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  1. LetsPOZBreed
    For some guys (even nowdays in the age of more prominent Prep usage), publicly announcing that they are into bareback sex is a bit too [banned word] or shameful to them. It's the thought of "what are people going to think of me if this got out". There's also this prevalent idea among some guys that topping bareback is "safer" as they feel that because they are the one GIVING a load that they aren't the one transmitting a virus...the risk is allegely on the RECEIVER. (This is a false assumption; there are numerous instances of tops getting infected from a bottom).
  2. LetsPOZBreed
    I wonder if it's different for me, as I don't really have to explain this much (I'm also not on the apps much anymore either, which may partially explain it). Other poz guys can confirm this, but I find (as a vers/bottom) that anyone who wants to fuck me and takes the initiative to message me is 95% certain he wants to bareback me. This is either because he's also poz, or on Prep. I don't use Grindr anymore, but I am on Scruff. My status section says that I'm undetectable for safety practices, which is usually a small hint. On Romeo (for those times I used to venture to the Continent), my practices are stated as TasP (treatment as prevention). I make no mention of condom use in my profile, and don't actively message anyone to start a conversation if they have "condom only" stated on theirs; I'm polite if they message me, but I do state outright that I'm raw only - usually early on to avoid any ambiguity.
  3. LetsPOZBreed
    Only in group settings, but even then... I used to attend monthly sex parties at a private residence where the guy had a proper playroom where all the action was taking place. The porn would be playing on the TV in his lounge where we can take a breather and relax, but once in the playroom, it was all natural in-person stuff.
  4. LetsPOZBreed
    Both roles here. Love it ether way.
  5. LetsPOZBreed
    If I'm topping a guy, I want him to be face-up looking at me while I fuck hm. I typically don't announce, but it shows in my face and in my pace. And when I start shooting, I hold in place so my cock is stationary as I throb out my load- make sure my bottom feels it. Only time I announce is when we're doing some type of pervy roleplaying - but what I say depends on the scenario (most of these qualify for the "backroom", so I'll respect the moderators and not go into too much detail here).
  6. LetsPOZBreed
    You're not doing anything wrong; I know from where you come (no pun intended). It varies...I find some "tops" are naturally more dominant, or can get to a point where they lose inhibitions with a bottom that they trust. I want it to feel like I'm not doing any work at all; just lay there and take what my dom can dish out. If I can sense that my top is holding back or inexperienced, I try and find a way to make him feel comfortable and coax it out of them. Then there are the lost-causes; the ones that say they're "dom", yet I feel like I'm expected to do all the effort. Some guys have a misconception that being a top automatically makes one dominant, whch is categorically false; being a top is physical - being dominant is emotional; it's a mindset.
  7. LetsPOZBreed
    Just based on what I've been told by some of my tops: The instant I can sense a load coming, my face lights up with excitement. It's the sense of accomplishment knowing that I've been able to get my top man to that point; my ass is essentially his, and I make sure I remain open for him as he unloads. It's that moment on honour knowng that my man's seed is now inside me...no barriers. I still feel like I carry a little part of all my breeders inside me everywhere I go.
  8. LetsPOZBreed
    The thing about New Orleans and food is that everything is so good that you can't resist... It's been a while since I've done Decadence, but I don't think it's what it used to be. I've heard that the darkrooms at Rawhide and Phoenix are no longer there, and the Club New Orleans bathhouse has been closed for a few years. If your wanting guys to come to your room, check that the hotel doesn't require key cards to operate the lifts/elevators. Most of the bigger downtown hotels do this, so you'll get a nasty surprise when your visitors arrive, only to find out they can't get to you.
  9. LetsPOZBreed
    I wouldn't call this hogging unless the bottom coming by had a top with him ready to play. If you're just there waiting, and no one is needing it, I think this is totally fine.
  10. LetsPOZBreed
    If you have to ask if it's rude, you already know the answer.... Being the alleged "hottest bottom in the room" is also very subjective. Not everyone may think that. I'm now in my early 40's and don't expect to get the attention that I used to. I don't have the best body, but I don't have the worst. I still get action, which I take as a blessing, and know how to respect the tops that choose me. I find that if I'm being attentive to the guy fucking me, then it gets seen by others, and it attracts more attention to me. It's not about looks (well, not ALL about looks). If you start visibly acting bitchy towards others, it'll show, and you'll start getting less attention. I have no issue with a guy in the sling not getting fucked if no one else is specifically looking to get in (unless I have a top in tow). If you see me there asking if I can hop in so this guy can plow me, and you still refuse to move...I WILL say something, but I'll also let me top fuck me right in front of you and draw the attention to me.
  11. LetsPOZBreed
    I'm upvoting this. I love a squealer as a bottom, makes me want to fuck him harder. I can sense a fake-porn-style moan from a mile away...and that is a complete turn off.
  12. LetsPOZBreed
    I love it when we involve math and sex! And statistics at that? This is my nerdy wet dream! 😄 😄 😄 @ErosWired's last comment on differentiation of individual outcomes vs. the outcomes over time is the best one so far (with regards to cumdumping). Agreed that it's just a statistical likelihood, though...in theory you can flip a coin 1000 times and get heads each time; it's extremely unlikely, but it theoretically could happen. I will concede that other behaviours would play into this as well. Certainly your PrEP usage is a mitigating factor, but outside of that, there's also the VL of the guy fucking you, the vigor in which he fucks you, do you bleed/tear, etc. So many factors at play. I know guys who "chased" for quite some time before successfully converting, so even one poz top isn't enough. Granted, with PrEP, you're more likely to stay neg now than if you did it when I started barebacking exclusively about 15 years ago... Now, if only we can start a topic on the economics and math behind the gay porn industry from the 70's to today.???... 😄 😄 😄
  13. LetsPOZBreed
    Not shocked at all by this. It was getting too commercial, even before the "big purge". When I first signed up for it over 10 years ago, it was pretty much all amateur/homemade stuff. I just didn't see it sticking around after it took down almost all the videos...that's really the only thing people were going there for. I can only assume the paid content creators have moved over to OF/JFF by now.
