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I agree with @CumBustion that it's easier in big cities. I noticed when I moved from the big city (if you can call any city in NL big) to the smaller town I now live. But then again, you only need a few regulars to keep your hole happy ;-)

"The Pizza Boy: He Delivers". A William Higgins classic that started a whole range of pizza boys movies. Steve Henson and Chad 12" Johnson. A must see, even if it's dated! There's a remastered DVD version from 2012 with additional scenes.

I'd love to go to Berlin some time as well. Last time I was there the wall was still standing! But there is also something to say for southern European cities. Especially if you go in spring time. It's already warm then there and what's better then roaming the city in shorts (commando I would say, for easy access, hehe!) and a T-shirt or tank top? Barcelona has the added advantage of having Sitges with its gay beaches (nude outside the town or clothed in front of the hotels at the boulevard) a short train ride away. I wouldn't rule that out.

Great responses and views. Thanks guys. @tallslenderguy "Have you formulated a list of what you are looking for in a relationship?" No I haven't. But I think you can recognise a soulmate or best friend (as @FelchingPisser says) when you meet him? It would just feel good and if it's mutual it could very well work, apart from the sexual issue. Until now I have been avoiding getting into a relationship. I have been single for so long and love my independence. I can do whatever I want whenever I want. It would be hard to suddenly start taking someone else into account. I have great sex (still) but I do miss someone special to share the non-sexual things in life. Sexually it's obvious we would have an open relationship. I know some say two bottoms can have a good time together but that's not my thing and I prefer the real thing. He hopefully too. When I was much younger I would likely be jealous as hell (even though I would also likely be the one to cheat). I think I could handle both a "don't ask don't tell" situation and a "Do kiss and tell" situation now. The latter sounds more like me at this stage in my life. I don't know if we would compete for the same top guys. Maybe sometimes without knowing? Sharing a top indeed sounds unlikely and we may have a different taste in that anyway. But I would love to see him getting fucked. He can be as slutty as he wants in that aspect (I am too) or not at all and be a vanilla homebody, as long he respects that I am and doesn't care I am. Maybe the "hard work" would be not to let our sexual side and exploits affect the other aspects of the relationship. Maybe I am describing an unreal ideal situation. As @ramithome says, you can't make someone into what you want him to be.

I saw the same ads. Didn't click on them as I never do with ads for porn (trying to avoid spam). I thought the one with the butt plug was a job interview where the butt plug was remotely activated on the job applicant surprising the interviewer? The few seconds I saw were over the top but the idea is funny. The other one with the straight roommate plays into the fantasy of many to seduce and turn a straight guy. And who better to seduce than your hot straight roomie? ;-) I am probably in the minority but I do like porn with a storyline for a change now and then. The acting is not good most of the times but sometimes it's actually not bad at all surprisingly, considering these are porn models and not actors. I mean, carrying a story with actual lines is something different than just moaning "oh yeah, fuck my hole". Or grunting "Do you want my load boy"? Most porn with a storyline is not bareback unfortunately. There are some but the majority isn't. At least, the ones I saw. I do like some companies who produce porn like this. I have always liked Men At Play because I have a thing for hot suited guys and office sex. Their models and productions are top notch in that area. And the acting is OK. Some of their earlier productions were BB if I recall correctly (with performers who were real life partners?). Similarly I like UKNakedMen for their stories and settings (Gardener, Police Officer, Tradies and such). Situations you are unlikely to bump into but fantasize about. Stag Homme with their smoldering Latin studs. I am a big fan of Eric Videos which obviously are all bareback. I like Eric's cruising videos of guys in Paris roaming the streets or cruising areas (reminds me of me when I was younger!). KeiranXXL and Darko are some of my favorite performers. And I like Joe Gage's productions for Titan with rugged men and stories set in rural small town America. Just to name a few, I'm sure I'm forgetting some. Yes, I prefer porn to be BB but I do like to watch these as well. It's a welcome change now and then from the straight-in-your-face hole banging vids. I know men.com (I think?) produced some gay porn parodies on major feature films. Haven't seen those so don't know what those are like. Anyone?

