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i got an oxballs pinhole about a month ago, still haven't used it. i got it because a recent hook up is into gaping and being able to look deep into my hole, we used a speculum, and this seems suited to being able to see deeper. As to getting fucked with a hollow plug in? Not for me... to me that's sort of like wearing an internal condom. Half my objection to condoms is the lack of skin on skin (the other half is obviously the prevention of seeding). i want to feel a Mans Cock, skin and all, i want to connect to the friction of His fucking me, and vice versa. As far as piss breeding is concerned? To me, a Mans piss is a second form of His Seed, so i don't really like when it doesn't all go inside and stay there lol. i'm the same with semen, i don't like it on the outside, or facials, etc., i want it deep and then i hold it in. Same with piss. i know not all Guys are able to piss while inside a hole, so i'm learning how to drink from a Mans Cock to accommodate His need/desire in that respect.

Yesterday evening, around the 630 pm. my Latino FB. It had been few weeks because i had been in Florida on vacation, and the He got a second job. He's Bi, has a GF and is on the DL. We have a spontaneous relationship where He texts and generally wants it "right now" when He does, so i've gotten better at quick clean out... and frankly take more chances. Last night i had some water left in me, but it was clean. i felt warm wetness running down my testicles as He slammed deep into me and released trapped water from beyond the S curve (aka "second hole"). i was totally clean, and that was just from a quick double check. i had cleaned out a few hours earlier hoping He would call and wanna breed. At first, i wondered if He was pissing in me... i've mentioned that a few times, but it's been awhile, not sure He is really turned on by the idea, so i don't push it, just want Him to know it's okay if He does. It wasn't a lot of water, just residual. He released it and left a puddle under me, and replaced it with His seed. i felt incredibly high as i thanked Him after. He's kinda shy when i thank Him, doesn't know quite how to respond to my genuine gratitude... He often thanks me back. ❤️

Everything. I've told the story a couple of times on BZ, but my first was at age 7 when a neighbor Boy i had a crush on showed me an enema nozzle and excitedly explained what it was and where it went. i found ours at home, and it was my first penetration. After that? Anything i could find that seemed it would fit. Veggies, those tooth paste plastic tubes that just looked like dildos. One of the more unusual items was a the pump on my 10 speed bike, which had a sort of 'cum' mechanism... okay, it was air, not cum. lol

Ideally for me? Au naturale: i.e., spit, cum or natural juices. But how often is life "ideal?" Douching, in my experience, dries my hole out. Yeah, i know, sounds counter intuitive, but douching not only removes unwanted stuff, it also washes out the bodies natural lube which mostly originates in the colon and is way more viscous than water... or spit. For me, lube mostly matters with the first penetration and fuck. Lube just works better and faster so there is no pulling and tearing in there. After i've been fucked once, i'm good for any cocks after that, usually no supplemental lube needed. Not necessarily just because of cum, some Men are long enough to seed me beyond the curve (aka "second hole"), so Their cum may not be lubricating where the next Man is fucking. But there's other factors, like precum, and just the friction of being fucked will stimulate natural lubricant production from the rectal tissue from the pressure of a Cock filling the hole. For those interested, from a purely scientific standpoint, an appropriate type anal lube is the healthiest option. “Whenever and wherever someone uses saliva, using spit alone elevates the potential risk of injury, as well as the possibilities of STDs,” Goldstein says. “Saliva in and of itself does not provide the appropriate lubricity to decrease friction during anal sex. These increased pressures lead to the possibility of tearing localized tissue (i.e. anal fissures) and the formation of dilated veins (i.e. hemorrhoids), and a possible result of either or both of these is a higher incidence of contracting STD’s. Anal sex, unfortunately, is traumatic and the way to minimize any complication is to use appropriate lubricants.” [think before following links] https://www.logotv.com/news/a4ktnd/gay-bottom-sex-self-lubricate

