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Are you kidding? Surely you know about the statue of you on Wilton Manors Drive, honoring your magnificent accomplishments ??? You're a fucking hero around here ..... literally !!!!

You're not being a killjoy; it was a fun, silly question, and got a lot of fun, silly replies. If there were any possibility of this becoming an actual event - gaining a "super-power" for a brief time - you'd see a lot of far more serious replies. Obviously, if there were even the remotest of chances of possessing a "super-power" for a moment, the world would become a far better place in very short order. That, however, will only come with long, hard work by responsible, caring people, many of which live in our little corner of existence. Thanks for your reply.

I think that it's still a valuable tool: 1. Meet in person, in some public place, like a street-side cafe. Without going into all of it again, I still would recommend this to any guy. About 4,5 months ago, I heard from a delightful young man who, maybe 10, 12 years ago, began to understand his call to submission within the context of the LeatherLife, and contacted me for instruction in the same. I hear from him occasionally (how're things, etc), but this particular time he was in anguish over the fact that I had stressed - years before - the importance of having a specific time when someone he knew would be calling the (supposed) Dom. Well, despite a well-crafted profile on Recon, the Dom balked at the notion. The supposed Dom had mindfucked my (well, formerly young) friend into all these preparations (body shaving, etc), and expected him to drive down to the city from WI with nothing more than the online expectations. He called me in tears before he actually left home in WI, and I did my best to comfort him over the phone, but he did listen all those years ago, and he knew better than to simply show up in the middle of boystown in Chgo with no one else knowing where he was, what he was doing, etc. Point: It's always best to get the limits ironed out in advance, not just let one's imagination run away with itself. Even better if one can get an affirmation from a third party that the Dom is on the level*. I hope no one bothers to pour cold water on this response, since I have no quarter to give on this particular issue. I wouldn't consider a serious exchange without a prior, in-the-flesh meeting in some public place. These cruise apps aren't even close to enough validation. *for instance, a bartender at a local Leatherbar. If he doesn't know the guy, then he'll know someone who does, maybe one of the clubs like CHC (which, I hear, is no longer over on Levitt - is the clubhouse sold? Any Chicago guys have the lowdown?

Sweat isn't quite as hot as loads off previous Cocks, but it's hotter than poppers ever could be .....

We all do/did - but good on you for persevering. It's worth it to take whatever steps we can to pay as small a price as possible for our magnificent sexual proclivities. My waiting period is almost up, and yours will be up soon too. Seeya in the fuckjoints soon, at the bottom of the pile !!!

Why would a guy go to a sex club - pay the dough, all of that - and then not have sex ??? I don't understand that ...

Cool .... so that hot Cock will keep looking as great as it does now ! My waiting time will be over in a few more days, and I can't wait to wade into the Breeding Pool again !!!

Mine would be really similar: the ability to turn any man, with merely a glance, and completely at my whim, into a voracious cumdump. Of course (yeah, I know this is two wishes), to go along with it, completely invisible to the cops ......

Tack = thanks - pronounced "tahk" (there are no plural thanks, only singular, but it's customary to repeat the word multiple times for added emphasis, or add 'manga' '(many', and with the ring above the first 'a') = many thanks sa - = so - there's a small ring (still hiding somewhere inside the computer) above the "a" resulting in an "oh" pronunciation, instead of "aw") mycket = much - pronounced "mycka" Swedish.

Assuming that ^ is shorthand for "in stead of", nope. Do BOTH !!! We need your input as much as other guys too.

Does anyone still use condoms these days? The monkey business has put most of us on pause for a while, but before mpx, I haven't so much as seen one in the backrooms or fuckjoints for years. Even covid didn't bring condoms out of the closet. All the discussion about condoms is based on exactly what, I wonder. Not that it's illegitimate - it's clearly on the minds of some guys - but where do you guys even see them?

Not only didn't I know that, the professor of Scandinavian studies (yes, the undergrad college I went to was that limited) didn't happen to mention it, when he did mention Thursday and Friday. You're one very bright dude !!! Tack sa mycket (no umlauts on the computer 🙁- or if there are, I have no idea where).

This discussion is the chief reason I enjoy BZ so much. Very bright, intelligent men, from all corners of the world, discussing thoughts of this depth. AND, devoted barebackers !!!!!!!!! Eat this discourse for breakfast, religious pinheads !!! (of course, there are other aspects of BZ that are decidedly interesting as well, but of lesser import)

Agreed. I would posit that Hedonism would ask the individual to care for others (as described above) as well as take care of their own needs. One who loves pleasure is eminently capable of caring for the welfare of others, since both perceptions spring from the same well. Neither excludes, but rather includes the other. Thus, hedonists do "get something out of the arrangement", that being the pleasure of extending a hand to our fellow humans. I do not see the correlation to "might-is-right" etc. Extending a helping hand to those who are in need doesn't equate with denigrating others, it doesn't doesn't equate to survival, it's only another facet of the pleasure that Hedonism encourages. Hedonism does not equate with selfishness, it encourages inclusiveness; everyone gets to survive, and do so in as comfortable way as possible. To the Social Darwinistic issue: A life devoted to the pursuit of pleasure is a positive life, inclusive of all, not exclusive of the perceived "weak". While it's true that some folks are 'on the take' for whatever they can get, that's more of a societal issue than a personal one. When a society or cultural construct allows some to be denigrated for whatever reason, the 'taking' mindset ensues naturally. When that is clearly and demonstrably avoided, and everyone is allowed to flourish, it's to everyone's benefit. Pie-in-the-sky maybe, but a worthy goal regardless. Thanks for the most interesting discussion!

