Spunkinmyarse
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Preparing My Throat for Being Fucked
Spunkinmyarse replied to Knotme's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
There is a throat numbing spray specifically designed for this kind of thing- just google “deep throat spray”… one brand that pops up is called ‘Goodhead’. I used it a bit back in the early days of my cocksucking antics- it does seem to help, though hopefully you’ll eventually learn to tame that pesky gag reflex without it. -
I think if you’re fairly new to sex with multiple partners at the same time, and worried about your potential level of endurance/stamina, the best thing to do is start off in a sex club or cruise bar, and just see how many cocks you can take before you start feeling uncomfortable. The advantage of these locations is that you can stop at any point without embarrassment or awkwardness. You can take as many breaks as you like, and when you’ve had enough, you can simply leave. This is harder to do if you’re the only bottom in a privately arranged group session at home or in a hotel room. If tops have made a special effort to get to you and then find you’ve fagged out before they’ve had a chance to unload, it’s only natural that they should feel annoyed or frustrated. No such worries in a sex club, cruise bar or sauna: there’s bound to be another cum-sloppy hole just itching to take their load.
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Shocked and surprised to hear about that heavy-handed policing of bars and saunas in Madrid, @rawfuckr- we always think of modern Spain as so liberal and permissive. That’s similar to the kind of behaviour that set off of the Stonewall riots in New York in 1969! Thanks for the detailed response, you seem very knowledgeable on the subject. Do you live in Spain?
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Thanks for that detail, @rawfuckr- it’s an important one and I didn’t know it. I’ve always wanted to know the exact legal status of poppers in Spain, but it’s very difficult to find much about it online, and even people who live there don’t seem to be too sure… Do you know if it varies from province to province, or if the law as you outline it is valid nationwide? I’m just wondering if that’s why enforcement seems to be a problem in Madrid, but not elsewhere?
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No, it’s still illegal to sell poppers in Spain. However, it’s not illegal to possess them, use them, or even import them for personal use (as far as I’m aware)- so you can bring them in from elsewhere.
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They allow poppers- if I remember correctly, you have to get undressed, put everything in a bag, and hand that over before you go into the bar area- but they let you take in poppers, cigarettes, etc, as long as you are upfront and show them (they will look to see if you have stuffed anything into your socks).
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Weirdly, I often enjoy my periods of enforced abstinence. It frees me to get on with other things, and reminds me that there is a whole life outside of sex that I also enjoy.
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Horse Fair at Underground club King's Cross
Spunkinmyarse replied to 1hornyjohn's topic in London Metro Area
It can take several weeks for syphilis to show up in a blood test. Hopefully all the guys who go to Horsefair are also going for regular STI check-ups. If they have contracted anything, it should eventually be picked up in the course of their regular screening. Same for the guys at Hampstead Heath, though I fear users of that particular haunt are in general careful of their sexual health. -
I remember when the UK decided (on the basis of science, I might add) to extend the gap between the first and second COVID shots by a few weeks, and the shock horror it caused round the world: “Oh, those crazy Brits- they’re at it again… first Brexit, now this 🤪” Turns out it produced a much better outcome, and soon everyone was doing it. Am I worried that the UK is currently prioritizing first doses, and has no schedule for the second? No, not one bit.
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Vault having a special event on that night too, so I’m a bit torn
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So, anyone going this Saturday?
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Actually, it was a very good night! Only stayed till 9:00pm (I’d had my ‘fill’ by then), but when I left there was still a long queue of guys waiting to get in…
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On my way there right now, as it happens!
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Horse Fair at Underground club King's Cross
Spunkinmyarse replied to 1hornyjohn's topic in London Metro Area
Guys, there’s loads of information on this event in another thread a bit further down in this sub-forum titled “Horse Fair London”… -
Yes, I do think it’s much harder if you’re not already registered with one of the London STI clinics. Good luck tomorrow- I hope you’re able to get somewhere with this.
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Hi @bluedragon, unless things have changed dramatically in the last couple of days, the vaccine programme is currently being rolled out to a much broader range of guys in London. STI clinics are proactively contacting clients they think are at high risk as well as making appointments available to those that request them, mass vaccination events are being arranged at weekends, and even sex club promoters and venues are getting involved. For example, if you go to the Vault, you can pick up a ‘voucher’ that entitles you to a walk-in vaccination at a clinic just around the corner. Most of the guys I play with regularly have now had the vaccine or at least have an appointment to get it. Anyone who’s a regular player in London should have access to the vaccine right now: it might involve standing in a queue for a few hours or taking a day off work, but in my book, that’s worth it. Outside London, I understand things are a lot more patchy.
