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Thank you. That’s very helpful.
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Which app or site did you use to create those? They are excellent. I’ve been using Bing and getting some good results, but they’re a bit stern on the censorship front.
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There are bathroom signs you can buy that read: “Stand closer. It’s shorter than you think.” There’s many a truth told in jest…
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Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
SpectreAgent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I quite agree. Too many guys on the apps now think the definition of a man is "a life support machine for a penis". -
Cumberland (pie).
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advice What Advice Do You Wish You Could Give Your Younger Self? 😀
SpectreAgent replied to a topic in General Discussion
In addition to what I've already posted, I'd tell him "Go to New York much, much earlier than I did because the city will get under your skin in a way no other city ever will and you'll fall in love with it." -
Did the 1980’s AIDS epidemic trap you in the closet?
SpectreAgent replied to Caged's topic in General Discussion
An interesting post, especially as I’ve just watched the new documentary about Rock Hudson today (which is brilliant, by the way). The crisis galvanised me. I refused to be cowed and became quite active in fundraising and raiding awareness. As I was never “in” (friends joke I was cruising the doctor as I came out of the womb), going into the closet that I’d never been in wasn’t on my agenda. But I understand why some guys felt they had to. The media in the UK in the early days was pretty horrific. -
You make interesting points. I guess we’ve probably all been guilty at some point in not updating profile pictures. I know I have. I don’t believe I’ve ever misrepresented how I look, though, and I’ve been very fortunate not to change much in the last 15 years - except perhaps I’m slimmer and more muscular than I was then.
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Do we need a secret signal for breeding?
SpectreAgent replied to rock-cock-jock's topic in General Discussion
This idea of secret codes always reminds me of my mother’s friend who moved to a new neighbourhood in the 70s. She and her husband were unaware that the cul-de-sac they’d moved too had an active swingers scene. Back then, car keys were the, er, key to hooking up. The men would all put their car keys in a bowl and the women would pick out the keys belonging to the guy they intended to shag. My mum’s friend was blissfully unaware of this. So, when a man who clearly wanted her to pick his keys up, sauntered past and “casually” dropped his keys in front of her before walking away, she plucked them up and shouted out, “Oi, you’ve just dropped your bloody car keys, you daft sod.” I believe they were not invited again. -
How can I tell if strangers in hotel want a BJ
SpectreAgent replied to Spanky8000's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
You’re absolutely right. Airport hotels - or even hotels mainly used by cabin crew in a city - are fertile ground. Open Grindr around Heathrow and you’re knee deep in cock. -
When Does ‘Sex Work’ Stop Being ‘Sex’ and Srart Being ‘Work’?
SpectreAgent replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
I think I’ve told the story on here before of a guy I hooked up with in Greenwich, London. It was the days of telephone ads and pre-apps. After our first meeting, he put some money in my hand - about £80, which was a lot back then. Thinking he’d misunderstood the terms of our meeting, I told him I didn’t expect anything in return, but he insisted I take it. It dawned on me that he got off in treating me like a paid whore. I was conflicted about it at first but rationalised it wasn’t for me to judge. I saw him a few times after that, not for the money but because he was fit. And each time the £80 was handed over. I put it to the massive phone bill I’d run up on the chat lines! -
Visiting Friday Sept 22 - Info Needed
SpectreAgent replied to fucknfeedme's topic in New York Metro Area
As someone planning on making regular trips to NYC, I’m also grateful for the information, -
I usually booked a room in the hotel above! 😂
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advice What Advice Do You Wish You Could Give Your Younger Self? 😀
SpectreAgent replied to a topic in General Discussion
Have as much fun with your genitals as you can because you’ll miss it when you’re dead. -
Posted something, then realised I’d already answered. These senior moments are increasing… 😂
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I’ve posted this before but mine was on the Docklands Light Railway, in broad daylight (and those carriages have very big windows) between Islands Gardens and Canary Wharf. The train guard didn’t mind because I did it with the train guard. I can’t better two of my mates, though. One shagged a guy behind a mummy case in the British Museum. Another, who was a stage manager in the West End, picked a guy up in Soho one Sunday afternoon. With nowhere else to go, he took the guy back to the theatre. The play was Whose Life Is It Anyway? which featured a bed on the set. And that’s where they did it. In bed. On stage. In an empty theatre.
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Those little red ribbons were often more effective back then than Grindr is now. And if that sounds flippant, don’t shoot the messenger because I know of loads of guys who regarded them as a variant of the hanky code.
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Barebacking: what's in it for the bottom?
SpectreAgent replied to bbicurious's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Your second paragraph really nails it, I think. That intimacy you describe goes way beyond the physical for me. -
Love it. Give and take.
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Poz Guys - Do You Like Being Poz?
SpectreAgent replied to rawTOP's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
I get no judgement from my medical staff who are mostly female and all very positive (no pun intended) and upbeat. However, my consultant always gives one piece of advice: be careful who you tell, because you can never untell it. -
Where would you travel to get loads?
SpectreAgent replied to Oldercumslut's topic in General Discussion
Having recently visited New York for the first time with family and absolutely falling in love with the city, I intend to return alone within the next year to hook up. And as a mate is moving to LA next year, I’m sure I’ll find an excuse to pay him a visit… -
You sound like the perfect ex…
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Please Update BBrt and Twitter Profiles on BZ
SpectreAgent replied to BradStevens's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Well, I’m glad someone finds me “Stacy”…😉 -
A massive turn on.
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Please Update BBrt and Twitter Profiles on BZ
SpectreAgent replied to BradStevens's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Well, you’ve seen them! 😂
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