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LOL ..... lets let our Boots get together and have a little chat together, take notes, then tell it ALL !!!!

Well, I'm not exactly sure if this belongs in the "last load" thread, but it might .... So was at my favorite fuckjoint last night, did my usual circuit of the place, hit the darkroom, rutted in a few Holes, and then went to the bar for a beer (it's byob, btw - you can't buy any liquor, only soft drinks). A few sips, and this very good-looking Hispanic guy sat down next to me, with this big fat smile pointed at me. I didn't recognize him at all. Small chat ensued - still smiling. Turns out he was one of the Holes I'd been in, and he recognized me from my boots !!! Now. One cardinal rule of the darkrooms, is never wear good Boots to a darkroom. They'll get stepped on, stomped on, scuffed and fucked up. It cost me a beautiful pair of John Ashbourne's to learn that lesson. So, I wear an ancient pair of old engineers when I hit the fuckjoints. The Rockettes could dance on them and not do any noticeable damage. That said, he was engaging, pleasant, told me his name is Jose, and thanked me for fucking him, etc etc. Apparently I did pump my load up his Hole - but it's way too dark in there to know for sure. After showing it to me at the bar, I did remember it though - exactly what I love most in a Hole - full of thick, rich black hair, fanning out over the cheeks, up to the lower back, down the thighs .... matted down with drying loads .... grrrrrrrrrr. We traded vignettes, "do you have a boyfriend", blah blah blah, he asked what kind of business I was in, I told him, and I returned the question. Seems he's an R.C. Priest !!! And, he lives with one too. Both are from Puerto Rico*, have known each other for quite some time, and - - - here it comes - - - they each give absolution to to other for all their "sins". Each guy tells the other what he did, how he did it, and in salacious detail, the Cocks get hard, and then they fuck each other !!! When I mentioned that I wasn't R.C., he seemed a bit disappointed, but said something like 'that's ok - we won't mind', insinuating that I might be invited for their next "Crime against The Church". He assured me that even if I were a non-believer, the absolution would count**, and I'd be "forgiven" for doing what I know needs no forgiveness whatsoever from any deity whatsoever. I thought I'd heard it all ..... but no. If the other one is half as good looking as this one, and has half as hot a Hole, I just might, but if they dress up in the long dresses, cassocks, all the rest, I think it would put me off - certainly not because of religious fear, but just because it would seem so silly. I have no judgements to make of them - whatever gets you off is great (as long as no one is harmed). I'm just afraid I'd laugh and kill the mood. What if they used ritz crackers for ..... oh, never mind. Not really sure what I'll do ... but he did give me his number .... *read: hitting one of my soft spots ** like I'd give a rats ass

Well, well .... nice to have some survivors of the religious/cultural repression turn up on BZ !!! The first gay bar was on the South side of State St, maybe the 4 hundred block, and the owner was Earl, a retired cop. The front door was never used - guys would park in the area behind the bar and use the back door. I don't think I ever saw anyone come in or go out the front door. I can't recall the name either though. I even used to park over by First Lutheran and walk over !!! Later, there was another abs that opened, also on State St, maybe the 2 or 3 hundred block from the river, but I never went to either of them either. That one was frequented by the pastor of yet another Lutheran church, where he was often on his knees at the gh's, "praying" for (presumably) loads down his throat. Just when I was going away to school another bar opened up somewhere in the area, but I never went there. Haven't been back there for years, and have zero plans to do it either. There's another guy on BZ from Rockford - it's great to know that at least a handful of us managed to flush the religio/cultural garbage we were raised on, and managed to become the men we were born to be !!! Thanks (former) neighbor !!!

No problem, Say what you mean, if you don't care to be challenged. ReCon meant a LOT to many of us at one time, and seldom merely for "hookups". Friendships lasting decades were developed after initially becoming acquainted via ReCon.

I beg your pardon. I seem to recall that somewhere else you mentioned that you're 30 years old. Thus, when you were about 10 years old, ReCon ("World Leathermen" at the time) was a most appreciated method of connection between those of us the uphold and honor the Leather Ethic. Then, it was magnificent to even be in communication with Leathermen from all over the world. I still enjoy friendships I initially made via that website, to this day. I don't use the apps anymore, and there since there are very few days - even in what passes for "Winter" in FL - to wear the Hides, let alone Full Dress, I am nothing but grateful for ReCon (at least as it once was - perhaps not the case now). ReCon may be useless to you presently, but that has not "always" been the case - no matter how beautiful and talented in the Leather Arts you are today. Thank you.

