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Close2MyBro

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  1. Not everyone is traumatized by early experiences. For many, the trauma sets in when they're told they're "supposed" to be traumatized. I have numerous friends that had early experiences and only a couple saw it as traumatic. The others were somewhat ignorant about what they were doing but knew that they enjoyed doing it. You're assuming every person is "abused" but that's a purely subjective label. Many people don't feel abused, and I believe it is wrong to mess them up mentally by convincing them that they need to feel abused.
  2. Please don't be ashamed. You can't take responsibility for the action of others, and in any random sexual situation it's hard to predict what will happen or how it will end up. I'd try to chalk it up to life experience and not let it bother you, it isn't a reflection of who you are, it is a reflection of who they are.
  3. Years ago it used to be a great place to find a hookup, but in the last 5 years or so its just been a waste of time. A bunch of guys that don't respond at all, or are just looking for free "party supplies" or want to get paid to come over, or need you to send an uber to pick them up. Just a waste of time anymore.
  4. Man, this is tough. I really don't have a lot of answers, but I think the first think you need to do is let him know that not everyone thinks the way his dad does. I've never understood how anyone can throw their kids out of the house for being gay. He shouldn't be afraid of being who he is, regardless of what his dad or anyone else things or feels about it. I also suggest that as others have said, he needs some kind of reality check about his current situation. Having a large truck payment is a burden he really doesn't need right now, he should probably consider finding something more affordable so he has some financial leeway. It seems that he's still working in the family business, so at least he has that going for him now until he can figure out some of the rest of his situation and determine if he needs to find work elsewhere. I know you want him to have some privacy, but that may be something that needs to be sacrificed for now until he can get some stability first. Help him as best you can as he navigates the road of life but don't jeopardize you own life for the sake of his, there's no sense in two people going down, one is enough.
  5. I love Arab cock. I rarely got much of it until I ran into an arab businessman late at night in a hotel in Ft. Lauderdale. Since then he has introduced me to many other arab men, so now when I have a craving, I have a few choices to choose from.
  6. I have a buddy who likes to take care of his morning wood by sniffing his shoes and then fucking them. He leaves the cum inside them and then wears them. He's got a huge collection of cum stained shoes and that's all he wears wherever he goes.
  7. My first time wasn't planned at all. I had a long-term fuck bud and he was over and I was sucking his dick and then he just suddenly started to piss with no warning and didn't stop. I didn't want to get the bed wet, so I just started gulping down his piss. He told me he had bee dying for someone to drink his piss for a long time and didn't know if I'd be down or how to bring it up so he just went for it. I wouldn't have imagined myself to be a piss drinker before then, but I discovered I actually enjoyed it, and it became a regular thing for us since then. That was many years (and many gallons) ago now. :-)
  8. No, that's my brother holding it while I snapped the picture. :-)
  9. I actually prefer darker features, dark hair, dark eyes, some color to their skin, etc. Just a preference, I'm open to all.
  10. I enjoy the natural scent of a man's skin, but I don't care for body odor or other strong smells.
  11. I actually have a friend who sucked his dad's cock thru a glory hole in an adult book store when he was 23. Neither had any idea until they both walked out of their booths and saw each other. They were shocked at first and didn't know what to do or say so they both headed in different directions. His dad came to him a few days later in his room and asked him if he wanted to talk about it and he said not really, and then his dad told him it was the best blowjob he had ever had and left. A few days later while his dad was in bed sleeping and his mom was at work, he went into his dad's room and pulled down his dad's boxers and started to suck his dick. They've had an ongoing oral relationship since and it's been about 10 years now. All his dad wants is a good blowjob on a regular basis and he is proud and honored to help his dad out.
  12. I was 12 when I noticed I was growing hair. I had my first orgasm with cum about 4 months later.
  13. Definitely Larry Flynt. Had it not been for him, and his relentless pursuit of the 1st Amendment, we may not even have any porn right now.
