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B.C. health officials are recommending Gloryholes
drscorpio replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I ran across this mask design today. I thought people might get a kick out of it. [think before following links] https://www.redbubble.com/i/mask/Raw-and-Order-Special-Bottoms-Unit-by-St-Jinx/46690509.9G0D8
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I would say some counseling to get you over your hangups will help. You seem to have a really negative self-image, and you seem to want to blame your situation on everyone else. Neither of those attributes is likely to attract people to you.
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I disagree strongly that "How are you?" or even "Sup" is rude. I agree they are non-questions but I do not agree that they throw responsibility onto the responder. If I get no response, I didn't waste a lot of time composing a thoughtful opener for someone who won't give me the time of day. If they say, "fine" or some other trivial response, then I give them my real opener. Launching into a full-scale conversation without first judging interest seems rude to me. Generally, even in face-to-face conversation "How are you?" is a meaningless, phatic expression. [think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phatic_expression @BootmanLA, I was not in anyway defending the practice of not responding. I was just commenting on the general consensus meaning of the practice. I always respond unless I can tell the profile is a bot or spammer (like the 4th time in the evening a different account with the same picture hits me up).
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When I have managed to have a conversation with people about this topic, the consensus seems to be that no response is the polite way to show non-interest whereas saying something negative is an aggressive "how dare you speak to me" sort of response. Honestly, I think it is a "not interested but don't want to burn bridges" response. At 11:30, you aren't good enough for them, but at 2:15, you might do.
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What made you decide to stop taking PrEP?
drscorpio replied to Rubberbanned's topic in PrEP Discussion
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The problem with this argument, @timfreo, is your aren't defining what "chemical condom" means (or "linguistically correct" for that matter). PrEP whether you mean Truvada or Descovy is a chemical; I will grant you that. They are drugs that when taken by an HIV negative person prevent them contracting HIV (I am not going to argue effectiveness. That is a separate issue). So if by "chemical condom" you mean "chemical that prevents contracting HIV," then I guess you would be correct, but that is a pretty nonsensical definition. Taking PrEP doesn't dull the top or bottoms physical sensation during the fuck, nor does it prevent the load from being deposited. Since these are two of the main complaints barebackers have always made about condoms, PrEP fails to be a condom in fairly major ways. So, I agree with @BootmanLA that your characterization of PrEP as a "chemical condom" in any sense other than Poz Fetishism (which doesn't belong in this area of the forum) is incorrect.
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I suspect he will come around over time. Most men like a variety of partners. He just has to feel safe enough to let it happen and to get past feeling like monogamy is an essential part of a good relationship. If you can get him to the point that your dirty talking about whoring him out is a turn on, you will be well on your way.
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Moderator's Note: He explained this in the first line of the first post.
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Your relationship ended and you’re grieving it. Having self-destructive urges is normal. My advice would be to stay on PrEP until you have worked through all your issues with your ex. You can always decided to get poz later, but you can't get un-poz if you change your mind later.
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I saw my doctor today. As soon as the new pills arrive, I am switching.
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What Is Your Current Hiv Status? (Poll)
drscorpio replied to a topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
If it’s still in the original bottle, it has an expiration date on it.
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Moderator’s Note: I split this post off from the PrEP Cumdumps thread because it seemed likely to get lost there.
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Moderator’s Note: I moved the old post and merged the threads, so you wouldn’t lose the replies.
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I am 56 and a total bottom. I am cool with guys my own age, but I get way more attention from young tops. Before COVID, I had a steady fuckbuddy who was 18 and another who was 32.
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Most of the extreme negativity is from an extremely negative poster who hasn't been around for a long time. Sorry, if it was unpleasant for you. We are happy to have you here.
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am i gay? did my addiction made me into this?
drscorpio replied to nick9992's topic in General Discussion
Honestly, this all sounds too complicated to try to unpack and work through with strangers on the Internet. A good, sex-positive therapist can probably help you sort this all out. Whether or not you do that, please be honest with your girlfriend if you need to start having sex with men on the side. -
Been waiting for this chapter 😈
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Urge to Chase - How Bareback Starts
drscorpio replied to Jnjbarebkhusbands's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Moderator’s Note: Anything posted here is considered fictional even if it is based on real experiences. Please lightening up, @Collar4chemboys. Almost every story ever posted gets requests for more chapters. Even when the author specifically says there isn’t any more. There’s no reason to go off on someone over it. -
A top who loves/wants you because you are a cumdump is the best thing in the world!
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There is not a list. I cannot even show you what words are banned because they would not appear. Whether or not you would, people try to get around the bans everyday. When you first join the forum, you are a New Member. You can see this underneath your avatar in a post. New Members are not allowed to rate content. As you continue to post and receive likes, you will automatically be promoted to Junior Member, and you will be able to see the interface in the lower right-hand corner of the post.
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Every bit of this story has been great, but that last post was fucking beautiful - like poetry.
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Moderator's Note: Here is the relevant rule (Rule 5 from the link below): If you're writing about a personal sexual experience - post your story in the Members' Blog section (blog posts are moderated before they go up so be patient - do not post discussion topics - they'll be deleted) Stories in the Fiction stories are supposed to be fiction. That said people post fictionalized accounts of true-life experiences all the time. If you will please do this rather than making it a point to tell us things are true stories, it will save everyone a lot of hassle. There are a few members who are real sticklers about what goes in the Fiction sections. That's their right, and they are correct based on the rules. We are not going to start persecuting them. @daddybear, if this is more bullshit that you want to deal with, we will miss hearing the rest of your stories. A lot of us would love for you to continue.
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Moderator’s Note: The banned words thing is something rawTOP programmed into the forum software. Moderators cannot tell what the word you used is. It happens automatically. I didn’t even realize that was a banned word until now.