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Ah- well, that explains it, then. There’s usually far more action at these kind of places than at the saunas- and from what you’ve already told us about yourself, I think you’ll love them! Next time you’re down, just post a message ahead of time on here in the London section, and you’ll get more suggestions. But try to keep Sunday pm clear for SBN, and if you can make it down here for a Thursday night, then naked night at Vault139 sounds right up your street.
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Sounds like a great weekend! I’m just curious, though: two saunas but no sex club (Vault, SBN, etc.). How come? Glad you got to experience the Heath, though- it’s probably at its best right now!
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Absolutely! Just book a ticket in advance for any role, or turn up at the door. Despite what the listings might say (I think its just a dumb marketing ploy to give the impression all the guys there are as hot as fuck), Jamie HP is actually a very friendly, non-discriminatory organization, and I’ve never seen anyone ‘rejected’ based on age, looks or body type. It’s not like you have to send a photo to ‘be approved’ when you buy a ticket or anything. The few times I’ve been, there’s always been a whole range of guys there, plenty of older guys as well as younger guys, all ages, shapes and sizes: your usual London turn-out. Guys who go expecting everyone to be under 30 and body beautiful will be sorely disappointed. If you think it’s something you would enjoy, just go and have a great time!
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The London one is fairly relaxed, and a very friendly event. And you can stop or take your hood off any time you like- the rules aren’t strictly enforced, unlike the ones in Berlin. Or go as a stable lad first time round- then you’ll get to see how it works and what’s going on.
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It’s funny how goal posts shift. A few weeks ago, before the vaccine became available, most of us were only too happy to have a vaccine which wouldn’t prevent us catching the virus, but which would protect us from severe disease. By all accounts, one shot of the current vaccine is enough to provide that level protection. But now it seems like everyone is pursuing maximum protection from catching the disease at all. I’ll take the risk of catching a mild version of it now that I’ve had that first shot. My generation has lived so much of its life in fear of disease- first HIV, then COVID, now monkeypox- and time’s running out for some us.
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Personally, I don’t think it should be the responsibility of the venue and/or promoter to safeguard people’s sexual health. It’s a slippery slope. If they ask whether you are on prep or not, why not also ask if you’ve had the Hepatitis B vaccine? Or now the smallpox vaccine to guard against monkeypox? I was never in favour of the COVID vaccination certificate being used as a condition of entry to certain premises: it sets a dangerous precedent. Each individual should be responsible for his/her own sexual health: if you don’t want to be exposed to HIV or STIs, then don’t attend events like Horsefair and wear a red hood.
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At the beginning of May, just when we were starting to hear about the first cases of MPX, I had a strange blister on the back of my hand. It didn’t look anything like the horrific pictures of MPX circulating in the sensationalist press at the time, and I thought nothing of it- it didn’t hurt and after a couple of days it scabbed over and went away. But more recently, I’ve seen pictures of single-lesion MPX on the back of the hand that look exactly like what I had. Was it monkeypox? I’ll never know for sure, but I suspect it was. I’m old enough to have had at least one smallpox jab when I was a child, so maybe that’s why it was so mild. I’m sure there are thousands of cases like mine- and that’s why transmission is probably so widespread… guys just don’t even know they’ve got it. If that blister had been on my anus or in my arse, I would never have known at all. For every case that’s serious enough to get reported, I’m convinced that there are many, many more that don’t. But without random testing, it’s impossible to gauge the scale of this.
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Awwww- I’m not into fetish, but I do think it’s a shame that the leather thing seems to be dying. It’s a great look- so much more sexy than rubber, which imo doesn’t look good on anyone. Is the Bunker bar in Hoxton picking up the slack at all? I’ll miss Backstreet too. I had some great times there when they used to host Buff on Wednesday nights (naked is my thing rather than fetish). In fact, I think I can safely say that Backstreet is where I was truly able to get over myself, lose my inhibitions, and become the proud cumdump I am today. The fact that it was in east London helped (Essex based here)- now there’s really nowhere east of the City to cater for the needs of us sluts.
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Gran Canaria in July 2022
Spunkinmyarse replied to Dexus's topic in Spanish & Portuguese-Speaking Europe
Is Construction still the go-to cruise bar at the moment, @BareFaggot34? Seems to have occupied that top spot for quite a while…. Whats the Factory like? That was just about to open when I was last in GC, and looked promising.
