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Well put. Even when a clearly humanistic message is brought forth, it gradually gets perverted into a fundamentalist message - which is far easier to live down to than the original, inspirational message is to live up to. Here in the US, there are millions who have been taught this gradually dissolving humanistic, uplifting message into a carved-in-stone set of intractable rules by almighty Gawd. Admittedly, the Universal Message is at once extremely simple, and yet almost impossibly difficult. So difficult, in fact, that it becomes far, far easier to follow the rules as set forth by crafty, "noisy gongs" like Jim and Tammy - the Queen of the running eye-paint. Like Franklin Graham, whose riding the wave of selfishness disguised as a religion, and on and on and on. The best thing to come out of the whole Billy/Franklin carnival show was Ethyl Waters croaking her way through His Eye is on the Sparrow. How do these people dare to claim to speak for the Unimaginable? To those who actually believe that Gawd Almighty has forbidden abortion, that life begins the moment the load is pumped in, I say: Don't like abortion? Don't have one then. And keep your long, pointy noses out of your neighbors pants. To those who believe that marriage can only be between opposite genders, I say: Don't like gay marriage? Don't marry one then. And keep your long, pointy noses out of your neighbors pants. Or, as a certain someone more sublimely put it: Pull the log out of your own eye before you worry about the speck in other peoples eyes. It's not just a universal of fundamentalist religions, either. Nationalism can foment the same kind of myopia in a population. Take the centuries-long hatred of the Jewish People, for instance. Why hate our Jewish brothers and sisters? Because "they" killed Jesus? What a laughably insane notion, yet it is espoused by so-called "christians" the world over. Tell folks that if they do x,y, and z, hate who they're told to hate, cough up the dough each Sunday, they'll fly off to cloud-cuckoo-land one day and be clothed in jewels, blah blah blah. Like that's going to feed the hungry, clothe the naked, house the homeless, comfort the sick. One of the worst human characteristics, in my view, is embracing "Willful Ignorance". Or, to put another name on it, Fundamentalism - of whatever stripe. Willful ignorance, choosing to remain ignorant is nothing short of enraging. Rejecting our intelligence, our powers of reason, in favor of willful ignorance is nothing short of anti-human.

That propensity is hardly limited to Greek Christians. It seems that "Christians" world-wide seem to think they know better than anyone else, and about every possible facet of human existence. However, as the old saying goes: Pride goeth before the fall. Hopefully sooner than later.

Hey, Trip .... welcome back !! Glad whatever that family situation was resolved itself, and you got out of Texas. That doesn't seem to be a very healthy place to be these days. Not that our State Government is much better though. Our primaries are Aug 23rd, so get your registration stuff taken care of. The Dolphin Democrats (local gay Democratic organization) do the research on candidates, make endorsements, so even the more obscure, down-ballot positions are investigated and endorsements made. Seeya around, maybe ....

<<<trying to blush, but it's not happening>>> Guilty as charged. That was one of the more exceptional times over at RR. Lately, I only write about particularly thrilling nights-out though. It's a bit unseemly, since apparently so many BZ'ers don't have anywhere near the opportunities we do here in Ft. Breedingdale. btw - that kid did stop by a while ago, but I wasn't home, and he just left a short note stuck into the storm door. No contact information, just a note thanking me for a great time, all of that. I just hope he got rid of that asshole bf, and found some guy with a little more generous outlook on keeping his Hole fucked full. He seemed to be a really nice kid.

Welcome, NegBtm4Tops. Thanks for coming out of the "lurking" closet and joining up. We'll be looking forward to hearing from you !!

Nope (knocking on wood). But then, I have never been much into sex where I could get pinched for it. I much prefer the fleshpots, backrooms of bars, fuckjoints. The only risks there are bugs, and if a cop shows up, he's not on duty and only wants to join in the rutting.

After all these years, it's almost too good to believe. Bittersweet though, considering all those we've lost over the years.

Welcome, DesparateSoftboy, to your Life. First, take all the precautions to guard your health. Get on PReP. Get all the inoculations against the sexual bugs that will come right along with all the loads. Be sure to wait long enough for all of them to "take". Taking these precautions will not guarantee that you'll never get sti's - you will. But you will have taken every step you can to mitigate against them. Get tested very regularly, so they can be treated asap. When all of that is taken care of, jump right into the middle of the writhing knot of Breeding men, offering what you have to others to sate their Lusts - taking from others what you need to fulfill your own Lusts. Enjoy every moment of it - love it - practice your skills often - and become the man you were born to be. And be sure to love yourself for having the courage and honesty to be the best man you can possibly be. Best of luck !!

Exactly. In your case, it's your magnificent Calling that obviates any silly physical barriers. In mine, it's the enduring effort to avoid guys that look like me. That's perhaps because I ditched the cultural bullshit I was raised with many years ago, and - (maybe subconsciously?) - seem to avoid guys that might carry the same cultural baggage I threw off. Probably not the most fair way to cruise, but then I've fucked plenty of loaves of white-bread through the years. Compensatory, maybe? All I know is the one-eyed-jack in my jeans takes notice of men that don't look like me a lot <polite cough> harder than some others.

.... and then you answer yourself .... hell no that's not all there is ..... and your Cock gets hard all over again .... and .... well ..... you get the picture ....

Welcum home, bud ..... maybe seeya over there .....

