Guygonebad

“The Ritz” is a funny film!!!

In college...sucked a black guy off in adult bookstore. Such a nice guy...we played together for months!!

Hmmm...unsure for myself. I had a longer-term relationship when I was younger, but I needed more and he was somewhat traditional. So we parted ways; no cheating. He’s happily married today with another man and has kids...definitely not for me!!! We have kept in touch, but wouldn’t say we’re friends. With that relationship experience, I’ve thought about a relationship for me over these past years as I’ve really explored my sexuality and found myself as a true CumDump “no load refused.” I don’t think I want a relationship right now. I know “I” don’t want a DOM man to control me. Would I like a sleazy partner to love and be with all the time? I do t think so. Though if true love and sleaze (yes we need a better definition) can be together, I wonder if two CumDumps or sleazy bottoms would be a better couple, versus a bottom/top/versatile being together. I don’t know...I m unsure about the concept of “love/sleaze being together. But what I think I know, based on solid relationships of a few of my friends/my uncle, is that it has less to do with if the two can love each other and do sleaze, it has more to do with, love and being absolutely best friends, sharing intimate thoughts regarding your sleazy/nasty/whoring needs with no judgment, and finally being totally open to let the other partner go play as he needs. I know three of these relationships. They seem to work, but maybe also it just takes a certain type of person who just doesn’t get jealous...is that possible?

Good points...I would say in the years before my true BDSM training when I did humiliation it was more me trying to please the top, who may or may not have respected me later or it was a one off episode that left me feeling less than, sad, shamed. It was during my training that strengthened me, working with a wonderful DOM training Master that taught to understand the episode and that as I’m willing to be commanded to do it, I’m valuable and respected, no shame! Enjoy it for me and the top. But while I’m a no loads refused CumDump and love it, I only get into total DOM sub play with good Masters who I respect.

Definitely!!!

Totally agree with your comments! Breeding stock!

Wow...great discussion... as a total sub/slave CumDump, I feel no shame. I’m actually very proud to be on my hands/knees and let ANY anonymous top men use and breed me! Proud! For Alpha top men, I luv letting them use me, breed me, BDSM, and serve at their feet. It is my role and I’m proud to be in this position. I’m actually honored that I can do this for top men. Shame...nope!!! This was not always the case for me, but several years ago I went through a very intense BDSM training program under a great training Master. He taught me to accept my sexual role as a CumDump and total submissive. He taught me to be proud of what I do and what I give back to top men and he taught me that a true sub/slave CumDump is honorable and a well-trained CumDump is a valuable property for Alpha top men. The other item is humiliation; I always enjoyed and felt I needed to be humiliated in front of other men. I did it and let other men humiliate me. It was always hard to do and left me feeling less then the men watching. But through my training I learned it was a pleasurable activity for the Alpha tops. I now do humiliation things as requested by Alpha top men and if they find it pleasurable to command me to do these things, then I’m happy and proud to do it for him. No shame!!!!

Normally no I do not worry, as I typically host the tops and I can tell if they start filming. Though many are respectful and will ask if they can film their cock fucking and breeding me. I always say yes, please don’t get my face. They usually like to get a good pic of their cum leaking from my hole. So there are many vids of cocks fucking and breeding me out there! I ask for a copy and have some good ones. My contribution to culture!!!

I’m with @ErosWired. Your either a NO LOAD REFUSED CumDump or you are not. Tops should have the expectation when they reply that you’re ready when they are. Yes, I get tops that start asking questions, etc. I’m respectful, I give them the local and room number and exactly what @ErosWiredsays, if guys are breeding when u arrive please wait your turn. Then it’s up to the top to decide if it works for them. As for me, I’m totally prepared when that ad goes up...period.

First time for me was by chance in a sex club. Was in a glory hole booth, ass backed up to the hole as an older very hot latin guy fucked and bred my hole; very long cock. When he was finished, I pulled off his long cock and quickly turned around, got on my knees to hopefully clean off his cock. He let me and as most guys let u do, they quickly pull back to leave. This guy did not and I just enjoyed slurping on his long brown cock. Then I tasted a little squirt of piss. It was interesting and hot. I pulled of his cock and looked up on his side of the hole and said, “is that piss?” Stupid I know...he said as he was squeezing his nipples, “...do you want it or not?” I just put his cock back in my mouth. He was forcing it, so it came in squirts. I swallowed. First a little stream. Then a full stream. I swallowed most of it, half of it went all over me and my jeans on the floor. When he was done, I reamember him shaking that long cock in front of my face. I watched as he pulled his jeans up and left his booth. I felt like a real pig that night!

