LetsPOZBreed
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I've thought about this before, and the answer is yes. Not because of any conceit or anything, but I've often wondered what my tops or bottoms feel and see when they are with me, all those points of feedback I've received over the years. Also, no one knows what you like better than yourself, so I think I might learn a thing or two.
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Great to see the other side of this: - tops who are concerned with "how many loads do you have" and always seems to want me to get more before committing to meeting. These guys aren't serious and are just looking for fap bait. - "it takes me a long time to cum": i.e. they're a boring fuck - "sometimes I have trouble cumming": i.e. they are on some prescription medication that makes them horny, but not so much that they are actually interested in fucking. - "have porn playing in the background": I'm not able to get hard naturally. - "any cock pics": I'm actually looking to bottom, but will decide based on what you're packing. Also, similar things to the top thread - no pics, blank profiles.
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My top side doesn't come out often, but when it does: Completely agree on the unfilled profiles. I'm not expecting one's life story, but at least make an effort in describing what you're after. Telling me you have X number of horny guys over and that you're "looking for more". If you have that many there and aren't doing anything; I have to wonder what you are really up to (which I know is likely drugs). Also, I don't like guys who don't show a genuine interest in me - i.e. treating and speaking to me as if I'm just any random cock and load that you are looking to add to your collection.
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All you older bucks need to remind yourselves
LetsPOZBreed replied to muscleseancabana's topic in General Discussion
I've just turned 42; age is nothing but a number, as I feel I've grown more sexually as I've gotten older. As to the original poster, you're one hot sexy fucker. 🙂 Although your profile states NYC, I wonder if you ever make it over to London? -
I'd say yes to this as far as cruising being more a thing here. But based on that photo, I wouldn't mind getting in on the action 😄
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Revisiting one of my older posts. Thanks for the votes and comments, guys! Even those of you who put "no"...it's not for everyone, so no need to apologise for disliking it. I think the stats on this are going to be skewed for a few reasons. The main one being that the guys who will read this post are already in the cocksucking discussion area, so this is probably going to mean more yes'es than the true population. I find it's the type of thing that needs to be discussed beforehand. Some tops just don't want to have anything to do with your cock at all (which is fine); if a top sucks me during foreplay, I might casually ask then - we'll go for it if we agree that it's okay. I'll admit, this has been quite rare, but the times where this happened are amongst the most memorable sexual experiences that I've ever had. For me, cum swallowing actually isn't about the taste at all - though I've the Samantha from Sex and the City "funky spunk" guys in the past. Swallowing, or sharing, cum is more about the intimacy of it all.
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Yeah, I've had this with a heavy shooter who didn't warn me he was about to cum. I knew he was close, but didn't realise how intensely he was going to cum, as it was my first time sucking him.
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anyone else love when he keeps his dick inside after he cums?
LetsPOZBreed replied to josh567's topic in General Discussion
Among other reasons I love this: I just think it's being respectful of the top to let him exit on his terms and not mine. I know that's very subby of me, but a top guy appreciates this more - and keeps them coming back. For me, the absence of sex over the last year or so has made me re-evaluate just what I actually enjoy about sex with another man. I've gone off the whole cumdump thing altogether; either me being one, or being in a situation with one. I also find that a top guy has a much easier time with me when he doesn't feel pressured to cum inside me quickly; instead, I prefer he takes his time (as long as he makes it feel good). This is why I also don't really get turned on by most bareback bottoms nowdays. They don't build that desire in me that makes me want to really fuck them; it's all about wanting my load and nothing else. I want them to show a genuine interest in "me", not just being some nameless, faceless squirting dildo. -
Tops who say "condom" but jump at going bare.
