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For me, there are two kinds of sore throat i can get from cock sucking. One is the muscle ache of taking a cock in my throat, that's just normal it seems. To me, my throat is just my front pussy and just needs to open and relax to take a Mans cock. Of course, size is going to affect that, as well as how aggressive the Top is. i'm not much into getting aggressively face fucked. Sucking cock is the one bottom activity where it makes sense to me to be in control. Getting fucked? i never wanna be in control, sucking cock is something i can do for my Top when He is not needing to fuck. The other is skin irritation, like an infection sore throat that feels surface. It takes a little time for an infection to take hold and to feel it's effects. i have found that if the sharp soreness happens quickly, sometimes right after sucking, it is because the Top has been using something like hand lotion as a lube on His cock. When you read the label on most hand lotion containers, they invariably read: "not for internal use." Not good for fucking, definitely not good for sucking. It can really irritate the throat.

Asspig is a hook up site for guys who like fisting. Many members have videos of them fisting, so if you like amateur vids, it's a good resource.

Here's one journal article dosing recommendation: "Daily, continuing, oral dose of coformulated tenofovir and emtricitabine ≤90-day supply Patients need to take a daily dose of PrEP for 7 days before high levels of protection are achieved for both vaginal and rectal exposure to HIV" [think before following links] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5518248/

i've been on asspig for years. i've hooked with several guys from there as well. i have never even tried the forum part of the site, so can imagine what find91 says is true about it being 'dead.' To me, it is more of a specific genre hook up site than it is a discussion forum. The only discussions i have had there are through their message function.

Thanks for the comments guys. This disease is only about a year old in study terms, though it has received a lot of attention this last year. i had one patient this weekend who is Covid poz and part of a double blind test the hospital where i work is conducting... the med is Leronlimab. We also use a lot of remdesivir. So far from what i am seeing (purely anecdotal, subjective observation on the front line here), the meds that blunt cytokine response syndrome seem to be having effect. Time and a lot more research will eventually tell.

i am beginning to wonder if those of us who are healthy and on HIV meds or PreP may actually be at less risk from Covid 19? i'm a critical care nurse and have been working on a Covid unit, volunteering to take Covid + patients, since the first week of March. i do not know (because testing was not available) but think i may have had Covid at the end of February. i have also wondered if i have not fought it off several times since? No way of knowing, it's all speculation on my part, but i have cared for Covid patients every other week since March, so i have been around Covid a lot. i did get an antibody test a month ago and i have no antibodies. That does not necessarily mean i have not had Covid, it could just mean we do not maintain antibodies for long... we don't know. Meanwhile, some anti retroviral drugs used to treat HIV or for PreP are being studied and used to treat Covid, so i speculate that the meds i take may be helping protect me? Wouldn't that be a cool and funny turn of events if gays have a better chance of beating Covid because of this? Here's an article discussing some of the research on the topic: [think before following links] https://www.poz.com/article/people-hiv-getting-covid19

yesterday. a regular fb texted me saying how he needed my mouth. He'd already texted me a couple of times the last couple of days, needing, but his work schedule was in the way. i replied: "how about now?" and he texted back that he had hurt his wrist and had just taken a pain pill. He was afraid he would not be able to stay hard. i asked him if the pill would keep him from enjoying getting sucked or having an orgasm, he said "no." So i told him i didn't care if he got hard, as long as he could enjoy and have an orgasm. He was at my house 15 minutes later, sitting on the sofa, legs spread watching porn. i came in from another room, knelt between his beautiful thighs and sucked him. He got hard and stayed hard the whole time and came hard and down my throat about 15 minutes later. After leaving, he texted me that it felt like i had sucked his soul out of him. Fuck yeah, i'll take that inside of me too. i love guys.

