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I liked it and hated it in equal measure- details like the bit where Bobby struggles to take an arse pic just to satisfy some random top’s demand on Grindr, only to find himself immediately blocked, rang very true indeed and made me laugh out loud. But I found the whole movie’s tilt toward a heteronormative happy conclusion was very disappointing, particularly as the protagonist himself had railed against such heteronormative values at the beginning. Overall, I thought it was worth watching- even if only to drool over a shirtless Luke Macfarlane at regular intervals.
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Got bored on an overnight flight from NY to London, and ended up watching “Bros”. Interested in what you guys thought of it, particularly any New Yorkers. Did any of it ring true?
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Interesting account. I’ve never been to Snax, and although I’ve always wanted to see the interior of Berghain in all its glory, I’m not sure I can be bothered with all the aggro. You reach a certain point in life where the idea of standing in a queue for 3 hours, with the very real possibility of being rejected at the end of it, just really doesn’t appeal anymore. I literally have far better things to do with my time. I’m sure it’s “amazing” once you’re inside- if you’re really into music, dancing, and all that shit- but I’m only in it for the sex, and I’m just as sure I can get the same or better sex elsewhere- hell, in those 3 wasted queueing hours alone I could probably have scored a dozen loads somewhere else. Perhaps that’s why the crowd is getting younger- older guys with a bit of life experience just won’t put up with that kind of treatment. I’m sure it’s music to some people’s ears that the oldies are staying away, and who knows? Maybe the chaotic door policy is a deliberate ploy to achieve just that end! I for one am only too happy to leave the young to do their thing- it sounds like an awful way to spend a night in Berlin. I’ll stick to my policy of only visiting that city outside of the main events: there’s always plenty of cock to go round, and it just sounds like it’s a lot less hassle. -
For us up-and -coming wrinklies, masks also have the great advantage of hiding those tell-tale signs of ageing! They get my vote on that strength alone!
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After 13 years of wonderful, carefree sex, out of the blue I fell in love with my best ever regular fuckbud. He’s married (to another man) and there’s no chance of it going anywhere- total dead end. I broke it off this morning. It’s ruined everything- for him, as well as me. I was wondering how many other people this has happened to…
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I hate these kinds of generalizations. We Brits are often stereotyped as cold and unfriendly, whereas in fact we’re just a bit reserved and shy. If I’m sitting on a train with a stranger, I probably won’t strike up conversation, because I’ll be thinking, “This person might be enjoying a bit of quiet private time, and I don’t want to be presumptuous and disturb him/her”. However, if YOU start talking to ME, I’ll be perfectly friendly and will probably welcome the opportunity to chat. Just because the “Hail fellow well met” type of approach is culturally alien to some groups of people, doesn’t mean to say that their hearts are any less warm than anybody else’s.
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It’s one reason I like naked events- it’s harder to carry a phone round with you when you haven’t got any pockets … though increasingly, guys are finding workaround solutions to this.
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Well done! I can’t actually remember my first time in a cruise bar, but I do remember it took a long time to pluck up the courage to enter one, and walking by a couple of times is still something I might do if in a new city I’m unfamiliar with. But once inside, I’m totally comfortable, as they’re all pretty much the same: a bar where you can drink, and a back area where you can play- and once you get used to seeing men naked or having sex, there really isn’t a huge amount of variation. Was it naked when you got there, or were you too early for that?
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Lab should not be missed- Thursday (naked) is good for general breeding- other nights are often more fetish oriented. You can walk there from Ostbahnhof if you don’t want to take an Uber or a taxi. I also enjoyed the Bull, which in the gay area- just a basic bar with a busy backroom open late into the night… can’t remember for sure, but I don’t think they charge an entrance fee
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Yeah, Hardon is first and foremost a sex club- I think there’s some dancing, but that’s not the main focus. Do Vault, then Hardon- and if you’re still around tomorrow afternoon, do SBN.
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Options in London are fairly limited these days. It depends a little bit on which Saturday you are talking about. If it’s tomorrow, there’s Hardon at the Union Club in Vauxhall, if it’s next week, then there’s Roast at Electowerks in Islington- these are club nights, starting at 9:00/10:00pm. As far as cruise bars are concerned, there’s really only the Vault, the Bunker and the underground club at Central Station… Other than that, there’s just the saunas. Hampstead Heath would be good in the summer, but right now it’s still too cold. I think I’d still bet on the Vault if I were in your shoes- it won’t be as good as it is on Mondays and Thursdays (naked night), but it will still probably deliver.
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Have CumUnion Parties lost there appeal where you live?
Spunkinmyarse replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
@NWUSHorny, I thought you were moving out of the PNW region. I do enjoy reading your often humorous posts about the no-fuck culture that exists there, but wasn’t that one of the reasons you were considering a move? -
So you heading off to GC tomorrow, @RawUK? So jealous- don’t forget about us, and check in to tell us about your experiences!
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Hey guys- does anyone know of any regular breeding parties held on a Sunday?