Clearly there does exist a plane of caring between two same-gendered people that goes deeper than common "friendship". I've experienced this twice with straight guys. One was a guy I wouldn't have had sex with on a bet; sexually, yuck. The other was such a good friend I wouldn't have allowed anything like sex the chance to ruin the friendship Example: when I had a physical emergency years ago, and he had moved hundreds of miles away, I called him on a Tuesday - explained the situation - he replied "I'll be there on Thursday". Now that's the kind of friendship that also possesses a certain level of love. The Greeks had quite a system (and remember - they had nothing at all against boy/boy, man/boy sex - as long as marriage took place, the man fucked his wife too, and thus brought forth the necessary future members of their armed forces) of describing these "bromanitical" relationships. Agape, Eros, Philia, Pragma, Mania are some specifically-defined types of love between men, Eros and Mania being most familiar to BZ'ers. It's not easy to clearly define, but once experienced, it's easy to recognize when we're fortunate to have experienced it. If we do experience it, we're well and truly enriched.

T.I.M. is legendary, ground-breaking, standard-setting, and the goal of other gay porn producer to meet/exceed. I'm not surprised that so many other companies went after TIM the way they have; that's basically a sound business-plan. Sometimes the King of the niche (in whatever industry) gets knocked off the perch, sometimes they react quickly and break even more new ground. That's just the nature of being in business. The thing is though, no one will ever take away what T.I.M. accomplished. As far as I'm concerned, TIM shits crushed pineapple, and my hat is off to them.

Just to be clear, I don't care what other guys find enticing, attractive, whatever. Call yourselves whatever makes you feel good, happy, sexy, attractive, whatever. The original question was what terms do "you"- i.e. each one of us - prefer or not. So I just answered the question.

Well, thanks for the educational reply !!! I tried only one of the so-called "social media" once, facebook, and found it to be nothing more than a time-sponge. When I watch porn I just put terms in the search bar, and dozens show up. As to twitter, I never used that one since Big-Mac-ass seemed to claim it to peddle his bullshit. Some of my friends send me silly jokes, pictures they find on facebook, and that's enough for me. I'd much rather spend computer-time here on BZ, communicating with other men like myself. You, for instance.

To me, references to women in a sexual context are off-putting. I don't need to hear or see anything related to women.

Soooooooooo ..... NOW I understand why Cheeto-head - he of that ridiculous orange pompadour - uses twitter to issue all the road-apples oozing out of his fingers. I had NO idea that porn existed on this site; obviously, I've never used it.

I went for vers. A hot guy, whichever way he goes. And, almost as regrettably talented at dancing as I am !!!

Size isn't the crucial component, skill is that component of a hot fuck. If a guy has a 10 incher he doesn't know how to use, then so what if it's 10 inches or 5? Conversely, if a guy has a 5 incher that he uses skillfully, to it's very best advantage, then he's delivered a hotter fuck than the horse that doesn't know how to use what he's got in the first place. The mark of a truly dedicated Breeder is in the skills he's learned.

Similar experience for me. We met at the tubs, had just over 30 wonderful years together. Usually went out cruising together, but sometimes we went to different fuckjoints. Often had small groups over, or went to group-fuck events. We were both pigs, but he passed a number of years ago, and I miss him every damn day. Very happy for you, EuRawBottom, that you found the right man to share your life with. It's a gift from the Universe to find the right man we can be completely honest and open with, and go do it all with him.

^ He's correct. No consent = no nookie. Period.

Ditto for Ft. Lauderdale. I have requests for appts in at a number of service providers ... but my phone has yet to ring. Monday I'll be calling them all again anyway .... squeaky wheel, and all that ...

Ahhhh .... Grindr, then. That app is also one of the reasons why crossing several streets in the area are almost begging to be run down. Guys actually drive around, staring at their phones in the wee hours. There are relatively minor crashes all the time. One day, someone is going to invent some doo-dad that pedestrians can push a button on, and fry the Grindr guy's phone. Thanks for the info.

Is being "tapped" some kind of electronic communication on one of the apps? In my (admittedly) outdated lexicon of the apps, I remember "oinks", but "tapped" always meant you got fucked - as in "so and so tapped my ass really well". If getting "tapped" is similar to the old "oinks", then it surprises me not one bit that you get those messages. You're one of the very special ones, and have my complete admiration for answering your calling. Precious few have that same courage. Thanks for all the important and interesting discourse too; I know all of us appreciate your excellent contributions, even if some neglect to mention it.

Thank you for the interesting response. Agreed. American citizens did indeed make that decision, and it led to murmurs of session. And also with much respect, particularly since your forebears suffered through the tragedy: There was indeed, as there always is, was, and every shall be, an "us" and a "them", which is based in economic advantage vs perceived economic disadvantage, accompanied by some cultural contrivance (often religious) to divert the attention of the masses. The Romans marched and conquered because they could. The British sailed the seas sweeping aside all opposition because they could. The Germans (and their allies in the Far East) marched and conquered because they could, possessing superior industrial (i.e. killing-power) development. At the time, it turned out that the US was the sleeping giant of industrialization, which is an economic advantage if ever there were one. Is there a nation that ever existed throughout history that hasn't exerted the will of it's powerful because it could?. The "us" vs "them" is always lurking in the shadows. Choose any ancient text chronicling domination of one economic group against another - or any modern text of the same purpose - and it boils down to who's got control and who doesn't. I would hazard that in this country, there has always been - since before there even was a Nation - an "us" and a "them", defined by economic status. When the North found it necessary to mobilize, the concept of using enslavement of another race of people was far easier to rouse the citizens of the North than to stick to the truth. It's so much easier to rouse hatred of "the other" by stand-in's, as opposed to the truth. Thank you again for your most interesting and beautifully-expressed response. Never-the-less ......