NLbear

Unfortunately can't make Pride this year (nor Bear Carnival next month). Also hope to go later this year.

Difficult to answer. In my daily life I'm not submissive at all. I too much like to be in control of everything. In the bedroom I (usually) consider myself an equal partner of the top. It takes two to tango and I make sure I get as much fun (being the bottom) as the top is having. BUT, I kinda like it when the top takes control and tells me what to do or makes me do things (within my limits) and he gets verbal. That doesn't mean he needs to get all dominant and "degrade" me. I don't think I'm a very submissive bottom as many here state they are. I never let a top do things to me that I absolutely do not want in the heat of the moment. I like fucks (like you describe) where there is no dominance and we both enjoy what we're doing. Those usually are the best fucks. But I don't mind being pushed around a little and told by the top what to do, understanding that this part of the "play", and it turns him on without it becoming a dominant top "using" a bottom only for his own pleasure. I have one fuckbuddy who just wants to get off and uses my hole for that but he is never dominant or degrading. I let him because he's an excellent top and makes sure I get at least one load every week ;-) My other FB is my "equal" and he gets off seeing how what he does with his dick turns me into a total fuck slut. He loves seeing me squirm and begging. He's the one I always look forward to having around. With random guys you sometimes don't know how it will go. Some are lame tops, some turn out out to be very abusive. The latter ones won't get a second chance. Some tops fuck for hours and some dump a load in two minutes. Best is somewhere in between. Guess the same goes for tops. You don't know if the bottom turns out to be a very active one or just lays there like a sack of patatoes. Everyone has a preference. Mine is an equal partner and if he gets a little verbal and pushes me around a bit and tells me what to do without becoming overly dominant I'm a happy bottom!

In addition to Grindr use the PlanetRomeo.com app and/or site which is very popular all over Europe. It's free although some features are limited to paying members. Plan in advance, create a profile, put up some pics, a travel plan (guys do check who's visiting) and add your hotel (or B&B/Airbnb) as your location. State your nationality in your profile, visiting foreigners are always interesting "new meat"' ;-) It has a profile "safe sex" option for Always, Needs to be discussed, Never or just blank (which is more or less stating you do bare...).

I noticed , in my case, it depends on the browser I'm using. I'm on a Windows PC. When I use IE11 I cannot access chat. I can when I use Chrome.

I'm familiar with those so that's not what I meant. But thanks anyway!

I was referring to their "Album" which is a button on their profile, next to Activity and so on. You have one. But some users show they have added pics but don't have that Album button. So don't have a clue where they posted their pics.

Sometimes you see a notification that a user has added pics to their User Gallery. But when you look at their profile there is no Gallery on it. I didn't notice anywhere there is an option to set Galleries to "private"? Are those locked and if yes who can see them? Just asking because I wondered why one would have a gallery that nobody can see....?

From what I noticed there seems to be a limit of (about) 10 Likes per day, maybe running on EST time? Sometimes I run into my limit as well (early morning, 'leftovers' from the previous day?) but then later I am able to 'react' again once it's after 12am EST again.

You've made that point several times hungry_hole and I understand where you're coming from. But I'm simply not interested in topping. Sure, I can slide my dick in a bottom to cum but I have to fuck him first before I shoot my load. And sometimes I do, but not often. I's not me and it's not what I like. If I even have a load to shoot. A good top can get me off just by fucking me. And even if I haven't cum I may not feel like fucking another bottom. I identify myself as a bottom, not vers.

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By: everyinch123 https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/both-holes-creamed-at-the-gh-33567852 BOTH HOLES CREAMED AT THE GH This guy is a nerdy, sexy computer guy. He doesn't say much. One exception was when he whispered for me to back my ass up to the gh for him. About 40 seconds later he made a direct deposit. Enjoy!

By: MICumPig https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/gloryhole-1-31-2018-xtube-fan-dickwagner49-33619142 1.31.2018 - XTUBE FAN DICKWAGNER49 A new visitor to my gloryhole. XTube fan DickWagner49 stopped by to get his rocks off. An older man with a nice, slighty thicker cock. He used to understall action but wanted my lips and throat to fuck and seed. He surprised me by asking if he could suck me off too. After I milked out his load, I turned the tables and let him suck a load out of me. Wasn't too long after, I was shooting a load for him. Great job man! Hope to meet up again.

An oldie By: RydenCoxwell https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/the-young-buck-returns-18901352 THE YOUNG BUCK RETURNS met this stud about a month ago, made sure we sent him to work with a smile. He text'd my bf (OrangeTango) out of the blue the other night and this is what happened...