It has actually been a longtime fantasy of mine to set up and run a BB holiday resort. Somewhere secluded in the woods in a warm location (e.g. Southern Europe in my case). Maybe 15-20 holiday cabins for 1-2-4 guys each. A bar/club for social meets. An outdoor cruising area in the woods with places convenient to fuck (e.g. a fuck tree, fuck bench or similar). Sheds with video booths or theatre (free of course) and gloryholes. A barn where you can organise events like Fickstutenmarkt in Berlin (and other places). This could be a weekly or monthly event which also non-residents can subscribe to and attend. I would certainly live on the premises and entertain the guests;-)

Thanks for the responses guys. Seems like my thinking is wrong that long term relationships always include both "setting up house" and sexual satisfaction. Could be either or both. I know that there are couples who get along so great in bed that sex was the main point of getting together but found out later they can't really get along on different levels which causes friction in the relationship. I know a perfect relationship doesn't exist. It's hard work and there will always be things both will never agree on but sometimes the non-sexual aspects/problems of a relationship have their impact of what happens in the bedroom too. I think my question comes from the fact that I think I have commitment problems. Like being trapped in something you can't fully commit to. And the fact that I don't think I can be in a monogamous relationship. Or maybe because I am promiscuous now (can you be promiscuous as a single guy?) that I can't be faithful to one partner. So I was wondering what I would do if I met a guy who would be my "soulmate" on every level except sex simply because he's also a bottom. If that were the case we could probably make it work if we both could seek sex elsewhere - and be completely happy with that- but be a couple in every other sense. Maybe that would even be a more solid relationship than one based on sexual compatibility but a disconnect on other levels (in the longterm)? And I was wondering if there are any guys out there who are in a relationship like that and for who this works? Of course single guys can share their thoughts as well about what they would do when they connect with a guy on many levels except sexual. Love to hear their thoughts on this.

Never do that myself but I love it when I see a guy like that with a hot ass exposed in the mens room. Never really understood why some guys feel the need to do that, after all what's a fly for? But hey, please go ahead!

Question for guys in a relationship. Sometimes you meet someone who you really connect with and could easily see yourself being in a relationship with only to find out that you really connect on all levels except sex. Meaning you're a total bottom and so is he. Or you're a total top and so is he. Not talking about one of you being vers, just both of you being top or bottom. What do you do? Any guys here who are in such a relationship? Most couples seem to -conveniently- consist of a top and a bottom. But I can't believe "The Guy for You" always happens to be someone who has the opposite sexual appetite and role. If you meet someone like that, or if you already have, would you enter such a relationship? And how do you go about the sex issue? Each goes his own way when it comes to getting sex (I do include open relationships in this question. Most guys are not mongamous)? Or play together with a third (or more) all the time? Do you have sex together at all or never? Or would you assume the opposite role just for him in your relationship and start bottoming or topping just for him even though that goes against what you really like? I'm curious as over the years I have met some guys I really liked and I could see myself getting more involved with, maybe even start a relationship with (although I haven't really been a relationship type of guy so far) but feel myself pulling back going further because we're not sexually compatible and I think that could become an issue in the end. How do/would you handle this?

