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Neither have I. For instance, the collection of drunks and worse Mr. Trump is attempting to get through the confirmation process. Or a better example would be the unelected-to-any-political-office-ever, Mr. Musk seemingly taking over the Presidency before that term even begins. While it's true that the President's acuity is noticeably fading, so too is the President-elect's lack of ability, showing more and more clearly, day by day. One wonders what the Cabinet will reflect, if and when that relatively easy task is finally completed. Hopefully something more than a collection of drunks, grifters, addicts, whoremongers and billionaires. I wonder just how long the "boy blunder" will be gaveling the circus into (what passes for) order? The R's in the House are like a herd of cats; they're running in all directions at once, but at least Hakeem Jeffries is there to prevent the most damaging errors from coming to pass. If it weren't for the Dems in the House, we'd be in a Government shutdown right now.
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Making the Decision to Commit and Live Openly
hntnhole replied to jonaspnw's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I've seen a small "counter" doo-dad in the hardware store I go to. It's about the size of an old-fashioned pocket watch, with a little button that adds one numeral per click. I'll buy one and send it to you. Merry Christmas, and a verrrrrry happy New Year to you !!! 🐷 -
Thanks for the kind words .... if I could still blush, I would .... but it's years too late for that ....
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and not the only one ...
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Obviously. And if the above "bottom" doesn't have the sense to tell the Top he doesn't want fulfillment, then he really is "totally ignorant". Also obviously. There's only so much that one guy and expect of another guy - particularly in the fuckjoints. Whenever there are particular fetishes, requests, limits, etc in play, they simply must be shared before the action begins. Anything less is unfair to at least one participant, and most likely both.
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I'm with topblkmale .... If a bottom is in some fuckjoint where guys rawfuck each other, and doesn't want any cum in his Hole, then he should make that known before the fuck begins - not during, and obviously not after. In some fuckjoints, all the action is raw ... every guy fucks/gets fucked raw.
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A2M is one of my favorites .... but - I always do a "sniff-test" first, since one of my very very least favorites is discover that which should have been previously excused. That said, loads off previous Cocks is always wel-cum ....
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It's truly a sad day in the fuckjoint when the "kinks" begin to overtake the raison d'etre the joint is there for in the first place ... Fucking is the irreplaceable component in any fuckjoint ..... the kinks are subservient to the raw Cocks breeding the Holes.
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Well, that's true, unfortunately. There are a number of reasons, one of which is there's a r/e development right next door (where guys used to go to fuck). It's still a fun bar, so by all means go, and steep in the history of the joint. But for bar-room sex, you'll need to go N on 4th Ave (which turns into Wilton Drive) to 6th Ave. You can't turn right, but you can turn left, immediately left again, and then enter a smallish parking lot for the Eagle. You must pay, or your car will be gone when you come up for air. It'd probably be most productive though, to uber it. If you have any Leather gear, bring something so you can get into the Leather area ... it's reminiscent of the old days when the Leatherbars all had fantastic back(fuck)rooms. Don't forget to hit Slammer, (sometimes called "321", which is the address on Sunrise Blvd). It's open from Thurs through Sun nights, from 7pm, and stays open until the last load is pumped up someone's gut.
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Odd how a thread can be around for years, and I completely missed it until just now ... I voted for fresh Hole, but nothing against regulars, since that seems the best way to "connect" with the most guys. Regulars are always good to keep on hand, like - say - a few frozen dinners in the freezer, just in case, for whatever reason, etc. I'm not thumbs down on regulars - farthest thing from it - but the "excitement-quotient" just isn't there anymore with a regular. A regular can be great for all kinds of reasons, most of those reasons being non-sexual. Convenience, reliability, comfort-level with the guy, all kinds of reasons, but the 'heat-level" just isn't there. One of the best things about hitting Slammer is, there are always different guys there, along with the guys you've already mated with - looking for all kinds of action. The mystery, the thrill of discovering, sharing, connecting with my brothers-in-the-life, is better than any whiskey I used to drink too much of. Even just standing in line, waiting to get into Slammer can be a thrill .... guys checking each other out, the glances, the bulges, the curvature of asses, the vague little smiles, the brushing up against another guy's ass, some guy feeling up a hard Cock in another guy's jeans, it's all part of the magical vortex, all while waiting to sign in, get the paperwork done, get into the fantasies waiting behind the doors, and that just doesn't happen with regulars. I think the best thing about a regular or two is when one of them runs into some particularly hot pig, and wants to share him.
