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Our collective best wishes to you !!! Those of us that have been to that fantastic event will never forget it - particularly the PIG party. There are just not enough words to describe that event ...(well really descriptive words, anyway).

There are other ways to access these meds; the Mistr (not misspelled) program, for instance. Everything is done via mail-order, including the doctors visits. If you have the proper insurance, there's zero cost. You do have to complete a monthly test, however, which is also delivered to your door. The doctor's visits are via zoom or somesuch, the tests are easy to accomplish, and you just mail them back. Check it out.

In the event you travel to South Florida, Ft. Lauderdale in particular, Slammer is as wide-open as it gets. There's also a Slammer in LA, if you ever travel there. They're open from Wed through Sunday, and open (I think) at 7 pm until the last load is pumped up the last hole. Google it.

I don't believe that to be true. Being a "cumdump" only requires the mindset of a man that requires - via his own self-identification - a real need for the acts he loves so dearly. As I see it, becoming a cumdump is more an emotional requirement than a physical addiction. A real cumdump will abandon other plans when the chance to take a load or three arises. He puts that thrill above all else - and often asks others to include him in cumdump scenes. He actively wants - needs - to be used for other men's sexual pleasures. In that sense, anonymity is a cumdump's enemy; a cumdump actively wants, needs to be known as such, which, in his mind, will only widen his pool of potential raw cocks. In a cumdump's mind, the more breeders that know of him, the better.

There's not one thing wrong, and everything right about that kind of scene. "Pretend" "rape" (with the obviously obligatory pre-scene negotiation) can leave every guy panting in a puddle of sweat. If "pretend-rape" needs a better name, CNC is as good as any other; I'd just not heard of it before The moniker isn't what's important, it's the unforgivable actual "rape" that is. Language, in any form, is always refining itself; old terms fading away, newer terms for the same thing emerging. There's nothing wrong with that at all.

Agreed, but with one caveat: Within the context of a B/d, S/m scene, any acts that may injure the bottom in some way need to be specified. The entire purpose of the requisite "negotiation", is so each man can speak honestly and freely before the scene takes place - and preferably well before the scene takes place. I mean this to apply to any B/d, S/m scene, or similar. This quantifies what can, and what cannot happen within the Scene.

I suppose that the definition of "masculinity" is somewhat fluid. Some would define it as "butch", "domineering", etc, but masculinity can also be defined in terms of "submissive", "needing to please", etc. It may be entirely "butch" to fuck another guy, but it can also be entirely "masculine" to bend over for a hard, raw Cock. I think we sometimes fall prey to the relevant, "straight" cultural pressures, instead of defining ourselves sans any input from those unlike us. I've fucked all kinds of guy, and, truth-be-told, I prefer breeding masculine guys, or at least not feminine-acting guys. There's nothing wrong, and everything right about masculine men needing hard raw cock up their fuckholes too.

Nope. It never entered my mind to try anything at home (when I was living at my parents home). My dad would have beaten me to death, and resurrected me so he could do it again.

That's like asking a fox to simply ignore a henhouse. There were times when Renslow sent someone to go find a certain employee (for instance when a repair needed to be taken care of), but other than that, asking the sun not to shine. There were a pair of cheap, upholstered (in vinyl) benches outside his office, and there were always wasted-looking, fucked-out kids sleeping on them. And, no one ever bothered them - they were there sleeping it off after Chuck had his way with them.

Atta boy !!! Keep on going strong !!!

Of course guys on staff fucked / got fucked by patrons of Mans Country back in Chicago. There was a drag queen (Wanda Lust), who "lived" in one of the dressing-rooms on each side of the stage in the music hall. Once, when our little band was rehearsing, she walked out of her room, full drag, walked over to a guy lying on the dance floor - hard cock pointing to the ceiling, lifted her skirts, and sat right down - took the whole cock in one squat. Rutted on it for a while, and then got up and clanked away in her high-heels. Never did find out whether she got a load or not though. She wasn't the most patient drag-queen on earth .... Another guy - Randy - worked mostly on physical-plant things. He was a really nice guy with a big cock, and every bottom in the tubs took loads off of him - customers, employees, you name it.

Welcome, VirginEuroLatin ... sounds like you'll be sharing your exploits with us sooner than later 😉 We look forward to hearing more from you !!!

And, a mirror attached to the ceiling above the sling can do wonders. Just a cheap rectangular door-mirror, a handful of L-screws, and presto !! You'll be able to watch the whole cock rutting in your gut. You might need a buddy though, to hold it in place while you screw in the fasteners.

Welllllllllll ..... if a guy is on his hands and knees in some fuckjoint, I'd take that as a strong indication that he's got a hungry hole. But, I always do a "sniff-test" first, and then stick my tongue up the hole. I can't remember ever hearing "stop", but if I did I probably would, since there are plenty of guys in the fuckjoints that would holler GO !!!!

That's what I wonder too ..........

To the OP (original post) though, there's nothing wrong at all with consensual whatever - as long as it's consensual. That particular word - "rape" - implies non-consensual sex, and that's to be avoided. It's not ok to have non-consensual sex, no matter what the style or flavor. It's completely ok to indulge whatever your most salacious fantasies are, as long as it's consensual and agreed upon before the scene.