Here's a little anatomy/physiology explanation of what is in semen and how it's made. [think before following links] https://medlineplus.gov/ency/anatomyvideos/000121.htm

Surprised no one has mentioned this... but when a guy looks at you and touches his balls or makes sounds, he is telling you he wants you. What you are experiencing is old school cruising. Before cell phones and aps, we had gaydar lol. It wasn't always reliable, but hey, neither are aps. If a guy touches his cock or balls, it usually signals that that is where he wants attention. Making sucking sounds is a signal for oral, could go either way (top or bottom). As others have noted, wearing a jock sends a good signal that you are bottom (to those who know, some guys may be new or not catch on to the meaning), a chastity cage is a signal that is hard to miss lol. A return communication if a guy looks at you and touches His cock, is to return the gaze and touch your ass or finger your hole. That's a pretty clear communication when cruising, and anyone watching will get the message as well. It may help you to remember, the fear of rejection is a double edged sword, it cuts both ways. I.e., guys who may really want you fear rejection too, so you have to be approachable. Shy, fearful guys often send off a vibe of being closed, or even aloof, even though that is not how they feel at all. Guys may feel just as intimidated by you as you feel about them.

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lol, can also get to it from the outside if you push a finger at the base of the cock, underside (top of the taint). You feel the urethra first, but right behind the urrethra at that point is the prostate. There's sort of art form to learning it, not to hard, not too soft, watch they guys expression lol, it will speak volumes. See in the pic how even if you go in through the ass, you are not actually touching the prostate? Pressure can be exerted on the prostate from all sorts of directions ;-).

Yesterday. An older straight guy contacted me on squirt. It was soon apparent he had little experience, just a fantasy he wanted, he called it "erotic massage". He wanted me to restrain him and edge him. As a total bottom, not usually my thing, but i asked if "edging" included sucking. He replied "yes, but no anal." Eh, it's a Covid world and i'm not going to turn down a cock. He was a really nice guy, obviously little to no experience. Helped him discover his prostate by massaging it above his pubic symphysis and deep into his taint, just under his shaft, while i sucked him. i have 4 point restraints on my bed (for me lol), and he was writhing in them as i pleasured him. i have a really intense impact/vibrating massager that i used with him, definitely edged him. When he finally came (i'm not dom, so i didn't push the edging thing, just prolonged the pleasure), he was shaking. He had a great cock and balls and i really enjoyed spending time with them and him. Swallowed a sweet load.

I've read all the posts and i'm going to bite my tongue while writing this, this is what i am reading: Your 'top daddy breeder" is HIV poz, fucks other boys besides you raw, and doesn't want you to have sex with anyone except who he chooses and watches, and he doesn't want you to take PreP. In the event that he did want to watch you get fucked by another guy, would it be raw? i get there are some D/s dynamics where both parties get off on the Dom having this kind of control... but i am not getting that sense from you? The fact that you are tempted by the guy from the gym makes me think the relationship should be open both ways? i don't know this, but my read of all your responses leads me to think that this guy is a user? Unless there is stuff that changes this story dramatically, details we do not know? i'd ask yourself: are you happy with a relationship where he is protected and you are not, where the relationship is open for him, but not for you? i think if the answer to either of these questions is "no," i think you need to renegotiate the terms of your relationship, or find someone who is compatible with your needs and desires. People who get used in relationships (where the __________ is not mutual), eventually get used up, it's not sustainable.