Thanks for this information. Not being aware of the SNR construct, I think I understand what you mean. I know "fap fap" when I read it, try to dismiss, and gather the more important parts of a post. Earlier in this particular thread, I flunked - thus the re-reading - and resulting re-reply. I do hope that I don't piss off some guys; I know I can be somewhat firm in my beliefs (or even ability to present them), but every voice on BZ is equally important. This site gives every guy the platform to discuss issues pertaining to our particular requirements, and for that I'm grateful I stumbled upon it some months ago. Admittedly, there are some times I don't have as much time as it takes to incisively read between the lines (when there's something hiding there) of all the commentary. Thanks for the post. I learned a little bit more than I knew when I sat down - which is the whole point !

Well, the reputation precedes both of us put together in FL. Key West, for instance, has been "live&let-live" for many decades. Hit the beaches on a nice day, and there are scantily-clad women (many far too old for bikini's) everywhere. So I doubt it would ever come close to the NW. Illinois has been solidly blue for over 60 years now (the Government, I mean), when Hizzoner first got elected in Chicago. True, there are definitely "red" counties, to the west and south of Chicago, but the State Government (i.e. the place where policy is formed) has been solidly blue for a long time. Leave the city though, and there are plenty of red counties. Actually, the second-largest (at the time, population-wise) was Winnebago County, about 100 miles W of Chicago, and I grew up there. Some one actually opened an adult bookstore w/gloryholes on 7th St, a block from the church we virtually lived in. What happened? The church bought the entire block of 7th St where the abs was, tore the entire block down, just to get rid of the Satanic Influence. That's pretty damn red. Of note, the asst. pastor of a different Lutheran church was often on his knees at those gloryholes ... I think you might be right, in that sexual needs top political sway every time. It wouldn't surprise me at all if there were plenty of gay sex going on downstate.

I'm not aware of anything around Ft.L. closing their doors, but then I don't hit the tubs much. However: reading the above post/replies, I notice - maybe because of my own political views - that they seem to be in "red" states. If there's anything to that, I would imagine that DeathSantis here in FL will be closing down everything he can if he does make a run for the Presidency. The bars/fuckjoints here are nothing if not cash-cows, and no politician can resist cranking his neck the other way when there's dough being doled out. If stripping women of their intensely personal bodily rights is ok, he'll have a field day going after us. Register and VOTE !!! (Florida primaries are August 23rd - just sayin ...)

Well saie, tallslenderhandsomeyoungman ..... We're still human beings, we're still men, it's just that we fuck a bit differently than most other men. Fairly small potato's, in my book.

Raw. Period.

I think we should get CumDumpSLT a much bigger bed !!!

Of course it's "like" a drug, but it isn't a drug. It's making the choice to follow your instincts, respond to the need to become man you were born to be. There are certain (bodily) chemicals released in our brains when we shoot our loads (there are far more medically informed guys on BZ than me), and that may feel like "feeding an addiction", but it's entirely, 100% natural - and it's 110% good and right and proper and productive for you to live the life you need to live. As you say (with one substitution)," the more you get, the more you "need" it. Thanks for the reply. It's all about Cock/Hole/Sperm

???? Huh ???? You guys mean there's some other way to fuck besides RAW ??? That's what I said to a guy in Pig Alley at one of the bars who couldn't actually bring himself to take raw Cock up his gut. Then, I let him watch while I shoved it to some other Hole .... there wasn't a rubber to be seen back there ...

So, I went back to re-read this original post. Sure, there's quite a bit of elastic in there, but there's some serious stuff there too. He feels like he's addicted to taking loads, with an additional preference whisked into the mix. Then, I re-read some of the responses, including mine. I don't see that much wrong with the rest of the post. We're all hammering him about one fairly smallish, common, and unimportant issue (that being most likely one-handed typing), when what he's really driving at is a self-identified "addiction". Assuming he's not using what some euphemistically call "enhancements", which is not alluded to in his post, what he's actually addicted to is the thrill, the rush, the excitement of taking anonymous raw Cocks/loads, and while I wouldn't have chosen that word, it's the choice he's made to live his life on his terms, free of cultural restraints, and who doesn't admire that? I know - I reacted to the "dozen-a-day" thing too, which, on the face of it, is silly. But there's more there that deserves a second read. There's a difference between being physically addicted to some substance, and so attracted to certain behaviors that it becomes a compulsion. Handled properly, that compulsion can be the most enriching facet of his character, his life. I would uphold that all day, every day. Ignoring the "fappables", I would encourage him to get himself every protection available (I mean the inoculations), get on PReP, and become the guy he needs to become. Do it as safely as possible, and steer a bit closer to the actual facts when posting/replying. As that journey progresses, keep asking legit questions if he'd like, and he'll get appropriate replies.

