Do you continue to have sex while being treated for an STI?

[phukhole]

Never.  

[Faggotuser]

  On 11/29/2021 at 1:22 PM, Bimarried001 said:

I hear what you are saying. But the reality is this. If you get fucked raw you are putting yourself at risk. I do not know how promiscuous you are but the more men that fuck you raw the more your risk increases. And I’m sorry, it’s your responsibility to protect yourself. 
A guy can think he’s clean but not be. I get fucked by random anon guys all the time so it’s my responsibility to protect myself or to accept the risk. I cannot rely on those random men to be Boy Scouts. Besides, the could’ve been tested 5 days before but fucked 2 other guys before he fucked me.
Bottom line, if you fuck raw you accept the risks.  

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So true. Worrying about STDs and HIV and random bugs is great for normal gays but for cumdumpster faggots like you and @T-Girl-Cumdumpster who take anonymous loads on a regular basis, the reality is you’re going to be getting pumped full of bugs on a regular basis. Being a trashy community cumdumpster means accepting your status as a diseased whore. Anyone who fucks some faggot who’s trashy and slutty enough to take loads from multiple anonymous strangers has to know we are likely sticking our bare cocks into a polluted cesspool of STD. Anytime you fuck a take all loads cumdump or even a strictly professional whore, there’s a good chance that slut is dirty. That’s how I like em.

[BootmanLA]

  On 11/30/2021 at 4:41 PM, beefyinkedguy said:

with all due respect (i mean this honestly, i'm not trying to be a troll), but how is this different that guys with "don't ask, don't tell" in their profiles?

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The difference is that with HIV (ie "don't ask, don't tell") there is a course of action one can take (PrEP) that prevents infection if one is exposed by someone who is infected.

There is no such preventative medication one can take for gonorrhea, or syphilis, or any number of other STI's, hence partners are much more reliant on people being forthcoming about known risks.

And that's the important part: we're talking about KNOWN risks - people who KNOW they have an STI, have had it diagnosed, and who continue to have sex without disclosing that information. Some people seem to find nothing wrong with that course of action. They are assholes.

[DarkroomTaker]

  On 11/30/2021 at 6:59 PM, BootmanLA said:

The difference is that with HIV (ie "don't ask, don't tell") there is a course of action one can take (PrEP) that prevents infection if one is exposed by someone who is infected.

There is no such preventative medication one can take for gonorrhea, or syphilis, or any number of other STI's, hence partners are much more reliant on people being forthcoming about known risks.

And that's the important part: we're talking about KNOWN risks - people who KNOW they have an STI, have had it diagnosed, and who continue to have sex without disclosing that information. Some people seem to find nothing wrong with that course of action. They are assholes.

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Thank you BootmanLA. Fully agree.

[LoadHunter612]

  On 11/30/2021 at 6:59 PM, BootmanLA said:

Some people seem to find nothing wrong with that course of action. They are assholes.

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agreed - thanks for the respectful response.  i'm fully expecting to get shredded for my genuine question. LOL

[Fillitup57]

I do not and would not have sex with anyone if I knew I had a STD.   I would get treatment and wait the recommended time before having sex.   There are several reasons- why be such  a selfish asshole to inflict another person with an STD.  They then may inflect it on someone else.   It is hard for me to believe that someone would do that-  why I ask.  Another reason is that I have been inflected with a STD and did not know it.  I woke up one morning and had problems in seeing out of one eye.  I called my eye doctor and went in to see him that morning.  He had great problems in dilating the eye.  He then called a retinal specialist and the specialist want to see me right away.  I went right over and he checked out my eye.  He then set up blood tests for me and said to do it right away and I did.  It turned out I had a STD and that was the cause of not being able to see out of that eye.  I had a pic inserted and had to carry around a bad of penicillin and a pump for three weeks.  In the end it cleared up but if it had not been for that doctor I would have gone blind in that one eye.  Is this something you want to do someone, do you want someone to do it to you.  I hope not.  Be responsible. 

[raw773]

  On 11/30/2021 at 4:41 PM, beefyinkedguy said:

with all due respect (i mean this honestly, i'm not trying to be a troll), but how is this different that guys with "don't ask, don't tell" in their profiles?

i do believe wholehearteldy that we need to accept a certain amount of risk when playing raw with strangers, but the whole concept of "don't ask don't tell" is remarkably (to my reading) similar to intentionally spreading other STI's.