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As the old duet (Chevalier/Gingold) goes .... "Ah yes, I remember it well ..." (from MGM's "Gigi")
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My favorite part of slingbreeding is that the scene is unmistakable, bluntly sexual, and not one shred of pretending to be anything else. I have a sling set-up in one room of my house, and built a slingstand of 4x4s' in the back yard (and yes, certain neighbors can see it). Obviously, I don't keep a Leather sling outside all the time*, but the stand (w/chains) is always there. There's another in the slingroom, chains attached to eyebolts in the ceiling beams. Slings are infinitely adjustable, they are a blunt statement to any first-timer, and for a more - well - "conservative" household, they can be quickly put away, leaving only the eyebolts in the ceiling visible. The impression a sling makes when some bottom turns up is clear, unmistakable, blunt and to the point. It simply hollers "queer sex is good, it's what we need, and what you're gonna get" *for half the year, the Florida sunshine can ruin almost anything if left out for too long.
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What's it like being hiv wish I was
hntnhole replied to Eddie1281's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
Thanks for pointing that out, Poz50something. I'm old enough to remember when hiv first appeared, and I suppose the abject horror those of us active at the time went through has not completely cleared my mind. At this point, I doubt it ever will. I suppose almost all of us of a certain <polite cough> age will ever be truly rid of those hellish memories. The flip side though, is how deeply thankful we are for the advances in healthcare, starting relatively short time after the horrors appeared, and continuing to advance the state of the medical arts to this day. -
I don't think I've ever fucked an ftm, but it's really dark in the fuckjoints I hit ... An ftm wouldn't have a prostate, and my Cock always tried to make friends with the bottom's prostate, but it's not like I have a built in "prostate-meter" .... it's only when I hear the reactions that I know for sure I've hit the fuck-button. So, who knows - or cares?
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That was about the most positive thing you could have possibly said .... I've heard a lot through the years, but that one wins the "off-the-charts" award.
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To the PrEP, at first, I was slightly a bit more "regular" than before, but that settled down fairly quickly. But, I eat a pretty healthy, varied diet anyway ... there's only one (excuse for) food that I simply will not eat.
