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Back to Reality
FelchingPisser posted a blog entry in From My Side of the Sling--Breeding Zone Edition
My Desk—April, 2023 I came home totally sated from CLAW and the Horse Market. I was sorry that I hadn’t been able to stay longer at the leather weekend, but I was in the middle of a short-term contract that was taking up a lot of time. I made some notes about the event and went back to work. But something felt off. It was 10 days later—and after that wholesale fucking event, I wondered if I had brought something home with me. On the same day, I got the usual group email from the organizer reminding everyone to get checked for STIs after all the fun. My county health department isn’t open on the weekend, so I waited until they re-opened on Monday and went in. With my house move, I was in a new county, and while I had got my vaccines for Covid, flu and Mpox there, I had not gotten the full battery of STI testing from them. I have to say, I love the women I have met at county health departments. They are efficient, great at putting people at ease and have seen it all—literally. The two women I met on this trip also appreciated that I was coming in at the earliest warning sign, knew what I was talking about and I didn’t gloss over my sex life to make me ‘look better’ in their eyes. (Unlike my GP who really doesn’t want to talk about my gay sex life at all…) This was also a wake-up call to me. While not playing during all that time with Covid, I had not followed my usual sex screening routine for some time. It felt good and empowering to be back on track. I pissed in a cup. I was swabbed. I was jabbed in the finger. The nurse asked if I was interested in learning more about PrEP. I told her how I had decided before: I never bottom, I am cut, my regular partners are on PrEP or are undetectable. I was pleased that she agreed with my reasoning and that, as long as I continued testing regularly, I was in good shape there. Test results were fast. They did find chlamydia. I got the prescription and took my pills, glad that I hadn’t played since the event—so I had no one I could contact. (I just hope all the attendees of HM took the letter from the organizer to heart.) This is not the first time I have not had the usual sex driven post—but I think it is a good reminder for anyone having sex out there. STI’s happen. Take care of them. Notify your partner(s) when you can. It is part of having bareback sex. Actually, even condomed sex—I got gono from a blow job before the condom went on back in the 1990’s. So, there’s the public health announcement for today. I have written about all this before—and perhaps more eloquently in 2017. I will include a link to The Un-sexy Post: From My Side of the Sling: The Un-sexy Post (felchingpisser.blogspot.com) March 21, 2017 The original is here: From My Side of the Sling: Back to Reality (felchingpisser.blogspot.com) May 14, 2023 -
When you have tested positive for an STI, do you continue to have sex while being for an STI? Or do you abstain? -
Chub guy 38 in Edinburgh for a few days. Neg. Need breeding , poz loads hopefully or anything taken . Message me.
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I will be in Manchester in September. I would love to play with some STI infected guys. I also love poz guys.
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So I contracted Hep C a few months back and during the acute phase, I had 90% of the symptoms, whereas most people don't get any symptoms, so Hep C in many cases becomes chronic for those people with no symptoms unless they are tested with their HIV labs. I started on Harvoni and all my liver functions returned to normal within 2.5 weeks, including no more signs of Hep C. However, it left some scarring on my Liver and I won't know the full extent of the damage until I get another fibroscan after I finish the 84 day treatment of Harvoni. What I was shocked to learn (research it for yourself), is that 25 to 30% of HIV+ men are co-infected with Hep C. If I'm recalling correctly from my research 10% of HIV+ men were co-infected in 2010, so that number has pretty much tripled since then. Why the increase? My guess is effective HIV treatment and PreP has caused many more guys to freely bareback with numerous anon partners. So now I can no longer drink alcohol and have to avoid refined sugars, saturated fat, excess sodium, and red meat (due to iron levels). The worse part is that my cumdump days are over. If I get Hep C again, I'll probably go into liver failure. There's no vaccine, and even though there is now a cure, co-infection with HIV is hard on the liver. HIV, for me at least is no longer the scariest STI, Hep C is. Don't take my word for it, research yourself. Just want you to be able to make informed decisions. I created this post because I was so ignorant about Hep C rates of co-infection. Had I known the rate of co-infection before I got it, would I have stopped being a no-loads refused cumdump at the local bathhouse. True answer.... I probably would have remained a cumdump because I love being one so much, and with Harvoni being a cure, I would have assumed I'd be ok. But in my case, from the time I contracted it and was dealing with so many symptoms until I was cured, my liver was scarred...I just don't know yet what stage of Cirhossis I have until done with Harvoni.
