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Unfortunately once Judge Jackson is sworn in - I fear we are stuck with this court for at least 10 years….. Thomas is only 74 and now that he has a conservative majority- I doubt he will retire any time soon if he will ever retire at all … I think we will have to learn to live with the “Thomas Court”

Voting is always important and not just every 4 years for President (as they are the ones who select the candidates for all of the federal courts) But also every two years for congress and senate candidates AND, candidates all the way down the ballot- remember the school board can ensure that our younger generation grow up in a safe nurturing environment or a “don’t say gay” world (where suicide rates of gay youth will only go up) So Drscorpio is right, we need to organize for, donate to, and vote for the candidates that will support our right to be who we are

Well I heard back clearly a badly worded letter as he thought I was proposing adding “hiv conversion” to their list of fetishes i wrote back assuring him that I wasn’t- but that in this world of U=U and PrEP, and condoms that their broadly named category and then their narrow list on their drop down menu choices didn’t mesh and that if their mission was to keep transmission low - I suggested that may they follow Daddyhunt’s lead and have a section Headed “Safer sex practices” and then have a drop down menu of options like “only condoms, staying undetectable, PrEP and condoms, etc” He said they would look at the issue like you guys I normally have it at “needs discussion” - as yes it is a topic that needs to be discussed between partners But if they are going to have it a sortable field- it would be nice if everyone had the same understanding of what the sortable categories mean I guess time will tell

Hi Guys - this is for those of who also have a profile on Recon. For a long time it has bothered me that in our Profiles on Recon along with height, and age a how "active" one is (there way to code for TOP or bottom) etc they have a section for "Safe Sex" which I have always treated as if it were asking "condom use"...... except as it is labeled "Safe Sex" I have always felt uncomfortable listing "Never" (where as if they had it listed as "condom use" I would certainly list "never" anyway - I finally got around to writing customer service a letter about it (although I must say you really have to hunt around for how to do that)...... the letter I sent them is below..... if you would like to join my campaign to get Recon to change their ways..... I hope you will write them too.... and feel free to crib as much of my letter as you would loike Dear recon Some time ago you announced you were looking into making some changes to the site and I wanted to propose one key change you need to make. Currently in the “profile” section one of your categories is “Safe Sex” And the drop down menu offers the following options Always Needs discussion Never I’d Rather Not Say Sometimes I am writing to express my concern about this category. As “poz play” much less “poz conversion” sex are not in your list of fetish communities that members can identify with- I think that the wording of this category is no longer up to date with current science. Research shows that U=U (or, if a person with HIV is compliant with their meds and so is “undetectable” than their virus is untransmitable - even if they fuck bareback) Because of U=U and then the advent of PrEP, guys - even those with HIV - can fuck bareback with safety Because of this, I find your continued use of “Safe Sex” as a category to be AIDS phobic I don’t think I am alone in using the “Safe Sex” category as a stand in for “Condom Use” - as thanks to U=U and PrEP more and more guys are fucking without condoms (at least “Sometimes” or after the have had a “Discussion” My proposal is that you make this clear by changing the name of this category from “Safe Sex” to “Condom Use” - and you could still use the same drop down menu. Because I am undetectable I no longer use condoms- but feel uncomfortable saying that I “Never” practice “Safe Sex” - I like to think that as I am “U” that even when fucking a bottom bareback I am "Always" practicing "Safe Sex" - even if I never use condoms. If you would change this I think you would make things clearer for everyone. I was impressed several years ago with the serious look you took at racism in our communities- I urge you now to take the same look at the AIDS phobia in our community. I urge you to change the wording of this category as soon as possible. Thank you. Dotdomtop

Loving this story- love how it is getting some of us really hard and shooting big loads - and getting some to lock up their cocks and open their holes for raw dick (now if I could just find a younger bottom that wanted me to be his key holder….)

Oh this is getting good!!! definitely looking forward to the next chapter

Touche!!!

Great story so we have a possible sweet romance wi Callum (or might he be kinky too?) and our hero is going to wake up in the morning and realize that he is still locked up! wondering what the price if getting unlocked will be…. And will he remember to go get on prep? looking forward to your next chapter(s) …..

Great start looking forward to the next chapter as you posted this in bug chasing I can see where it may be going…. But looking forward to see how you get there ……

And there is nothing wrong with that - it is just the way you are wired (my nips are not wired either so I get that - have always been jealous of the guys who are) when I top I am the exact opposite as you. B&D doesn’t do anything for me - I like my sex to me more “interactive” between me and the bottom so having him tied up doesn’t do it for me. On the other hand, I do really enjoy- if not quite S&M, very rough sex it is one of the things that makes it so difficult sometimes for all of us to find the right sex partner- we have to find someone we are attracted to AND who has the same things ticked off on their into lists -wether it’s from total vanilla or to full on kink, the search goes on. all we can hope for is some “interesting adventures” as we carry on our hunt…. (and that some of those adventures will be posted on here for the rest of us to enjoy)

Loving this story- sweet and tender- and piggy and sleazy all at the same time. Love that Owen wants a ride to his hookup - but wants to poz the guy up on his own. Really looking forward to the next chapter.