True. But sometimes I am surprised by the acting skills. OK, it's not an Oscar winning performance but not worse than some acting you see in a soap opera. Some porn performers do a better job. And if the acting is bad there are always the sex scenes that make up for it ;-)

Having lived in Playa del Ingles I agree with Gran Canaria. I didn't suggest it because it's not really a big city and it's quite a haul it you travel from the US with a stopover in either Mardid or Barcelona. But yes, you can find sex 24/7 there if you like. And the weather helps getting in the mood ;-)

By: DeltaTangoFoxtrot https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/83-breeding-our-west-coast-pup-in-vegas-full-video-33589162 83. BREEDING OUR WEST COAST PUP IN VEGAS : FULL VIDEO During our Vegas trip one of our favorite b0ys flew out to see us, he landed and stayed only an hour and a half before flying back (that's commitment). I bred him 4 times and my hubby twice. He took 6 loads in an hour and a half and we fucked him all over our hotel room overlooking the Vegas strip. He loves having his ass eaten so I made sure to make love to it a bit before splitting him open. He makes eye contact the entire time I am fucking him (except when he has a cock in his mouth).

By: Fuckery30 https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/breeding-cum-hungry-college-stud-33546192 BREEDING CUM HUNGRY COLLEGE STUD This dude and I went at it all night. One of the most perfect holes I’ve ever used. We edged fucked around all night before I busted on his hole and pounded my cum in deep. Beautiful creampie followed. Came in him multiples more times after. More videos to follow with this stud. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/bareback-fucking-college-student-33566052 BAREBACK FUCKING COLLEGE STUDENT Having some fun with one of my regular fuck bubs.... I love hearing him moan with pleasure while he’s taking a pounding like a champ. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/breeding-a-man-slut-33573482 BREEDING A MAN SLUT What can I say about this dude... he’s hot as hell, knows how to fuck and loves taking my loads. True love right there?❤️

Never had it done to me. But once at Basement Studios in Gran Canaria (sex oriented resort) I saw a guy at the pool who had "fuck" on one cheek and "slut" written on the other. Worked for him. I saw him getting banged every time I entered the maze. Helped he had a very tasty bubble butt so he probably would have been lucky without it.

Good points @bbzh

I get what both of you are saying. Believe me, I rather be with a partner with whom I "click" with on every level, including sex. And I agree that sex is an important part of a relationship. But those (the total package) seem hard to find and it's not everything. At this point in my life I think I'd rather be with a soulmate without the sex (and both get that somewhere else) than be with someone who satisfies every single sexual need I may have but get into arguments and feel annoyed about (and him about me) because we don't click on other levels. Irritation is a killer. Maybe I feel this way because I'm older now and I have been a slut since I was 17? I have been whoring around for so many years that maybe I am looking for something more at home if I wouldn't be single? And if that means having a partner who I can have everything with I want/need, except sex, I would be more inclined to accept that? Sex is great and I'm addicted to it, I readily admit that. But sex can be found somewhere else. And also there you need to be on the same level. I have been in only in one relationship, when I was 27. My ex-bf had it all: goodlooking, rich (well, a lot richer than me, I just graduated and just started my first job), great job, well connected socially, and a big 9" dick. I ignored the fact that he could be obnoxious and look down on people who weren't on the same social level. Thought that would change or didn't even recognise that at the time. Only realised after I moved in and were living together that it irrtated the hell out of me. Among other things I hadn't noticed before, e.g. domestic stuff, certain views I didn't realised he had). And he turned into a cold fish in bed with a sex drive way below mine. From then on it only lasted a year before we broke up. I had given up everything when I moved in and had to start from scratch when it was over. Had cold feet getting involved with someone ever since. This experience probably has probably ruined me for a long time when it comes to relationships. It was a mistake from the beginning but you only realise that later. So, having a relationship with a sexually incompatible but loving partner and soulmate and having fuckbuddies on the side for sex doesn't seem like a bad idea to me even though the total package is to be preferred. As for the "shopping list" (although I know you didn't mean it that way tallslenderguy) I thought about that. Still have to be attracted to him physically (face, body) even though we do not connect sexually. Comfortable together (even though you may not belong to the same social circles). Be on a similar level intellectually, views on life, similar interests, leave each other free to do things on your own (don't smother each other), be independent, be best buddies. Maybe too much to ask...?

I agree with @CumBustion that it's easier in big cities. I noticed when I moved from the big city (if you can call any city in NL big) to the smaller town I now live. But then again, you only need a few regulars to keep your hole happy ;-)

"The Pizza Boy: He Delivers". A William Higgins classic that started a whole range of pizza boys movies. Steve Henson and Chad 12" Johnson. A must see, even if it's dated! There's a remastered DVD version from 2012 with additional scenes.