Spunkinmyarse
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Vault139 has 4 gloryhole cubicles, but at busy times, they’re very popular with couples looking to have sex in private, and it can be difficult to get one. If you do, chances are you’ll have either a courting couple or another bottom in the cubicle on either side if you, so there will be a whole lot of not very much going on. Bunker Bar has a similar set up, though it’s always been rather quiet when I’ve been, and no-one seems to use them at all. I think Sweatbox sauna also has some, unless they were done away with in the latest refurb… Pleasuredrome used to have a ‘slurp ramp’, but it was never very popular, and they’ve got rid of it. I’m afraid gloryholes have just fallen out of fashion in recent years, which is a great shame.
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I would love to keep a tally, but find it so difficult. It’s only January 3rd, but already I have no idea how many loads I’ve taken in 2022. Yesterday I visited a sauna near Birmingham in England, and got fucked by loads of guys. Some of them came in me, and some of them didn’t- but it’s really hard to know exactly how many. Today I went to a sex club in London, and the same thing happened. How do you guys manage to keep such a precise count?
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Cumdumps and love / long term relationships
Spunkinmyarse replied to BritishCumdump's topic in General Discussion
Truth is, I think there are a lot of bottoms who are looking for this kind of relationship (this one included), but far fewer tops… -
Ok- pushing this forward a bit, how about a Thursday in November between 4:30 and 6:30 (naked night starts at 7:00, for those who want to hang around)? As far as identifying other BZ members, how about simply wearing round the wrist one of those red rubber bands that posties like to discard all over the place?
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I think Saturday night is ‘all or nothing’ (ie: naked or clothed), but Saturdays are often difficult for people to commit to… Otherwise we could compromise by picking a naked day, but arranging to meet at 4:00 or 5:00pm- ‘stripped’ doesn’t begin till 7:00. That way, those who want naked can stay for stripped, and those who don’t can leave before it starts. Even if it’s just a case of having a chat and a drink at the bar, I’d quite like to put faces to a few names on here… and then maybe dive into the general mayhem later.
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During lockdown, there was talk of guys on this site meeting up at the Vault “when this is all over”… Well, it may not be quite over yet, but the Vault has re-opened. Is there any interest in still getting together at some point, or was is just talk?
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How long do you think Biden will be president for?
Spunkinmyarse replied to Coldfusion's topic in LGBT Politics
It’s almost as if he designed his post to get a reaction from you, and in that he certainly succeeded 🤣 -
Here’s one for the fellow gardeners amongst you. Right now in England, common ivy (Hedera helix) is coming into flower. It’s a great late-season source of nectar for all kinds of pollinating insects. It also smells remarkably like cum- so much so that walking past some just stopped me in my tracks and made me think “What the hell is that?” In the spring, I’ve noticed several varieties of Berberis smell the same. It amazes me that there are flowers that smell so similar to cum. Has anyone else noticed this, or the same phenomenon in any other plant species?
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There’s Hardon on Saturday night, and another Hardon on Sunday afternoon! L
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Mondays and Thursdays are naked nights, and Thursday in particular can be VERY busy. Not sure about the other weekday nights, but think they are much quieter. Cleaning facilities are minimal- it’s a sink rinse at best! They have bag/clothes check available at all times. On naked nights, stripping is obligatory from 7:00pm. You get a plastic crate to put your clothes and other belongings in, and then check that in behind the bar in exchange for a ticket that you need to tuck into your socks for safe keeping. Naked nights are great- there’s action going on everywhere… you really should give it a go!
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I’m toying with the idea of taking the train to Paris for a couple of nights, and then travelling onto Barcelona for a few days. Not right now- but perhaps during the autumn, when (hopefully) more clubs will be up and running at full capacity again…
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You don’t say in your profile where you are based. Given ongoing travel restrictions, can I assume you are British, and by “Europe” you mean the Continent? If so, then yeah, I reckon Paris and some of the Eastern European countries like Poland and Hungary might be your best bet right now. If on the off-chance you are not British and mean a trip to Europe as a whole, then you might also consider London, which is pretty much open for business at the moment.
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They seem to be getting that way. For a long time, the Locker Room in Kennington was the only one open, and that was packed- not sure how it’s fairing now that others have opened. I went to Sweatbox recently, and that was pretty busy, and I’ve heard a lot of good things about the newly refurbished Pleasuredrome. Covent Garden Health Spa is up and running again, and hosting several Jamie hP parties, such as TFN, SBN and their pool party. Sailors in Limehouse is also open, but it’s never been particularly popular; same with E15 in Stratford. We’ve lost Chariots in Vauxhall, though I did hear a rumor it might re-open under new management…
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NYC Recommendations Thread
Spunkinmyarse replied to astrongoralfixatio's topic in New York Metro Area
I think the lack of replies to your question speaks volumes and tells you all you need to know about the New York sex scene as far as a visitor is concerned. I used to live in New York, many years ago now- but I still have friends there and visit regularly (or at least did, pre-COVID). While I’m sure there is a very vibrant sex scene if you are ‘in the know’, it’s very hard to break into if you are a visitor. Sex clubs and bathhouses as we know them in Europe or other US cities are virtually non-existent, presumably a hangover from the post-AIDS crackdown on such venues. Of course, there are always the apps, but a lot of the time guys can’t host because they can’t afford to live alone, and with the ongoing spread of keycard access and COVID protocols, even doing the hotel cumdump thing seems to be becoming increasingly difficult. New Yorkers have always had a problem with what they call the “Bridge and Tunnel” crowd (ie: anyone who doesn’t live on the island of Manhattan), and seem to prefer to play amongst themselves- something I have always thought a bit strange, as a steady stream of tourists always brings a welcome flow of fresh meat to the sex venues of Europe (in normal times, at least). I would seriously think twice about a sexcation in New York, particularly if you are planning to use up precious paid vacation days. Perhaps consider spending them somewhere else in the Northeast? Last time I was there, I gave myself a few extra days, and hopped on a train to Montreal where I had a fantastic time. -
It’s the one thing that puts me off going to Berlin. To make all that effort and spend all that money, only to be turned away from the club you’ve been so looking forward to visit… Although the London club scene is much smaller, one thing I love about it is that there is no overt ageism when it comes to club/bar entry policy. You see all ages and all types enjoying themselves, and this creates a welcoming environment for everybody. It also gives hope to younger guys that there isn’t a cut off later in life: you can continue to indulge your fantasies for as long as you feel able.