Lots of Tops have responded to the thread about fucking sloppy, full, wet Holes. While that's just one facet of the whole, if there's something else, just ask - I'm sure you'll get plenty of replies. The more bottoms know about Tops, and Tops know about bottoms, the better for all of us, right?

So, as part of reading this thread, I asked one of the moderators if I were "screening" the stuff I either don't care about, or my input might be considered inappropriate. He answered very promptly, and I learned how to strain out the stuff I don't want to read. It all starts in the upper left hand corner, and we can choose what kind of discourse we want to read, what we don't, and that clears up a lot. Thanks, Viking8by6 !!!

I don't think all that many men can .... oh .... would the word be "expose" themselves, their inner needs, lusts, what sexual acts really turn their crank .... for fear of judgements from other guys. When we have a Breedboy, all of that is obviated, and we're free of other constraints to wallow in the piggiest of pens - whether in the tubs, backrooms, fuckjoints, - with total abandon. There seem to be a lot of rawmen that still carry some bit of hesitancy inside their heads about embracing their complete, whole selves. If I had happened upon that visual thrill I probably would have shot in my towel on the spot.

I haven't, since I figure I'm only one guy out of thousands, and not really sure where the line falls between "just ignore it" and "report". Plus, I usually assume the moderators are busy with more important stuff.

Awwww .... don't ditch .... stay a while longer and share your thoughts/perceptions as you just have. One thing I finally figured out how to do, is "unfollow" certain threads that I have no interest in. That way, I don't even have to see some of the silly business. There's plenty of great threads/exchanges of ideas on subjects I find interesting and valid. I well understand how there is a necessity for all areas of interest need to have their space, and the site allows us to "follow" what we find worthwhile, and not what we don't. Almost every guy has worthwhile input in the threads I follow, and yours - while sad - was definitely worthwhile. In any case, best wishes now and in the future.

Wellllll .... these days, almost anything can happen .... <grinnnn> I did enjoy the pleasure of being present - i.e. "actively" whoring his Hole. I'd say it was 50/50, maybe less, between sending him out and whoring him either at home or the orgies. There used to be a lot of regularly scheduled events at the guesthouses, tubs, etc, and those were a lot of fun. But I enjoyed the "Daddy sends his Breedboy out to take loads and bring them home" scene just as much. I haven't used poppers for ages - the headache after it was over just got to be too big a pain in the ass. The rush, the thrill of eating/Breeding anon Holes is enough for me. It's Friday .... Cheers !!!

Well then, the friends knew you wanted your husband to take "outside" loads, and still didn't do the "dirty-dance" with him. I'd say you got snookered out of a hotttt potential there. And, of COURSE you give better head, and you know it !!! 😋

You and I must be related somehow ...... 100%. And the point is definitely not "whose" loads they are. Occasionally when there's another guy fucking a Hole next to me, and the guy is doing a First Class job of it, I'll suck the remainder off his Cock after he Breeds, but it's not really the Cock I care about, it's that the guy just shot his load in another man's Hole that needs his Sperm. I don't give a hoot which guy is was that pumped his load up a hole before I get to it. The point is, the bottom is a cumdump - he's the mirror to my Lusts - he needs to take anonymous loads as much as I need to give them. Assuming the requisite "sniff-test" allows, I'll gladly eat loads out of a cumdump's Hole before I start to rut in it. It's better than poppers any day ....

But did you tell these friends that you'd love your hubby to take loads while you're away? That would have made it clear that - unbeknownst to your hubby, he was fair game. If the friends didn't realize that you'd love to have your hubby whore around while you were out, maybe they were afraid of pissing you off?

Alright then. We will just have to agree to disagree for once. I have no more to add to this issue. Thanks for the reply. Best -

Well. I know that it's a University town of about 65K. There's also a State Park nearby, which could be a resource. That - along with all the other cities/towns he referenced, could widen his "pool" of resources. Still ..... while I admire the inclination to "addict" himself to taking raw Cock, even all races of Cock - either he's one of the most richly blessed cumdumps in that State, or ..... <polite cough> .......