Why Did You Start Barebacking?

[hungry_hole]

On 7/30/2025 at 1:31 PM, Alexpdx said:

I started bottoming again in the early 2000s, but only with condoms. I started experimenting a bit with raw sex around that time and realized it was “the way” but was still terrified (this was pre-prep).

The early 2000 and until PrEP and Meds appeared, was actually the best time to bottom bareback because most bottoms were terrified of taking anon loads. 

I decided to stop using condoms after I had joined a Bareback Yahoo group and was stealth at the sauna. A guy started fucking me in my room wearing a condom, but he managed to take it off. Before leaving my room, he said: "I left a present for you". I understood when I felt his cum leaking out of my hole. I knew something felt different but I never stopped the guy from fucking. 

At the local sauna I was known to bottom bareback, in the days when saunas were the sure place for anon action.

Some would ask me for my phone number and they became even long-term fuck buddies. In gay.com I would advertise as bottom bareback and met many guys who would stop by my place to unload in a hole. 

I remember one night at the local sauna I took 12 loads when three of those were from one guy. I was probably the only hole willing to take loads. That one guy stopped by my room, fucked me and unloaded 3 times. I still remember that. 

I re-started barebacking because I became tired of condoms and had an experience of stealthing that made me want to take anon loads.

[Rawonly06]

Most of my sexual life was bareback with a four or five years safe (but not completely safe) period while AIDS was at its maximum. Then condoms were not natural for me and i quickly came back to unsafe, anon, random sex.

 

[xxbjn2]

After playing with a regular FB, he teased my hole until I caved, I was trying so hard to be good and responsible, but the feeling was just so so good.  Each time we fucked after that it was raw, and then it moved onto being bred.  Other hook ups were a bit of a tease before wrapping up, until it moved onto zero sorting and eventually giving in more and more.  I was taking risk after risk and then Prep became available. If prep hadn't come along, I'd probably be poz now. Once you start going raw, you can't stop and NOTHING is better than having guys breed my hole.

[Sebi23]

Why?  Using condoms you lose sensation.  Condomless sex is only natural, whether you’re gay or straight.  I want that intimacy depending whom I’m with or if I just want a pump and dump, that’s okay too.  When the top gets that primal urge to bury his seed deep into me, violating me, owning my ass.  As a bottom, knowing  that I'm pleasuring his most sensitive and treasured body part while his cum is dripping down my legs. 

[bbslutdanny]

It feels good, and love feeling like a dirty slut after I get bred raw by a stranger I don't even know. 

[Cleanfaggot]

First time used a condom and worst fucking ever and i never wanted that feeling again and then later after coming to the understanding that am a faggot whore bottom for cocks and have no choice to fulfill my destiny to be a good and proper faggot whore bottom for any and all cocks and job and duty to take raw cock in and up my holes and receive breeding cum inside them and be proud they bred me and accept whatever comes of their breeding a piece of faggot bottom meat.... 

[Timbo4]

I was straight and decided to give gay anal ago as a dare to myself. The guy I met fucked me raw and totally changed my view on gay sex.

He also said that now I'd been breed there was no going back. So fucking true. I can't stand safe sex. His DNA altered my wiring. It's stronger than drug addiction. I now hunger for guys to inject their loads into me.

[meetme]

Older men should answer the question as, When did you start barebacking again.  When I discovered sex with men, condoms prevented pregnancy, so who needs them? Sliding into the 80’s condoms prevented AIDS, so there was a conflict, because the sex was terrible. Eventually, I tested positive, and took my meds regularly, and then embracing barebacking meant no more fear. I know I love raw sex with men and if you have to wear a condom, I don’t want to be with you.

[scarnick]

I started barebacking to make getting fucked have the purpose of getting knocked up

[chgobbottom]

I've always been into risk taking and bb is definitely in that column. It's also about taking the load inside of me. It's a part of his DNA that is now part of me. What's the point if it isn't in my hole. 

[haggiss]

Mu first hookup through m4m, I spontaneously decided to  be bb only because I'd seen that in some ads. As I nearly exploded when he pulled me all the way back on his cock, I decided the decision was good. 

[Guest Closeted Jock]

My first encounter with another guy was during a school trip, no mention of protection were made. After feeling that first raw cock in me, I wanted every cock after that to be bare as well.

[ftm-fuckmeat]

For me it was always an attraction, but something I'd only do in a relationship when I was younger. Back then I was terrified of catching something.

After coming to terms with the sleazy side of my sexuality (not just with the 'polite' aspects of being queer), I'm now leaning into my desires strongly enough that the cost (chance of std) is far outweighed by benefits.... I no longer do anything but bb if I can help it. If a prospective hookup on Grindr etc. says they want to use condoms, there's just no point hooking up. It's different at glory holes or adult theaters cause I have less control over whether the top wears one then. But I never request one and never ask questions.

The most important reason to BB is providing more pleasure for tops, I am eager to please. The second most important is getting full of cum. I don't clean it out after, preferring to keep it in as long as possible. Being cum inside is really the point of sex for me, being fucked feels great but if I had to choose only one out of being fucked and getting loads, I'd take the loads in a heartbeat.

Being a trans guy and having an intact front hole, I also get off for some reason on the risk of getting knocked up. HRT makes it less likely but not impossible, and I prefer taking that risk over using birth control.

Ultimately getting loads makes me feel like I am being marked, owned, like the other person's seed is getting to do things to me that I cannot control, and that is a huge rush for a sub whore like me.

[superstard72]

It's was a dare to go bare and don't be scared to go bare.  I did it bare with anonymous guy at a party.  Me and my three boys went and bang bare with different guys.  Do care what they got. No regrets from all of us.  I hit bareback parties all the time.  

[Slutifly]

The first time I got fucked, it was bareback, and it's set in my mind that that should be the only way. I feel more connected with my sex partners when the cock enters my hole without anything else between the skin, and it just feels so exciting when I know the cock leaves some bodily liquid in me. It's just hot! 💦🐷😈