  14. LetsPOZBreed
    I learned to control it as I got older. Somtimes I do go over the edge a bit early, but I always ask my bottoms if they want me to give them a second one (which I know will last longer). I've yet to have one tell me no to that question. 😄
  15. LetsPOZBreed
    Back when I was more of a top, I'll give it this perspective: 1. Hotels are best places for bottoms/cumdumps to host, especially if they are going it alone. If a bottom has a top buddy with a playroom, that's even better, as there's proper equipment (sling, fuckbench, etc.) Safety in numbers, I guess. 2. I get why some top guys are skittish about being there with other tops. It's a discretion thing for some; don't want to run the risk of running into someone they know, or someone who can recognise them out and about later (although I never acknewledge anyone in public that I met at a party unless they make the first move). 3. For @FunCheerSlut, if I'm on the fence, it's because I have doubts about your ability to carry it through. Lots of guys online talk about wanting to be a cumdump, but few actually go through with it (statistically). So, if you can provide some assurance that you're genuine, that would push me over the edge. Also, have a small discussion with your prospective top about what he would like. If you're able, or even willing, to accomodate me, then it's a sure-fire way to get me there as well.
  16. LetsPOZBreed
    Personal preference, but when I top, I like to be in control. I don't want a bottom who is too aggressive, or is begging for my cum after just a few pumps. Let me inside you and enjoy you at my own pace. A good boy will always get his reward from me 😄
  17. LetsPOZBreed
    Hardness level does play a factor. I've noticed tops who aren't completely hard find my hole, but have trouble actually going in. I honestly think that's the only factor...if a guy is rock solid and just jabbing skin, that's more inexperience and lack of awareness more than anything else.
  18. LetsPOZBreed
    Your symptoms, while common for seroconverting, are also symptoms of other things. You really won't know for sure until you take a proper HIV test. I'll echo @PissPigBrooklyn's comment above. Whatever the outcome, you have a community of us who are willing to help out in any way we can. Even if it's just a quick message to let you vent off.
  19. LetsPOZBreed
    I don't mind tops getting around - there are plenty of bottoms to try out. The frustrating thing is getting them to load me, rather than any of the others.
  20. LetsPOZBreed
    Can I borrow this line in my real life? This is fucking funny and describes it to a T.
  21. LetsPOZBreed
    Agreed with @Close2MyBro. I was offered a pneumonia vax through my HIV doc not long after I started seeing her. Honsetly, if you are Poz, I'd take any vaccine they offer - you never know just how any of these nasties will affect your body once you're immunocompromised. That's why early stage of the pandemic, I was effectively a shut in for the most part. Obviously bacterial infections (syphyllis, gon, clap) don't have vaccines, but just know that it's part of the territory. The best thing you can do is to get tested regularly, and try and avoid situations that are a bit too sketchy - I had worse episodes of catching things during my drug-use period, so I've steered well clear of the "party scene" since. Haven't really had any STI issues since then, even after gang bangs and saunas.
  22. LetsPOZBreed
    If I'm on top, then absolutely. If I'm on bottom, I'm not fussed about it. The important thing on either side is that I don't rush towards it. I find my tops (at least my good ones) like it when I just let them do their thing and not start begging for their cum in the first minute; I'm happy to let them properly get close before I start that. It's actually quite rare to cum when I bottom. Tops that just want to pump-and-dump me will just get dressed once they've unloaded - and I'm perfectly fine with that. But I don't argue with a top that wants to finish me off after he's done. One of my favourite things to do is for a top to let me cum in his mouth for him to kiss it back to me - ensures neither of our loads are wasted, and it's INCREDIBLY intimate.
  23. LetsPOZBreed
    Not sure, but you're certainly not alone in that. Occasionally I'll see a guy out and about that I know would really fuck me up physically, but yet I feel oddly arounsed. One time on the tube, this guy stepped on at a station...what we in the UK would call a very "chavvy" kind of guy...grey sweatpants, scraggly, etc. Except he was wearing either no underwear, or boxers, cause you could see more than just a bulge; it was the full outline of his cock, and it was BIG and THICK. I couldn't look away, but knew that if this guy clocked me checking it out that he'd get off at my stop with me and likely pound me into the pavement.
  24. LetsPOZBreed
    I've been fucked with multiple methods. As with most things with me, the answer is "it depends". If I know a guy well enough, I have no problem with him going in dry...especially if we're doing more "forceful" play (if you catch my drift). Spit is good as well, as it's all natural. I always have lube available - whichever position I play. If it's a new guy for me (whether top or bottom), I'll use the lube until I get to know his technique a bit more. One thing I can't stand, though, (especially when I top): OVER-lubing. I masterbate dry (no lube or spit), so if my dick gets too slick, it loses all sensation. Same thing goes when I try to fuck; too much lube on my dick and I'm not anywhere near as hard.
  25. LetsPOZBreed
    Dirty talk is one of those tenuous fetishes (if you can even consider it a "fetish"). Sure there are those things we all like to hear, but if either partner says one wrong thing, it can completely kill the mood. I like it, but usually with a guy I've played with before; this way, we know what each other likes to hopefully avoid any unfortunate situation.

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