norefusal
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currently, yes. it's my new fav kink 😈 in the past, no interest. who knows what the future will hold but for right now, i get off on it. -
apples and oranges ironically, i was more fearful of becoming a dad than getting AIDS lol is your friend on prep? is she on the pill? it wouldn't surprise me if these guys aren't also more worried about pregnancy than STIs especially in this post-dobs world of women bleeding out in parked cars. what a fucking nightmare. but just my own experience i feel str8 guys are more apt to be secret cheaters vs gays in open relationships so even if you have to take pills for 10 days after an oopsie i fell like this is a much less dramatic convo with your husband that your wife/baby momma.
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my fav position to get fucked in is doggy but i love to flip over to missionary when he's gettin close, not just for the eye contact, but the whole visual of the body language as he's about to erupt and i love seeing a guy's cum face as he unloads in me
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did we ever come to some consensus on how we're doing the math? if i start w the first dick i took up my ass until today, subtract the years i was married and monogamous, that's 15 years. 15 years x 52 weeks = 780. did i get fucked by 1 to 2 different guys a week over all that time? entirely possible. although w my luck, the actual # is probably 999, so no prize rewarded 😜
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he was. apparently inside Walter Mitty's fastasy world, there was an election where he won cruising area president by a landslide. he takes his duties seriously, hence he just had to "side-splain" to you how cruising works. don't listen. getting bred by randos in a public spot is some of best sex! there are no rules and if there were, he's not the official gatekeeper. it's actually most of the thrill: breaking "rules", getting barebacked by a stranger in public where other can see. that being said: be aware that he won't be the last cruiser to say "no bufu" when offering up your hole. there are as many reasons as there are different kinds of guys: ones who think BJs aren't "cheating" but fucking is, ones who think BJs aren't "gay" but fucking is, ones who think public BJs are a minor infraction but fucking in public is a high crime, etc one place near my old house was popular with dads seeking oral action, but when i offered one guy my ass he said no and went off on an oral history of the site and how years ago the police used to raid it, make arrests etc. hearing about the olden days where gays used to have to walk 10 miles uphill both ways just to blown is no substitute for dick up the ass but there ya have it in the early days i was weary of cruising the woods alone after dark, but the flip side is a lot more fucking happens after sundown
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first few times was ok. but i think i was taking it after sex just before bed. this last time i didn't think to take it till the next am after i woke up. took it on an empty stomach, got nauseous and almost threw up. ate some crackers and it eventually subsided.
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and yet the whole system is gamed the opposite. my feed is so clogged w the same nat info i know by heart already and yet frantic last minute searches for info, any info about the locals, who they are and what they think is like searching for a needle in a haystack.
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so.. i read here people attempting a serious discussion of 3rd party voting. then i read an article about our current 3rd party choice admitting he picked up a dead bear cub "road kill" then, because of "too much falconry and steak dinner" dumped the dead bear in central park a decade ago. 🤣
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sorry but i take the horrible person prize here 😜 trick #1 avoid all talk of exclusivity at all costs. it's not cheating if you didn't promise not to. if forced to discuss it, tell him you want to be exclusive. then tell yourself the operative word here is "want". we're only human and opps happen, sometimes you just trip in a public toilet and your open mouth happens to fall on a stranger's hard on. trick#2 go around fucking other people's husbands as often as you want. claim it's between them and has nothing to do with you. trick#3 cheat on every person you ever dated yet go around boasting that you've never cheated once. as george costanza said "it's not a lie if you believe it yourself" trick#4 if caught red handed, rely on time tested lame excuses ie the infamous "we were on a break" trick #5 you're no jimmy carter. jerk off to cheater porn. try to cheat but fail. it doesn't count. etc trick#6 catch your man cheating at the same time you yourself cheated on him. make a big big deal about how devastated you are that he did this to you. never even hint that you did the same. you're the victim here.
