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Anyone Else with a Suit and Tie Fetish?
onlyraw replied to Heir2012's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I will admit that I find the artwork of JC Leyendecker (the creator of the arrow collar man) to be as sexy as Tom of Findland -
Anyone Else with a Suit and Tie Fetish?
onlyraw replied to Heir2012's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I agree although it does need to be the right man in the right suit Sometimes it is the fantasy of taking a handsome clean cut man in a suit down a few pegs by making him your cum covered bitch ?and yes - a tie can make a nice leash ….. or use it for bondage (tieing hands behind the back- or wrists tied together behind the neck) and of course a good silk tie is not cheap either- feels sexy against the naked skin - and so easily ruined by sweat, cum, and/or piss - marking him as yours or the flip side is being used as a bitch by a big strong dominant man in a perfectly tailored suit…. The right man in the right suit can be just as dominating as a guy in full leather also just meeting a guy who looks so clean cut out in a nice public straight bar, or the symphony- Knowing you are going home- stripping down and having the nastiest sleaziest bb sex - I love that contrast -
Did the 1980’s AIDS epidemic trap you in the closet?
onlyraw replied to Caged's topic in General Discussion
I guess I am “lucky” in that I graduated college and moved to Boston (which had a great gay scene) in 1977 - so I had a few years to be out and enjoy the peak of the 70s - disco, poppers, and random hookups (or tricks as we called them back then) and then I was again “lucky” enough to get a really nasty case of annal warts just before AIDS hit and as I had no health insurance , my outpatient treatment lasted about 3 years - so by the time I could get fucked again we knew to wear condoms and again I was “lucky” again in that I didn’t get tired of condoms (and get Pozzed) until after the first cocktails had been discovered So @Caged I totally get how just being a few years younger you were spooked by it all and thought it was safer to stay in the closet… but I want to tell you it is NEVER too late to come out - I can’t promise you it will be easy- or that everyone will greet you with high fives - but you will feel so much better about yourself And @BBArchangel THANK YOU!!! for your service… i know you watched a lot of friends die …. But your work in the trenches back then did force the government and pharmaceutical companies to do something- and I know that I am just one of the many guys alive today thanks to your work- I hope each day gets a little lighter for you -
Looking forward to your updates
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ErosWired- I am so sorry to hear the news. I guess that explains why there are so many different meds out there… if our little friend was so easy to contain there would just be one cheap generic. I hope you don’t have to experiment with too many to find a new med that works and is kind to your kidneys (and your liver and all the other organs that our meds can do real damage to) Good luck! Onlyraw
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Great story…. Hopefully it is just the beginning…
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At least you still have 2, Boston hasn’t had even one in over … close to 20 years? the closest one is in Providence RI (so that is in another state away and about an hour 45 away) But it is still a sad day when one of our institutions closes
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It’s been awhile since I have been to a cumunion - but as the other guys they are bareback parties (as the name suggests they are all about “cum”) - so I think you would not have much luck if you asked guys to use a condom at one but just because you go - doesn’t mean you have to get fucked - Go - check things out - if you realize it is not for you, you can leave…. Or just hang out in a corner and jerk off while you watch the action if you do go - please report back on your experience (and have fun)
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The other complication to this question is: how do you know they are not out? just because you see a guy wearing a wedding ring at the book store doesn’t mean he is not out to his partner for all you know maybe he is married to a guy who is a equal pig and waiting for his husband to come home with a sloppy hole that he can either eat out our fuck while his husband tells him about all the sleazy guys who fucked him and he may be on PrEP (so he is not putting his partner in that danger) And most of us took awhile to accept the fact that we were gay - and it is a different timeline for each of us - some know before puberty, some can’t deal with it until much much later in life (and it is not fair- or healthy to force someone out before they are ready) or maybe they are single but have a job they would loose if they came out (or actors or professional athletes who could lose lots of money if they came out) But with those public figures who are leading the charge of hatred and violence against our community- I don’t have trouble outing them (if - god forbid) Ron Desantis, or Margery Taylor Green, or any of those nut jobs on the far right were found out to be gay…. I would have trouble with them being outed - (even if I would not exactly welcome them to the family) (although I hate to admit it - that Stephen Miller is kind of hot) (so if anyone has fooled around with him - let me know 😉)
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Love this! If we all treated this as a universal rule - life (and sex) would be a lot more enjoyable for everyone
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Damn!!! I am loving this story- can’t wait to shoot my next load while Daddy J is shooting his load into his son!!
