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Slut shamed for being a proud barebacker!
hntnhole replied to RawUK's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
It appears all of this transpired online? Thus, the most important facet of a reply is denied you, in that you and he aren't in the same physical space. Courage is easy to summon forth from behind a keyboard, often less so in-the-flesh. I don't use the cruising apps anymore, mostly because there's rather little pay-off for the time invested. There's little point in trying to bring some understanding to someone who is not present, unless they're willing to hear your perceptions with some measure of integrity. I'd just ignore the nameless, faceless, wanna-be, and move on; don't bother yourself with them. That said, in the backrooms/fuckjoints, you're one of many other men there, in-the-flesh, doing what every one of you needs to do. You can just smile, if someone thinks they're holier than thou, and say "yeah, I am a _____, and happily so - wanna join in?" They'll either jump at the chance, or toss one more empty insult over their shoulder as they slink away. -
So far, I haven't found anything to suggest they're anything other than derivative. And, I'm pretty much done with it. Still, it was interesting ... for a minute .....
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Good on you. Those racist hatemongers deserve every ounce of your rejection. I wish more guys would stand up to the overt hate-mongering. Slut-shaming (another thread) is nothing compared to Racist-shaming.
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That "frothy mixture" mentioned above is probably one of the lurkers here on BZ ... what a wretched excuse of a man who cannot bring himself to face his demons.
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I agree. There's a special kind of scent on a guy that's been having sex all night, and it's like iron filings drawn to a magnet. When I used the apps, at the end of the profiles I put "come clean, get sweaty".
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HAHAHAHAHA ........ you do have a gift for phrasing, don'tcha !! If cum-snot turns a guys crank, then great. Have at it, and include me out.
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What about if we like a shark steak on the rare side ??? Secondary infection of monkey / shark / human infection ?😉
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I vote for hairy - the more the better - and if it fans up over the ass onto the small of the back. the eye-candy quotient is off the charts while <polite cough? dinner is served. Rich, dark, curly HoleHair is sexual ambrosia !!!
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No. More, I didn't answer this earlier because I'd never heard of them. So I squeezed in some investigative time a while ago, and realized after some hunting that some folks apparently do, and some folks apparently don't. Admittedly, only scratched the surface, but - at this point - it sounds like a healthy helping of bs to me. But, I'll read some more about it. I do enjoy learning about things, regardless of whether I buy into it or not. Obviously, barebackers possess yet another quality, other than the obvious - that being an advanced level of intelligent inquiry.
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Some great advice above, Poptronic. I would only add that, (assuming he's truthful about not having taken raw Cock before - and there's no reason to think he isn't), he's already thinking about how unfulfilling bagged Cock is, which is a good thing. He want's it *for real*, but be sure to take it slowly. Unless he's really submissive, let him steer the first time. Prove to him that you're not going to harm him in any way, or get pushy about anything. I would predict that once he feels your Cock pumping Sperm up his gut, he's going to be well on his way to needing more and more. Either he's going to be banging on your door all the time, or he's going to go hunting. I think you should be supportive, no matter which way he decides to go. Good luck, and enjoy introducing him to the *real* thing !!
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This ^ pretty much says it all. The pandemic was particularly awful for guys who have anonymous sex all the time. I was lucky enough to have a covid-buddy who I trusted to get through it, but one buddy was almost nothing compared to before covid. It wasn't until that was mostly over that I came across BZ, and, for me at least, it's a great place to read other guy's thoughts, share mine, and feel like I'm just another guy amongst a bunch of buddies.
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It can be very freeing to know that there are tens and tens of thousands of other men, just like you, who have gone through the crucible, and managed to come out the other side in relatively good shape. Truth is truth, and even if ours is uncomfortable to some, it's still our truth. Kudos, 11bi11guy. Not everyone gets to a better place, but we're glad you did. Not everyone can smell the bullshit and get rid of it, but many of us can. Knowing that there are so many other men out there that have, and are willing to help is pretty fantastic. We're glad you're here.
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So here's an interesting twist: I recall hearing some years ago on the science channel that quantum physics has theoretically proven that alternate "planes" of existence are real. I am taking no position on this, but it is fascinating. It was a while ago, and I doubt I'll get every bit of this right, but apparently it was proven to be possible that right now, sitting where you are, in an alternative "plane", others from the past or the future could be in the same space (strictly defined), but not in the same "plane" or dimension. We can't see/experience them, and vice versa. But we occupy the same space. If this is true, and I'm not saying it is, someone from the past could be sitting here reading a book, someone from the future could be sitting here fiddling with some yet un-invented doo-dad, etc etc. Or, and more to our liking, two guys from another plane could be fucking right next to us, and we wouldn't have a clue !!! I very much doubt that the current religions of the World base their claims of an afterlife on anything like quantum physics (!), but rather on population control. After all, the promise of pie in the sky (assuming one does as one is told by said clerics) and hellfire and damnation for those who choose an alternate path, can seem pretty attractive to those less inclined to indulge in critical thinking.
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Well, I got the MPX vax yesterday, and many thanks to a first class fellow BZ'er, who steered me to the most efficient outfit in the County. It hasn't bothered me at all, but then neither have any of the others. Not sure if I should mention which guy, so I won't just yet. But this is a perfect example of how we can help each other out - even over the ether - and how much this site is to us. For the most part, we're a generous lot, and in every way. I really appreciate and enjoy BZ. Whatever all the minutia of issues with the site are, it's a First Class resource - at least for me. Thanks, rawTop and the referees !!