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and being over sensitive can be part of the problem. if, like so many of us, you come from a place where being gay is unacceptable. once you come out and seek out other gays you foolishly believe will automatically accept you, the rejection is palpable. anything as silly as not getting into a trendy club because you're not hot enough or wear the wrong clothes happens to everyone, gay or straight. but to someone freshly plucking up the courage to show up to a gay club for the first time? ouch
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haha like fox and cnn etc msnbc delivers a consistent and rehearsed message: all night long from nicole to lawrence it's the same. the fact that you chose to single out the black woman as the one who shouldn't be trusted really doesn't help present you as non prejudicial given the context of this discussion. but whatevs
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well, i suppose all minorities are unique but while i 100% agree with those saying it has nothing to do w credibility or qualifications, i also realize the topic is triggering to me due to my own past. the "gay community" is a mess when it comes to inclusion and in particular its lack of acceptance of bisexuality and the toxic attitude of " there are no bisexual men, only gays in denial". it also goes back to my early childhood when we moved to the #2 state with the largest % of italian americans. we were literally the very first family on the block that was not 100% italian american and our new neighbors openly spoke of it often, telling us to our faces that we weren't real italian americans. you don't get over these kinds of blatant rejections easily. that's just my perspective.
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no it's not and your last post proves it. when i was younger i made the silly assumption that a gay man would naturally not vote against his own interests and be a republican. boy was i wrong! knowing someone's minority group gives you zero useful information about their abilities or their political leanings.
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honestly i'm lost. sorry if this is being insensitive but i don't get it. Pete B for example says he's gay. i'm proud that an out gay man has a high profile job but it has zero to do with him being qualified and or my voting for or against him. likewise i've literally asked zero questions like "but is he really gay tho?" or brought up a GF he may or may not have had in the past or claimed that a married white father wasn't "gay enough" to please me. etc.
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trump always spouts gibberish. grandpa telling us his brain is so broken that he can't fathom the concept of biracial people isn't anywhere near as scary as the fact that 43% of the country heard him accuse a qualified person of using phony claims of minority in order to gain jobs she doesn't deserve, and went "yes! thank god someone said it outloud".
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i'm not saying these types of posts are proof that Herman Cain is alive and living under a alias but... it's a theory 😜
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nope like most guys, i've been caught by str8 "karen" types having m2m sex in public. i always just laugh it off. the gym once told me to please be more discrete but even they did it w a sort of wink and smirk, clearly not taking the "karen" guy's complaint seriously.
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these are not mutually exclusive. 😜 yes, i totally relate. and if that makes me barking mad too, all i can say is "woof" 🐶
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are we all just ignoring the fact that he tried to get a mob to execute his last VP? any potential candidate has to think how their name sounds when a crazed mob is chanting "hang j d vance!" or "hang leslie graham!" etc
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this is twice now you've mentioned that he claims you promised to relapse with him when you didn't. that alone is an answer to your question. it's blatant emotional manipulation and is that the type of friend you want in your life?
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i play this game all the time and to me the harsh truth is you can't. everyday i miss the wonderful husband i used to have but that guy is dead. i can't even talk to the meth head he became because that guy has proven over and over again how willing he is to repay my kindness by destroying my life. i too am in recovery and struggling to stay that way. i do fucked up things like text the guy i last relapsed w at 2:00am pretending i just wanna stay friends but even i know im really texting so i can get high again. the struggle is real but i think it's important to own my own shit and be honest that this really isn't about me being a nice guy or wanting to keep a friendship. it's the addict in me looking for excuses to use again. but that's just me.
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Were you born a cocksucker? Or made one?
norefusal replied to blackfeeder's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
this. some guys seem to just look at me and automatically see a born faggot primed for service. i was somewhat surprised when the first guy made me his bitch, but also surprised how much it felt like coming home. he was my age, possibly even younger (we were teens) but way more experienced and tuned in than i was, all steeped in virgin denial so it's really more they used making me suck cock as a way to realize this is who i really was, if that makes sense -
this is just me, but i've been sucking anon cock in public for 42 years now and not once, ever have i walked into a business meeting, a friend's engagement party, a job interview, a real estate open house, etc and come face to face w one of my hook ups. Sounds like the plot to a tv show, not real life 😜 and this regardless of skin tone
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it's always about jailing al capone for taxes. nobody, including Comey, gave a shit about Hillary's emails. it's the excuse they used to take her down because they hated her policies. are we liberals ONLY disliking Thomas and Kavanaugh because they me2 women? no, we hate their politics are are looking for something to stick to stop their success. i doubt j d vance cares how many cats Kamala has. just desperate spaghetti thrown against the wall hoping some loony voter uses as an excuse not to vote for the liberal.
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i'm not as cynical. when they say we need to stop trump now or there will be no 2028 election, or a putinesque farce election, i think they're serious, not just riling up the base.
