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  1. drscorpio
    When I first started my job in a small Southern town, I didn't know anyone here. The guy in my department who had started the year before took me out to dinner the first Friday night of the semester. We had already pegged each other as gay, so we ended up back at my place hooking up. He didn't really do it for me, but I didn't know when I would find a hookup again (pre-internet, pre-hookup apps). He turned out to be a condom nazi, so even though I wasn't yet a committed barebacker, it was an extra turn off. It was obvious to both of us that we had no chemistry, so even though we hooked up a couple more times over the first year, nothing really came of it. Over the next couple of years, he became more and more of a problem at work. No one really cared for him much, but we constantly clashed because we were always working on things together being the new guys. Eventually, it came to a head at work, and we had a huge blow up. I told the boss I wasn't willing to work with him on projects. He quit a few months later. I didn't necessarily regret taking his cock, but I wouldn't have if I had known him before we fucked.
  2. drscorpio
    Glad you got the help you need. That's a lot to live with, but you seem to have a handle on it.
  3. drscorpio
    A lot of it comes down to not being an asshole. You don't have to be rude about your preferences, but you also don't owe anyone an explanation for why you aren't into them. Putting "no blacks, no asians" in your profile because you can't be bothered to say "no, thank you" to people who don't do it for you seems like being an asshole to me. Repeatedly asking "but why won't you give me a shot?" is definitely being an asshole.
  4. drscorpio
    The desire to pair-bond with a mate is a real human desire. If you have strong enough feelings of infatuation for someone, they can crowd out your other real human desire to fuck everyone you can. Eventually, the infatuation fades. If you are lucky it deepens into real love. Regardless, that is when people start to stray from their partners. The problem we have in modern society is that we view the urge to stray as a sign the original feelings were mistaken instead of seeing it as a sign that it is time to open the relationship. My late husband and I were monogamous for the first 5 or so years. It wasn't a hardship for me because from the first time he came in my ass, I didn't want anyone else. Sex with him was so exciting that I didn't feel the need to take other cock. Eventually, we both started to miss sex with others. Then we opened things up, and enjoyed a happy open relationship until he died. He loved finding men to breed me while he watched and then fucking my cummy hole. In retrospect, we probably could have opened up earlier, but we were wrapped up in buying a home together and selling our old places for over a year which distracted us from talking about it. Talk to him about how you feel. It sounds like you are on the same page in so many ways.
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    Snuff to me means erotic depictions of death/murder. A suicide in and of itself isn’t a problem.
  6. drscorpio
    Damn! That was super hot. Thanks for sharing it.
  7. drscorpio
    I ran across this mask design today. I thought people might get a kick out of it. [think before following links] https://www.redbubble.com/i/mask/Raw-and-Order-Special-Bottoms-Unit-by-St-Jinx/46690509.9G0D8
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    I would say some counseling to get you over your hangups will help. You seem to have a really negative self-image, and you seem to want to blame your situation on everyone else. Neither of those attributes is likely to attract people to you.
  9. drscorpio
    I disagree strongly that "How are you?" or even "Sup" is rude. I agree they are non-questions but I do not agree that they throw responsibility onto the responder. If I get no response, I didn't waste a lot of time composing a thoughtful opener for someone who won't give me the time of day. If they say, "fine" or some other trivial response, then I give them my real opener. Launching into a full-scale conversation without first judging interest seems rude to me. Generally, even in face-to-face conversation "How are you?" is a meaningless, phatic expression. [think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phatic_expression @BootmanLA, I was not in anyway defending the practice of not responding. I was just commenting on the general consensus meaning of the practice. I always respond unless I can tell the profile is a bot or spammer (like the 4th time in the evening a different account with the same picture hits me up).
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    When I have managed to have a conversation with people about this topic, the consensus seems to be that no response is the polite way to show non-interest whereas saying something negative is an aggressive "how dare you speak to me" sort of response. Honestly, I think it is a "not interested but don't want to burn bridges" response. At 11:30, you aren't good enough for them, but at 2:15, you might do.
  11. drscorpio
    Moderator's Note: Good point. Anyone who wants to continue that debate can go to the link below.
  12. drscorpio
    The problem with this argument, @timfreo, is your aren't defining what "chemical condom" means (or "linguistically correct" for that matter). PrEP whether you mean Truvada or Descovy is a chemical; I will grant you that. They are drugs that when taken by an HIV negative person prevent them contracting HIV (I am not going to argue effectiveness. That is a separate issue). So if by "chemical condom" you mean "chemical that prevents contracting HIV," then I guess you would be correct, but that is a pretty nonsensical definition. Taking PrEP doesn't dull the top or bottoms physical sensation during the fuck, nor does it prevent the load from being deposited. Since these are two of the main complaints barebackers have always made about condoms, PrEP fails to be a condom in fairly major ways. So, I agree with @BootmanLA that your characterization of PrEP as a "chemical condom" in any sense other than Poz Fetishism (which doesn't belong in this area of the forum) is incorrect.
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    I suspect he will come around over time. Most men like a variety of partners. He just has to feel safe enough to let it happen and to get past feeling like monogamy is an essential part of a good relationship. If you can get him to the point that your dirty talking about whoring him out is a turn on, you will be well on your way.
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    Moderator's Note: He explained this in the first line of the first post.
  15. drscorpio
    Your relationship ended and you’re grieving it. Having self-destructive urges is normal. My advice would be to stay on PrEP until you have worked through all your issues with your ex. You can always decided to get poz later, but you can't get un-poz if you change your mind later.
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    I saw my doctor today. As soon as the new pills arrive, I am switching.
  17. drscorpio
    If it’s still in the original bottle, it has an expiration date on it.
  18. drscorpio
    Moderator’s Note: I split this post off from the PrEP Cumdumps thread because it seemed likely to get lost there.
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    Moderator’s Note: I moved the old post and merged the threads, so you wouldn’t lose the replies.
  20. drscorpio
    I am 56 and a total bottom. I am cool with guys my own age, but I get way more attention from young tops. Before COVID, I had a steady fuckbuddy who was 18 and another who was 32.
  21. drscorpio
    Most of the extreme negativity is from an extremely negative poster who hasn't been around for a long time. Sorry, if it was unpleasant for you. We are happy to have you here.
  22. drscorpio
    Honestly, this all sounds too complicated to try to unpack and work through with strangers on the Internet. A good, sex-positive therapist can probably help you sort this all out. Whether or not you do that, please be honest with your girlfriend if you need to start having sex with men on the side.
  23. drscorpio
    Been waiting for this chapter 😈
  24. drscorpio
    Fixed it for you. Just make a report when a post needs editing. Always glad to help.
  25. drscorpio
    Moderator’s Note: Anything posted here is considered fictional even if it is based on real experiences. Please lightening up, @Collar4chemboys. Almost every story ever posted gets requests for more chapters. Even when the author specifically says there isn’t any more. There’s no reason to go off on someone over it.

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