Cool question... from both sides of the flip. my first cock didn't hurt... i discovered my ass as a sex organ at 7 with an enema nozzle and after that, everything i saw that was remotely shaft or cock shaped went into me. i straddled the guy and just went for it. He knew i was a virgin and said: "whoa, wait a minute" and ran and got some Vaseline Intensive care lotion. my memory of that was how full i felt. Guys who don't have a clue (or do and don't care) can cause searing pain if they just slam into an unopened hole. i think this is one of the ways where a mans pussy and a womans pussy probably differ the most? An ass is designed to open and close over and over, a woman's vagina is and opening only, not an opening and closure. i've taken a few thousand cocks, and i have been purposely gaped (over time) by a Top fb. i don't close up like i did before cock, so a guy who slams into me can bring a tear to my eye and cause me to bite my mattress... but i know that'll pass, so i just breath into the pain till it transforms to pleasure. Not many guys do that... i take it, but i don't appreciate it. Bullies don't impress me as powerful, but instead strike me as weak and sort of childish. Just my take, feels kind of school yard. The best fucks for me are the guys who get in my head, who penetrate my mind and emotions as much as my hole. i got fucked hard a couple of days ago by a Top who seemed to have endless stamina and made an unrelenting assault on my hole. He used little lube (which wasn't the same as dry, there were 3 loads already in from an earlier Top), but the Top had been long and most of His cum was deep, so i felt friction. He liked to go balls deep, then completely withdraw, which feels erotically frustrating for me, almost teasing? Filling me, then making me empty... it also has more of a gaping effect and feels like i am having my insides pulled out (it's all awesome). If a guy is a silent shooter (i personally love it when He tells me He is breeding me), i can tell. i know some can feel when a Top shoots, i cannot feel it shooting in, though i can feel if His cock is spasming... but if the Top is fucking through the orgasm, i can only tell after He has shot because my hole becomes slippery and cum sloppy. It goes from me feeling friction in my hole to feeling very slippery, and usually some cum running down my taint. There are so many sensations, so much depends on the Top. Angle, Hitting the prostate. Few guys seem to know how to do that. i think the prostate is one way a Top can really control the bottoms pleasure, really own it and make the bottom dependent on Him for pleasure. When a Top knows what He is doing and purposely fucks my prostate, i start out working, being able to hold and squeeze His cock with my ass muscles, but the Top who purposely assaults my hole with the intent to open me, i can reach a point where i loose control and submit, opening and not being able to shut. That's also a deep mind fuck for me too, it feels like complete possession, like He 'won' the war lol.

Two more loads from another fb about a half hour after the other fb i wrote about yesterday left three. It was a surprise. a guy i had hooked up with about a year ago just recently showed up at my door a few weeks ago. He only had a short time and i sucked him off. Before he left, he asked for my phone number. He put it in his phone, then called me, but i didn't label it, so i didn't know it was his. He called me yesterday right when another fb was breeding me, of course i ignored it. Then he called again after the other FB was gone, so i answered and he asked if i wanted hook. i said yeah, and he told me he was waiting on my front porch lol. i opened the front door naked, clenching and holding the other three loads in, and lead him back into my bedroom. i don't think he has a lot of experience, he doesn't really understand what a total bottom is and he pushed me down on the bed and went to sucking me. i have enough sub in me that i let him, but he didn't really connect that i don't connect that way and stayed soft and small... he didn't understand. i flipped and sucked him, which he really liked and i told him about the loads in my pussy and asked if he wanted to fuck. Wow, He ended up fucking me for about an hour and a half and added his own load to what was there... i love how you can tell, even when a guy is a silent cummer, because my hole was suddenly wetter and sloppier. He was one of those guys who stays hard after cumming and just kept going, i was moaning and whimpering uncontrollably, which just seemed to drive him on. He got close to making me cum a couple of times that way, but then would change the thrust and i didn't. He pulled out and asked me to suck the cum off his cock and he wanted to cum down my throat too. That took awhile, but he came hard, holding my head and his cock in my throat. Sweet guy.

bout 30 minutes ago... looks like a new FB, he has contacted me 6x in the last 6 weeks, looking like a covid fb. Straight muscle boy, mid 20's, pretty sure i'm the only guy he's ever fucked, and He seems to like that. He always unloads 2-3 loads, but is a silent cummer who keeps fucking through his orgasm, then tells me after. The evidence is always there though, i cannot tell when he comes (wish i could) but can tell after He has cum, he cums a lot and i am wet. i have to work to hold it in, it's a good feeling and worth the effort. sweet guy. He fucked me prone, which i am used to always being face down, but He also flipped me and face on, legs up... i have very long legs and my knees were touching the bed over my shoiulders, He seemed to like that. He almost made me cum a coupler of times from fucking me. i fall in love so easily lol