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I've gotten the clap before and I'll get it again! Helps to know current treatment recommendations and how to self administer the meds!
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Travelling for raw sex and introduction to Mpreg
Guest posted a topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Having had a very very busy time over Christmas and New Year, it had completely reduced my chances of getting any dick whatsoever. Naturally, my little butt has been very keen to get some action and I had really struggled to find local men who were up for bareback sex. Most guys seem to just want their dick sucking, which I still enjoy, who turns down a throat full of cum? But, a guy has needs and I was getting very impatient. I delved into the world of Kik for the first time, as I'd heard a lot of negative comments about it being full of people who were only looking for phone fun and generally it could be a bit of a waste of time. I started using it and the first few days lived up to the negative feedback, guys asking for pics, phone sex and videos of me fingering myself. I'm not against that stuff as long as there is a legit meet at the end of it all. A few people I chatted too were actually decent guys, but, none were too local. One guy in particular was an hour away by train, owned his own pub and was very much a real bareback only top. After we'd exchanged a few videos and chatted for a couple of days, I offered to travel to him on the Friday night and have a little fun. It meant getting there quite late after he had shut the pub, but having not had any sex for a few weeks, I was willing to agree to anything! Before we met, he asked if he could call me, just for general chit chat which was actually quite nice and it made me feel as though he would be a genuine person with similar interests. We also discussed whether we were both clean or not, I openly admitted I hadn't been tested recently and I'd had sex with men who were unclear as to whether they had any STI's. He had no issue with this and told me that he hasn't been tested for nearly a year, I explained I had no problems with that risk and still wanted to meet. I finished work on the Friday and got ready, before jumping the train and heading to his pub. I got the latest train possible and didn't get to the pub until close to 1am as I had to wait for all the other guys to leave the pub. I rang him to tell him I was outside and he let me in and then locked the door so nobody could interrupt us. Straight away he kissed me and I began rubbing his dick through his jeans, feeling him grow and begin to throb. I sat him down on one of the couches in his pub and dropped to my knees and unfastened his jeans, revealing his gorgeous, rock hard trimmed dick. I kissed it gently and began to massage his balls whilst I began to suck him slowly and deeply, listening to him moan and tell me that I was a good lad. I stood up and stripped in front of him and pushed my arse into his face, feeling him spread my little butt and begin tonguing my little pink hole. I wanted to show him how appreciative I was, so I walked away to the bar, asking what drink he'd like, before I poured and served it to him as his personal little whore. He sat there enjoying a hard earned drink whilst I sucked his dick again and I began fingering myself and getting ready to take his dick inside me. Once I'd given him a sloppy blowjob and his cock was dripping, I got on top and straddled him, guiding his dick to my twitching cum dump. As he slid inside me I sat my arse down on him as deep as possible and listened to him moan in pure ecstasy. I started riding him and kissed him passionately whilst he caressed my arse and forced me to take his dick as deep as I physically could. As we picked up the pace and I began moaning more, he started to get very verbal in telling me how bad he wanted to cum inside my pussy and get me pregnant. I'd never really thought of that in any way, but it began to really turn me on so I just embraced it, asking him to put his babies in my tummy and give me everything that he had. He told me to get on the pool table and bend over and present my pussy to him so he could impregnate me, I did exactly as I was told and he began fucking me quite rough. I threw my arse back onto his dick as hard as I could, begging for him to get me pregnant and I could tell by his movements he was getting very close to cumming and I started to moan louder. He leaned down to me and asked me 'Do you want me to knock you up?'. I begged for him to impregnate me and put his babies in me, to which he answered with 'You'll get more than babies inside you, I'm going to knock you up properly' and I begged for his dirty load to get me pregnant. He moaned loudly and pushed in as deep as possible before unloading into my pussy and telling me that I was such a good boy for taking his cum inside my breeding hole. Afterwards, we headed straight up to the flat above the pub and we began chatting. He asked me about how I'd feel if I caught something from him, I told him I was more than happy to have that happen and asked if he had passed stuff onto other men in the past. He told me he had done this a few times and quite honestly, I wanted to spend the weekend with him. We discussed his pregnancy fetish and I really got into it. I spent the evening there and let him impregnate me again and the next morning before leaving. When on the train home, I started reading up on mpreg as it was new and I found myself enjoying our experience even more. I will hopefully be spending another night with him in a few weeks, taking even more of his potent cum! :) -
If there were no sex diseases my goal would be taking a min of 20 loads a week...how about you?
