Why Did You Start Barebacking?

[Guest bbbearlover1]

October 2006 was the first time I fucked anyone raw (my ex).  We'd been playing safe, and I admit that I didn't enjoy it at all, from the very beginning.  One early morning, we were spooning and just waking up, and, without thinking, I just pushed into his pussy.  I realized what I was doing, and stopped with apologies.  My ex didn't say a word.  He just took my dick, and he put it right back into his pussy.  I unloaded into him twice that morning.  We both talked about how cheated we felt, in terms of how raw sex felt in comparison with condom sex.  It was then that I decided that I wouldn't put on another condom, and that I would be open about fucking raw.  I had no problem with getting tested regularly, and I had no problem with fucking neg or poz guys (and I am still neg interestingly enough).  I didn't look back, and I don't regret my decision.

 

And I have zero interest in porn with condoms, just as I have little interest in porn where the top pulls out to show a cumshot.  THAT is a fucking waste, because those male pussies should be bred properly every time.

[NordicBtm]

I absolutely love bb so much more than with condoms, though condoms can be ok if they do not slide around AT ALL (I really hate the sensation of condom friction as a bottom... you know what I'm talking about). I'm wondering though how you guys on PrEP who are now actively taking more loads manage other STDs. Are you picking up a lot of other stuff that you need to get rid of regularly?

[ancusp89]

I've never been fucked with a condom, from my teen years on, my goal has always been getting cum in my ass, from the late 70's when I got my first load.

 

So to answer the question, I started for the cum and the pleasure of barebacking was an added bonus.

[FJLinNYC]

I've been having sex since the late 80's.  My high school boyfriend (though we didn't call each other that), we never used them or even talked about it and we both fucked each other  I started using condoms in college, but I topped more and if I had the chance to fuck raw topping, I did.  As I got older and as the medications came out and got better, my condom used declined.  My husband is poz on meds, been together 16 years, never used condoms.  

 

By the time the sex club The Slammer in LA opened up I was mostly bareback topping, if someone wanted me to fuck them with a condom on, I would loose my hard on.  And slowly but surely my condom use the times bottoming started declining.  Now I am on Prep, I am strictly bareback.  Even on my profile on bbrt and adam4adam say it, on prep no condoms period.  There was nothing more freeing the first time I took a man's cum inside me and just not even think about it.  For me, I haven't had that since high school.  

 

Prep really works for me.  I am still neg and now get tested regularly, so I actually feel healthier.  Call the insurance and they will tell you right away if any information is shared.   Gilead will rebate your co-pay up to $300 a month.

[fuckyouraw777]

Unless the bottom's ridiculously hot, I fairly much go limp in a condom. If guys want me to fuck them, then they either take me raw or have me use a toy (which I find a turnoff - each to their own).

[seaguy]

Bottoming condoms and their friction rub me raw (not in a good way) so I can't bottom as long.

 

And like someone said putting a condom on a cock basically turns it into a dildo.  I always prefer the real thing.

[spitjack]

If the top wore a condom he couldn't pump his cum in my ass.

[Guest Boxir55]

Condoms are ok if you use a good bit of lube. I sometimes use them if the guys a bit rough and he's defo not the one I want to get the bug from.

I started barebacking about ten years ago just on a whim, he wasn't really hot at all, he was tight and I enjoyed the feeling even though it ended up a bit messy, I carried on doing it.

[hungry_hole]

My first time was bareback right when the AIDS crisis had started. Then everyone started wearing condoms.

 

Maybe about 20 years ago a guy was fucking from behind with a condom, he stopped, then he fucked me again at which time I noticed it felt better, but wasn't aware that it was bareback. When he pulled out he quickly took care of the condom for me not to see it, and whispered in my ear: "I left you a present" and he left the room. I touched my hole and go so turned on when I felt it leaking with his cum. I never again wore a condom.

[tallbtm]

My first time was bareback right when the AIDS crisis had started. Then everyone started wearing condoms.

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I started fucking with guys just before the AIDS crisis and I remember thinking, "Oh thank god I'm gay! I'll never have to mess with condoms (to prevent pregnancy) again."  Then all the safe sex messages started and I got scared became a total condom Nazi.

 

Those early years were frightening and left their mark on me. I lost best friends and a boyfriend. That can really affect you.

 

As the years wore on and HIV treatments got better the safe-sex messages wore off and I tentatively started going bare sometimes. Then more often.  I also noticed that fewer guys were insisting on condoms for casual hookups.

 

Now that PrEP exists (and that I'm on it) I really avoid condoms. I don't like them in me, or on me.  Bare -- as anyone who's ever had sex without a condom knows -- feels better, is more intimate and is uninterrupted by nagging thoughts about why you're putting the damn condom on in the first place.

[cumslut23]

I started bb, then went to safe sex for 3 yrs because I was scared of hiv. Hated it. Now a happy cumslut

[Jackmaster425]

I was bred at a young age and ever since that first breeding I loved it and condoms are such a waste when guys fuck me no load ever refused

[sinfuljock]

At a small pool party. Guy started slipping in bare and I went with it...then got fucked by the other guys there bare after. Haven't used a condom since.

[Bttm2go]

I go limp with a condom. So as a top I have fucked bareback since I was a teen. As a bottome I started barebacking about 15 years ago. I just like the feel of a raw cock in my hole. And feeling a load inside is the best gift.

[Guest]

Was screwing a seriously hot sub, rubber on. Mid way through, he turned around, grabbed my dick before I could thrust it back in, yanked off the rubber, and shoved it back in.

 

I came a couple of minutes later, and he scooped the cum out of his butt and fed it to me. I was addicted from then on.