advice What Advice Do You Wish You Could Give Your Younger Self? 😀

[SlampaBay]

If tell my younger self that you'll never be cuter... or dumber. Keep your mouth shut* and mind open.

 

*Except for cock.

[sybercom11]

I wish I could have gotten on estrogen sooner and had sex reassignment surgery.  Even if that did not happen I wish I still could have been a man's submissive wife while being transgender. A wife who worshipped his cock at all times.

[Feelunme]

I’d tell myself to save money earlier.  Then never be ashamed of sex. Be adventurous and take more risks. I too was afraid of party drugs until I was older and had then time of my life. Maybe it’s wise to do them older as I could handle them better. Who knows. I most definitely would not wear those awful condoms. They ruined sex for me. The fear, so much fear about having sex. Maybe I’d be dead as hiv is real but I wasn’t living any way. Keep making friends and work harder at keeping them  

[RawLeather]

I would tell my younger self to go harder on being a cum dump and FFistee.  I regret nothing in terms of what I am today. Just wish I would of done it sooner 

[hungry_hole]

On 9/5/2023 at 7:03 PM, drm1234 said:

 'You're way more attractive than you think.' 

It's true, especially when men are young, and they don't appreciate their own beauty.  Sort of "Youth is wasted on the young".

[Baralvr26]

I relate to a lot of the previous posts. I wished I came out earlier and stopped repressing my feelings. Just into my adulthood I've started gaining back my confidence and outgoing nature that was lost since 2012.

Also, don't trust the first ex...he never wanted you, just wanted to toy with your feelings.

It's fine to explore the world of kink and yes older men tend to fuck better.

Also take the chance to suck all the dicks that your straight friends whipped out in front of you haha.

Don't attend college without actually choosing a major, and don't take the 2 year break that extended your time by a ton💀.

Don't go on Grindr in your city, too many flakes, the bathhouse is a lot more fun and more comfortable than a stranger's cramped Nissan Sentra!

[Throattopman]

Anon sex is what you're born for and entitled to. Don't listen to the love and marriage types who want to constrain you to heteronormativity.  Stick your cock where it feels good and don't feel like it's "less than."

[ffoz]

I'd say, to my younger self, take the loads that were offered at school...and get into fisting at that younger age...OINK

Edited Friday at 08:21 AM by ffoz
Corrections.

[norefusal]

this is going to sound shallow but the older i get the more i realize deep meaning is for those who don't mind being left out of things. 

my single regret is that i was lazy and didn't put the work in to be all buff. not that im complaining but if i was fit so many other things would have fallen into place, including greater self esteem. but as someone who yo-yo ed a bit i can tell you i did a lot better when thinner, not just more sex but actual love connections. yes, people really are that shallow and if id spent more time being a silly muscle queen and less time looking my nose down on those who were id probably have had a better life. 

[DNG999]

Follow your heart and sexual urges. Don’t follow perceived convention. I knew I was Bi with a stronger leaning to guys. But I went the other way. Wish I had the nerve and conviction to do what was right for me. Instead I’m in a shitty complicated situation. 

[hntnhole]

This is from my undergrad days, where I worked in the dishroom of one of the dining halls:  

It would be, go ahead and fuck that hotassed kid from LaGrange .... he wanted it - told me so, but I didn't take him up on it, dammittall. 

Stupid kid.  

[NWUSHorny]

Don't wait until you are 20 to explore the gay side of your bisexuality, and don't try to stay in a monogamous relationship with either sex, you won't be happy.

[TaKinGDeePanal]

When you're offered a place on an Australian/US student exchange program when you're 15, take it, especially as all the US families were on the East Coast, with most of them being in NYC.

When you're told "you have nice eyes" by the school's hottest girl when you're 17, take her under the school bleachers and fuck her.

Don't turn down something "that will change your mind" when you're 22.

Edited 7 hours ago by TaKinGDeePanal

[ffabbian]

Having an open dialogue with my parents and allowing my psychiatrist to have my parents  to be with me in our sessions. 

I was out when  I was 16 and had a 24 year old bf that fucked me  bareback relentlessly with his  huge  cock.  I was his cumdump pig, gangbanged and ff. I didn't know how good I had it and wanted more . We broke up four years later  but other guys didn't compare so we still fucked a lot for over a year. It got extremely toxic and he became obsessed, jealous and dangerous. I take responsibility  for my actions now but I wish I did at the time.