the head in and pump a little I'm not going to complain, that's his call. But if it were up to me, I say keep going until you hit bottom!
  3. I think it's pretty obvious that some guys aren't really cumslut bottoms, but just think they are, or want to think they are. Many of us fantasize about what we might want, but when the rubber hits the road we back off. Now when I'm really horny my "standards" are much more flexible, and in group sessions even more so, but there is still a base level of attraction that has to be there. But I'm not a cumslut, at least not a real one, but just a regular slut.
  4. For the handful of men who've fucked me good and hard enough to make me cum while they are pounding me, they tend to think it's hot when they make me bust. I think most tops know it's not always possible to keep an erection while you have a dick in your ass, so if you can not only get hard but bust that's a sign they are doing something right.
  5. When I was younger I lived near a Marine base, and once I started hooking up I learned a valuable phrase: the only difference between a straight Marine and a gay one is a six-pack of beer. I'm not sure that's accurate, but there were no shortage of Marines who wanted head or some ass. All that masculinity and bravado cooped up and looking for a release wherever they can get it.
  6. And from married or straight guys I've hooked up with over the years, a big part is being able to really be as aggressive as they want but are afraid to do with a woman. A guy might want to get really nasty with shit-talking or rough sex or have someone gag on them, but they are loath to do that to a girlfriend or wife. Hooking up and getting blown by or getting some hole from a fag is simple, they don't have to worry about the chit-chat and posturing that a lot of women, even wives and girlfriends, expect before they give it up. I think "straight" men like using fags not because they are gay or bi, but because they like being dominant.
  7. Like most folks I have experienced and enjoyed it both "regular" and "rough" but what I always remember and fantasize about later are the rough, pounding domination sessions. So I'd have to say rough is better for me. It's just a more complete "getting plowed" experience.
  8. You're certainly not alone with fantasies about "rape" and other things that are taboo or risky. For me, there are things that I know I'll never do that are the biggest turn-on's when it comes to horny fantasies I whack off to... As a friend of mine used to say, it's like the locker room gangbang fantasy. It sounds better for most of us than it probably would be in real life. I know the thought of it is a turn-on for me, and has been a fantasy I've had since a young age, but I don't know if I'd really want to get fucked by 10-15 guys in a row in real life. But who knows Well I do know, I've had 4 guys before and it was fun, but I don't think I could have handled more than that - and that was even with a fair amount of alcohol to "lubricate" me mentally and physically. But there are still times when I'm reading porn or watching it that I think how great taking on that whole locker room would be... It's possible that this is similar to you, it's something that's a part of your fantasy life but since it's not likely to happen it's And as another fellow discussed above, it's probably not really "rape" in the most technical and criminal sense that you're fantasizing about. If you want it, it's not really rape - at least in the way society seems to define the term rape these days. Rough sex, bondage, even physically being pushed to your limits may be "rapelike" but fundamentally not rape since you want it to happen, and unless there's a lot of pain or something else dramatic you would probably want it the millisecond it started. But you’re definitely not alone, so I wouldn’t worry too much about it. The idea of nonconsensual sex is common in gay porn and discussions. If you doubt it, just search for gay pics, movies and stories regarding prison sex and home burglars and alleyway hookups that go “wrong.”
  9. For me it's always been bare feet, sucking toes, especially on Men of Color.
  10. Yeah, unless you explicitly get agreement beforehand that the top is to pull out, you should assume he's going to bust inside you. And even if you have that agreement, there's a good chance in the heat of the moment he won't remember or care, and you might not either! I know that's happened to me, especially in the beginning. He would cum in me and I would be mad, but after a few times with different guys all doing the same thing I just gave up and learned to enjoy it.
  11. I haven't been to an ABS in years, but I used to go pretty often when I was younger. I never had this happen to me. As with other blow jobs with str8 and bi guys, I find most seem to desperately want to be swallowed.
  12. If I'm getting fucked, I want to be totally naked, not even socks, and prefer my top to be the same. That said, I can't deny that a couple of times I've had my pants down around my ankles for a quickie was kind of hot too. I had a top I hooked up with a few times who liked to fuck with his boxers on, dick through the slit. I thought that was weird, but whatever... Now if I'm sucking, I prefer to be totally clothed. It makes it more purposeful for me, to have it be all about the man I'm sucking, nothing to do with me.
  13. I know I get bored at times. I go through fazes where it does nothing for me and then I might go weeks when I gobble up as much as I can. If I get bored with regular porn I sometimes look for more intense stuff and sometimes that gets me in the mood when the typical nuddies and jack off vids from tumblr aren't enough to do the job.