@BlackDude you are absolutely correct. When I put in an ad; “CumDump- NO LOAD REFUSED.” It means I take all cocks, any cocks, no matter your age, weight, race, cock size, or anything else. It’s all about the top’s pleasure. Most of us “real” CumDumps operate that way. If a CumDump advertising “no loads refused” and they stat asking you questions, then move on to the next one unless your ready to see if you pass their ridiculous test.

Haha...this could be a long list!!! Carrots, cucumbers, a whole host of vegetables..., soda bottles, brush handles , cooking tools (glad mom used a dishwasher to clean), golf club handle, a vase, assorted dildos and toys, backed-up my ass onto a door knob while standing on a box...most fun thing in my ass besides a real cock; a fucking machine!

So many good memories sucking cocks, even though sucking cock is not my most favorite thing to do being a CumDump. Fun memory...10 years ago I was in Rome and was in a gay bar; fun place, dark, semi-crowded, stage for strippers, kind of a sketchy crowd. I was flirting with this tall and muscular guy. I thought he was interested, so I walked to the bathroom to see if he’d follow me. He did not. I went back to the bar and ignored him. An hour later I decide to go up to him again. He looked at me, didn’t say anything, turned and walked to the bathroom. I followed him. He went into a stall. I followed, shut the door. He spoke no words. He pushed me to my knees. He unzipped and pulled out a beautiful long uncut cock, big black bushy pubic hair. I immediately opened my mouth to suck. He slapped my face. He pushed my face into his hairy groin, sweaty and manly smells. Then I opened my mouth and sucked on his beautiful cock as it grew in size and got hard as I was sucking. I worked diligently. It was amazing. I wanted to taste his cum. I worked on him for 5 or more minutes. Suddenly he pulled his cock from my mouth, zipped up his pants, stepped over me and walked out of the stall, leaving me on my knees. I walked back out to the bar, semi crowded. He was back at the bar with two other guys laughing/talking. Oh well I thought...asshole! A few minutes later he’s looking at me and motions for me to come over to him. I do. He takes my shoulders, positions me, my back to the bar, he’s infront of me, puts his hand on my head and forcibly pushes me down to the floor on my knees. He steps closer to the bar. Each one of his two friends is on each side, all standing tightly around me, so few people out in the bar notice I’m on the floor. Single-handily he unsnaps his jeans. I pull his zipper down and pull out his semi-hard cock. I immediately start sucking him. He gets hard. He’s forcing his cock in my mouth. Soon I feel him tensing up, then he blasts his cum in my throat. I tried to keep his cock in my mouth, milking all his cum. Quickly he pulls out and is stuffing his cock in his jeans. I hear them talking in Italian, laughing. I’m waiting for him to give me room so I can stand up, but soon I realize they are tightly keeping me on the floor my back pressed to the bar. One of they other guy’s hands are under the bar unsnapping and unzipping his jeans. Another beautiful man’s cock comes out. He’s really very sweaty. I start sucking immediately. I can hear the music, the flashing lights of the stage, I see guys legs walking by; no one’s really paying any attention to what’s going on. I suck and suck the friend’s cock. He took a while, but he finally gave me his load in my throat. Soon he pulls out and zips up. Now I turn to the third guy. Yep, he’s unzipping, again a good sized, hairy uncut sweaty cock. I devour it. He’s cums very quickly and I remember how the other two stood so still as they came in my mouth, the third guy jerks and shakes as he’s cuming in my mouth. Soon he’s done. Cock is put back in his jeans. I’m saited with three good tasty cum loads inside me. I still can’t stand up and I’m thinking, ok guys I’m done down here. Then they step away from the bar and I’m exposed on my knees on the floor in the bar. I stand up, and turn toward the bar. The three guys I just sucked off head to the door and leave. My face still wet with my salvia and cum as I’m wiping it away and I order a drink, I get my money out. When the drink comes I hand the bills to the bartender. He smiles, waves off my money and says, in Italian accented English, “No, no, those boys you just blew, paid me to give you a drink and say...”Thanks American!”