  14. Got my last load late Saturday night / Sunday morning. Saw a message on doublelist from a chubby 21yo straight latino visiting from Texas who was in Vegas to celebrate his 21st birthday. He had hoped to get lucky at some point during his week-long trip but no luck, and he was anxious to get off and get to bed. I responded and was the only response he got that was willing to go down to the strip and meet him in his room. He was pretty drunk but had a nice thick 7" cock. I sucked his cock for about 15 minutes and finally he shot a huge load down my throat. I sucked him clean and left.
  15. I've had this happen once before with an uncut man who didn't want to pull back his foreskin before he had me suck his cock and as soon as his cock was coming out of my mouth he made sure to hold it in a way to slip the foreskin over the head as it was coming out. With some careful maneuvering i managed to get enough pressure on the base of his penis to keep the foreskin retracted and quick pulled my mouth off, and it was obvious he had some kind of STD as the head of his penis had visible sores. I let him know that i thought that something was amiss and that maybe we should get together another time after he's had a chance to see a doctor. I quickly booked an appointment with my doctor for an STD screen and the first round came back negative, but based on my description, the doctor suspected gonorrhea and treated me as a precaution. I went back for follow-up testing a month later and everything was still negative. The guy had deleted the profile he had created and I didn't see him online for a few months and then he appeared again with a new profile and the same pictures. I didn't reach out to him again, I figured I'd just be glad I got away unscathed from that encounter.
  16. No, I didn't. I've only been to a bathhouse a few times. My first experience at a bathhouse was less than successful in my eyes, because I went in not knowing what to expect or how they operated. I've always been a cocksucker and I had all these visions of swallowing load after load all night long. I didn't realize that many people there would let you suck on their cock a while but then move on to some other scene and not give you their load. I sucked about ten guys and got no loads, so I figured I was doing something wrong. It wasn't until I talked about my experience with another friend of mine who went to the bathhouses frequently that a lot of guys hold onto their load until they're ready to go home or they see something that really makes them hot. He also told me that if I wanted quick blow and go guys, I needed to go during lunch hours, when many men leave work, hit the sex club for a quick get off and then go. I didn't go back for many years, as I felt I had more success online than at the club.
  17. My sense of hearing is probably my second turn on after vision. I have a lot of anonymous sex, and I am often blindfolded so I cannot see the men I am having sex with. I rely heavily on my hearing to pick up any possible clues as to what's going on and if there are others in the room as well, as this sometimes happens. Next is the tactile sensations that I feel as we are having sex.
  18. I don't smoke, except weed now and then, but I've had a couple of long-term fuck buds who enjoyed cigars or cigarettes while I was down on my knees sucking them off. One of them used to tell me there was nothing better than some good head and a good cigar, it was how he liked to relax after a long day.
  19. Good luck in that area. Very slim pickings that way, but every now and then you might get lucky and find an aggressive closet bi guy.
  20. Have had a few humiliating experiences, but the one that happens most frequently is that my older brother will blow his load all over my face and hair and then force me to sit there until it dries. Then he'll send me out to go get him some food - either drive thru McDonalds or go into a restaurant and pick him up an order to go, and then bring it back to him. He often has me take the long way there so that more people can see me as I drive. When I get back, I have to tell him about all the looks and stares that I got and anything that anyone may have said when they saw me, either at the restaurant or on the road. If someone says something to me, I have to remember the words verbatim, and be able to describe the person in detail.
  21. One of my consulting clients is at the end of a cul-de-sac in a business park not far from an off-strip casino. Whenever I got to see this client I usually find one or two used condoms, as I imagine people pull into the dark business park to have sex at the end of the cul-de-sac. Unfortunately, by the time I get there they've been driven over, the contents are spilled and dried up.
  22. You don't just swallow your spit as you go?
  23. I never knew this was a problem. I've never had to do anything special to prepare to swallow a guy's load.
  24. I have. I've written about it in a similar thread before. The link is here:
  25. Ah okay, now I get it. Yeah, I completely understand the appeal of the 'bad boy', and have had plenty of them myself, but the problem is finding a way to enjoy the sex without the rest of the trouble they bring. It's not always easy, and sooner or later they become more trouble than they are worth. Either they realize you're not a bank and give up trying, or they become so annoying that you have to cut them loose. As a rule, i don't kick anybody "a few bucks" for anything. All I have to offer is a free fuck, nothing else.
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