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i love that You love this. i think it is often missed how much a bottoms need/desire connects to and is fed by a Tops need/desire, and how circular, yin/Yang, symbiotic, that is. Each need nurturing and stimulating the others? Just reading that one word from You, makes my penis literally jump. Dead serious here. i used to wonder at my penis response to being turned on, being a total bottom, but over time have observed what makes me hard. If a guy approaches me wanting me to have a 'cock' and treating me like i do, i stay completely soft, and am not aroused at all, despite His expression of desire. i've learned it's because he doesn't actually see me, just his need, and consequently, there is no connection. But a guy who looks at me and sees a 'pussy' to breed, and expresses His desires accordingly, gets me hard. i'm not fem or trans, have no desire to be a woman (nothing wrong with any of that, just not me). i can see a correlation between my penis and a clitoris on a woman, that also gets engorged when a Top wants to breed. So now, it makes perfect sense to me when i can see what makes me hard, and what doesn't. I have had Tops who actually referred to it as a "clit," smiling affectionately at it when it gets hard, but never treating it as a "cock," which just makes it get harder... and they know it. Love guys who go beyond physical depth and love and know how to penetrate and mind fuck.

Cool question. For me, no, they cannot. No one seems to be able to? Every time i come out to someone, they are always surprised, even people i have worked with for years. And i'm a nurse for fucks sake lol. Yet most of the male nurses i work with are straight... sigh. One of the hottest experiences of my life was when i was driving down a street, a guy i didn't know pulled up beside my truck, glanced over. Our eyes met, that's it. He pulled forward a few seconds later, and in front of me. i followed Him into a Burger King parking lot, into the restaurant and into the restroom, about 20 feet behind Him. He never looked back. Once i went into the restroom behind Him, He locked the door, undid and pulled down my jeans, turned my around, bent me forward. He pulled out His cock, spat on His hand and rubbed His cock, slid in and bred me. He zipped up, unlocked the door and left without a word. i had to scramble to lock the door so i could pull my pants back up without someone walking in lol. So, how did He know? i know a lot of communication is non-verbal. A guy who has affectations that are considered "fem" or who dresses femininely, sends a message without words. i grew up in a culture that hated gay people, so i learned at an early age to hide. But i can look back and remember myself at a young age, 5, 6, 7 years old, and a little older. i was definitely and obviously a faggot. One halloween i found a blond wig and put it on to go trick or treating, all my neighbors who knew me didn't recognize me, they thought i was a girl, and i played the part naturally. When i got home, my dad freaked and made me take it off and go in a 'normal' costume. i have often wondered how i would have turned out as an adult if i had not been culturally conditioned to hide? It wasn't like i had learned how to be a faggot, it came naturally. Conforming, being heteronormative to survive, was conditioned into me and by the time i was 13 or 14 i knew how to fit in, hide completely. Before i learned to hide though, i had a whole lot of bullies in my life, and most of them treated me like a faggot. i also have a lot of sub nature and was attracted to dom boys, even at a very young age when we all were clueless. i think a lot of the boys who bullied me were really just boys with dom natures who didn't know what to do or how to act. Sort of like the boy who has a crush on a girl before an age when boys are supposed to like girls, so he ends up hitting or kicking her because he doesn't know how to show his desire/need. i think the same is true of a lot of adult gays who are also Dom, there just isn't a cultural context that has taught them how to act, so they are bullies... which to me is just immaturity. They don't realize that there are sub guys who want to submit to them, to even be possessed by them, they don't know they don't have to use force, that they are desired/needed as much as they desire and need. sorry, off track i think communication takes all types of forms, visual, tone of voice, presentation. i also think that gays, and maybe even more, sub culture gays, have had to develop subtle forms of communication, ways we may not even be conscious of, but it's communication none the less? Not just a magical "knowing"?

