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In my opinion, good bottoms are made, not born. Therefore, I'd work to make sure the experience left him feeling sexually satisfied, mentally proud of the mutual pleasure his arse provided and hungry for more. I've topped 3 virgins that I am aware of and each time I started with lots of making out, touching, rimming and eventually fingering, fucking and breeding -- a mix of gentle, yet assertive action provides him with the confidence needed to give you control of his body, so he can relax and enjoy the new sensations associated with being touched, explored and penetrated. I'd give him nonverbal and verbal feedback to let him know how good it feels to be inside him and to let him know what behaviors I want to see repeated. (Think of the deflowering fuck as a teachable moment) ---eventually, I want him to tell me that he wants my load inside him --(I only fuck bare)-- that acknowledgment seals the deal for future fucks...rough fucking, verbal, and fetish issues are simply evolution.
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Sub, Sex Addict and sxlhlng - you bring up a great point -- while enjoying the thrill of the chase, I've always preferred to cultivate friends w/ benefits and fuckpals (hence my screen name); while sex with strangers is mentally exciting, it is never as hot as it is with someone I trust, respect and feel connected/attracted too. While I can bottom for a stranger and enjoy the physical sensations, my dick gets rock hard and my body responds completely differently when their's a connection...definitely a mind-fuck! :-)
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Good points nelliess -- I honestly can't recall the last time someone asked me to use a condom -- it's literally been 4 or 5 years. I simply assume sex will be bare and include breeding. I also talked with another top pal today -- He's sexy, 49 and bi -- married with 2 kids; he says he and his wife have great sex, but finds men more in tune with their inner whore and more willing to do whatever feels good in the moment. He really gets off on semi-public (outdoor) sex and men who will beg for his load. (interestingly his wife has always know he's bi and now that he's on PrEP always barebacks)...he likes to think that each guy will have a little of his DNA in them for the rest of their lives...laughingly said he wants to plant his daddy seed in 1,000 hot holes by the time he's 65 -- and I bet he will!
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00Felix -- hot response, when I top, I also like it when it's obvious the guy wants my cock and cum -- while a bit submissive and letting me lead, he is aggressive in telling and SHOWING me he wants it -- via his active engagement (sucking, kissing, moaning, eye contact, etc.) -- I also LUV it when the guy keeps my load inside him as long as possible.
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I was talking to a fuckbuddy during lunch today -- a smoking hot black stud with over 10 thick inches of cock. When we met over a decase ago, he was a total top or at least 90% of the time (and I happily rode and got bred by that magnificant cock several times each weeek for years); today, however it's almost the reverse...he prefers to bottom. I asked him if what goes through his head changes depending on whether he is topping or bottoming -- like me, he has a high pressure, high profile job and gets off on the unique feelings associated with "giving up control" in the bedroom...or switching from dominant at work to submissive sexually. He also thinks a lot about the CUM that his top will be depositing inside him and that turns him on in a big way. I tend to think about the awesome physical sensations of sex, whether topping or bottoming. Similarly, my (mostly top) partner gets hard when he feels in-control in bed -- even when he bottoms, he wants to be in charge...and do the riding, control the pace, etc. So, I'm curious to learn about what others think about during the actual act of sex---when fucking and breeding what are you focused on mentally -- what's running through your brain?
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I've tried DP several times -- agree with Barebacker -- it's easier with bigger --especially LONGER cocks. Took two 8" cocks for over half an hour once, that was the best. One top laying down as I sat on his dick and leaned forward, kissing him -- the other slid inside behind me -- we rocked back and forth and made out until they both blew their loads deep inside me, which sent me over the moon too! Now I'm wanting to try to DP as a top, but I'm just over 6.5" so may have to get creative?!
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I luv putting my dick in a cum filled hole that's been fucked loose -- prefer that it tightens back up eventually though -- not rosebud fan.
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Being On Meds And Getting In Shape
atlfukbud replied to VersatileBreeder's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Congrats on your decision! I don't know anyone on Stribld who has had issues losing weight. Personally, for me it means cutting sugar (which I love pastries, pies, etc!), and portion/calorie management... and increasing activity -- jog, walk the dog, whatever you enjoy do more of it consistently. It took me about 6 months to lose 25 pounds, stick with it and make it a fun "mental game" --find a buddy to compete with maybe? -
Have had sex in several pools over the years. Fucked one woman on the beach at night -- planning to go skinny dipping with 2 men this weekend, so excited to see what develops :-D
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I'm relatively smooth, so don't have to shave...but have a HUNG black fuck buddy, who wants his pussy shaved smooth -- won't put his dick in a hairy or stubbly hole...so I find that dry shaving (slowly and carefully) actually works great around my hole...then moisturize!
