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There is a school of thought that implies that once we get to the point we're really good at something - oh - say sucking Cocks, we tend to feel we need to widen our talents. And we figure out that fucking asses is pretty hot too. And so is group-sex. As the years roll by, we manage to gather more and more talents, abilities, and enjoy sharing them in other settings than one-on-one in a bedroom, and where do we wind up? In the backrooms, fuckjoints, sharing our skills, what we've learned, with a lot of guys, and in the same place at the same time. It's nothing less than joyful abandon with our special brothers. If that's true, what appears to be slutty, wanton behavior is actually the process of maturing into men who love all kinds of sex with other men. It's a natural thing to find our interests widen as we become more experienced.

Allow me to add my condolences as well. I consider it a "gift" when we find someone to love, and who loves us in return. I'm happy for you that you got to experience it; some never do. That doesn't make it any easier though. You've suffered a loss; give yourself time to heal, and keep your heart open to new possibilities in the future. Best wishes ....

That city in question appears to be (from the OP's profile) Milwaukee - the largest metropolitan area in Wisconsin, with at least half a million residents in the city alone. While every guy wants his own vehicle, there's plenty of public transit in Wisconsin's largest metro area. I think the nephew has other fish to fry before assuming the cost of making payments, gas, insurance, etc on a vehicle, and he's damn fortunate to have our poster ready to help him out when he needs it most. Unless he decides to wing it in his current location (unknown to me), where he probably will need transportation, I still think making payments on a truck* is less productive than some utilitarian transportation the nephew can use while he gets some terra firma under his boots, regardless where he lands. *we don't know how new it is, what the displacement is and thus how thirsty, but a small high-mileage car would have to be less scratch to come up with every month.

I suppose if I were fucking some guy in that kind of situation, I would pull out if he asked me to. This is why I avoid those kinds of situations.

Well, yeah - to some extent. But skill and technique are surely more important that mere measurements.

Well, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't do any actual damage, since I always avoid that. Breeding is fun, a happy thing, right?

Yikes !!! I think so too !!! The missing door-handle may be the worst "tell" of all.

Thanks for sharing that lovely affirmation of what many of us instinctively sense.

That makes 2 of us (but I reckon there are a lot more). So, next in line would be Fuckuary '23. There should be time to promote your excellent idea !!! In the meantime though, see'ya in the fuckjoints/backrooms !!!

I realize I'm quoting myself here. How the above phrase translated into: is beyond me. Of course there's nothing remotely similar.

It's NOT you. At one time, bbrt was a pretty good resource for fresh Hole, but those days are long gone. I quit it (and the other apps) some years ago, in favor of going to the fuckjoints in-the-flesh. I miss them not one bit.

Maybe we should have a BZ convention, and recreate Thermopylae for ourselves !!! Now THAT would surely be an inspiration for the "costume designers" amongst us. There's a thread running currently about a Breed Bomb - absolutely enticingly inspirational 😈

This is a condensation of all the silly shit I experienced using the fuck apps. It got to the point that a fairly small group (10 - 12) of guys unintentionally formed sort of a "fuck-group", and we depended on that, and the public fuckjoints. I don't have much to say to all the guys that complain about the cruise apps, other than why continue to waste time and effort on something that has proven to be disappointing time after time after time? All of us (of a certain age) managed to fuck our brains out before there were apps. Where is it written that we're entitled to satisfying sex if we can't be bothered to get up and go get it?

If condoms are required, might just as well stay home and jack out a load .... I haven't even seen on in use for years now.

This could be the answer mankind has been searching for since we crawled out of the caves. Armies of men that would march into battle, swinging their hard Cocks instead of swords. Breeding at the Battalion-level, whole Divisions having orgies with the "enemy" soldiers. Rivers of Sperm overflowing the banks of the trenches. The only gear soldiers would wear would be Cockrings and a belt for accoutrements-de-Breeding, Instead of war planners building bombs that can kill a Continent, they'd be creating popper-bombs to be dropped on both sides of the "conflict". A whole 'nother kind of joystick in the planes too. Now. Who's gonna re-design the uniforms ???

Very sorrowful (yet interesting) post. Much of the suggestions boil down to: 1. Get him outta there. Milwaukee is the largest city in WI, and a major metro area. If nothing else, send him a bus ticket and have lunch at Mader's when he arrives. He's going to have to deal with starting over, and if you can offer him shelter in that storm, kudos !! He's also going to need a productive use of his time. 2.. Ditch the truck, no matter who's name it's in, He can't afford it, and it'll be a life-lesson in financial self-reliance. Until he gets on a firm footing, a used VW will do. 3. Your brother will no doubt cut ties with you too. If that's a tear-dropper, go ahead, and then move on. Bad, negative people aren't a positive influence, and best to be done with them. I've had to cut some extended family loose, and they're the only ones who lost out. 4. I'm not familiar with Southern tradition, but helping out a 19 year old nephew when he's in a tough spot doesn't mean "taking him to raise" to non-Southerners. That implies him being a minor, which he isn't. It's entirely reasonable that a colloquialism might mean different things in different parts of the country, but he's reached his majority now, and needs a helping hand, not a place to "grow up" in. Offer him the first, but not the second. 5. Skip the frills. A phone is completely reasonable, but an ipad? Is that necessary? The essentials are what your nephew needs right now - a place to stay, food to eat, and a non-judgemental, supportive environment. He needs a rock to lean on, as he learns to navigate in the real world. All of this said, he's an adult now, and depending on how he responds to the help offered will determine what kind of man he becomes in a short while. Unless he makes bad or silly choices, he should definitely be offered "shelter in the storm". It's wonderful that you and your other half are in a position to help, and we're all sending you our very best wishes. Good luck !!

