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  1. Agreed, ellentonboy. I've asked them questions several times, and they're always clear and kind in their responses. I've read the rules several times, and do my best to stay in my lane. Thanks for the good advice.
  2. Welllllllllll ...... I didn't find it very mystifying. Maybe it's just myopia on my part, but - then again maybe not. Only one way to find out for sure, of course ........................
  3. I have only one minor comment re: banned words. That being, usually when I read a post and see (banned word) in the text, I almost automatically try to figure out what it is. And I can't. I think of every bad word I can come up with, and none of them fit the phrasing of that particular sentance. It's not like I'm inexperienced at it - I was in the publishing business for decades. Bad spelling literally leaps off the page at me. Awkward phrasing does too - but then, not every guy was/is in the wordsmithing business either. My eyes have an "auto-forgive" setting that's always in use unless the errors are just too egregious to let slip by. Even then, my observance is so oblique, it may be easily missed. I'm sure the last one was a week or so ago. So maybe the banned word isn't a "bad" word? Maybe it has nothing to do with vulgarity, crassness? Regrettable spelling or fallacious thought-leading certainly isn't banned (nor should it be - this isn't grammar school, thank Whatever). Maybe if we had some kind of hint from our estimable Leaders we could avoid the dread banned words or phrases.
  4. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA ...... never been to the above-mentioned site, but if it's anything like mancunt, then that's yet another reason to avoid it. I haven't used any of them for years.
  5. To me, (he's passed), it was absolutely inconceivable. The very notion being the definition of vomatious. Now. If I had a younger brother, that would be a verrrry different story ....
  6. Leaving home, going away to undergrad. Must have taken all of a month to figure it all out. Frat-bro brought me out, been wallowing in the pig-pen ever since.
  7. It's always fascinating how becoming a parent can add a dimension to one's life. Lorenzo, are you absolutely sure you have to give up sex with men? There are countless men that are able to "pigeon-hole" their sexual deviancies, sating their desires to a certain point, and maintaining the "family-man" facets of life as well. It sounds like you've placed yourself in a fairly desperate place. Of course you "have other things to do now ...." - wonderful things, beautiful things, self-less things. I haven't found myself in a similar situation, so I'm merely asking why you couldn't carve out a little time, here and there, occasionally, for your own needs. It seems to me that you would be happier, more fulfilled, and thus more able to devote yourself to "the other wonderful thing". The SRQDude's commentary above is well worth taking to heart, and that's already your instinct. Isn't there a little bit of room for satisfying that part of who you are too? Best of luck.
  8. Nah .... I just want the MPX vaccine ... starting to go cuckoo here .....
  9. Neither do I ..... but dayam ..... they're such easy targets .... very difficult to resist .... and doing it politely has to count for something, right ?😈
  10. That won't get very far .... the republiKans want more white babies, not fewer ..... 🙃
  11. Thanks, appreciate it. (I'm going scotch on the doo-dads .... they seem to be in as short supply as MPX vaccine)
  12. Good morning, virginpig14, and welcome to the site. Interesting that you "just discovered this site", in that it appears you joined BZ August 23, 2014? In any case, if you actually have just discovered BZ: Most of the discourse on BZ is very real; for instance, the gay politics section, the health-related sections, and almost any genuine subject a guy can think of. Some of the content isn't meant to be literally true, more just "wannabe" stories, but each of these various "threads" of content are at the top of the opening page. If there are some threads with content you don't particularly care for, you can "not-follow" them, and conversely, you can "follow" threads you enjoy. These choices are available in the upper right corner of the home page. Also, you can "follow" individual members, and you'll get a notification whenever that guy adds commentary to an existing thread, starts a new subject, etc.
  13. just a quick question: "OP" means Original Poster, right?