LetsPOZBreed replied to coastalbender's topic in General Discussion
For some guys (even nowdays in the age of more prominent Prep usage), publicly announcing that they are into bareback sex is a bit too [banned word] or shameful to them. It's the thought of "what are people going to think of me if this got out". There's also this prevalent idea among some guys that topping bareback is "safer" as they feel that because they are the one GIVING a load that they aren't the one transmitting a virus...the risk is allegely on the RECEIVER. (This is a false assumption; there are numerous instances of tops getting infected from a bottom). -
Least Hurtful Ways to Reject Condom Users on Grindr?
LetsPOZBreed replied to fskn's topic in General Discussion
I wonder if it's different for me, as I don't really have to explain this much (I'm also not on the apps much anymore either, which may partially explain it). Other poz guys can confirm this, but I find (as a vers/bottom) that anyone who wants to fuck me and takes the initiative to message me is 95% certain he wants to bareback me. This is either because he's also poz, or on Prep. I don't use Grindr anymore, but I am on Scruff. My status section says that I'm undetectable for safety practices, which is usually a small hint. On Romeo (for those times I used to venture to the Continent), my practices are stated as TasP (treatment as prevention). I make no mention of condom use in my profile, and don't actively message anyone to start a conversation if they have "condom only" stated on theirs; I'm polite if they message me, but I do state outright that I'm raw only - usually early on to avoid any ambiguity. -
Only in group settings, but even then... I used to attend monthly sex parties at a private residence where the guy had a proper playroom where all the action was taking place. The porn would be playing on the TV in his lounge where we can take a breather and relax, but once in the playroom, it was all natural in-person stuff.
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Both roles here. Love it ether way.
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If I'm topping a guy, I want him to be face-up looking at me while I fuck hm. I typically don't announce, but it shows in my face and in my pace. And when I start shooting, I hold in place so my cock is stationary as I throb out my load- make sure my bottom feels it. Only time I announce is when we're doing some type of pervy roleplaying - but what I say depends on the scenario (most of these qualify for the "backroom", so I'll respect the moderators and not go into too much detail here).
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You're not doing anything wrong; I know from where you come (no pun intended). It varies...I find some "tops" are naturally more dominant, or can get to a point where they lose inhibitions with a bottom that they trust. I want it to feel like I'm not doing any work at all; just lay there and take what my dom can dish out. If I can sense that my top is holding back or inexperienced, I try and find a way to make him feel comfortable and coax it out of them. Then there are the lost-causes; the ones that say they're "dom", yet I feel like I'm expected to do all the effort. Some guys have a misconception that being a top automatically makes one dominant, whch is categorically false; being a top is physical - being dominant is emotional; it's a mindset.
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Just based on what I've been told by some of my tops: The instant I can sense a load coming, my face lights up with excitement. It's the sense of accomplishment knowing that I've been able to get my top man to that point; my ass is essentially his, and I make sure I remain open for him as he unloads. It's that moment on honour knowng that my man's seed is now inside me...no barriers. I still feel like I carry a little part of all my breeders inside me everywhere I go.
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Southern Decadence 2021 Newbie needs Advice
LetsPOZBreed replied to kinkatx's topic in General Discussion
The thing about New Orleans and food is that everything is so good that you can't resist... It's been a while since I've done Decadence, but I don't think it's what it used to be. I've heard that the darkrooms at Rawhide and Phoenix are no longer there, and the Club New Orleans bathhouse has been closed for a few years. If your wanting guys to come to your room, check that the hotel doesn't require key cards to operate the lifts/elevators. Most of the bigger downtown hotels do this, so you'll get a nasty surprise when your visitors arrive, only to find out they can't get to you. -
Am I being rude competing for tops?
LetsPOZBreed replied to Openmouthpolicy's topic in General Discussion
I wouldn't call this hogging unless the bottom coming by had a top with him ready to play. If you're just there waiting, and no one is needing it, I think this is totally fine. -
Am I being rude competing for tops?