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Happy to answer although I don't know why I'm the authority on this. 🙂

I mean I guess I see a spectrum here. From most "innocent" to most "guilty" (put your own labels on the end of the spectrum, I don't care about the names):

• I'm a 17-year-old farm boy from Iowa and I never heard of STIs. I know nothing, so I am not culpable, because I'm clueless.
• I test every 3 months and I do my level best to affirmatively disclose whenever I know something.
• I think I'm "clean..." and I get tested whenever the doc tells me to. I'm following all medical advice but I'm not really being aggressive or diligent in my test strategy. I don't have anything to disclose.
• I "don't ask / don't tell" about this because the risk is oh-so-horrifying. I'll hope 'n' pray. (I see as this like driving a car with the hood up and just hoping I don't hit someone.)
• I "don't ask / don't tell" about this because I have pretty good hunches I'm carrying bugs. [your scenario, maybe?] (I see this as more like driving knowing I'm drunk -- and dangerous.)
• I knew I had a bug, and I purposely injected it into somebody else who presumably would really have liked to have known. [my former friend]

Sure, we all have to accept risk, and when we've got our asses up for loads, we're running a risk. But do we have to be completely reckless about it? Don't we also: 1) have to be honest about facts that most people would like to know? 2) need to disclose if we have herpes, HIV, syph, or anything else that people need to know to make an informed choice? 3) have to take care of our brothers out there in this gay world?

What was so infuriating about my former friend is he got it bad -- he had green jizz coming out -- and he knowingly fucked a guy specifically to spread it. I said, "You got to tell him what you did. Who knows how many more cases he will spread to the next guy, and then from him to the next guy, and so on, till somebody figures it out? You have potentially caused so much untold misery, when we could all just be fucking happily, even if that means you need to get out of the pool till you're cured."

His response was like some of the assholes on this board: "Whatever he got, that's on him, and he should have asked, and he should know better."

I just don't think that's ethical. And honestly I don't understand those on here who think it is up for debate.

P.S. I'm almost completely of the mind now that there's no special "bathhouse rule" either. I used to go along with those who say, "Any raw player in a bathhouse must know the risks and therefore is accepting any possible outcome." Not sure I buy that any more. And yeah, if that means you can't top a guy wordlessly in the dark . . . I'm starting to think that's just too bad. Deal with it. Be a man and disclose.

[LoadHunter612]

  On 11/30/2021 at 8:58 PM, raw773 said:

Happy to answer although I don't know why I'm the authority on this. 🙂

 

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not sure your the authority (is anyone?) - just popped into my head as i was reading your response.

 

[Hairypiglet]

  On 11/29/2021 at 8:45 PM, DarkroomTaker said:

Selfish, You know I need to put you on block. You are such a selfish person who is let loose in the community spreading knowingly your STIs. It not about Judging its about being socially Responsible with good morals, obviously you dont have these.

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Says the person who doesn't even list their status. 

[Hairypiglet]

HIV is an STI, so this question is phrased terribly ignorantly since many of us can answer yes, despite being undetectable/untransmittable. Language is important.

 

Moderators, please just stop this thread.

[DarkroomTaker]

  On 12/1/2021 at 6:08 AM, Hairypiglet said:

Says the person who doesn't even list their status. 

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I am so sorry, do you wish me to share with the world? Tbh, It was not put on for any reason. I just had no thoughts about it.

Would it make a difference if I was to list it for you?

I am transparent if people wanted this information, send me a message to ask me.

You seem a tad miffed, my apologies for offending you by not listing my status.

 

[Hairypiglet]

@drscorpio

Please just turn off comments. This thread was not phrased respectfully and is devolving from its point.

[ErosWired]

  On 12/1/2021 at 12:34 PM, Hairypiglet said:

Please just turn off comments. This thread was not phrased respectfully and is devolving from its point.

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That’s not how moderation works here. The moderators remove offending posts and give infractions to posters who they (not you) judge to be out of line. They don’t silence entire conversations as a rule. This particular thread is discussing an issue of significant importance and impact to the health of the members of the site, and, while opinions are justifiably strong, has been on the whole civil.

[T-Girl-Cumdumpster]

  On 11/30/2021 at 6:00 PM, Faggotuser said:

So true. Worrying about STDs and HIV and random bugs is great for normal gays but for cumdumpster faggots like you and @T-Girl-Cumdumpster who take anonymous loads on a regular basis, the reality is you’re going to be getting pumped full of bugs on a regular basis. Being a trashy community cumdumpster means accepting your status as a diseased whore. Anyone who fucks some faggot who’s trashy and slutty enough to take loads from multiple anonymous strangers has to know we are likely sticking our bare cocks into a polluted cesspool of STD. Anytime you fuck a take all loads cumdump or even a strictly professional whore, there’s a good chance that slut is dirty. That’s how I like em.

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so true daddy! I am usually loaded with various bugs as I am taking multiple dirty loads on a daily basis. fucking a whore like me is a risk if you wanna stay clean

[Faggotuser]

  On 12/2/2021 at 7:39 AM, T-Girl-Cumdumpster said:

so true daddy! I am usually loaded with various bugs as I am taking multiple dirty loads on a daily basis. fucking a whore like me is a risk if you wanna stay clean

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Fuck I love you babygirl. You are such a dirty, disease riddled faggot and a transexual hooker with full blown AIDS that sucking your own fathers cock might be the most normal thing you do. Literally thousands of men have dumped STD loaded jizz in your pussy. You probably have several bugs at any time.