drscorpio

Could you give me a link to the picture in question in a private message?

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I think there is a lot of evidence to suggest STIs rates are higher. I think it has more to do with the decline in condom usage that started before PrEP than just PrEP alone. Lots of guys on this site had already gone bareback only years before PrEP became available. To the original poster, I was sexually active in the early 80s before people knew about HIV. Gay guys started using condoms to prevent HIV. The fact that they prevent other STIs was just gravy. We all accepted that being a sexually active gay man meant regularly getting treated for STIs.

All of that is fine for this area

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I started having sex in the early 80s, so all of my first experiences were bare. In 1985, I moved to Austin to go to graduate school, and I became very frightened of HIV. I would still play bare with my old fuckbuddies when I was home for a break, but I was a condom nazi otherwise. Honestly, I was so overwhelmed with school for the first year that I barely had any sex. I had my first serious boyfriend the next year, and we played with rubbers most of the time at my insistence (sorry, Tom). Eventually, I started sleeping around a lot, but I still always used rubbers. I am sure I probably got stealthed a few times because I was having a lot of anonymous sex. About 5 years later, I had placed a personal ad in the local alternative paper (the 1990s version of Grindr for anyone who is too young to remember). Through this ad, I met up with Pete, a Latino man in his 40s who claimed he was only looking for head. We started out with me between his legs as he sat on my couch. He slowly maneuvered us into 69. Then he started eating my ass. I had had a few rim jobs before, but mostly from other young guys who didn't really know what they were doing. Pete was a master. Before I knew it I was sitting on the couch, and he was kneeling between my upraised legs with his tongue all the way up my hole. With one smooth motion, he moved up and slid his 8.5 uncut inches inside me. I had never taken a cock that big without any discomfort before; he had me so opened up with his mouth that it glided right in. I was so full and in ecstasy. I am not proud of this next part. Pete only pumped into me a few times before it hit me that he was in me bare. I freaked, and he was a gentleman about it. We put on a rubber to finish. He fucked me another time a couple of days later also covered. But I could not get over how good his bare cock felt. A couple of weeks after that, he called me up wanting to hook up. My roommate was home that day, so I could not host. He invited me over to his place. This time in addition to the expert rim job he also got me high on poppers. I think he would have been willing to use a rubber again, but I asked him to fuck me bare. I can still remember the moment he came in me the first time. Pete and I continued to fuck bare the rest of the time I lived in Austin. I slowly started to ask other fuckbuddies to go bare. When I moved, I backslid into rubbers a bit especially if the top really wanted to use them. Over the next couple of years, I slowly moved out of using them entirely. By 1995 or so, I was doing bare only.

It’s always great to get a new story from you, Tommy Tank. I really enjoy your writing.

It was the perfect length for your story. Don't worry about running too long if what you are writing is hot.

Yes, private messages are private, generally speaking Private Messages can be reported which would give the staff the ability to see them. Of course, the person you send them to could grab a copy of your images and do whatever they liked with them.

Maybe you can share it with us ? Love your writing!

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I think Men.com did a whole movie of scenes involving remote control sex toys. The dinner party and the job interview are different scenes from the same movie. I like porn that has a storyline sometimes even if the story is corny and poorly acted. Men has decent production values, but I just can’t get into rubber porn. Bromo and NextDoorRaw both make bareback films with attempts at storytelling. I think NextDoorRaw does a better job of these two. RandyBlue used to do some of this, too, but they have switched formats in the last year to featuring mostly Eastern European twins who barely speak English.

You're welcome! My perspective on this: at this point, I know far more people personally who got pozzed when a condom broke than have been pozzed by PrEP failure in the whole world.

I saw the announcement in the Facebook Group PrEP Facts: Rethinking HIV Prevention and Sex which is run by Damon Jacobs, a well-known PrEP advocate. It is still Facebook as opposed to a curated website, but it's not just drivel. Here is a more scholarly discussion of the case: https://blogs.jwatch.org/hiv-id-observations/index.php/case-report-prep-failure-can-learn/2017/02/05/

I thought you were talking about not seeing the heart on your replies. When you post a response, you never see the heart on your own contributions. Maybe I am not getting what you are asking still. I checked those threads. Everything looked normal to me. Thank you for the kind words.

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This article addresses both your questions. We think it is for him as a top. https://www.poz.com/article/can-finally-say-ondemand-prep-really-work

I was sexually active before HIV/AIDS was a thing people knew about, so I learned to fuck bare. When we first started to hear about it, I already had 3 fuck buddies in college, so I felt comfortable with my safety. Two of them had been virgins before me, and the third was my first sex partner. When I started grad school in 1985 in Austin, I became a serious condom user. I had lots of sex, but always with rubbers. I had lots of adventures and firsts: threesome, orgy, black guy, Latino, Asian guy, older man, ... Looking back with what I know now, I am pretty sure I got stealth-bred a couple of time, but I was too naive to notice at the time. After about 5 years of this, a hot, hung Latino top got into me bare with a combination of sweet-talk, poppers, and the best rim job ever. That’s was the beginning of the end of playing safe. Once I had it bare again, condoms just felt wrong. Over the next 4-5 years, I slowly gave up on using rubbers. I went through the normal stages (only boyfriends, only guys I knew well, only guys who “looked clean”, ...) and eventually started taking all loads. When I met my husband in 2005, I hadn’t been tested in years. We both tested negative, and we were monogamous for 5 years to help build intimacy because we were doing long distance. We opened up the relationship eventually but kept playing bare. He loves watching me take loads. We accepted the fact that we could become Poz, but neither of us could stand rubbers. We did manage to stay negative. We both went on PrEP when it became available. I take it daily. Since he is a total top, he uses the on-demand protocol unless we are going to a place or event where we expect lots of sex. I have never turned away a guy for being Poz although the guys who told me all claimed to be undetectable. I have never taken a known-toxic load because it never came up; I am sure I took a few I did not know about. I don’t worry about it at all now.

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