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Mmm, how I love Lebanese men. Takes me back to my boyhood being surrounded by them.

Filtering men out on criteria you only hypothesize, or have been conditioned, to think you should desire is needlessly diminishing the breeder pool. I try and do it as little as I possibly can. All men are surprises and both more and less than they can appear to be. If you don't open yourself up to the possibility that your suppositions are wrong, you never get the delight of an unexpectedly great guy and a superior breeder owning your hole. Sure, I have many, many types of men I find attractive and would make myself available for their use and pleasure. Some men just don't fall into that bucket usually because they trigger some kind of visceral or "concern for my own safety" response, or they're just not physically up to fucking and breeding me. I remember talking to one guy who was asking all kinds of very specific questions about my body and asking for pics of body parts with the specificity of a passport photo. I'd have fucked him, but seeing the severity of his body requirements (which I met but ironically he did not) he rendered himself unfuckable. That kind of body, race, etc. assholery is more likely to rule you out that failing to match a mythical (and stupid) body ideal.

Love it. Eat me until I'm losing my mind and begging for your dick.

"You always make me cum so much in you" by a very horny free-range dom breeder who routinely came in me between six and a dozen times each session.

Wear something that shows big firm nipples through your shirt, regardless of what it is. Big nipples scream slut to/from me.

I go to a clinic with "PrEP nurses" whose job it is to make sure people at greater STI risk are getting the prophylaxis and treatment that they need. I've *never* felt shamed or weird with their questions about how many partners and what I do. I know they are looking out for me. They let me guide them in what tests are appropriate based on what I know I've been up to. It's a partnership. No one deserves less.

I'm usually the measured data driven guy on these kinds of things, but in this case I wholeheartedly agree you need a new doctor. There's nothing subtle about her behavior as you've reported it. Find a GAY doctor that you can talk to or a doctor of any sexuality that can do their job without being a passive aggressive and judgmental asshole. You deserve better. Go get it.

I'd have to go with 6, 1, 11, and 4. I suspect I'd keep coming back to 1 to get that deep long-dicking.

I'd say this forum isn't the best venue for finding those demographics. I'd go to Sniffies or a similar app as I've talked to sissies and transmen there.

I got DP'd for the first time in June of this year. I hooked up with a horny Asian breeder (a regular) and he had a buddy coming over. The bud was taller, stronger, and solid. One of them was always fucking me bare while the other was fucking him. The big guy was a pounder, the kind of guy who can focus the strength of his body and his mass and pound your cunt so you feel it in your whole body. I was growling with each cunt-mashing thrust. He had a thick dick and decided I needed to be DP'd. I said I'd never done it before and that seemed to make him more keen than ever. The muscular Asian breeder lay down and I straddled and took him inside me. Then the big guy got up behind me and tried to get inside me, but I was too tight for the thickness of him. They swapped places with me straddling the big guy and then the Asian breeder was able to get inside me as he was narrower at the base of his cock. Then sensation of being overfull with hard cock was overwhelming and the muscle control to hold myself at the right angle and fuck down onto them was really tiring, but I was proud I was able to stretch over them and make them happy. After that, it was like they both decided then needed to rut in my cunt and really leave their mark. They got me face down over the edge of the bed and the Asian guy went first, really fucking hard into me so I felt it. Then he filled me with his seed as he gripped my ass hard. Then the big guy climbed onto me right away. He was on a mission from the first thrust and pounded me even harder driving me to the edge and really triggering the primal part of me to push back up onto his thrusts growling so each pound would drive my cunt into the bed. He fucked like that for about 5 minutes and then, as he realized he was about to cum, he raised himself higher and really drove himself deep in my cunt as I felt him thicken and pulse his hot seed inside me as his full weight rested on me, holding me down as I accepted it inside me. If that's what doing DP does to breeders, I say bring it on.

Unless it's multiple loads of bear cum. Grrr.

Wait, you didn't rise to the challenge of taking it in your ass? Call Guinness! 😉

This is the same thing as getting called slut. It just means you're getting more and hotter fucking than they are. Poor devils. I love to hear just audio of guys fucking and cumming loudly. It's so hot and my mind fills in the blanks. Hard to find authentic recordings though...