I'm not sure I understand ..... how can something be consensual and non-consensual at the same time? If you're alluding to a previously agreed-upon, pretend "rape" scene, wherein there is no actual violation of an unwilling participant, merely pretending that a "rape" is occurring, well, that's better than the actual event. Is that what "CNC" means? I'd not heard of it before.

Since lube is getting expensive, how about trying a quarter-stick of butter? I recommend Land 'O Lakes (unsalted). Not as tasty as loads off previous cocks, but it tastes a helluva lot better than lube !!!

NordicBtm, you have indeed found the magic balance in your life. It's easy to slip into something that we crave, but which can also consume us. By restricting your cumdumpery to only what you can control, and thus keep balance in your life, you're an excellent example of to others. I restrict exercising my lusts to Fri and Sat nights - with only an occasional "slip" every once in a while. By doing that, there's plenty of room left for other interests, responsibilities in my life. Plus, by waiting for the weekend nights, the fuckjoints are even more full of cock-craving men - and who wouldn't like that? btw .... that's a very enticing photo ....

LOL .... well, honesty is (usually) the best policy ..... Or, seconds, thirds, fourths ..... well, you get the drift.

First, Gu1llaum3, Welcome to BZ. Secondly, you have nothing to apologize for, your use of English being better than a number of English-speaking guys (as their native language). There are tons of man around that enjoy both men and women sexually. Sounds to me like you're one of them, and there's simply nothing wrong with being equally attracted to both men and women. While it's not for every guy, if it's right for you, then do what you need to do. That's a good question. If it's ok for her, then why not for you too? If by the term "lovers", you mean ongoing sexual relationships, then you're definitely a verrrrrry generous man with her. I can understand that you may not want to upset the current relationship with her, but it sounds like she's a bit too demanding, without extending her "privileges" to you too. If you've been accepting that kind of behavior from your wife for some time, then breaking her of that habit may prove most difficult. Add in the fact that you and she have children together, it's a situation you don't want to adversely affect. The fact is though, that each of us possesses agency. By that, I mean we're all of equal worth, our needs are of equal worth, and she wouldn't have said it if she had your fulfillment uppermost in her mind. Perhaps you've heard the old saying "what's good for the goose is also good for the gander". It sounds to me like you've been allowing her an undue amount of control in the household. What you do about that however, is up to you. What level of risk of a major rift with your wife are you willing to risk? Maybe you need to address, in your mind, just how much you want to maintain the current situation, versus how much you need sex with men. Once you have that answer, you'll have a more clear idea of what you need to do for your own fulfillment. Best of luck !!!

Welcome, new members. We look forward to hearing your thoughts/perceptions on the varied topics being discussed.

Thanks for this question. There are "bottoms", and then there are cumdumps. The second - the cumdumps - are bottoms, of course - but they're also so committed to their skills that they find total satisfaction in servicing cock after cock after cock. They are very special men - men who have embraced their lusts to the ultimate degree - entirely embracing who and what they are, and that's achieving a successful life. They truly love themselves for their ongoing commitment to servicing hard raw cocks, one after another after another after another - secure in their sense of self-worth. They simply know that it's answering their calling, and find fulfillment in that calling. They are literally "in love' with who they have become, and why they've become so. Cumdumps don't give a rats ass about all the other facets of the lives of those they service. They care only that they service as many men as they possibly can as often as they possibly can. When there's a hard raw cock up their sperm-holes, it's because they need the load - not because some other guy else needs to pump it up their guts. A true cumdump has the most flavorful, tasty, lovely hole than other men. Eating out a cum-filled hole is one of the true joys of life, before adding one's own sperm to the mix. There is another, more ethereal facet to what a cumdump has to offer, which is connection to every other Top that has bred the hold prior. What could possibly be more "connective" for a Top, dedicated to his own lusts, than tasting/consuming/ "connecting with" the sperm of his (unknown) brothers that have already sated that particular hole? It's hardly all that different from a cocksucker that loves sucking off cock after cock after cock. The thrilling difference is, the essence, the sperm, of all the previous cocks is still there, inside the cumdump's gut. And, by extension, all the men that have ever pumped their sperm up that hole. In that sense, we're all literally "connected" - across national boundaries, across oceans between us, with no possible divisions amongst us.

I realize that all the attention has been focused on the President's inability to exert any influence whatsoever on Putin, and the unfortunate side-effect of that focus is that the P.M. of Israel has begun his march of destruction into Gaza, without much attention paid in the major media. Some nations in the world have voiced intentions to "recognize" an "Independent State of Gaza, which would mean official condemnations of Netanyahoo and his depraved policies regarding those terribly distressed, starving, broken people. While the World is focused on the pitiful puke emanating from Washington's Mouth, attention has been diverted from the ongoing, depravity still happening in Gaza. All those ICE guys would be put to far better use over in the Levant, rather than in our cities streets. I can only hope for the best for both Gaza and Ukraine.