i think the refractory period is a factor that no one has mentioned. Not suggesting it is 'the' reason for His behavior, but i believe it factors in to all of our response post orgasm. "What Is the Refractory Period? The refractory period refers to a span of time in the sexual response cycle that occurs after orgasm or ejaculation, during which a person won’t respond (physiologically or psychologically) to sexual stimulation and is incapable of orgasming. During this time, blood pressure and heart rate decrease, the brain releases hormones, like prolactin or oxytocin, and dopamine levels lower to promote rest and recovery. All people, regardless of gender, experience a refractory period, lasting from a few seconds up to 24 hours." [think before following links] https://www.masterclass.com/articles/refractory-period-explained Personally, i want a dynamic where the Top is in charge of my orgasm. Ideally, i like the idea of a shared orgasm, i.e. His orgasm becomes mine when He fucks and releases into my body (lol, it's complicated). A big part of this for me is i do not like the "refractory period" where i do not have that intense drive, desire, need for a Mans drive, desire, need. For me, sex is mostly about the connection i feel and have with a Man through sex. Though i don't think a lot of bottoms, especially total bottoms, may articulate it as i do, i think there's similar elements bottoms experience. A bottom who is having sex without an orgasm is not going to have the refractory period that a Top has after orgasm. Whether stated as such, cuddling for many is a sort of foreplay, which a Top might not be inclined towards right after orgasm (depending on the length of His refractory period?), whereas a bottom who has not had and orgasm may want/need more (enter the "cum dump" lol).

Usual disclaimer here, i don't presume to speak for all bottom guys here. ❤️ While we all have similarities that can put us in a group, we're all individuals too. i don't always feel exactly the same all the time with these particular criteria. If i have a choice, i will always choose anal. But if a Man needs or wants His cock sucked, and there's not another Man right then who wants to breed, yeah, i'll definitely suck His cock. If i have the choice to do both, i'll do both. For me receiving a Mans Cock is built into my 'bottom nature.' i do not think of my being "total bottom" as anal only, but as Cock receptive. i often put in a profile that i am "total bottom and a cocksucker" just to help clarify for Tops who may think "total bottom" means anal only. While i love a Man's Cock in my hole, receiving a Mans Cock is a lot more complex for me than just physically getting fucked and bred. For me, it's a bigger part of the connection to connect to a Mans need/desire to have His Cock received by another male, more than whether it's anal or oral. Reversing the question, If a Man really wanted oral, but was willing to compromise and fuck me instead, i'd still choose to do oral with Him instead, knowing that is what He really wants. At the root of sex, for me, a Mans want or need that is driving Him to penetrate me with His Self, is something i crave more than how He does it. For me, part of being a total bottom is i am responsive to a Man. I.e., there is a part of me that does not function independently. When i perceive a Mans lust/need for me, it opens my lust/need for Him in response. Once i experienced that kind of connection with a Man, it changed the way i approach sex. For me, it's more about receiving Him and His need/desire into me than whether how it happens is anal or oral.

Lol, cool. my Guy texts “free rn” which is a double entendres since im a registered nurse, and I would never think of charging

Just left about 5 minutes ago. my sweet Latino FB, He woke up horny this morning and texted. He was horny! He usually fucks for some time, but came almost instantly this time, then stayed in and fucked another load in. So grateful for Him, He's just all around sweet... He needs to fuck and i need to be fucked. i am so happy to have His Seed inside of me. Gonna have a special smile on my face at the gym this morning.

Here's an excerpt from the bill: "(6) "Harmful to juveniles" means that quality of any description or representation, in whatever form, of nudity, sexual conduct, sexual excitement, or sadomasochistic abuse, when it (a) predominantly appeals to the prurient, shameful or morbid interest of juveniles, (b) is patently offensive to prevailing standards in the adult community as a whole with respect to what is suitable material for juveniles, and (c) is, when taken as a whole, lacking in serious literary, artistic, political or scientific value for juveniles." [think before following links] https://lis.virginia.gov/cgi-bin/legp604.exe?231+ful+SB1515ER Apparently the day before one turns 18, watching 'porn' as defined by this bill is "prurient, shameful or morbid interest." Those who use such descriptors don't believe that once one turns 18 watching porn is no longer "prurient, shameful or morbid interest." A problem with phrasing in laws like this is it defines and labels those who watch porn as "prurient, shameful or [having] morbid interest...."

About an hour ago... my Sweet Latino FB. i go through withdrawal when He hasn't planted His seed in me in awhile, but then it helps me stay hungry and keeps me grateful for Men and Breeding... and that's not a bad thing. i feel very good right now, not going through withdrawal any more. i love Men.