This is well said- and an interesting perspective Subs need to remember that you are being used because the DOM desire you In reading all the reply’s to this topic I am reminded that there truly are an infinite number of ways to enjoy sex (enjoy being the operative word here) and incorporating different levels and types of pain are key parts in some of them. I have to remember that when I am hooking up and ask the bottom in they like a “rough fuck” or even “rough sex” that I need to be more definitive For some a “rough fuck” can mean external pain (spanking, flogging, nip play, cbt, etc) and some it just means internal (rough penetration and pain inflected just by the tops penis to the bottoms rectum) and for some it is some combination of the two. But as long as it is consensual (consensual being the other operative word) between both parties and we are both using the same definitions….. than rough gucks can be AMAZING sex (Ps mikeboi1 you sound sexy as hell)

Love how our hero has developed from this geeky kid into this hot slut who knows that it is all about taking as good as you give great story!

Anyone who thinks they have warts should see a medical professional right away (dr or NP) - because if they are warts they can spread - and if the top who gave them to you fucked you you most likely have them internally I got a nasty case of warts 40 some years ago - they were discovered late and had spread- as I could not afford inpatient surgery- I had to do out patient- every two weeks for about 2 -1/2 years- not fun meant of course I couldn’t get fucked for all of that time the upside- turned me into a top - but seriously- as this was in 1980 - it probably kept me alive as by the time I could get fucked again we knew about AIDS and started using condoms (so I was lucky enough not to get AIDS until after the cocktail had been discovered) the downside- I am now at risk of cancer- and screening for that is not fun so unless you know for sure what something is - get thee to a dr (and hopefully you have a dr you trust so ut is important that this be in your medical record so they know what to be screening you for in the future )

One of my favorite lines to hear from a guy ps - great story- hope there are more adventures to cum …

I I want to echo BBDreamer - if anything happens please post a report on here with ALL the details…..

Great story- wonderful to see that geeky twink turn into a good little cum slut

Oh good!!! I will be interested to see if our young bottom becomes the dorm slut 👍

I have never had the pleasure of getting fucked by a guy with a PA - but have always wanted to - had a buddy with one- played with it a bit - but he never fucked me would love to know what he feels like

Ok - I want the back story here … a gay bath house was a shelter during a hurricane??? and people downloading porn? And getting caught… and arrested? (How many of the police officers were hit on buy guys who just thought they were there to act out weird fetishes “oh officer, I’ve been a bad boy - can you handcuff me too?” Or “can I play with your nightstick officer?”) this would make a wonderfully sleazy (and either tragic or hysterically funny) Netflix movie…..

Being a cut daddy- I have noticed that as I got older it takes more time to cum which may be why I have gotten into Dom sub more as I get older as a sub bottom is more likely to take a long rough fuck Bottoms just need to know what they are looking for- the cum or the fuck Neither is wrong. and so long as the bottom makes clear when hunting what they are looking for- things should be ok. some is logical by setting- baths and mid afternoon hotel sex is more about multiple partners in a shorter period of time - while a one on one hookups can be a quick Drive by - or a long intense session

I agree- for just basic fucks - random Annon fucks add hotness to it all (love blind folds or dark rooms at the baths) … and love hotel sex but when exploring my fetishes (especially Dom sub activity) you need a certain amount of trust built up on both sides and then playing with the right fb it can get hotter every time

And I can’t find the quote from the guy who called it rude and disrespectful - - I will respectfully disagree- it is not rude - I agree with Guygonebad and hornybrownbottom - it is about Dominance and submission - so admittedly it not appropriate for every fuck with every bottom- but… when I am using a good sub and we are both into it —- spitting in his mouth is just one extra thing (like working his nips - smacking his ass - and of course fucking him bb) to help get us both deeper into the fuck Just like I like feeding him my piss - but something tells me if you don’t want me to spit in your mouth you probably don’t want to drink my piss either 😉

Back in my younger days I had the fantasy of getting fucked by a trucker in the sleeper compartment of his truck when I was traveling and stopped at a rest area with a truck section I would walk by the trucks - but never could figure out the “secret code” to hook up close second fantasy- there was a truck stop I used to stop at frequently on trips to gas up my car - it was one of the big ones with diner, cheap hotel, and in the mens room there were shower stall where the door was coin operated- the idea of being fucked in the shower was hot -especially if after one trucker was done with me and his shower- he left me there to be used by the next guy….

I’ve been to a few of those sessions as a top and they are very hot and it has been years since I’ve been fucked - but I think I need it … and this would be a hot way to revisit being a bottom i would just need to know and trust the moderator