Your experience with Asian Tops

[Guest]

I'm a total cum-slut for Asian guys - especially for young & fit Japanese tops.

Whenever I see a hot Japanese (or other Asian) guy, I instantly feel the urge to get on my knees and serve them.

I love their thick cum-loads, their delicious dicks and the way Japanese/Asian tops fuck.

I'm originally from Germany, but I'm now living in Japan. I can remember that even when I was quite young (10), I was attracted to sexy Asian guys whenever I saw them on the street or on tv. Back then I didn't understand all those feelings yet but since my teenage years at the latest, the phantasy of a hot Asian top dominating a white bottom was my go to phantasy when jerking off.

Today it's guys like Tyler Wu or Ray Dexter (and a lot of Japanese porn actors) for example that make me extremely horny.

They fuck with passion and they know how to dominate in a subtle but extremely manly way. They know what they want and they get it.

It's their special aura of manliness, authority and dominance that I don't find in other guys.

I'd like to hear if any of you guys feel the same way about Asian (top) guys and if you want to share some of your experiences.

[BB4fking]

I find I get it on mainly with Asian guys whether at home, in Asia or elsewhere. For most of my life it’s been an attraction I was unaware of and, as now, I also sought out guys of any and all ethnicities and skin colours. However, with the advent of the apps and their categories I have become a bit more aware of the fact that the guys I’m fucking, and the guys fucking me, are Asian. Thinking about it I’ve fucked with guys from East Asia (Japan, Korea, China, Hong Kong, Macau), South Asia (India, though mainly from Fiji) and particularly SE Asia (Thailand, Singapore, Indonesia, Hong Kong, Vietnam, Philippines). I’m a little wary of generalising because there’s such diversity and most characteristics, like any group of people, are down to the individual, but I’ll offer a few impressions.

Many Asians tend to be smooth skinned and hairless in places. This is something that I find attractive though I also love coming across a hairy chest. But it’s by no means true of all Asian ethnicities or individuals. Indians for example are often extremely hairy and can be very sexy along with it.

On balance I think Asians tend to have smaller cocks, especially Japanese, although you have more experience there and can correct me. While I love a big cock this is no big deal for me and works to my advantage sometimes as they may be attracted to my thick cock (although on at least 2 or 3 occasions in last couple of years I’ve had Asian guys say explicitly that they won’t let me fuck them as I’m too big and I’ve never had that from non-Asian guys). This generalisation about cock size is not universal for Asians, in my experience Chinese cocks are no smaller than European and can be very large.

I find Asians can be very sensual and gentle lovers and indeed a Muslim Indonesian fuck buddy of mine is one of the kindest and hottest tops I can think of. On the other hand, I’ve had many very forceful hard fucking Asian tops as well. In this respect I should add that I’ve found Asian tops and bottoms to be very flexible in their bodies and there are certain sexual positions that I associate with Asians more than others. I’m definitely a fan of Asian sex.

[Luxbrit]

Now if the world is lacking anything it’s Asian tops, well at least in the UK anyway :((

[NHeat]

Lost my anal virginity to a nice uncut Asian cock.

[backdoorjimmy]

One of my best lays ever was with an Asian guy who knew how to use his dick. He was so confident and so skilled that his dick size wasn't a factor at all. He satisfied me quite easily and made me wish I'd gotten his number.

[ErosWired]

Men of Asian ethnicity are not particularly common in my neck of the woods, and I haven’t been fucked by many. Those who have had me have mostly been men who have found me in my room at the bathhouse in Indianapolis. (Incidentally, I presume the discussion refers to men of East Asian extraction, as opposed to, say, India or Pakistan; Asia’s a big place.) Those who have used me have almost all been older - I only recall one younger man - and in most cases there was a moderate to significant language barrier that made catering to their individual tastes a bit more challenging as I had fewer verbal cues to work from.

On the whole they struck me as rather self-oriented, using me very directly for their own pleasuring with very little attempt to give pleasure - this was fine with me, of course, as my own physical pleasure is not my goal, but I did tend to end those sessions feeling a little more like an object than usual.

Now, my experiences with Asians have been so few that there isn’t a large enough set of experiential data to draw any sort of conclusion at all about Asian men as a sexual class - I may have just had a run of unusual samples. My mind (and ass) remains very receptive on the subject. A few years ago I corresponded briefly with a Japanese man on the West Coast who did absolutely gorgeous work putting men in shibari bondage - I would have gotten naked for him before he could finish saying konichiwa.

[Spunkinmyarse]

There’s an east Asian top who is a regular at SBN in London (a weekly sex party). He gives me his load whenever I go. He has a lovely dick, average in size, but hard as a rock. He is an incredible fucker: vigorous, focused and always enthusiastic.

But I don’t think any of that has anything to do with his ethnicity. He’s just a good top.

[Pigforcum]

I've sucked a couple of Asian lads off at a sauna I go to

[blackrobe]

Some great past breeders have been Asian and Pacific Islanders and South Asian. 

I think that's just a function of population statistics rather than any specific choice. I have had great experiences with Vietnamese and Filipino men who have been piggy, kinky, and passionate. I like strong looking and obviously sexually mature men, so if they are furry, older, and with facial and body hair I'm going to be paying attention. 

To the OP's point, I've always found strong, furry, and tattooed Japanese men very sexy.  

 

 

[NWUSHorny]

I've been hooking up with a wide variety of Asian guys since college over 30 years ago. A lot of the east Asian do tend to be smaller statured individuals, Japanese guys are the exception to that or at least a lot of the Japanese men I've hooked up with have been 6+ foot tall. I have not found that they are any less likely to be into topping than any other group stereotypes aside. I have bottomed and flipped with a significant percentage of them. I am a big guy by pretty much every measure, and often have trouble finding smaller guys that are willing to defy the top/bottom  stereotype, even if they are versatile, to top me is often difficult, I have generally found that is less true among smaller Asian guys than any other group.

[Webster9]

His name was Kyle.  He was half Vietnamese and half Chinese.  I think we found each other on CL.  I was looking for PNP.  He was looking for ass.  I never thought of Asians as being my type, but he really changed my mind.  

[NastyRawBottom]

I love Asian Tops. 🥰 Well, I love all Tops really. But honestly, I feel like they all get unfairly stereotyped as sub bottoms, at least in Western Adult Media. A lot of porn presents them as so because people are accustomed to that set up and it gets more views(similar to the ‘BBC’ trope). That may manifest in real life as I agree the Top/bottom ratio in Asian Men seems way off. Although, the Asian Tops I’ve met have extremely kinky and into a lot. I wish there were more like them, as I love [banned word], pervy dudes. 😍

[versasslover]

I do too. My first was Chinese. Both versatile. I’m 6’4 and he was like 5’6/7. Became a fb for a while and still text with him. He’s back in HK now. 

[Guest]

On 9/29/2022 at 7:26 AM, NHeat said:

Lost my anal virginity to a nice uncut Asian cock.

I totally envy you. 😍

At what age was that and how did you meet him?

[Guest]

On 9/29/2022 at 8:32 AM, backdoorjimmy said:

One of my best lays ever was with an Asian guy who knew how to use his dick. He was so confident and so skilled that his dick size wasn't a factor at all. He satisfied me quite easily and made me wish I'd gotten his number.

That sounds amazing.

Do you remember where he was from?