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I discovered phone sex lines decades ago- spent a fortune on it in my early years- so relieved when I discovered the back door to the Manhole line as it is free I use phone sex like other guys use porn. I find porn to be boring… and it is tge same every time you watch it. phonesex is different every time- and what I love about it is that it is interactive- I am not just watching it I am IN it - i am not just watching a guy getting fucked or drinking piss, Or getting gang banged - I am the guy fucking or getting fucked, I am the guy feeding some hot guy my Pissarro AND, I get to be in my 30s again- a tad more ripped- or have a bigger dick - or a smaller one, I can be smooth or hairy….. you can do what ever fantasy you want does it replace the “real thing” no…. But when you don’t have the time or energy to find the real thing…. It does the trick
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I didn’t get much in college but was luck yo graduate and move to Boston in the late 70s - it took me a little while to get up to speed—- but once I did I had lots of fun so probably by 24 I had lost count of numbers - much less names Got distracting when I would be around town and you would see someone on the T or in a store and you would wonder why they looked familiar…. And the a couple hours later you would remember that you had tricked a month before
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I love a nice hairy guy - I love a big bush, (but the armpits are what really get me - partly as they can be shown off in non sexual situations- even in public) but I don’t mind smooth guys - so long as it is all natural- with no shaving or trimming the difference in guys (hairy smooth, tall short, cut uncut, etc ….) Is what makes it all fun…. 😉
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I would agree that paying attention (and voting for) the down ballot races is very important as we are seeing in far too many places the most local elections can be truly important even if you don’t have kids - the school board will shape how the next generation thinks - they control what (and how) subjects are taught and what books are in the library and your state reps and senators…. While the democrats were busy fixating solely on winning the presidency- tge republicans were quietly winning state rep races - who then controlled tge re-districting ensuring they would then win the majority of congressional raves no matter what percentage of the state wide vote they got (just look at Wisconsin) So yes - please learn about and vote for every position- no matter how seemingly insignificant
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Which is why I say THE most important thing anyone on here can do, if they are going to be sexually active and not use condoms - is to have a Dr that you trust that you can be totally honest with- so that they know what to look for and what tests to run when you go in for an appointment and so that they know their stuff (like the difference between the multiple kinds of warts) and what they should be screening for based on previous history. (yes I know I have already said that on this chain- but I think it is worth repeating)
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Straight Dennis turned into a true Tina pos cumdump
onlyraw replied to joeri's topic in Chem Sex FICTION
Hot - definitely looking for the next chapter….- 61 replies
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There is a scene in the movie Cruising (that came out in 1980) where the cop is in a fetish shop and they explain the hanky code to him so at least by 1980 is was well established (it is a horrible movie but I knew one of the actors so needed to go see it when it came out) but I also know that it can be different in every town. Although red for fisting and yellow for WS do seem to be universal- but good to know that in some other countries the Left and Right signify different things - moral of story is - ask a local…. (Who knows maybe just asking the question could lead to something and you won’t need to wear them)
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Gay sides on hookup sites and in in person sex venues?
onlyraw replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I will say that I love to cuddle….. after a really hot sweaty fuck … cuddle up - lick the sweat off his body … cuddle some more - maybe even nap … and then wake him up by shoving my cock back into his ass then as they say - rinse and repeat -
How about talking about massage therapists? obviously the MT who mid massage starts offering other services for additional fees- that is a tad obvious But if you are paying for the massage and you get more than a “just” a massage (but no extra fee is discussed)?
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Really sorry to hear the news i had a nasty case back in my youth- and not having insurance to pay for surgery I had to do out patient- which as it was a nasty case took about 2-1/2 years - every other week to have them burned off- (strangely though I think they saved my life as I got them just at the beginning of AIDS - and by the time I was “all clear” condoms were being used (so I didn’t get AIDs until after the cocktail had been discovered) So my advice is make sure you have a dr that a) you know, trust, and can be completely honest with b) is experienced and knows what they are talking about and what treatments would be best for you c) once you are all clear - ask about how often you should get a Pap smear…. Yes guys should get them too if tge have had warts as they are a great detector of potential cancer And don’t beat yourself up over this—- it happens hope it is not too bad a case and that you are up and about soon good luck and yes - for everyone else… if you are lucky enough not to have had anything yet - talk to your dr about what vaccines you might be eligible for (as most drs - unless asked- stop offering them to patients once they are out of their teens
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How very true And how very sad- I try and remember that when I approach guys online or reply to them- but don’t always succeed your tail is just another reminder to all of us that (except when dealing with toxic assholes like your guy) that we need to be kinder and polite- or at least not rude when dealing with guys online
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I suppose I could kind of understand his viewpoint if this were still back in the days before meds - or even the early days of meds when things were still scary but I am sorry— this is 2023 and guys by now should know that u=u and there is this little thing called PrEP …. So ya, he should get his head out of his 1980’s ass and get with the times sorry You had to deal with the jerk - and totally get how that can totally kill and horny slutty vibe you had going
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A great story- glad you are continuing it… sexy as all fuck …. But also love Matt’s inner conflict about being a total bb bottom and the double standard of bottoms who have multiple partners are “sluts” while tops who have multiple partners are “studs” looking forward to the next chapters
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Damn this is fucking hot!!! I will enjoy thinking of various versions of the next chapter….
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