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Do you have a mentor or a buddy that is helping you
hntnhole replied to Thedogsbolloxxl2's topic in General Discussion
That's an interesting topic, Thedogsbolloxx12, and thanks for posting it. Mentorship is relatively commonplace within the lives of those honoring the Leather Ethic. I notice that you chose a photo to post of yourself in some gear; perhaps your closer to your answer than you might think. Those men who live the Leather Ethic know well that mentoring the less experienced is a most rewarding task. I'm confident that there are organizations in London that would be a rich resource for you, when you decide to seek out that which interests you. Do investigate Bluf* - as well as others. I can guarantee you, there are Leathermen out there that find mentoring (a relative novice?) a supremely fulfilling task. I just googled organizations in London, and presto - a number of organizations popped up. Remember, however: the match between Mentor and mentor-ee must be carefully discussed (negotiated), so each man knows exactly what is anticipated and what is not. Good Luck !!! *Breeches Leather Uniform Fan club. -
What's it like being hiv wish I was
hntnhole replied to Eddie1281's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
Thanks for that interesting perspective, 1hornyjohn. When a guy comes to the conclusion that he's able to get all the sleazy sex he wants, and do so in relative safety from serious illness, why not enjoy that advantage? Yes, there are medications that will preserve life, and allow a guy to indulge in sexual behavior that he needs in relatively good health. Yes, there are occasional infections from the lesser bugs that have been around forever, and are easily treated. But virtually complete protection from a disease that ripped through our community, killing many and emotionally injuring countless more, is an enormous accomplishment. We should be thanking whatever we pray to that we can continue our fantastically beautiful lives, in whatever way we need to live those lives, and in relatively great sexual health. -
Making the Decision to Commit and Live Openly
hntnhole replied to jonaspnw's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
The way I read this is, you're either somewhat concerned (or maybe more than 'somewhat') about what your "gay friends... will say ...". I don't blame you one bit for having that eventuality in mind; anyone would. The question is, how much weight are you going to allow that concern? Clearly, you've spent no small amount of time on considering where on the "out" spectrum you need to be, and arrived at a conclusion that most would think of as healthy, self-affirming, confident and something to take pride in. No one wants to jeopardize long-standing friendships for nothing, but that wouldn't be the situation in your case. Valuing your honesty, both with others, and more importantly with yourself, is a very substantial accomplishment, and congrats for investing the time and effort in discovering the answer that's right for you. There may be a good chance that these friends that concern you will actually follow your lead, and begin a deeper assessment of their own. Every guy "gets there" when the time is right for him, and sadly, some simply never do. Kudos, jonaspnw, for "getting there" 😉 -
In the response to TallSlenderGuy's quote above, wherein he makes specific mention of fundamentalist religious folk using the term (gay) as a pejorative, use of that term in that way is hardly limited to the fundamentalist religions. It's used by members of more highly liturgical denominations in the same way. The use of "gay" as a pejorative (within the religious community of almost all traditions) is common. The users may think they're being less judgemental, but that's seldom the case. They think it's less damaging (this being in a "church" setting) than using words like fag, homo, cocksucker, etc. The language may be cleaned up a bit, but the intent remains unmistakable.
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It's not just the fundies - the "mainline" liturgical denominations can be just as misguided. I know more about the Lutheran ones (WI Synod, MO Synod, Augustana Synod) that some of the larger, less myopic ones, but it's not just the fundamentalist ones. People who get the notion that they're better/more intelligent, more erudite than others (particularly via their churches), but inclusive of many different types of "communities", be it in-the-flesh, or merely over the ether, are never interesting folks, and seldom have anything interesting to say.
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What is your biggest kink to do with a slutty bottom 🐖
hntnhole replied to Ezslutbottom's topic in General Discussion
"What is your biggest kink to do with a slutty bottom?" To the OP ^ though, whoring out his Hole cums to mind too ... I guess it would depend in how hungry the guy is. It would have to be "negotiated" a bit though .... -
Welcome, new guys. We hope to hear a lot more from each of you. Cheers !!
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Neither do I, unless there was some kind of forcing unwanted attention on another guy, in which case the forcer should be shamed, and he forcee comforted.
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PUBLIC Forum and personal information (ICYMI)
hntnhole replied to viking8x6's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Another thing that can help when (using the laptop) is using a VPN. I've used one of those for years - and anyone who get's ahold of an email address thinks I live a thousand miles away. Some of them (the VPN's) are free. One time though, some jerk figured it out, so I gave him the address (a thousand miles away) of a vacant lot. Had one of my friends back there find a vacant lot, figure out what the address* would be, and that took care of it. What I wonder though, is how many telephone numbers can we block? I get phone calls all day long from charities trying to raise money, some of which I respond to, most of which I don't. There must be a couple hundred numbers on the phone by now that I've blocked ... *not a difficult thing to do - all the addresses were 4 numbers away (plus or minus) by the city lot. One more thing; BZ is a public forum, so if the winners of the election come looking for folks to bother ...... well .......