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Update: harness gave me an underarm rash 😢 It’s either that or I’ve got syphilis 🤔
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What's the worse sexual encounter you've ever had?
Spunkinmyarse replied to ScaredAndShy's topic in General Discussion
Same year it happened to George Michael in Los Angeles, as it happens... -
Thank you @ErosWired for your insight- such a shame that what was intended to be a light-hearted topic took a sour turn so quickly. I agree with pretty much everything you say. I hope that by wearing a harness I am indeed signaling to certain tops that I would like them to use it to penetrate me harder and deeper than they could if I wasn’t wearing it, particularly when I am bent over a fuck bench in a fuck club with my arse in the air. Presenting myself in such a position in such a location is providing the top with all the consent he requires: to suggest that he also needs my verbal consent to fuck me harder than he would if I weren’t wearing the harness is absurd! Of course, I reserve the right to tell him to stop at any point, and if he doesn’t, that that’s the point where his fucking me becomes rape...
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NBN/SBN have a new venue -open tonight
Spunkinmyarse replied to Littlebill77's topic in London Metro Area
I went on Sunday. It now takes place inside the Covent Garden Health Spa, which is one of London’s more ‘upmarket’ gay saunas, and isn’t bad as far as saunas go. It’s not massive, but bigger than I remembered. Same old SBN vibe pretty much- a lot of faces/cocks I recognized from the old pre-pandemic days at the Union. Hard to say how many guys were there, probably only about 100, but felt crowded due to the smaller size of the venue. Biggest downside was the heat- by 5:00pm it was becoming unbearable, and guys were leaving. And an extraordinary amount of lube everywhere, so much that the floor became so slippery in parts it was hard to gain enough traction for a good fuck. Other downside was cost of drinks: £6.00 for a bottle of beer. On the upside, there are more fuck benches/beds than at Union, as well as private cubicles. There are also showers, which I was in dire need of by the end of play, simply to wash off all the lube that had smeared itself all over my body (hiring a towel costs extra, but I simply used a discarded one- no point getting prissy about a used towel, given how many bodily fluids had been exchanged by that point). No douching facilities of course (and only 2 crappers), but they’re a rare luxury in London anyway. I’ve mixed feelings about the new venue, can’t decide if I like it or not. I’m going again this Sunday to see if I can make up my mind. At least it’s in a better part of London, for me at least. -
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I’ve never been interested in fetish wear of any sort, and (partly through laziness) have always preferred naked events over ones that have some kind of clothing requirement. But with plans to attend an upcoming sleaze party in London (HardOn), I thought I’d better make some kind of token effort and at least splash out on a harness. Once purchased, it turns out I quite liked the look of it, so I decided to give it an outing on Sunday afternoon at SBN, another London sleaze party that’s mostly naked, though harnesses are allowed. Well- I have to say, a number of tops really went to town, grabbing hold of it and using it to pound me harder and deeper than I even thought possible! WHY DID NO-ONE TELL ME THIS BEFORE??!! I’d always assumed that harnesses were just about the look, and kinda looked down my nose at them a little coz the world and his wife seem to wear them these days. I had no idea they actually changed the way you get fucked! Duh! Anyway, now I get it, and am looking forward to future adventures in it.
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Gran Canaria winter 2021-2022
Spunkinmyarse replied to NordicBtm's topic in Spanish & Portuguese-Speaking Europe
As far as the clubs are concerned, there’s “open” and there’s “REALLY open”. Call me sex-obsessed (and that’s why I’m on this site), but I’m not willing to book a trip to GC till I know I can walk into Reds, Zoo or the Bunker, bend over a fuck bench and take cock after cock. A socially distanced snack on the outdoor terrace doesn’t quite cut it- though I appreciate it’s very tough for them, and they need to do everything they can to stay in business. Also, now the authorities have clamped down on cruising in the dunes, that’s another opportunity for sex closed off to us... -
NBN/SBN have a new venue -open tonight
Spunkinmyarse replied to Littlebill77's topic in London Metro Area
I didn’t go myself, but heard from others that it was good! The new venue is much smaller, and the place was packed- but it sounds like it was the same old fuck fest we’ve come to expect from SBN. -
See my latest post in Hampstead Heath: a summer to remember... 😉
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Hampstead Heath: a summer to remember?
Spunkinmyarse replied to Spunkinmyarse's topic in London Metro Area
Yes, you should go- it will be busy, and I’m planning to make the most of it... the clubs re-open next week and that’s bound to have an effect on numbers from here on out. Here are two what3words locations you might find useful: The dark room: prime.fetch.loads The fuck tree: stump.vibes.rich Moat action seems to take place in and around the dark room these days. Enjoy!
