LittleCav

I could not have said it better myself. I have fucked a lot of straight blokes and so many of them (especially the married ones) are unhappy with their sex life with their wives/girlfriends. And they always want to do EVERYTHING and try EVERYTHING. It kind of amazes me how really nasty and raunchy some of these straight blokes can be! Tony

All the signs are there - he's seeing someone else.

I don't think I understand what you mean "down too much" either - but I can give you my opinion as a barebacker top. I always encourage all bottoms to douche and douche – and douche again. I have fucked a lot of blokes and most have had a method of cleaning out their ass before sex and in most cases the enemas or douching or laxatives or whatever they did was all done without me seeing it – which is a good thing. One chap I was seeing used to fast the day before I fucked him (that took a bit of planning) and I thought that was a bit extreme. But in my experience, about 90% of the time all the planning and fasting and enemas failed. In almost every “planned” fuck session with a bloke, I have ended up packing their fudge. It has not always been pretty, with some rather disastrous and shitty (and smelly!) experiences that not only made a huge mess but embarrassed the bloke I was fucking to no end. But in most cases my experience is pulling my cock out of his ass after cumming and seeing a thick layer of his shit packed in under the cleft of my cock head. Almost every time I have fucked a bloke I have ended up with shit on my dick. I accept that as my cock is pretty long that I am probably “plumbing the depths” of a bloke’s asshole and that as a barebacker: there will be shit. I am not into shit in any way, shape or form but I have accepted it as a fact of my sex life. I say “planned” because this douching conversation doesn’t always include those instantaneous sexual encounters where I wind up fucking some random or anonymous bloke – where he has not has the chance to clean out his ass. Some of those incidents can be pretty gruesome but also quite funny to see the bottom’s total embarrassment when his breakfast starts pouring out of his ass as I pound him with my big dick. But I always see it through the end and give him my load in his shitty ass. As before, I am not into shit but sometimes “shit happens”. Sorry, could not resist that one! Tony

Get closer to him and become better friends. Build trust with him and he will trust you. Then, when he's not looking (just kidding) make your slow, careful and gentle move to fuck him - or for him to fuck you. You know this is where you want this to go - so just do it. I have never fucked a blind bloke but damn I would love to. You are a vey luck chap! Go for it and nail his ass! Tony

Yeah, that's me. If a bloke tells me to stop I always just fuck him harder. Safe words are for girls....

I wish all the blokes I fuck could be just like you. Usually I am not very concerned about his orgasm at all but I think it is incredibly hot if he cums handsfree. I don’t think it is something a bottom can learn but as I am the bloke who delivers 1 and 2 above and know that my big cock fucking his ass might make him cum handsfree… it is flattering. And I have fucked blokes really hard so they will cum handsfree and it usually works, but ultimately it’s up to his body. I don’t really need to get into the semantics of his orgasm but if he CUMS handsfree without an ORGASM, that is quite sexy. The frustration and desperation he feels in that instance is so hot and only makes me fuck him harder. TONY

I love the word "cherish".

Who is this bloke? This is probably my ideal bottom! I LOVE to fuck blokes with really small cocks, especially if they are young and can't get hard. Of course these blokes never try to fuck me (which will never happen) but really I feed off the humiliation, vulnerability, control and dominance. He will submit to my big cock and I will bareback his ass for hours and breed him several times. If he is very nice I may even suck it for a bit, trying to get him hard, but hopefully that would be useless. No, he just needs to be fucked and if his cock is nice and tiny, it will stay out of the way while I fuck him and just watching him desperately try to get his little cock hard will amuse me and make me laugh. After fucking him for hours and giving him a few cum loads up his ass, he won't be hard, he won't get to cum and that is so satisfying and sexy and beautiful. Give me the small cock blokes every time!

Don't do it - walk away from this one. "Don't Shit Where You Eat".

1. I was about 15 when I started messing about with my little brother – first just rubbing up on each other and jacking off together but we quickly moved on to more serious fucking. Just saying that the fist bloke I barebacked was my little brother still kind of messes with my head. The first time I fucked him was really intense and amazing for me; we were sleeping together like spoons and I was so hard and his ass was grinding against my cock – so I just took it out, lowered his briefs, spread his cheeks and pushed my cock inside him. No lubricant or condom so it took some hard pushing to get into his virgin ass – and I held him close to me because I could tell how much pain he was in. But he never said STOP and I wasn’t going to stop until I got my cock all the way up inside his ass. But I was only 15 so it’s no surprise that I got my cock inside him and fucked him for about 5 minutes before I shot my load inside his ass. I’ll never forget that first time because I think it set me up to be the top that I am now. Fucking my little brother’s ass for the next few years made me feel a bit powerful, a bit “in control” of my brother and I really liked that, it made me feel so good. TONY

I’m a redhead and quite pale – well, translucent, really – and I don’t like tans at all. It’s virtually impossible for me to get a tan because I just burn and turn red and I don’t find them at all attractive on other men. TONY

I can eat a hot, white ass for days and days sand days, just dreaming about fucking it in an hour or so... I'm not really bothered about cleanliness (indeed, a squeaky clean hole is a bit of a turn-off) but honestly, there is not always the time! Sometimes sex for me is furtive and spontaneous and if there is not enough time, it is far more important to get my bare cock up a bloke's asshole than it is to get my tongue up there. But I do prefer both!

I am a redhead so I have had a few compliments, many of them a bit unusual – how pale my skin is, how big my “perfect cock” is, that I have a perfect “bubble but” (which I don’t; I tend to think my butt is not my best feature…) and my white/pink/purple nipples. But the hottest compliment recently was last Christmas when I met this really hot bloke who was obsessed with my big hands and size 12 feet. He told me they were perfectly shaped and big and perfectly snow white – all true I suppose (except for my toenails which are always too long) but I had never really thought about it. We only had sex once and it was all about him being my foot and hand slave. I was desperate to fuck him but when he started sucking on my hands and fingers and feet and toes… I gave in. It was one of the most amazing sexual experiences I have ever had without fucking someone. I let him jack me off (which I usually don’t do) until I came and he jacked himself off until he blew a huge load all over his shirt. It was amazing. I never saw him again but would love to get into this a bit more – so needless to say, I have started taking better care of my big hands and big feet… TONY

For me it's not a fetish at all – cum retention it is at the very core of my Barebacking Soul. I am a top only and for me it is of paramount importance that whoever I bareback, they will take my load up their ass. I will breed them, no questions asked and I always insist they keep my cum in their ass as long as possible. Some blokes are better at it than others, I have to admit; my ex-boyfriend had the tightest ass and he could keep my load up his guts for hours. I think that skill alone kept me fucking his ass for an extra month or so before we broke up. If his ass muscles are too loose, I have used the butt plug trick on a bloke’s ass but that doesn’t always work. A few times (much to their confusion) I have used tampons on a bloke’s ass, inserting the cotton tubes deep into their rectum to hold in my sperm. This does keep everything from coming out of his asshole but the cum just gets absorbed into the tampon and some lads say the chemicals on the tampon are very irritating to their assholes. I’m not really bothered by his ass hurting but if anyone has any other ideas on how to keep a cum load up a bloke’s asshole… I would love to hear them… TONY

Hello Bi-new2BB: excellent attitude! I wish all the lads I fuck could be as focussed as you.... TONY