LetsPOZBreed replied to Openmouthpolicy's topic in General Discussion
If you have to ask if it's rude, you already know the answer.... Being the alleged "hottest bottom in the room" is also very subjective. Not everyone may think that. I'm now in my early 40's and don't expect to get the attention that I used to. I don't have the best body, but I don't have the worst. I still get action, which I take as a blessing, and know how to respect the tops that choose me. I find that if I'm being attentive to the guy fucking me, then it gets seen by others, and it attracts more attention to me. It's not about looks (well, not ALL about looks). If you start visibly acting bitchy towards others, it'll show, and you'll start getting less attention. I have no issue with a guy in the sling not getting fucked if no one else is specifically looking to get in (unless I have a top in tow). If you see me there asking if I can hop in so this guy can plow me, and you still refuse to move...I WILL say something, but I'll also let me top fuck me right in front of you and draw the attention to me. -
I'm upvoting this. I love a squealer as a bottom, makes me want to fuck him harder. I can sense a fake-porn-style moan from a mile away...and that is a complete turn off.
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Can I really be a cum dump and stay neg?
LetsPOZBreed replied to Openmouthpolicy's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I love it when we involve math and sex! And statistics at that? This is my nerdy wet dream! 😄 😄 😄 @ErosWired's last comment on differentiation of individual outcomes vs. the outcomes over time is the best one so far (with regards to cumdumping). Agreed that it's just a statistical likelihood, though...in theory you can flip a coin 1000 times and get heads each time; it's extremely unlikely, but it theoretically could happen. I will concede that other behaviours would play into this as well. Certainly your PrEP usage is a mitigating factor, but outside of that, there's also the VL of the guy fucking you, the vigor in which he fucks you, do you bleed/tear, etc. So many factors at play. I know guys who "chased" for quite some time before successfully converting, so even one poz top isn't enough. Granted, with PrEP, you're more likely to stay neg now than if you did it when I started barebacking exclusively about 15 years ago... Now, if only we can start a topic on the economics and math behind the gay porn industry from the 70's to today.???... 😄 😄 😄 -
Not shocked at all by this. It was getting too commercial, even before the "big purge". When I first signed up for it over 10 years ago, it was pretty much all amateur/homemade stuff. I just didn't see it sticking around after it took down almost all the videos...that's really the only thing people were going there for. I can only assume the paid content creators have moved over to OF/JFF by now.
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If you enjoy fucking and breeding holes...
LetsPOZBreed replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I learned to control it as I got older. Somtimes I do go over the edge a bit early, but I always ask my bottoms if they want me to give them a second one (which I know will last longer). I've yet to have one tell me no to that question. 😄 -
Top Who Fuck Anon at Hotels vs. Tops Who Don't
LetsPOZBreed replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
Back when I was more of a top, I'll give it this perspective: 1. Hotels are best places for bottoms/cumdumps to host, especially if they are going it alone. If a bottom has a top buddy with a playroom, that's even better, as there's proper equipment (sling, fuckbench, etc.) Safety in numbers, I guess. 2. I get why some top guys are skittish about being there with other tops. It's a discretion thing for some; don't want to run the risk of running into someone they know, or someone who can recognise them out and about later (although I never acknewledge anyone in public that I met at a party unless they make the first move). 3. For @FunCheerSlut, if I'm on the fence, it's because I have doubts about your ability to carry it through. Lots of guys online talk about wanting to be a cumdump, but few actually go through with it (statistically). So, if you can provide some assurance that you're genuine, that would push me over the edge. Also, have a small discussion with your prospective top about what he would like. If you're able, or even willing, to accomodate me, then it's a sure-fire way to get me there as well. -
Personal preference, but when I top, I like to be in control. I don't want a bottom who is too aggressive, or is begging for my cum after just a few pumps. Let me inside you and enjoy you at my own pace. A good boy will always get his reward from me 😄
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Hardness level does play a factor. I've noticed tops who aren't completely hard find my hole, but have trouble actually going in. I honestly think that's the only factor...if a guy is rock solid and just jabbing skin, that's more inexperience and lack of awareness more than anything else.