  14. I've always been turned on by the term boy-pussy or pussy or any of those themed words when getting fucked, but I'm in to submission. I had a regular BBC who called it my "trap" and I never understood the meaning but it didn't matter to me then, as long as he was hitting it! As others said, it's subjective. If you don't like it, let your partner know. A lot of the guys I've been with would probably think the same thing I do, though, which is if you're letting a guy breed your hole who cares what he calls it lol
  15. Well, maybe not every second of every day, but I do tend to think about it quite often throughout the day, every day. Of course like a lot of pervs, I'm often distracted by such thoughts at the most inappropriate times like meetings. I think once you start going bare, and once you start doing it with some random guys, it starts to feel more natural to want it all the time. Getting bred by random guys, at least to me, is one of those experiences that only builds desire to do it again and again. If you let "him" do it, why not others? And it can be so fulfilling to be slutty and submissive, and that's a real turn on for folks like me and I know others...
  16. My fantasy is pure common porn stuff, being gangbanged raw by a whole athletic team in the locker room or showers after a big game, presumably one where they lost unexpectedly and needed to take out their frustrations on an initially unwilling, frightened but eventually euphoric if worn-out me... For me, the greatest fantasies always involved groups, not particular acts.
  17. I feel pretty lame sharing this, but... My first sexual experience was with family. A female step cousin and eventually her sister during summer trips to their house up north. I was in my early teens at the time and they were high school age. I didn't really know what I was doing and didn't really get off, even from getting sucked and just feeling them up. With male cousins there was a lot of secretly "feeling up" in my teens, but no overt sexual contact. Not that I would have minded, but I just wasn't bold enough. Unlike so many people on here and elsewhere, I was never lucky enough to have a single male friend growing up who wanted to whack off together. I feel like such a prude, but I've made up for it later in life!
  18. 294. I don't know whether I should feel good or bad about that, lol But I think it's good...
  19. I like the idea of public sex, but I'm enough of a puss that I actually prefer it to "seem" public but be relatively risk free. I hooked up with a regular in a back parking lot of a public park years ago and got ambushed by a couple who were probably looking for the same kind of discreet fuck spot. That scared me off public stuff for a while. Recently I've been meeting men in a park behind my house at night if they don't have a place to meet. There are picnic tables/sheds on the edge of a wooded area at the edge of the baseball field that's unlit and deserted at night. At those picnic tables get the cover of darkness while still being able to clearly see the folks playing basketball and tennis at the lighted courts nearby. I love the idea of being as quiet as you can, but knowing at some point you're bound to make enough noise that it's possible someone could hear. Another hot public scene was even safer, but still hot. I hooked up with a guy in a glass walled conference room on the first floor of a busy office complex. He had a key so no danger of someone walking in. Glass all around, but the glass was mirrored on the outside. We could see all the people coming and going from the main entrance, but they couldn't really see us. It was like fucking in a mirrored fish bowl. It felt so slutty and wonderful, but I didn't really have the danger of being walked in on while I had his dick in my mouth or ass. This topic is making me think of a public hookup this weekend. Perhaps it's time for a more public session...
  20. I think a lot of guys go back and forth, like me. Sometimes I want something quick, that doesn't require I get my ass cleaned out, or worry that I'm going to have a messy ride or walk home. Sometimes getting fucked just isn't easy. But you can suck a dick on your way home from work, quickly and those quickies can be hot for me. At other times I just want to get banged out and bred, the idea of sucking a guy off just isn't enough.
  21. I've often wondered this as well, after I started doing it years ago with one of my regular hookups. I think there are some risks, but I imagine they are limited compared with getting fucked bare. But since I like to swallow and like getting bred, the danger of ass to mouth bacteria, etc. just doesn't seem like as big a deal to me compared to the other risks. And, the guys who want it seem to really get off on it, so that's a turn on to a submissive guy like me. Worth the risk, I think.
  22. I've had a lot of experience with married men getting blown or sometimes wanting some quick ass. And I believe that many of the random anon hookups have been with guys who were probably married and I just didn't know. I've come to enjoy the sluttiness of blowing a man in his car and you see a carseat for his kids, or his wife or girlfriend's shoes on the floor in the room where you're sucking him off. Regardless of why it's a turn on, the reality is it can be safer and less stressful than other hookups, since they have as much to lose as you do. I think less drama with attached men, they just want some uninhibited service. As others have said, whether they aren't getting what they want at home, or just crave something they would be hesitant to do with their spouse or significant other, the head or sex can be rather intense and fun. Some of these men love to go whole hog on a random hookup they know they won't see again, or wouldn't care if it became a regular hookup.
  23. It seems like more and more guys are getting off on getting rimmed these days, and by that I mean straight or top guys - more so than 10 or so years ago. I always do it, love to do it. It feels so submissive and taboo, and can often get a guy super horny and keyed up for a good face fuck.
  24. I'm sorry that you had such a frightening experience. I think a lot of guys, especially bottoms looking for "straight" guys to fck them or get sucked off, have a risk or meeting up with unsavory characters. I had a guy that I met to suck off who started asking for $ the minute I had him in my mouth. I told him I had none, but he stuck with me all the way to my car where I told him I would look and check to make sure I didn't have anything to give him. Fortunately it was a busy parking lot in his apartment complex so I didn't feel quite so vulnerable, although it was odd. He hit me up several times later but I wasn't going to risk it. Generally, I think being observant and careful will go a long way. If it feels risky, don't do it unless you're prepared to defend yourself and get away.
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