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Explain: The Desire to See Someone in Sexual Pain
Spunkinmyarse replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
Maybe only bottoms have read it? I know from previous posts you’ve made that you’re not looking for bottoms to second guess what’s going on inside a top’s head, so I keep stumm when you ask these sorts of questions. -
Most days. I started because I thought it might make me more fuckable, but now I just do it for me.
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I don’t live close, so can’t claim To be an expert, but if you do manage to get to Darlaston, I think Wednesdays (naked/small towel) and Sundays are best. Have you been to or heard of Roast? It’s a new-ish party in London, which apparently is as close to XXL as you will get in the capital these days…
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Only been to their Dare2Bare events on a Sunday- and those are good! Not sure what a regular weekday evening would be like… If you’re going to Birmingham and have transport, you might want to check out the Greenhouse Sauna in Darlaston- it’s certainly one of the best (if not the best) saunas in the country.
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The ‘vibe’ at these places varies very much day to day, night to night- depending largely on the dress code. Certainly at the Vault, naked nights are always the busiest and best in terms of full-on bb sex. I generally don’t do the other nights, but from what I remember, guys are much more cautious, even on underwear nights, and often only looking for oral or ‘safe’. Afternoons (always clothed) are different again, and attract a very mixed crowd of men, many of whom I suspect do not even identify as gay, but are just looking for m4m sex. They run the full gamut from super-cautious to super-wild, so you never really know what you’re going to get. I’ve only been to Bunker a few times and not at all recently. It’s a fun play space, and has some interesting-looking themed nights, but I don’t know how well-attended these are. Again, it’s should imagine the vibe varies very much from night to night, depending on the theme. The only real way for you to find out is to go and see for yourself. You’ll be your own expert on the matter in no time…
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Bottoms, how do you clean out your hole when you travel?
Spunkinmyarse replied to dckdan's topic in General Discussion
I nearly had a disaster on Thursday, but Breeding Zone saved the day. I turned up at the Vault in London ready for naked night, only to realize that I’d left my portable black bulb douche in the car, which I’d parked miles away in the outskirts of the city. Although I’d already cleaned out at home, I always take my bulb douche with me so that I can ‘touch up’ before I play- it’s often a 2-hour trip door-to-door, and things have a habit of moving in that time. Anyway, I was seriously considering just giving up and leaving rather than risking an ‘accident’- but then I remember reading a post on Breeding Zone where someone said that in an emergency, they just use a regular water bottle (and reading through this thread, I reckon it might well have been @tallslenderguy!) So I bought one from the bar for £3.00, grabbed some lube and went into the bathroom to give it a go. And fucking hell, you know what? It really did work! No special nozzle or anything, I just pressed the open neck against my hole, squeezed the bottle, and voilà! I’m sure there’s no way this would have worked when I first started bottoming- my hole would have been far too tight. But now, that’s not such a problem 🤣 So anyway, thank you for the tip, Breeding Zone- or more specifically, @tallslenderguy! -
I love the way that motel actually advertises room rates by the hour! I thought that was a myth- we have nothing like that here in the UK (or not that I’ve ever come across). I’ll actually be staying with friends in Yonkers, not that far from the Bronx- so maybe that’s a possibility for a pump and dump session…
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EVEN FOR BOTTOMS - SEX CAN BE A POWER TRIP
Spunkinmyarse replied to Ozpig's topic in General Discussion
Do bottoms have power? Absolutely, and in equal measure to tops! I’ve never been one to buy into the “I’m just a worthless hole” mindset- sure, I know some guys do and fair play to them- but for me, when I adopt that role, it’s just part of the game. Deep down, I know I’m every bit as worthy as any of the tops that fuck me, and that when it come to the power stakes, we’re an equal match. Sometimes, when a top cums and collapses on top of me, weak, drained, and ready to go home, I feel very much like I’m the one who has the power, as I mentally plan my next conquest while he catches his breath… I’m a firm believer that tops need bottoms just as much as bottoms need tops… and therein lies the beauty of all that we do on this site! -
Have you been to Rosebay campsite in the East Midlands? I haven’t tried it yet, but am interested in checking it out one weekend this summer, at least as a ‘day’ visitor… Also, I wouldn’t write London off. I should imagine there are reasonable airbnbs outside the centre where you could base yourself. I’ve always considered the Victoria line the best transport link for connecting all the gay dots (Vauxhall, Soho, Warren Street/Kings Cross), so you could look at staying somewhere fairly cheap at either end (Walthamstow or Brixton), and use it to get around.
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Thanks for this, @SomewhereonNeptune. All those places that you mention sound vaguely familiar- I used to live in Hoboken and work in Secaucus- but it’s amazing how 30 years dull the memory. It would be fun to reacquaint myself with the area while trying to set up a cumdump session, something I wish I’d done back then in my early 20’s… it’s so true what they say, youth really is wasted on the young!
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I couldn’t agree more- believe it or not, April and May can be lovely in the UK, and often are; but weather-wise, you can almost guarantee that the first week in June will be one of the worst of the year (think D-Day landings…). I’ve no idea why the late Queen decided that this would be the ideal week to celebrate all things royal, but from coronation to jubilee, these events were plagued with miserable weather throughout her reign. Perhaps that’s why King Charles has decided to get crowned in early May instead- let’s hope he can break this jinx!