Nope, definitely not "just " you. my guess is that any conscious, considerate experienced bottom worries, or at least thinks of this. The human body has ~27 feet of intestine, about 23 feet is small intestine, about 4 feet the large intestine (aka colon). It is always moving. "This movement, called peristalsis, pushes food through the length of your digestive tract. Any food you eat stimulates nerves, which trigger peristaltic action in the muscles. But the type of food you eat, the amount you consume and the frequency of your meals all have an impact on peristalsis." "Two to six hours — It usually takes anywhere from two to six hours for the food to become broken up in the stomach. The acids and juices in your stomach will break down any food you consume so that it can be more easily passed through your small and large intestines. One to three days — Once the food moves from the stomach to the small intestine, it can take anywhere from one to three days on average to move fully through the rest of the digestive system and to be passed through a bowel movement." [think before following links] https://michigangastro.com/2022/10/30/how-long-does-it-take-to-poop-out-food/

Etsy. Do a search of kinky or more specific. There are individual artisans on Etsy, you can find some really cool or unique stuff there. [think before following links] https://www.etsy.com/search?q=kinky leather&ref=search_bar

Some of the most profound sexual experiences i have had with a Man are instances that 'normal' culture, and even gay culture, might consider humiliating/degrading. To me, saying "you're a dirty, disgusting little faggot, etc.," in a mean way is a buy in to the culture that rejects us. When a Man spends His Lust/Need/Desire in me, then acknowledges and affirms that i successfully met and received His Lust/Desire/Need into me, and provided It/Him and honored place in me, His pride and pleasure collar and leash mine. Absolutely blew me away when i experienced a Mans Pride in me for lovingly receiving His Need/Desire, even when it was degrading/humiliating. It surfaced another feeling that is rare, "adoration." Not something i ever would have expected, or could 'role play.' Some of the most 'real' connections i have ever had are with 'edgy' desires like this.

Another post that makes me think of the spectrum of sexuality, because this too sounds 'top' to me. And again, not asserting that you are "top," just acknowledging the spectrum, how one can be, for instance, maybe 99% bottom, but in 1% situations, he is top. i've written about this elsewhere on BZ, but to me, a Mans Cock is way more than the physical organ between His legs, it's maybe more His needs and desires that drive it. i'm, apparently, at the far end of bottom when it comes to the spectrum. What You write and describe in detail: "Love to, smaller cock here. Get a very full bladder, once I start I would want to pull your face against my groin then hold you there while I flood you. Maybe keep it there after for a bit..." To me, that practically screams TOP and strongly draws me into Your orbit as a bottom and opens me instantly to You. i've received more than a few physically small Cocks and loved the Men Who's inner Cock drove them. It speaks to me of nature, yin/Yang, and how there is always someone who wants/needs who and how You are.

Interesting. Thinking about the spectrum theory of sexuality, to me this edges you in the top direction...not that i think it makes you top, but it strikes me as a top feeling/desire for you to find it "Very hot." Especially the way You describe it: "looking down at the guy as he drinks from it." That strikes me as not only top, but a wee bit dom ;-). And, re you're wondering if "...guys that drink from the tap feel the same way?" Absolutely... at least, this one does. For me, the physical Piss insemination is secondary to the psychological insemination. i think there is potential for some very deep impregnation, depending on the Top, and His understanding of HIs bottom. A Man can use exactly the same words of degradation with me, and depending on His attitude and tone, can either close me up or open me wide and impregnate me with Himself. If He's mean or bullying about it, i shut down. Those kinds of attitudes affect me as opposite of power and control. To me, force/bullying display doubt, insecurity... not knowing or being confident in his position of control and my need/desire to please Him. On the other hand, if He smiles knowingly and congratulates me on being "a good toilet," He is affirming and solidifying both His and my position and making it a pleasure for me to accept and admit it. To me, that is a hell of a lot more powerful than force, when a bottom happily admits and agrees about who and how he is.

i get this, and appreciate the OP's point. To me, his point speaks to attitude and connection vs an action without intent. To me, the point of WS is the intent behind it. i've received piss up the ass for years, and it's a hugely powerful form of insemination and impregnation for me. my experience of drinking Piss from a Mans Cock is comparatively recent. my fifth experience was just last week, and so far, i cannot say i love, or even like, the taste of Piss. i don't. i was pretty proud of my fifth experience because i drank it all from His Cock without 'wasting' any. In this case, it would have been "wasting" because the Mans desire and intent was for me to drink His piss from His cock. i succeeded and got His genuine appreciation and affirmation when He smiled and said: "you took that like a champ." i would have been happy and affirmed had He wanted/needed to piss on me instead, or impregnate me through my hole. The point is, connecting our mutual desire and need, and thus bonding. i'm not sure i'll ever develop a taste for Piss. But taste has never been the reason for me to drink Piss from a Mans Cock. While it would make it easier to do, it wouldn't change my craving the experience. So far, for me, there also has to be a direct connection with the Man producing the PIss. Soaking in a piss filled wading pool, drinking from a toilet, or even from a glass, all are missing the connection with the Man producing the Piss as a direct pleasure/release/relief ejaculation from Him into or on me.