"Tops decide when they'll breed you." That's honestly my desire as a total bottom with some sub thrown in. And i am not talking forced or rape here. i have a long standing fantasy about having a mate or FB who has access to me any time He needs or wants. i imagine waking up in the middle of the night to the feel of Him pressing His cock into my pussy or between my lips, because He needed/wanted to cum or piss in me. Or, we are sitting on the sofa watching a movie together, and He gets up, walks over, takes His cock out and presses it to my lips. Or, i am standing at the kitchen counter prepping food or washing dishes, and He silently comes up behind me, pulls my shorts down and pushes His cock into me. Or i am out in the garden weeding and He comes up behind me and pisses on me. And on it goes. The point is, this is someone i have a connection with, not a complete stranger, someone i know and who knows me. i think a lot of bottoms have an intrinsic need/desire to simply be taken by a Top... and i think a lot of Tops have an intrinsic need/desire to be able to have when they want or need. But in our culture, doing that without permission is called "rape" and it's considered a crime. Honestly, i do not want that either. i have no desire to be raped, but i pretty much have always wanted every guy who wanted or needed me, so the only thing they need to express is that desire, and i'm theirs. The scenario i proffer above is still "consent," it's just long term consent that accommodates spontaneity. It takes away the need to ask every time, because their is a bond already there.

i don't care if they have showered or not (i.e, "clean"), and an "unsafe" guy who is jonesing to to breed is going to tell you what ever you want to hear. i'm sorry, but it is naive to think because a guy answers "yes" to those questions, that he actually meets your perceived qualifications. Do you realize you are deluding yourself babe? i swear there is no snark in my tone, i am trying to help you out here. i'm assuming that by "clean and safe" you are referring to std's? No one can guarantee that unless they have just come from the doctor with their std results to show you, and they haven't had sex since getting tested (or their a virgin)... which pretty much means "no one." You personally choose to take the risk every time you take a cock... it's all on you, so asking guys if they are "clean" (a term that deeply offends many, having an STD does not make one "un-clean") is not only a worthless exercise, it can be off-putting to many and reduce the number of guys you'll get to be with. i'm not a chaser, didn't want to get pozzed, but i'm pretty sure i know who pozzed me. We fucked often. He gave me syphillis too, and he claimed to be std free. Even though he lied, i still think he was a great fucker and i miss him (moved). Std's are a fact of life, they do not make someone good or bad, they just are. ❤️

Five minutes ago. A sweet guy i apparently sucked off a year ago, just showed up at my front door. He told me he just sold a car to a guy a couple of houses away and his ride was on the way, only had a few minutes, could he come in. i didn't remember him, but he obviously remembered where i lived, so i let him in. He pulled his shorts down and i sucked His sweet cock and he came fast and hard down my throat, just as his phone rang. He said it was his girlfriend and he answered, i heard a woman's voice. He told her he met a friend and would be right there. Was a lot of cum, sweet load... guy had tats. nice surprise.

.... unless one happens to be a bottom with some sub in him lol

Ditto both of you, from the other side. i am not a cum slut, but a slut for a Top who needs and wants to breed me. If a Top doesn't wan to breed me, if there isn't even a little desire there, i'll pass. For me, the point is mutual desire. A Tops cum represents some of His essence for me, a part of Him that He wants to leave inside of me and i want Him to leave a part of Himself inside of me... but the whole point for me is, Him inside of me, and not just physically. i think the guys who narrow the whole profound act of sex down to cum (not to minimize the awesomeness of cum btw), are missing out on a lot. i love hearing a Tops breathing and moans, words, then that wonderful sigh and spasm as He transfers a part of Himself from Him and into me. And i know many Tops have a similar response to their bottoms. If a bottom were really "just a hole," as many propose, than any hole should do... doesn't even have to be a guy, eh? i don't think it's true, i think it's the human attached to the hole that makes the difference.

i think you are dead on about guys giving off vibes or hints. When i was married and whoring and cheating on the DL, i had a huge amount of guilt and self hatred for cheating and lying. i felt like i was pretty obvious in so many ways. Not only that, but my former wife knew i was gay before we married, and i told her again after we were married. We were religious, so we had stupid and wrong ideas about what it meant to be "gay." She told me before we divorced that she had considered getting an annulment when i told here about still liking guys a few weeks after we were married. i naively thought she would be my helper in my fight to de-gay myself. So, even armed with that knowledge, and a few STD's along the way, she still did not connect that i was on the DL. i think she knew, but was in denial.