OMG I miss glory holes!!! They were where I was first barebacked, first time getting stealthed...so many anonymous loads in my ass!!! Cannot wait to go back and put my ass up against the hole and feel an anonymous cock slide in. I love the GH booths at LA Slammer...holes on both sides. I have my ass getting pounded on one side, while I’m stroking the cock that’s going in my ass next on the opposite side. I feel and hear the guy fucking me speed up and finally unload in me. I pull off his cock, turn around and guide the cock at the opposite side into my ass! God those were the days!!!

This is the most interesting thread! Thanks guys for all these great memories! If only we all could have read this thread when we were young and trying to figure things out. My story is that I was a late bloomer and naive, not just puberty, but all things sex and to my journey today as a total CumDump. I had two older brothers that I saw had big dicks and had grown hair everywhere, and I’d like to look at them whenever I could, but not me. My brothers and me each had our own bedrooms, so I knew nothing from them. My best little friend who was gay (and we’re still best friends today) was late bloomer too and we were both totally naïve; had zero interest that I can remember. I have a wonderful older gay uncle (my Dad’s youngest brother) that’s been an amazing mentor for me. He was a big body builder with a full weight lifting gym in his double garage. He lived ten blocks from my house. So when I was about 11 or 12, I was always over there to shovel snow or mow his lawn and I loved watching him in his tight shorts and tank top lifting weights. I would join him and he would teach me to lift and use the exercise machines. On one summer Saturday the garage door was open, we were both working out; well he was working out and I was likely more playing around with the equipment. I was on my stomach on the weight bench doing leg curls. All of a sudden it felt so good and I kept squirming on the bench, then an incredible good feeling, then warm, then wet. When I finally sat up I was wet on the front of my gym shorts, it was soaking through the material. I looked and my underwear was wet and gooey. I really didn’t understand what was happening. I thought I may have peed in my pants...naïve. I tried not to let my uncle see as I tried to leave the garage. He then told me to come over by him and sit on the bench. I sat down. He sat on the bench opposite me. He then asked me if I knew what had just happened as he pointed to my shorts. I didn’t speak, I just nodded no. He reminded me to think about the “sex” talk my dad had with me. I did, though I couldn’t put two and two together...naïve. My uncle then explained to me what had happened and what the fluid on my pants was and that it was normal. He told me that I could make that feeling and the fluid whenever I wanted. And I do not lie when I say, I responded to him saying, “...so I just lay on something and move around and it will happen again?” Exasperated, he says no, you have to use your hands by pulling on your penis. I’m sure I looked very confused and very innocently I asked him to show me. He just stared at me. Then in his gruff manner he said he would, but swore me to secrecy and that I could never tell anyone or the police would take him to jail. It was so serious and I agreed. He shut the garage door, told me to take off my shorts. He did the same. Frankly it’s hard to believe that I focused on a single word he said to me as I was just staring at how big his dick was and how long and hairy. I had no hair and while I had some dick length, I was no where near his size. We each sat on weight benches side by side. He then showed me how to hold your penis and move your hand. He told me it would feel good and that my penis would grow. I was enthralled watching his dick get hard. He kept spitting into his hand, jerking his hard cock. I was only half heartedly pulling on my penis. I remember him saying sometimes it takes awhile. Then after who knows how long, his cum shot out all over his chest in several ropy spurts. Then he told me to do it for myself. I did, he gave me advice not to squeeze too tight. He kept telling me to focus. Soon my dick was hard and in seconds more cum bubbled out of the top of my penis. He told me it will get like his as I got older. I asked to touch his penis, he let me. Then he told me to wipe myself off and not to leave the sticky towels for my mother. The very next day I was with my best friend in the woods, our pants off, showing him what I learned (never saying who told me). We both came that day in the woods and from then on we were jerking off!!!

I think I’ll start this with the answer, “...I have yet to take a cock that is too big.” I’ve taken some pretty big cocks. I know I’ve taken a 11” cock, multiple 10 inchers and some true beer can thick cocks. I need to be stretched a little before I take one of the big ones. There is no question in my mind that a guy with a huge cock that takes his time and knows what he’s doing is a great fuck for a bottom CumDump like me. As a CumDump my role it to take them, give that top pleasure. Yes, it can hurt a bit at first, but if I’m warmed up, I just relax, focus and breathe. It’s a great experience to feel a man with a huge cock fill you up! Love them! Lastly, top men with really huge cocks, tend to be very grateful when they find a bottom that can take their cock without whining and complaining that it hurts or is too big. So many bottoms want to look at the top’s huge cock, but it’s really only a few that get on their hands and knees, ass up ready to get fucked by him! No whining, just let the top fuck as he desires and breed when he’s ready. Really huge cocks are my true test and they make me feel great; never easy, but my role is to just take them!