i've had a similar experience, and i've tried several times. The one Man who sorta got in was a Man i met on asspig and had a great reputation and about 25 years experience. He was the most patient Man Who's tried, i spent half a day in His sling and then came back later that evening when He had a friend who He also fisted, and got in no problem. In all my experiences, to me it feels like They get so far, then hit bone, and pain stops the progress. There just doesn't seem to be any give at all, and it's not just pain. Like EW i'm not masochist, don't relate to physical S/m at all. i have encountered more impatient neophytes than experienced. It tightens, if not closes me, if i perceive impatience or disappointment from a Top. i'm pretty sure i'm more delicate than EW, both emotionally and anally. i think part of my 'failure' to receive a Mans hand inside of me is the approach. i have an open hole, but it is Cock opened. A hand is different on more than a physical level for me. i've been on Asspig for years, but if one looks at my pic there, doesn't look like i've gotten very far or opened. A lot of the bottoms i've read who can receive a hand... or two, train. Use toys and plugs and routinely work and open their hole. i don't. Penetrating myself is counter intuitive for me, despite my understanding that i probably won't be able to receive a Mans hand without opening my own hole. The 'counter intuitive' part for me is that opening is a big part of the process for me. I.e., the desire/need is not just to have a Mans hand inside of me, but to experience the process of Him opening and molding me to receive His Hand. i've had this forever fantasy where i wake up in the morning with a Mans hand and part of His Arm inside of me, and i don't recall how He got there. i know that is probably totally ridiculous (lol, do you hear the hopeful optimist in me when i use the word "probably?"), but i realize it reveals a big part of the 'why(s)' i would want a Mans hand and arm in me in the first place. It's not a goal for me, but a processs of taking possession. His Hand inside of me would be so much more than a physical event, it would be a profound changing and molding process to fit me onto Him, or He into me. Like a renovation of a place He will occupy. lol, i know. To me, the bigger part of fisting is relational. And i'm not talking just one Man. my Cock opened hole is the result of a lot more than one Mans Cock, though there is a decided difference between the effects of a one and done fuck vs repeated fucking by the same Man, so i see a lot of similarities with receiving a Hand/Arm, but that does not happen as consistently as Cock does. sorry, turning into a ramble

sorry, forgot the link [think before following links] https://www.verywellhealth.com/what-is-the-fecal-oral-route-1760046

Not asserting a universal standard here, we're all individuals, this is just how i feel. i perceive my hole as a pussy. To me, a "pussy" is not a gender distinction, but a bottom distinction. i.e., a person can be anywhere on the gender spectrum and have a "pussy" made for penetration. For me, rimming is a form of penetration and i don't do it, it feels like he is wanting me to top when a man wants his hole rimmed. And it's even stranger than that, because i love to look at and touch a Mans ass, it's one of my favorite parts of a Mans anatomy, but on a Top, i see it as His fuck muscle. Go figure? i have mixed feelings on the clean vs dirty when it comes to my own hole. i always present clean. i don't have a scat fetish. i don't mind my own but i don't want someone else's scat on my body or in my mouth (i do have one exception of a Mans scat with a kinky impregnation fantasy though). The bottom line for me with rimming is all the diseases one can catch if feces is ingested orally (see link below). i do want the Top to choose, whatever turns Him on the most is what i wanna connect with, but if it's me presenting for a Man, i'm always clean. As an aside, when it comes to fucking, i wish that clean out was not a factor, that it can interfere with spontaneous fucking. I.e., i want to be available 24/7 whenever a Man wants to fuck, so if He has no objection, He can fuck me whenever He wants. Butt i never assume that unless a Man tells me that, i'm gonna be cleaned out.

i used to live in the Mid-Atlantic, and have douched in many a rest stop there. They usually have a douche dispenser where the snacks are (aka "water bottle"?) There is a bit of a dance when you have to go in and out of the stall to refill the water bottle, but we bottoms are resourceful, eh? i'm not surprised to learn from this thread that i'm not the only one to travel with a wrench and a shower shot. i've ofter wondered what TSA thinks? my checked luggage always gets searched lol.

idk but it sounds to me like it maybe wasn't a question of hard, but length? That maybe He was banging your sigmoid curve? Did it hurt the hole time, or just when He went deep? When you write that "it was painful when He rammed it deep," that makes me think He was long enough that the tip of His cock was hitting your sigmoid curve (aka: the second hole), and that can be painful if a top doesn't know how to get past it and open it. Or he may know and just not care. T o me if it was just a matter of hardness, it would hurt your whole hole, not just when He went balls deep. ❤️