Based on the research out there, it is, in part, plasma prolactin that induces the feeling of satiety and sleepiness in many men post orgasm. There are studies on prolactin in men (women get it too to some degree) that explore prolactin levels in different men. Some research shows that multi-orgasmic and multi-ejaculatory males have little to no prolactin response and so it's posited as the basis for regulating refractory period. (Haake, P., Exton, M., Haverkamp, J. et al. Absence of orgasm-induced prolactin secretion in a healthy multi-orgasmic male subject. Int J Impot Res 14, 133–135 (2002). [think before following links] https://doi.org/10.1038/sj.ijir.3900823) In the science out there, it's acknowledged how complicated and mutilvariate sexual desire, sexual expression, and sexual satisfaction are. I'm a bottom who experiences significant mood enhancing feelings when I'm well fucked and filled with seed without ejaculating myself. The effects are notably not present sen I'm fucked but not bred with the man's seed, and the enhanced mood is much stronger with a breeder I feel a strong connection and bond with, and even more pronounced if he is a multi-cumming breeder. Teasing apart what is a physical response, a psychological response, and emotional response to breeding on both sides is difficult and fascinating. What @ErosWired describes gets into my instinctive reactions and feelings, and a kind of philosophical mysticism I find myself immersed in when I receive and absorb a man's essence inside me. To the OP's point, those feelings are absent when a condom is used or when the man doesn't cum inside me. Its not just missing out on the feelings I get being bred, but there is almost a sense of loss, and a kind of emptiness too. I interpret that as missing the connection that exchanging essence brings for me.

That sounds fantastic to me.

That is a very (annoying) Seattle thing. It's been the same since I got here 25 years ago. Its why I ended up connecting with East coast or other nationalities much more than long time Seattlites. The social culture isn't very outgoing in general.

Plenty of Seattle perverts, there hasn't really been much upside to posting here though.

I'm naturally fairly smooth over most of my body, I do have a lot of fur around my cock and balls leading up to a light treasure trail, my ass crack, and smaller tufts in my pits. I like men natural. I love the smell of a clean man who's been working out or working hard. Because I love nipples and the pits are so close by, I find I get whiffs of a man as I worship his nipples and sometimes I can't help but need to smell and lick them. I love a furry pit for holding the man's scent. I've found men love my pit scent especially after I've showered and then lifted weights. I'm not super sweaty and don't use deodorants, so it's just me. I'm always looking for breeders who want to huff my pits as they hump my hole.

Passionate kissing is also great when you're being pounded in missionary and being penetrated by him at both ends.

Wait, let me get this right. You're a young, tall, very hairy, Swedish, top guy? Sign me up for a double helping! Seriously, there are men (like me) who will flip out seeing that thick furry pelt. I've been to Sweden a few times and really liked the furrier men there. Find the men who love you as you are, and hang with them.

Selfish and entitled bottoms certainly exist, I just don't think that the small number of them justifies framing all other bottom's behavior as likewise selfish and entitled.

I really appreciate the time and effort @ErosWired took to try and tease apart and differentiate the drive of bottoms here. (TL:DR: The sex *and* the load matter.) I can't help but think, though, that the value of earning a man's seed as a de facto measure of having pleased him to a well understood standard is being glossed over somewhat. I agree that for many of us pleasing and serving is large component of our satisfaction. I think it's also true that without telepathy there's no perfect way to understand whether we have sufficiently achieved that goal (given that most breeders who talk while fucking *are not* doing a performance review). All that said, earning a breeders seed inside us is a clear and fairly uniform standard we can use to measure whether we have done well. If a breeder doesn't release their seed inside me, I feel like I haven't done enough to please him. When a breeder does release his seed in me I feel like I have pleased him and that brings a set of physiological and psychological responses in me that I'm not in conscious control of. I think the kind, quality, and depth of the connection between breeder and bred is also a big factor in whether this seed-based standard is even relevant. There are some breeders who signal their satisfaction clearly by things like flooding your cunt with precum, to grinning and smiling or deeply groaning and grunting as they fuck into you. When you have a strong or long-standing connection, those kind of signals can become the measure of their experience better than the convenient shorthand of hopefully well-earned seed. I don't think we can universally cast the desire to earn a man's seed in our cunts as a purely selfish drive that's not deeply intertwined with our need to bring our breeders profound pleasure.

I love the OP's story, but feel weird about the reference to Af/Am seed. I love seed and it's my goal to cherish lots of it deep in my cunt, but if someone referred to my cum as IE/AU seed I'd feel strange about that.

Sure, and there are no Gods, Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, or Tooth Fairy, either. Just the same, they are stories we tell each other to connect, feel less lonely and afraid, see wonder in innocence, and surrender to mystery. They serve a function in society and, although they are wildly variable in the objective good and bad they might engender, I don't think running around decrying them as fantasy is very effective (as we now have daily proof). I'm applying "quod grātīs asseritur, grātīs negātur" to your assertion above as it cuts both ways. I'm experiencing the mystical infusion of a man's seed in my cunt right now.

I think it very much depends on the man and what suits him. Face and head shapes have a lot to do with it. A beardy or scruffy man with a head shaved bald is a big +++ for me, so send me those piggy cast-offs @AirmaxUK Sight unseen my ass feels amazing being eaten out by a hungry bearded man, but then I love feeling a full bush and hairy balls slapping up in my cunt.