  14. I like screen names that are inventive, allude to what the guy's prowling for, and leave room for a bit of guessing. Mine, unfortunately, doesn't do much of one of those though. It's fair, it's concise, and not much else. Back when I used the apps, I wonder how many times the first thing a guy would type is "hunt-my-hole". 😴
  15. There are several things we can do: fan the flames of the women's rights debacle, attend demonstrations that are large enough to get local tv coverage, get everyone you know to register and vote, etc. Charlie's no panacea, but hells bells if he's not way better than DeathSantis, and his hatemongering crowd. "ALL politics is local"
  16. Yes, yes ... I know the comment wouldn't apply to you, and added a short escape clause at the end*. That was more directed to the poster of the thread, who seemed unfamiliar with sounding (as well as spelling). Any Bd/Sm gear can be dangerous if the experimenter/beginner doesn't know how to use them safely. I don't disagree that a submissive - in the sense you're using the term - are generally men (i.e. with no small amount of experience under their (chastity) belt), but the poster doesn't seem to fit that at all. Of course it is, in your case. You are eminently capable in the arts of B/d & S/m. Precious few men have your reservoir of experience to draw upon though, and where these kinds of sexual interactions are involved, I will always err on the side of caution, hoping that no one actually harms himself. Actually, asking an experienced submissive to show the newbie the ropes is an excellent idea, which didn't occur to me. Not every B/d S/m Top/M. would have the patience - or even the inclination - to do it - particularly with a newbie. If the Universe decided to bestow an enormous gift upon our poster, it would indeed be you who would have the pleasure of introducing a new boy to the thrills of B/d & S/m. As always, thanks for the incisive reply. *I thought I might hear something from - oh - a man exceptionally well-experienced in these matters, generous-of-heart and body, caring for others, but I don't think he likes hearing about it, so ..... 😉
  17. Good morning, I can accept that. While it didn't occur to me that sub men might want to use sounds on themselves, I admit that anything is possible. I can't say I would endorse self-sounding, since there's a potential for harm without an experienced D at the helm, but that might be an incompletely-thought-out notion.
  18. I saw that too on tv too .... since when do the employees at LC and Q get to decide which tests they'll handle and which they won't ???
  19. Some interesting commentary above. One thing to remember is, Bd/Sm gear has one purpose, which is to physically - via use of the gear itself - demonstrate one man's domination over another man. Obviously these items - all of them - must be used with care, and in a sense of offering the bottom the opportunity to reach new levels he hadn't experienced before. I'm not discussing the prior (and required) negotiation, all of that. Only that the gear has one lovely purpose, and used properly, skillfully, it can peel years of bullshit away from a willing bottom's eyes. And yes; some of us do practice the use of sounds.
  20. Oh .... maaaaaybe ..... ask the folks over to Kansas 😁
  21. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA ..... hadn't heard that particularly fraught-with-poison insult before. Maybe a Tail .... er, Tale .... to go along with it?
  22. First, Welcome to BZ !!! This is a great site for all kinds of reasons, as you may already know. My advice would be to turn Grindr off for a while (I'm assuming that's possible?) Go to a gay bar, or some other somewhat neutral gay joint like a social-service agency, maybe a legitimate (i.e. real) bookstore, gallery, whatever - meet some guys - find one or two you like, and have a conversation with a couple of real guys. Try to make friends with 1 or 2 real actual guys who are doing what you're feeling, what you need/want to do. The point is to talk/share your thoughts with other men that have been in your place, ventured forth, and done it successfully. We've all been there, and a lot of pitfalls can be avoided if you find a buddy to talk to. Actually, we're a fairly generous lot with new guys, despite all the hoo-haa some guys come up with. Best of luck, and be sure to let us know how things are with your journey.
  23. Somewhat. I'm more interested in the behavior they're engaged in, as opposed to "hotness". Sure, I like a hot guy as much as anyone, but hot and frigid/stuck-up/haughty doesn't do me - or any other guy - any good. I like fucking regular guys.
  24. I think I still have it ..... gave a ton of porn to buddies when I moved, but I think I kept that one ....
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