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I'm just getting dizzy ........... and no, I'm not drunk.
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Shucks ..... I'm always surprised these Congresspersons have an asshole left, after bending over for the shovels-ful of dough Big Pharma pumps up their ribey asses. How many mansions are enough? How many yachts are enough? How many limo's do they need to carry the bags of money to the off-shore banks ??? And, it's not just the usual suspects, either. We should open our own Congress of the Bareback Nation - we'd all be so damn rich even CheetoHead would come begging (once he outta the clink, of course).
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I have a question: May we equate the banned words (and their substitutions) with actual people to be banned? For instance, the real, actual vapid person whose foul name appears in certain threads on BZ in place of an imaginary, wicked, hellish invention of Organized Religion, is actually running for Governor of the State of Alaska. Our brothers in Alaska need to be warned not to vote for Madame X (no connection to the famed Cadillac 16 of the same name) whose connection to the magical contrivance referenced directly above is clear and obvious. Equally clear and obvious is the fact that her name appears in lieu of the actual invention of the universal enemy, O.R. If the answer is yes, then Mrs. Palin is forever banned to stay in the netherworld, and bother us no more. Some other disgustment will be needed to substitute for the forbidden allegorical contrivance. Suggestions, anyone ???
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As long as we're as far as possible from the soulless ensnarement's of Organized Religion, I'm with YOU !!!
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Slut shamed for being a proud barebacker!
hntnhole replied to RawUK's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
One fairly effective way to avoid a situation like this, is to restrict your cruising to the places where only other "sluts", "whores" cruise for raw Cock/Hole. There are a couple of benefits that come to mind: 1. If you're susceptible to "shaming" in the first place, it can only happen where your peers are also slutting and whoring. 2. Sticking to the places where shameless men fuck each other removes the ability to feel shame, since every other man is practicing the same sexual license that you are. It's the would-be "shamer" that gets laughed down. The more numerous side of any altercation usually wins. 3. If someone does attempt to "shame" you for your sexual wantonness, merely smile, and say something like "hell yeah I'm a fukkin "_________ " (fill in the blank), and I love it", so what's it to you? In other words, claim the supposed insult as a compliment. That has taken place in other denigrating situations, particularly racial ones, where a disgusting word began to be "taken back" by the denigratee's, thus reducing it's harmful value to the denigrator's. When someone says something like "you're such a pig" to me, I merely grin and say something like "yeah, I know - so bend over and you'll be next". As to the online garbage, none of that is real until the guys meet up and fuck. Everything prior to a raw Cock in a raw Hole is just air in the ether - a fart in a windstorm - and not worth your attention. I don't bother with the cruising apps anymore at all. Good luck !! -
As BareLover666 mentioned only a few hours ago, and which I will enlarge upon: So don't use rubbers. I haven't used one for decades. Instead, get on PReP. Get the inoculations against the various std's that come right along with the pleasures of raw sex. Once you're fully vaccinated with all available preventive meds, and on PReP, you will have taken every possible precaution there is to take against illness. At that point, you will be able to decide whether to jump into the whirling vortex of mating men, be celibate, or something in-between. Understand that the more raw Cock you take, the more std's will find their way to your body. Consider it as a trade-off between what you feel you need to do to be whole, and the inevitable sexual bugs that will surely come your way. Only you can decide where you fit on that spectrum, so take all the time you need to come to terms with the thrills and the occasional unwelcome-but-treatable price to be paid. Good luck.
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LOL .... Anyone who's actually heard the (human) Mrs. Palin knows how breathtakingly vapid, arrogant, intellectually limited, vain-without-reason-to-be, dull and plain old stupid that foul creature is. I doubt (is "the evil one" ok?) would allow any association with her, since it would only diminish that entity's presumed reputation.
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Actually, it's the alligators that I'm more concerned about. There's a forest preserve where I walk the dog occasionally, with a very small lake in the middle. It's a nice walk around the lake, and recently a ranger there warned me to stay further away from the lake (I was maybe 30 yards away already), since some guy got his leg chewed up looking for a damn frisbee close to the lake. Apparently if they're hungry, they can run fast, and after all the stuff I've done, it would be a shame to wind up as lunch for one of those critters 😨
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Agreed, ellentonboy. I've asked them questions several times, and they're always clear and kind in their responses. I've read the rules several times, and do my best to stay in my lane. Thanks for the good advice.
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Screen names and how you interpret them
hntnhole replied to tallslenderguy's topic in General Discussion
Welllllllllll ...... I didn't find it very mystifying. Maybe it's just myopia on my part, but - then again maybe not. Only one way to find out for sure, of course ........................ -
I have only one minor comment re: banned words. That being, usually when I read a post and see (banned word) in the text, I almost automatically try to figure out what it is. And I can't. I think of every bad word I can come up with, and none of them fit the phrasing of that particular sentance. It's not like I'm inexperienced at it - I was in the publishing business for decades. Bad spelling literally leaps off the page at me. Awkward phrasing does too - but then, not every guy was/is in the wordsmithing business either. My eyes have an "auto-forgive" setting that's always in use unless the errors are just too egregious to let slip by. Even then, my observance is so oblique, it may be easily missed. I'm sure the last one was a week or so ago. So maybe the banned word isn't a "bad" word? Maybe it has nothing to do with vulgarity, crassness? Regrettable spelling or fallacious thought-leading certainly isn't banned (nor should it be - this isn't grammar school, thank Whatever). Maybe if we had some kind of hint from our estimable Leaders we could avoid the dread banned words or phrases.