Did he ask for your kitchen sink too? And how much dough did he ask for ???

Well, my apologies for responding to you via JimInWisc (and apologies to JIW too). I'm sorry to know that you've been in a sexual desert for so long, but - after reading your profile - I'm impressed with the reasons. You're a real Mensch.

100%. While it's usually fun to rut in fresh Hole, it's always fun to rut in known, reliably hot cumdumps. I usually hit my favorite joints about the same time, same nights. Fairly often I see a guy I "know", and generally we trade knowing glances, a bit of a smile, sometimes even a bit of a chat. Once in a while, I'll re-Breed, which only turns the heat up for all the fresh meat. Every guy loves fresh meat, since if we haven't had it before, there's always a chance it'll turn out to be great. In any case, a clump of men rawfucking each other is always fun.

I still do .... but not many smokers there these days. Who knows - maybe we're "acquainted" !!!!

Maybe I'm wrong ..... maybe it's all true ...... has the Second Coming already happened ??????

Well, once the Cock has pumped it's load up your gut, it belongs to you !!! You simply don't have to allow any guy to do stuff to you that you don't want done. Hopefully the first (politely delivered) "get lost" will be enough, but the fact remains that you earned those loads, and what happens to them is 100% your decision. And you're correct - I can definitely confirm that a wet Hole full of Sperm is absolutely the hottest fuck in the backroom. Hopefully, you wouldn't resent a Top taking a little taste before adding his ...... it's the pleasure of tasting the loads in the Hole - not vacuuming it all out that's so "crazy-making" ....

If I may ...... Actually, there is. Around here there are plenty of guys that regularly (I mean weekly) whore out either their favorite cumdump, or one of their fuckbud's in a joint-venture. Often these small groups are sort of "in a network", if that makes sense? Several guys who admire cumdumps, and networking with each other to share the talented ones. A reputation (for the better or for the worse) can be built fairly quickly, and when a fb texts with "you guys have to come over - I found a hotttt one", we tend to do it. One of my fb's (name is Chris - the guy I got through covid with) and he often texts me to come over and share a talented cumdump, or show up at X place where he'll be whoring the cumdump. Every single guy may not agree with the host's estimation, but that's ok. The point is, word gets around amongst the men who need to know. btw - Rocket Central is about 200 miles - at least 3 hours or worse on I-95 - away from Ft.L. And, perhaps you will. There are so many gay men, a huge percentage of which are raw men, in this area that I cannot possibly imagine that any guy could meet/share sex with even half the gay population. Even at a multi-day event like next month's Pig Week, which consists mostly of orgies at various locations around town, it would take years to run across close to every potential fuck in town. One issue though, is so many of the cumdumps in the fuckjoints are high as kites on christ alone knows what kind of drugs. One of the reasons I hit the backrooms / fuckjoints, instead of hosting group breedings in my home, is that in the public places, I'm not responsible for any crazy crap that could easily happen. The fuckjoint is; I'm just another patron in the crowd. That cumdump I kept for a few years was (and is) a powerfully-built guy, which I am not, so I at least had an "enforcer" around when needed if guys started to get out of line here in my home. Of course, I don't know how widely traveled you are, but I did attend trade shows annually in Louisville for a number of years. These were multi-day events, and of course I slipped away at night when I could avoid the advertisers. I can only say as gracefully as possible, that city is not at all comparable to Ft. L. in this context. There is virtually no chance that every BreedCock in Ft.L. could experience the pleasure of your dedication to your craft. but you're discounting something that you possess, and very few bottoms even understand or comprehend, let alone accomplish: I've gone into that before and it didn't seem like you cared to read it, but that doesn't make your dedication to your calling, answering that call to Service despite the difficulties, any less remarkable and valued. Even the kids on this site are getting older every day, and neither you nor I are kids anymore (thank Whatever). That's why I try to encourage the younger guys to do what they need to do, take all the precautions available to protect their health, and to learn their craft. Get as much pleasure as they can, because all of a damn sudden, we wake up one day and wonder what the hell happened? I don't feel old, I know I don't act old, and in a little while I'll be getting ready to head out for the night. I'm doing it - as much of it as I want to - because one day maybe I won't be able, and the day after that I may get to ditch. In the meantime though, I still love cumdumps; to me they're the special ones, and I want to give them what they need, and take from them what they offer - as many as I can. I hope with all my heart that you can continue do the same.

I suppose some of the bugs, infections, maybe even hiv he places himself at risk of will "agree" with him then ........

Hmmmmm ..... Thanks satyricon1 ...... I'll see if I can figure it out.