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Barebacking With Married Men
atlfukbud replied to bottombunk's topic in General Bareback Sex Stories
Great stories - I've never met a married man who used a rubber when fucking a dude! -
I almost always have sex with pals, regular fuck buds and their friends... so I'm working to make sure I'm matching their engagement and giving them what they want -- in turn, i enjoy the hell out of feeling their dick inside of me, opening me up and pounding my magic button! Feeling their cum inside me for hours later is a bonus! I also take note of anything special they do that turns me on, as I may want to try that with one of my pals who prefers to bottom.
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Visiting Orlando, 6/27 To 7/6/2015
atlfukbud replied to Bmoreravensfan2's topic in Orlando Metro Area
Hubby and I will be near Tampa then, would luv to breed you...hit me up via message -
Cumming hands-free while getting fucked is the ultimate, but doesn't happen often for me, so I usually just enjoy the ride when bottoming. Typicall one of 3 things happens next: 1) regular fuck buddies either get me off as part of the process or 2) they suck or jack me off after they shoot their load or 3) I will take care of it myself later on...(or between fucks). When I'm topping however, I don't want my bottom go jack off -- I want to control that... so generally I will alternate between general making out and jacking him slowly and control when he comes. Feeling his hungry, wet hole tighten and spasm around my hard cock feels amazing and pushes me to the breeding point.
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As of late, I've been helping my top partner tag-team his btm pals on weekends... it's incredibly hot. Recently, we had another top join and we all shared 2 hot bottom men over night. There's just so many more options for hot sex with more than 2 people. And, while I luv feeling cock and cum in my arse, there's nothing better than feeling a tight welcoming hole wrapped around your pole either -- Now, that being said, I would personally feel a bit anxious about walking into a room of unknown men (and potentially superior tops) expecting me to fuck and breed a new hole -- esp. one that I may not be any attraction to. Call me old fashion, but "any port (hole) in a storm" doesn't get me going -- in fact, nothing gets me hard (or wet) like attraction, a great smile and a hot kiss!
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I Watched It On Webcam
atlfukbud replied to Knockmeup770's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Hottest tale I've read on here! -
Taken: 7 cocks 24 anal loads 5 oral loads Given: 4 anal loads 8 oral loads
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Luv the feeling of being flooded by cum -- it usually starts leaking out of my ass by the 4th load -- I can keep it inside overnight otherwise...
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Awesome topic! I luv topping (tag teaming) a hot btm boy with my hubby and we have a hot vers/btm pal that we do this with almost every weekend. Being the bottom while a vers guy tops me and gets fucked simultaneously rocks as well. And, I'm good with being versatile (top or bottom) in a DP situation -- but I have to say it feels SOOO amazing that I don't last too long as a top :-D
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As a vers/btm, I'm totally cool playing with another bottom or two -- lots of fun options -- from swapping fucks to making out while we get fucked to felching, etc...
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Do Any Of Your Friends Know You Bareback?
atlfukbud replied to Scottyrim's topic in General Discussion
I've never discussed it with work or family/family friends, but I've had bb sex with most of my gay pals at one time or another, so of course they all do. I don't know any gay men these days who use rubbers consistently. -
As a previously married man, I've fucked an been fucked by plenty of them. I'd LUV to bareback fuck with a sexy fit "str8" couple though -- fuck the wife and eat cum from her cunt while she watches me fuck her husband and him fuck me
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Erection Issues/solutions?
atlfukbud replied to breederboy's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I've had similar issues -- and have been mostly bottoming because of it -- while I luv to bottom, I also really enjoy the feel of my dick sliding in and out of an awesome hole, too! So, I'm experimenting with Viagra and Cialis daily - 5mg -- Cialis is expensive (order from Canada for under $300 for 90 pills) -- the 5 mg pretty much keeps me ready to fuck (I take it with dinner), or I can also take 2 pills and 30 minutes later be ready to go all night. Definitely avoid beta blockers, antihistimines and antidepressants if possible or go with the ones that have minimal sexual side effects. Psychological can also be important as bearbandit suggests -- if that's the issue you may be able to reprogram via therapy and also with successful sex over time. Good luck! -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
atlfukbud replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Last night at midnight I had a guy stop by and fuck me -- he texted me and said he wanted me in a jock and "ass up" when he arrived -- which I did -- on my front porch (lights off so the neighbors could only see shadows) --I hit poppers when I heard him drive up. He approached me and dropped his jeans -- and shoved his rock hard 8 thick inches in my ass. Fucked me hard and bred in about 5 minutes. Then we went inside for round two and another 45 minutes of fucking. i wish every night could end this way! -
Why Did You Start Barebacking?
atlfukbud replied to west933's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I grew up in the 70s and 80s having sex play with older male and female neighbors, cousins, etc... and of course we only used rubbers to prevent pregnancy -- so male/male sex was always bare. As an adult i hate the way rubbers feel -- on my cock or in my arse -- I read on here that wearing a condom during sex is like wearing socks when you swim in the ocean and I have to agree - YUCK.