I'm about 2/3's through the waiting period, have a small bump at the injection site that felt a bit itchy for a few days, but nothing really bothersome. After that though, just waiting the required number of days. I reckon I'll be fully protected by Labor Day Weekend, which will be a couple of days longer than the suggested number, and I'll be hitting my favorite fuckjoint with a damn sweat on my brow. Even during covid (when I had a trusted fb, and we got through it together), I got at least some Hole (even though it was the same one every time). This mpx waiting period has been a pain in the ass to put up with, but - what is, is.

I'm not critical of your faith one iota, but - how can the above phrase be true? Surely you meant it figuratively, i.e. the offer of spiritual life through belief, and not literally?

Correct, as usual. Jacking out a load can at least relieve the ache in the balls, but it does nothing for the mental/psychological need to use our Cocks for their intended purpose. Which is why we need guys like you so much. Without guys like you, guys like me would be shit-out-of-luck, and one unhappy, pissed off lot. Labor Day Weekend can't get here fast enough ....... grrrrrrrrrrrr

Assume nothing. Specify exactly what's going to make your ass sweat. And don't bother with the damn apps - they're full of dreamers, unreliable blabbering wannabee's. Get your hot Hole to the backrooms, fuckjoints, shuck down your jeans and get down to business. Good luck, bud

Not a fan of shaved body hair. Whatever's there, leave it alone for every other guy to enjoy. Particularly love a hairy BreedHole though, and already well "lubed" by previous Cocks.

So do I ........ <<<filthy grin>>>

I think that all of us who went through the initial onslaught lived, drew breath, and operated on that same assumption. Initially, before even azt was available, guys who fucked raw were thought to be virtually killers on the hoof, and thus wound up being avoided / ostracized by the rest. I think you're assumption was universal back then. It's only thanks to PReP, and the very good chances of avoiding hiv infection that some of these guys are even alive to fetishize hiv. The existence of PReP has allowed this 'fetish' to flourish, and I say Thank Whatever for it. We don't need to revisit the ubiquitous and unending "celebrations of life", we need to fuck each other. And, stay alive and healthy to do it all over again.

Great news in Broward County, FL !!! The shipments of 'emergency' doses arrived in Ft. L. - and the Pride Center in W.M. has plenty of appointments available. So does the County Health Dept. Get the shot, give it around 4 weeks to "take", and cum meet the rest of us in the fuckjoints !!!

There is one area of human activity that we must thank Romanism and resultant Lutheranism for, namely the musical genius it inspired (which continues to this day). No one who knows what "midde c" means could dispute that J.S. Bach's gigantic abilities gave us both choral and instrumental creations of mind-boggling complexities of his counterpoint, and wonderfully lovely lyricism, For uttermost delightful symmetry we thank Mozart, one of the best of the wanton rakes of his day, creating music of unparalleled grace, balance and sheer loveliness. Of course there have been many artists following in those foundational footsteps, and as a musician, I can say there are scholars today who spend their careers studying these scores, and discovering previously-unrealized complexities of composition. So, given my disgust at the actual institution, fairness dictates that I at least give what credit is due to institutionally organized religion. So far, I can only come up with this one ....

While this thread is from an 8-year-old rug, it seems to have achieved a life of it's own, despite being worn thread-bare over the years. I posit that anyone is able to stop doing anything, given the necessary tools. The lovely fact is, we simply don't want to give up *real* fucking/mating/conjoining/sharing/connecting/breeding with as many of our brothers as we possibly can. We don't want the phoney, latex-clad stuff, we want the real thing. And, we're gonna get it - that's just the way it is.

Neither am I. The way I see it, they are more often diametrically opposed than in sync, or even complimentary of each other. Religion being the "home" of the imaginary, albeit occasionally uplifting belief system, and science being the home of provable facts, and thus a rational belief system. It's not that they cannot co-exist in the human mind, it's that generally religion demands that one suspend belief in facts, and accept the magical in it's place. Imagine, for instance, the absurdities of the proposal that all the religious Christian human beings that have passed, will one day be resurrected, and in-the-flesh. This would require, for instance, that all the folks who's ships sank at sea, their corpses gobbled up by the fish, shit out, gobbled up by more creatures of the deep, repeated for millennia, will magically be restored, in their (verrrry well digested) flesh, and fly up in the sky at the magical sound of the last trumpet. Of course, this magical process will be restricted only to the "faithful". Science doesn't require anything like that of us. Rational thought doesn't require any intellectually insulting outrage like that. One fish-bone plus another fish-bone (no matter how many times it interacted with human remains) equals 2 fish-bones, period. It's entirely rational to believe that doing good by our fellow humans, and avoid doing bad things - as defined by rational thinking - is a productive and fulfilling way to live. I'll place my faith in a rational belief-system, thankyouverymuch.