For whatever it's worth, I'm with you guys (Bear4Breeding and Pozpig) on this. It's the old "when push comes to shove" principle in operation -- expressing a fantasy is far more comfortable (and less threatening) than engaging in the act. But, assuming we're talking about online meeting sites, it does strike me that the distance between saying you're "into anything" and actually "doing anything" depends on the online site. If I read a profile on Recon, I'm pretty sure that the guy does what he says he's into. If I read a profile on Manhunt, I figure that regardless of his listed interests, the guy is pretty vanilla -- if he swallows your load, that's likely to be pretty far on the fringe for him. And then there's the bewilderment that can be caused by someone having profiles on multiple sites, for example, profiles on A4A and BBRT. A BBRT profile might well say things that the guy would never in a zillion years put in his A4A profile (because his friends might see it on A4A). This is why I gave up looking for consistency in profiles. On the other hand, my thinking about this just may be a sign that I have too much free time. (And yes, I know that I've made sweeping generalizations about human behavior.)