Give Verbal Or Stay Quiet When Being Fucked?

[VersGuyAnon]

Sometimes, when I'm being fucked (bareback of course) in the sauna darkroom or backed onto a glory hole, I'll beg the guy to load me up/fill me with cum, etc. At other times I'll wonder if I should just stay quiet (apart from the occasional moan), because I know not everyone is into verbal. 

If you're topping, what do you prefer? If you're bottom, what do you tend to do?  

Edited February 1, 2023 by VersGuyAnon

[FallenLad]

When I'm being fucked I nearly always beg to be bred. Find myself asking to be "knocked up" as well lately which plays into another kink.

Don't think I've met a top who minded the dirty talk.

[Bottom Jim]

I tend to ask for every last drop of cum I ask for the top to cum in my ass I think it helps some tops I also grab there hips sometimes so when close they cannot pull out

[inmyass262]

I definitely beg for my top’s load. I also talk to my tops like they have the worlds greatest cock and they are fucking me better than anyone ever has. Doesn’t matter if it’s true or not I want my top to feel good.

[LetsPOZBreed]

I let the top dictate whether or not verbal is okay...I won't start it off for sure; find that it does put some guys off.  Verbal is one of those things that's very tenuous...say one wrong thing, and it just kills the whole mood; I'd say it's better to not get into that until the session reaches a certain level of intensity first.

I also don't like to do (or say) anything to put my top under any pressure to "perform".  In my younger days, if I was begging for my tops load before it was obvious he was close, I'd notice that suddenly it's the one thing they think about...any top can tell you that thinking too much about cumming is one of the easiest ways to not cum.  Been a while since I've been to the sauna, but when I would go regularly, if I'd see my top thinking too much about it, I actually encourage him to relax and say how good the fuck is - take his mind off of it, and just let him enjoy the ride.

[VersGuyAnon]

8 hours ago, LetsPOZBreed said:

I let the top dictate whether or not verbal is okay...I won't start it off for sure; find that it does put some guys off.  Verbal is one of those things that's very tenuous...say one wrong thing, and it just kills the whole mood; I'd say it's better to not get into that until the session reaches a certain level of intensity first.

I also don't like to do (or say) anything to put my top under any pressure to "perform".  In my younger days, if I was begging for my tops load before it was obvious he was close, I'd notice that suddenly it's the one thing they think about...any top can tell you that thinking too much about cumming is one of the easiest ways to not cum.  Been a while since I've been to the sauna, but when I would go regularly, if I'd see my top thinking too much about it, I actually encourage him to relax and say how good the fuck is - take his mind off of it, and just let him enjoy the ride.

All great points. 

[Pozguyinchi]

I used to be with a man that wanted me to be vocal while getting bred. It actually comes natural for me so it’s not a problem. I can control it though  and bring it down to a slight whimper when needed. I let the man dictate how much volume comes out of me though. In the past when we would visit my parents my man would breed me and want me to be loud. I was uncomfortable with that because I didn’t want my family hearing. He did. He wanted everyone to know my pussy belonged to him. It made  breakfasts with the family awkward. 

[URS2USE]

When being fucked, i am a very verbal bottom...begging for it deeper, harder, faster!  If the Top doesn't care for it, he usually slaps my ass hard and tells me to be quiet or shoves his stinky, sweaty jock into my mouth or puts his hands around my throat and squeezes hard, cutting off my breathing...sometimes ALL THREE!!

[PozTalkAuthor]

Verbal! Always! And I let you guess how!!!

[Guest]

i find some dom guys will guide the chatting and moaning while fucking.....i tend to lean to gives him max pleasure, my general silence and breathing or telling how it feels when he asks.......but only when he asks

[tallslenderguy]

To me, verbal, or any sounds that come out of me, are a response to the Man i am with, not the other way around.  

i sucked a Mans cock about a week ago, and He was incessant with verbal.   i have experienced incessant verbal with a Top before, and it was one of the most profound connections i have ever had, but with this Guy, it was interfering with the connection. The difference?  The Man i connected with was real, all His verbal was a real expression of what He was feeling and experiencing, the one who disconnected was trying to hard, he was doing what he thought would be hot, effective, but it was contrived vs a real expression of where he was at, what he was feeling. 

i think verbal or sounds that we make, are tools to communicate, not to imitate some porn scene or some imagined event we want vs the one we are currently experiencing. 

As an aside, sometimes the words that come out are nonsensical, especially if the sex connection is really good, brain gets overloaded and what comes out of the mouth is word salad lol. 

i think imitation begging from a bottom, or imitation instruction from a Top, are both obnoxious and counter productive. But when they are expressions of what One/one is truly feeling and experiencing at the time, i think it is part of the fuck and connection and i'm glad when it's expressed.

[bihairy]

15 hours ago, VersGuyAnon said:

Sometimes, when I'm being fucked (bareback of course) in the sauna darkroom or backed onto a glory hole, I'll beg the guy to load me up/fill me with cum, etc. At other times I'll wonder if I should just stay quiet (apart from the occasional moan), because I know not everyone is into verbal. 

If you're topping, what do you prefer? If you're bottom, what do you tend to do?  

Top here

for me I like some moaning and groaning. Some dirty talk is fine. Asking for my load is fine. But when a guy begs for my load too much (like when I first start fucking) it’s a turn off. I’m going shoot when I’m ready, not when he wants it! And if he is lucky I’ll shoot a couple 3 inside before I’m done!

[bihairy]

1 hour ago, Pozguyinchi said:

I used to be with a man that wanted me to be vocal while getting bred. It actually comes natural for me so it’s not a problem. I can control it though  and bring it down to a slight whimper when needed. I let the man dictate how much volume comes out of me though. In the past when we would visit my parents my man would breed me and want me to be loud. I was uncomfortable with that because I didn’t want my family hearing. He did. He wanted everyone to know my pussy belonged to him. It made  breakfasts with the family awkward. 

I was fucking my bud and we got a bit carried away. People started banging on the walls of the hotel room. “We can hear you” we heard from the people next door.  After we finished we snuck out and down the back stairs. Lol

[hntnhole]

When it's contrived, fuck sounds are off-putting.  When they're elicited by the "connection", the mating, the conjoining of men that need what the other offers, 1) merely the Cock rutting in the Hole, or 2) a deeper "mating" of two men of awareness, the bottom's "music" can rival Mozart himself.  

In the backrooms/fuckjoints, there are always grunts, groans of pure, Lustful pleasure, and (depending on the Top's skills), some bottoms can almost start speaking in tongues - but definitely not in the babbling usually associated with that ridiculous contrivance.  

So, hell yeah ... adding the aural component to a hot Breeding is always welcome, as long as it's genuine.  We more experienced Tops can always tell if it's real or a phony contrivance. 

Edited February 2, 2023 by hntnhole

[tighthole64]

At a bath you are simply a hole to fill.  I've never heard anyone be verbal in a public area of a bath.

Now at home in a bed, totally different.   Yes you are still a hole, but more likely to get the load.  Way too many at baths just want to edge in your ass and not breed it seems.