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24 year old chub straight lad negative I have gone off woman and now I know that my palace is to serve cock I want my ass to be turned inside out and And forced To be a dirty slag cum dump , i want to be daddy’s whore , boy pussy fucked hard and being whored out being brutally raped by top after top left there Crying and screaming blood and cum gaping out a batterd pussy ,but it’s all about the tops pleasure, genie young lad looking for fun weather that’s vinlla sex or a daddy taking me in to the wold or gangbangs hung tops bath houses yes I know all the risk and I know what I want and and that’s my pussy being used by any cock that what’s me , I know there’s some infected baby’s out there I can’t get rid of but that’s fine I don’t agree with a abortion ??I just really want a baby inside my negative tight boy pussy , it’s my body and also it’s what I was put on this earth for well not me my mouth and ass is put here to take raw cock,to not say no to a breading and to worship the hot guys who can and want to fertilise me Hope I can bend over and be put in my place soon
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Hey guys, I'm new and want to get some people's opinions. Is herpes really even all that bad? If you were to happen to pick up herpes from a random hook up would it be that big of a deal? What are your guy's thoughts?
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I've always wondered if there was any health dangers in repeated STI exposures. I would think not. No matter how often you test positive for an STI, and all other things equal, if the STI is treated and removed, there's no long term health impacts. The invader is gone, if you will. Has anyone ever heard of any? Or had problems?
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Besides HIV, what STDs/ STIs have you had? What was your experience having them? Did they cause other problems? If you try to prevent getting STDs, how do you try to prevent them? If you've had an STD not listed, please mention it below.
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Hi all, I'm new to the forums and wanted to ask people how they manage STDs if they're having bareback. I will preface that I am in an open relationship, and we are both on PrEP. I've always loved the fantasy of being bred by a group of hot guys. It wasn't until recently where I started getting the courage to go to a club and be fucked bare by multiple guys in a night. I've done it twice so far. I had a hot breeding session at the local club but when I got home I downed an extra dose of azithromycin for Chlamydia just in case I got something. My fear is that I will become that vector for transmitting whatever disease I would get from anonymous guys, and either give it to unknowing guys or my partner. I've read so far that, STDs are the common of life for barebackers, and that I'll have to deal with it. I'm not sure if I'm ready for that, and I don't like putting others, especially my partner, at risk to get an STI. How do you manage your fear of STI transmission, if any?
