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Anonymous hookups who end up wanting to date you
ejaculaTe replied to AriesBB7's topic in General Discussion
You very likely were the best sex he had had — and might well be the best that he’ll have in a very long time. Take it as a compliment and say “thanks,” while appearing to be just a little embarrassed and taken aback (even though you’re not surprised or stunned by the comment). -
Dump him. Block his number, profiles, etc. Once he gets money from you, then it’ll be a drip-drip-drip situation: $15 here, $25 there, new sneakers... Saying “no” now and being rid of him means you’re saving yourself the aggravation of having to dump him later when it could be Inconvenient for you. (I’ll put to one side the situation where a “no” response from you triggers an outburst of anger or violence from him.) He’s hardly the only guy in the area with whom to have sex — and you deserve far, far better than the treatment you’re getting from this guy.
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The virus “hides” in “latent reservoirs” in places like your brain, your lymph glands, certain types of immune system cells. (A Google search for “hiv hides in body” will give you a list of articles on the subject.) “Undetectable” only means that the blood test didn’t detect more than 20 copies of the virus in a microliter of blood (I think that’s the correct volume).
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Given a choice between experience and youth, I’d choose experience every time. There are some things you don’t want to be teaching at 3 in the morning.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
ejaculaTe replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
God, I miss that place. When I lived near Philly, I’d be there Saturday nights until almost dawn. And you could get some hot college dick when Drexel and UPenn started classes. -
ANOTHER REAL EXPERIENCE - WORKED OVER BY THE BOSS'S SON
ejaculaTe commented on versmetropig's blog entry in Blog versmetropig
It sure was a reason to go to work every day that summer.... -
What constitutes a boring hookup for you.
ejaculaTe replied to Oldercumslut's topic in Your Last Load...
that damned dopamine loop.... -
Think how much your car costs you every month. If someone is just bringing home $300 or $400 a week, having a car represents quite a bit of cash. Toss in the possibility that a guy’s license is suspended and he can’t lift the suspension because he can’t afford to pay the fee for doing so; suddenly you have a lot of guys who aren’t mobile.
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When I was a mere senior in college, I lived in a coed dorm complex and hung around with a girl who was a sophomore. Youthful hormone levels being what they can be, she and I had some wild nights of physical activity. (Yeah, she knew I was gay as did my entire dorm. That she and I were having a hot time in my dorm room created quite a bit of cognitive dissonance.) The physical aspect of the friendship eventually dissipated (I had discovered Man's Country three years earlier and was a card-carrying member) and we became very good friends for the rest of the school year. To further bend the minds of those who occasionally paid attention, she was also dating a guy who had graduated the previous year and was now in medical school. As far as I know, he never learned of our liaison, and she eventually broke off that relationship. I did pat myself on the back when she told me that I was far better in bed than the guy she was dating. Apparently, some skills are transferable.
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How the Hell Did That Happen?
ejaculaTe replied to MackyJay's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Just guessing, but I’d wager that a film of this story would be a bit inflammatory — an innocent guy (or relatively innocent) being intentionally exposed to hiv by a group of guys who knew (1) that they were hiv+ and (2) that the guy in the bed was hiv-. But the broader point — why are porn flicks so unimaginative? — probably boils down to money and the thin profit margins. -
That's a great way of putting it. My additional two cents: folks might think that HIV is a "treatable" long-term illness like diabetes. But does anyone think about how difficult life can be for a diabetic? Taking insulin is the least of your aggravations; for example, you spend the rest of your life making sure you don't have cuts or other wounds on your feet. @Cdexter: The drug therapy can certainly keep a HIV+ guy alive, and if he's lucky, he won't have any of the umpteen side effects of the meds. If he's only a little unlucky, the meds cause him to puke his guts out a couple of times every night. A few months of that experience will make you question your decision to chase the bug.
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Sheer laziness or an intent to deceive can't be the only reasons behind the posting of "old" pictures. It's also possible that the person posting the profile doesn't have easy access to more recent photos -- the guy's sister or niece or 2nd cousin twice removed took pictures last year at Tommy's graduation from high school, the guy never got the pictures (or the Google photos link), and now it would be awkward to ask. Another possibility is that the poster barely succeeded in creating the profile, and putting newer pictures up is beyond his skill set. A friend helped him set up the profile, but it can be unnerving to ask someone to help you put newer photos (especially if there are nudes). Not everyone out there is technically capable and brimming with self-confidence. Besides, guys forget that you unlocked your private photos for them last week -- at their request -- and they didn't seem interested then: to go through the nonsense of posting new pictures that just may satisfy a stranger's prurient interest (or simple curiosity) is an exercise in which I decline to engage. <end of soapbox mode>
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Let's hope that in all of his excitement, he hasn't forgotten where he was planning to go.
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About 11 (which is also when I started giving blow jobs to my friends)....
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Here's another online source for your work: http://www.sex-lexis.com.
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You should have offered to give him a private reading....
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A friend once called it "the perverse operation of the universe." I think it's a universal constant, like the speed of light or Murphy's Law.
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Here's an example of what life was like then: In the mid-90s, my supervisor, R, had progressed from being HIV+ to having full-blown AIDS. At some point in 1994 or '95, his t-cell count went to zero. You didn't have to be a rocket scientist to know that his time was running out. The Monday after Thanksgiving 1995, his mother called me, asking if I had seen R or heard from him that day. When I said I hadn't, she asked me to go to R's apartment and check on him. A co-worker and I went to his apartment; the maintenance man let us in. R was on the bathroom floor, having died sometime Thanksgiving weekend. Every Thanksgiving I say a prayer and a toast in his memory.
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“Because if people are given too many variables, it becomes too difficult to make a decision. “Guys who stare at porn and apps constantly, flicking from image to image and profile to profile are deluged with options, and can't possibly reflect on what they really find attractive, let alone what they really want in a partner.” It’s called the “paradox of choice.” https://www.businessinsider.com/how-the-paradox-of-choice-could-explain-why-youre-still-single-2018-2 There’s a bit of academic controversy over the theory (no surprise there), but the concept describes what we encounter all too frequently.
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Has anyone noticed that the OP hasn’t been online here (at least under that screen name) since 2014....?
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The cable companies should include this as a promotional offer, considering the prices they charge.
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Finally, bred by a "DOMINANT" Top in a sex club
ejaculaTe replied to fuckboy20's topic in Your Last Load...
Age, assuming one was alert and smart enough to pay attention, does bring experience and knowledge. It often falls in the category of "if I knew then what I know now...." [By the way, Fuckboy20, according to his profile, hasn't been online for over 2 years. But your advice and observations are wise and well put.] -
I often think of it in terms of one's eyes being bigger than one's ass. It's the same impulse (definitely not a rational thought process) that would lead one to post Craigslist ads in search of 8 inches or more, despite never having taken a dick of any size in his ass. Captured by the fantasy of taking 8 inches, one can forget that the paper in the printer sitting near him is 8½ inches wide by 11 inches long, a rather foolish oversight. Einstein's theories of relativity didn't set out special rules for penis size.
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There's a thread in the "Sex with 'Enhancements'" section that talks about this: "Coke + poppers + 1/4 Viagra = bad combo?" (started June 7) (there might be others, but this is the one that I recalled). The general idea is that Viagra/Cialis and poppers can cause a sudden drop in blood pressure, causing the user to pass out.