As a proud submissive bottom now, My best friend, who is also a married total bottom bought us both t-shirts to wear out. Black t-shirt with white lettering.. “FOR THIS I CLEANED MY ASS OUT?” Pretty much communicates the message!

I so agree with @subBottomKink!!! We need to be proud. So many of our gay brothers in the 70s and 80s died living their Pride and expressing their sexual freedom! We should do no less! I’m a proud CumDump, total sub bottom!!!

So true, so true, so true!!!

As a long term bottom, I can tell you it’s not normal. You need to be checked. If it was me I would do the following in this order; 1) get an STI test. 2) go see my doctor. Bleeding for days after sex and/or playing with your dildos is not normal. You may have torn the skin inside and every time you play u open it up. Or it could just be an internal hemorrhoid. It could be something more serious. Please see your doctor so you can continue to have fun and maybe we get to see you in future porn!!!

This is an interesting thread, so many good thoughts and opinions. For me as a CumDump, I take any cock and any top that wants to breed me. For me it’s about getting that cock inside me, feeling it, and getting the load, so my preference is pump-n-dump, BUT, BUT is always about the top and his pleasure. If he goes long I let him use my hole. I’m on my knees ass up, head down. There have been times when a top is going long, and it’s just sort of an average sized cock, boring fuck, my mind wanders to other things; when is the next top stopping by, my grocery list, that work meeting I have the next day, what am I watching tonight, I need to call my dad tonight, etc., etc., while the top keeps fucking. I try to help them, squeezing my hole, moving my ass and if I get the appreciative grunts from the top I keep doing it. Though for the huge cocks that stretch me, hurts slightly, if they go long, I just accept it and let them play in my hole. It’s always about the top and I comply. I cannot remember ever telling a top that he’s taking too long. I have had long fucking tops at the baths or at the Slammer in LA fucking me when I’m on the fuckbench, succumbing to peer pressure when guys standing around want their turn and think the tops taking too long. But I would never tell a top he’s taking too long...it’s not in my nature. I like what one top guy said above, “loads aren’t given, they’re earned.”

For me this answer is maybe 50% of the time. As a good CumDump I almost always know when they are coming based on the thrusting, shaking, and sound they make. On the inside it’s harder, but frequently feel the throbbing of their penis as it’s emptying his load inside me. Being an experienced load taker, I’m focused on feeling it inside. For the larger cocks, yes I feel the tops sperm hitting the walls of my rectum!!! LOVE IT ALL!!!

Hmmm...I’m no longer the relationship type, but I luv my total bottom friends/buddies, but I don’t think a relationship would work for me. We do go out and hunt for tops, share tops and talk about tops, but we’re not in a relationship. Two of my bottom buddies are in long-term open relationships and we go (used to pre Covid) out to bathhouses together...luv my bottom boys!!!

I luv a good dark room! The anonymousness of it, the groping hands, etc. Always my favorite is the Slammer in LA, but there is enough light there to see. True dark rooms with total darkness are amazing. Several years ago I went to this club in Chicago, down in an old basement, that was totally dark. You walked down the stairs, then through plastic strips covering a doorway, then into the next room, almost total blackout. The smells, sounds, grouping hands were hot! Guys on their knees trying to get your cock out of your pants to suck. I finally groped my way to a wall, that had a wood bench built on the side. I undid my jeans, pushed them down to my ankles, turned around, pushed my ass out and waited. Quickly hands found my ass, roughly guys stuck their fingers in my hole; always rough and hard and fast. Soon the first cock was jammed into me. Then we were rocking back and forth fucking. Then the next one. Soon I had to remove my jeans as I kept falling over with my jeans constraining my ankles...haha. I had a great night; multiple loads and a lot of cocks just testing my hole before they moved on to the next hole. Loved it!!!!

I like to be totally naked when I’m being fucked and bred, my flaccid long cock dangling and flopping underneath me. Sometimes tops reach under and try to grab and squeeze it when their fucking. I don’t care as it’s all about them. though I do sometimes cum from be fucked, with a flacid cock, the cum sort of drains out of me as the top is thrusting. Sometimes with extrodinarily large cocks fucking me I will get hard, just from the feeling of them filling me up so completely. It’s not uncommon then for me in these instances for me to cum without touching myself. Big squirts. Top men luv that as they view it as pride in their fucking skills.,.all good with me.