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So I was feeling fine until today, emotionally that is. After a huge-drunken fight where we actually broke up- and subsequently got back together, my boyfriend finally opened our relationship (and allowed me to have no internet restrictions as well). So on the first night that I was allowed to hook up with someone - I made it happen with a bottom who really wasn't that cute. A few days after what turned out to be terrible and awkward sex... I noticed some of the first symptoms. First the faint itch in my urethra, and then really painful urination. What I originally thought was chlamydia or gonorrhea, started manifesting instead as HSV2. My boyfriend was first to realize this, as his manifested in open anal sores. then we both felt the fever, back/butt/thigh/calf/foot aches, and the tingling/burning sensation in the thighs/butt/balls/dick/inner thigh. All the while, I was fine... it sucked of course and I was lamenting the shrinking of my pool of sexual partners, but i was fine. My bf went to the doctor today and got antivirals but I had yet to make an appointment (because my pain was less severe and I don't currently have a local primary care physician). Up till an hour ago, my case was the rare form of HSV2 (intraurethral) which is not visible and manifests inside the urethra. However, noticing a faint itch around my head as I went to the bathroom, I checked and small bumps are starting on my frenulum. This is when it hit me... and I just feel so bummed... Nobody on Grindr is gonna want to risk it and at 23, I feel like playtime is over before it began... I haven't been single for very long since I came out and I've never had a slut phase. I just really wanted the freedom to sleep with guys when the urge came and not worry about things... I know i'll be fine but.... ugh... my other thought, as I tried to comprehend the changes this would mean - was that other HSV2 positive guys (which statistically is high in gay men) would be fine with hooking up but the boyfriend isn't interested in even entertaining the idea for the future. But that is where my mind is at with this news--- how i will never have normal sex life again... And (I do read the stealth stories on here) but I could never do that intentionally... full disclosure is what I will be doing. I also feel like this puts friends/and people who know me off the list for future intimacy... I don't even know what I'll do If my boyfriend and I ever break up. -
I recently received oral from a poz guy who hasn't started his meds yet. While I know that it's really unlikely that you can get HIV from oral sex there is a complicating factor. I ended up getting gonorrhea from the oral, so I'm a bit nervous. I know that contracting gonorrhea could make transmission more likely. Even though I was the one receiving (we didn't do anal at all or anything else) I'm worried that if he actively had an infection in his throat/mouth that he could have possibly passed on both the gonorrhea and hiv to me. Does anybody know the likelihood of contracting HIV from a situation like this? Any input/advice would be great.
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I'm posting this one level above the PrEP subforum and the HIV risk reduction subforum, because it also implicates testing and (prompt) treatment, and highlights community-level initiatives. Please move if necessary. From the July 7, 2015 San Francisco Examiner: "New HIV infections and deaths of HIV-infected people in [san Francisco] dropped more than 17 percent from 2013 to 2014, according to the Department of Public Health. There were 302 new HIV diagnoses last year, and 177 deaths of HIV-infected people, according to the department. That's down from 371 and 209, respectively, the year before. "Since the HIV/AIDS epidemic began in the 1980s, those numbers are the lowest ever recorded [...] "The most telling statistic may be this: Since 2012, when the drug Truvada was approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration as an HIV/AIDS prevention drug, new infections have dropped by 30 percent [...] "In addition to increasing awareness and access to PreP [sic] as a prevention tool, public health officials tout the wide availability of HIV/AIDS testing and rapid access to antiretroviral treatment via UC San Francisco as key to the significant drop in new infections." www.sfexaminer.com/sf-records-all-time-low-in-hiv-infections-deaths Here are some of the unique initiatives and conditions in San Francisco that help make this possible: • Well-funded public health system, including clinics and hospital • Shame-free City Clinic offering STI testing and treatment, rapid initiation of anti-retroviral therapy in newly-diagnosed HIV patients, and counselors to help PrEP patients tap their insurance plans and Gilead's assistance programs • Pooled PCR RNA HIV viral load testing standard in public health facilities. Patients with risky exposures receive a test that tells them several weeks sooner whether they have HIV. Pooling (some blood from every patient is mixed, and only if this pool tests positive are the samples tested individually) reduces cost. • Rapid HIV antibody tests standard in public health facilities, for routine (no recent risky exposure) testing. No risk that patients will fail to return for results. • Immediate microscopy performed on urine and discharge samples, at City Clinic, when symptoms indicate an STI. No risk that patients will fail to return for antibiotics. (HIV transmission is more likely when other STIs are present.) • Provision of antibiotic "partner packs" and instructions, consistent with Centers for Disease Control guidelines, when an STI is diagnosed. Reaches sex partners who might not have access to health care. • Well-organized HIV care module and PrEP program from the largest private medical provider and insurer, Kaiser Permanente Despite all these measures, almost every day someone still gets HIV, and almost every other day, someone still dies of it, in San Francisco. If your local community lacks some of these measures, speak up! -
So I had my quarterly checkup about a week ago, and they did an anal pap smear. They said it came back abnormal, and they would need to schedule me for a exam, to essentially look in my ass. Considering the amount of sex I have had this past year its not exactly a surprise. I'm not worried about it, just curious if anyone else has had the same thing happen. My ass seems fine inside and out from what I can feel, and I haven't had any issues, so I tend to think it may just be a result of my "extracurricular" activities.