I'm pretty quiet myself but love a verbal top. But evenly arousing is a verbal top in a language you don't understand. I have Polish regular and don't understand a word he is saying. Same with Italian and Spanish guys. Or French, although I understand enough French to understand some of what they say sometimes and watching enough EricVideos does help ;-)

When are you going? Well, you must have read the stories about Berlin here (or Barelin rather). So that would be a good choice. Or Amsterdam (can't really comment on that myself). If you like it sunnier Barcelona and Madrid are an option. Enough clubs there. Paris? I had a lot of fun in Rome but really couldn't find any sex clubs or gay bars where I would feel comfortable (not being 30 anymore). Plenty of horny bare Italians though if you use PlanetRomeo looking for locals to meet, and I had a lot of them and plenty of eye candy on the streets. As for hotels and B&Bs you never know upfront what the situation is and if you will be able to host. Ask the question in the local Europe section here about hotels (or do a search there) once you have decided where to go. Or use AirBNB for privacy or their gay equivalent www.misterbnb.com. At least the owners are (mostly) gay and must know their guests are not saints. Check if they don't have a "service" of coming in every morning/afternoon to clean the apartment. You don't want them knocking at the door with new towels when you're enjoying local dick. And research WHERE exactly those are located. You don't want to be miles out of the city center and having to travel a lot. Must admit I haven't used that site myself so far. Have fun and let us know how you got on.

Only had this once years ago with a guy who even wasn't that old. I usually try to postpone my own orgasm as much as possible and getting a blowjob gets me off pretty quickly. So getting one after being fucked is OK. Or when the top makes me cum by just fucking me too (although that's a whole different sensation). This guy fucked me and then surprised me by taking out his dentures and blowing me. At first I was put off but he did such a great job slobbering all over my dick and balls (obviously he didn't have to mind his teeth) that I shot within minutes and didn't mind at all. Never saw him again but I remember him for the "special treat".

By: manutdboy https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/15-group-fun-3-tops-1-bottom-33518402 15. GROUP FUN (3 TOPS 1 BOTTOM) Got together with the couple from video #11 and my bear buddy who's the other top in video #13 to take turns fucking and breeding the bottom guy in the couple. I actually get fucked a bit in this video too. The bottom's partner sticks his cock in my ass while I'm fucking him. I cum in his ass while I'm getting fucked. Next my bear buddy gives him a load and then the bottom's partner finishes it off with load #3.

Had more of those than I liked. Can't say I'm a fan like you. Pushing his dick all the way down my throat with his hands on the back of my head, locking me, his balls on my chin and my nose in his pubes so I can't breathe. Guys, please. I'll gladly swallow the very last drop but at least let me get some air....!

My preferred position is still getting fucked doggy with the top thrusting into me. Hands on my hips pulling me onto him or on my shoulders (doing the same). Gets even better if I have a another nice dick to suck on while he's doing that and then them switching and taking turns ;-)

True. But I still like to know what to expect. A (real) pic of your body and dick (or ass) is not going to identify you on the street.....So I'm not a fan of blank profiles. Even though I have to admit I have given in to blank profiles as well when horny enough. LOL!

Didn't have sex in a week but last night got fucked by two big hairy bears who I hadn't seen for more than a year. Remembered I had a great time with them then so jumped at the question when they hit me up earlier this week when they said they would be in town. Both a lot bigger than me. I'm 5.7" and they are easily 6.3" and 6.5" I think. Really felt like a fuck toy with these two big guys pushing me around. They took forever taking turns and spit roasting me. Arrived at 9pm and didn't leave until after midnight. Both guys like fucking more than cumming. One with a nice uncut 7" dick (vers), the other an immensely thick cut 6" awesome ass stretcher (top). Almost too thick to take but I managed after the other one went first. Afterwards I felt like I had been fucked by 10 guys instead of just two ;-) Was exhausted after being used like that. Made me cum twice, which doesn't happen very often, by just plowing me. Squirted one (unexpectedly) on my bed and the other in the vers guy's mouth. Mindblowing. Between the two of them they still planted three loads in my ass and I swallowed one. Hole is sore like hell but more fun coming up tonight and tomorrow with a Saturday regular and my FB, if they both show up as planned. It's going to be a slutty weekend

I wish I could test it. Never had so many cocks in one row that I couldn't take one more. Howeve, it would be probably be aching jaws that would force me to stop, not loads.