Not sure how You could possibly construe this guy as anything less than Bi, and seems more on the gay side of the spectrum to me, though the sub part of him could throw tis off a bit, i don't think a straight sub would be responding to You the way he is... but then, i'm not there, and You are ;-). i'm not the least bit surprised at his being "scared" of Your cock (or would i be put off if i were You... i.e., Top/Dom). i've had >1000 cocks and i still experience occasional 'fear' when i see a particularly Large Cock (in every meaning of that word, Cock is more than a physical organ to me). But i've learned not to be afraid of my fear, it's rarely rational and i have never regretted giving in to a Man and His Cock. Of course, he is not me, and i had a lot stronger fears at his stage of life. What he is is enamored of You and has demonstrated a desire submit to You. i preface that this is just my point of view: i think how You approach Him plays a big part in His opening to Your cock. Again, i think a Mans Cock is a lot more than the physical organ between His legs. Among a lot of other things, it is Your desire/need to penetrate, fuck, orgasm, seed, impregnate/create, possess,___________. his sub nature may be responsive. Though it may exist independently, he may need a Top/Dom to access, surface and exercise that part of him. Your Cock, both physically and otherwise, may be too 'big' for him at this point, but that doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't both want and need It/You. He's new to this. He's a 'virgin' in more ways than one. i go back to something i wrote earlier, maybe try starting small. Communicate. i gave the example of the thermometer, but that only would work if it had a kink in him to appeal to. You have to find the keys and doors to open the rooms You want to reside in (i.e., it's mutual, but You are in charge). Maybe have him lie face down and naked and give him a sensual massage where You also massage His ass and inner thighs and just lightly graze his outer hole, almost like You touch it by accident. If he feels safe and trusts You, and wants/needs to be penetrated, he will start to open. Chastiy can work to heighten his need for touch and release. That is a vast topic.

i got bred by a FB yesterday. He's been a FB for a couple of years now, and He's definite got a place of residence in me. i hesitated to add "sex appeal" to the title, because this is about more than sex... though i think sex is always a part of who we are, even if it's peripheral. i ended up putting it in the title cause i figured the subliminal would get more readers and responses? (kidding) He's made a few vids of Him fucking me, and made another yesterday. i was struck by the difference between the first vid made several months ago and the second vid made yesterday. The major difference? my ass was much harrier in the second vid. i can be hairy or smooth. i'm not gorilla hairy, but my ass can sure get furry. Personally? i like my ass smooth. i like the way it feels when i soap up in the shower, or when a Man has made me all sloppy and wet. More than the physical feel though, smooth 'feels' more bottom, submissive, fuckable to me. Who knows why? i think feelings like that are conditioned as are our notions of "beauty" and sex appeal? But that creates a dilemma for me because hairy or smooth is not a strong identity factor for me, or not as strong as other factors like my perceived sex appeal being a reflection of a Mans desire to fuck and breed me. There is lots of discussion on BZ about "hairy or smooth" and it always seems about 50/50. As i've matured, my feelings and notions of sex appeal have evolved. my feelings are not nearly as visually evoked or dependent as they were when i was younger. For me, pretty much any Man Who wants/needs to penetrate and breed me in some manner, is Hot and can put me in heat. If i had one exclusive relationship, i could just remain hairy or smooth as a reflection of His lust, and i could be good with that because His lust feeds and nurtures mine more than my own desire feeds and nurtures me. And, i know 'my' (i.e., a bottoms) need/desire nurtures a Top... though i think He has the control position, the resulting dynamic is symbiotic. Meanwhile... to shave or not to shave, that is the question lol.

If i moved to Florida, it would primarily be because i'd wanna be regularly seeded by You, and all that that means.

i support teaching "critical" thinking on any topic as part of the educational process vs programing whitewashed 'history' in order to perpetuate an exclusive system. i see it as an important part of social evolution, of working towards true, inclusive, equality. i think it's important that we never refuse to look, investigate the foundations on which society and culture are built. i cannot see how else we can identify, with an attitude towards correcting, flaws and issues that do not "promote the general welfare." i'm a gay guy who grew up in a culture that excluded and vilified me because of who and how i am. But i could hide being gay, and i did for a long time... i built and lived in the proverbial closet. i see that people cannot hide the color of their skin, so there is no place to hide from racism. Not that hiding is a solution, just a survival mechanism. But what survives? Conformity? Acquiesce? i'm also convinced that much of racism operates under the radar, that it's subtle and unconscious. To me, that would be one of the more important reasons for ongoing scrutiny... if we stop looking, we will stop seeing. If we stop seeing, we will not be able to grow and change humanity, well end up continuing to harm and eventually become extinct.