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Got this from a friend in Chicago, but long story short, the state of Illinois is going to be covering the cost of PrEP for anyone who wants it, regardless of ability to pay. http://medillreports.com/2014/12/12/illinois-preps-for-new-hiv-prevention-program/
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Just as the topic states. I'm trying to get beyond the normal, "oh you have chlamydia, and gonorrhea" stuff to see what other people have experienced. I will start. I have a friend who had to have some precancerous cells lasered off in in ass. He found it out about 6 months after he tested HIV+ at 27. The doctor says it could have been the HIV, or just normal sex that brought it on. Hence why I now get routine anal pap smears. What else you guys got.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XHuoJE6VmeU&list=TLt_rXlqLX2EuK3dQAo9XHpESJ6zOXFU3O Its long but includes Micahel Weinstein. Parts are pretty entertaining, but its also very informative. Its about 2 hours long, but you can watch in the background and listen.
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Hey guys: I want to share this here to tell my story and to get helpful feedback. After a round of routine STD testing (I go every three months), I found out that I had syphilis, chlamydia of the anus, and gonorrhea of the anus. And to be completely honest, I've felt completely unsexual since I got that call on Wed. night. Has anyone else experienced this? I'm going to explain my past, and then my present for clarification. I was diagnosed with chlamydia last year, which manifested itself via a painful anal fissure. I was put on 3-week, 2-a-day doxycycline regimen, and when the anal fissure disappeared I went back to bareback sex. I managed to stay STD- free, and everything was fine. This time, though, I feel very differently. I think I may be done with barebacking. Hearing that I simultaneously have three STDs at 26 made me feel disgusting. The eyes at the clinic for treatment seemed more judgmental; the nurse was terse when administering my treatment; I felt like every person I interacted with was disgusted by me, and I was disgusted by myself. Right after my treatments (2- pills for chlamydia, a shot in my right cheek to treat gonorrhea, and 1 (of 3) shots in my left cheek for syphilis), I went to get a bite. After eating, I got the most painful stomach pains of my entire life, and spent the rest of the evening shitting and vomiting, all while dealing with muscle aches, cold sweats, and headaches. I have to go to the clinic for the next two weeks to get follow-up syphilis treatments. I'm terrified the pain of last thursday night will re-occur the next two weeks as well. I still have an anal fissure (it reoccured due to one of the STDs I was diagnosed with), and the discharge from my anus has become increasingly more red and bloodlined, and my hole is constantly sore. I previously showed now outward signs of any of the diseases I was carrying, but now, I guess as part of the treatment process, the outward signs are appearing. My penis has visible bumps and sores on it, both the skin and the head. It's disgusting. I am tired and sore all the time, and I now realize that this is it for me. As much fun as barebacking is, this pain isn't worth it. It's not. I'm not passing judgment on anyone here, but I have reached and exceeded my threshold for pain, discomfort, embarrassment, and disgust with myself. I have loved the sex I've had, and I think how fortunate I am that I had three curable diseases. To anyone that disregards this, I understand. I'm not preaching, but I also figured this could open someone's eyes as to the real consequences of barebacking. We so often talk about HIV, but there are so many other diseases and virus. I love all of you, and I hope that this website, bareback porn, and the bareback brotherhood stays strong, however I can no longer be a part of it. Good luck boys, but I'm out! I look forward to reading responses of those who have experienced the symptoms/ treatments I've gone through, as well as the opinions that agree and disagree with me.
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Hey men: 2 guys visiting Sydney CBD for the weekend. Just FYI: both of us will be on treatment for chlamydia this weekend, one definitely poz, one possibly neg. Love to find similar minded horny guys for some bb action over the weekend, or even a social catch up too.
