YourNoLimitsBottom

While I enjoy public sex, I have hard limits as to where (which is ironic given my screen name). Nowhere children and/or families would be coming through, common sense stuff like that. I've had sex in the dark parking lot of a gay bar, and on private property and hiking trails out in the middle of nowhere where you can easily gauge you are alone. Around here there are "pickle parks" as the locals call them, basically every rest stop around here has a rep of mm sex, most times at night, sometimes not. You can drive by and see guys milling around the picnic tables at night and sometimes during the day. The cops go through on occasion and drive them out.

I find as I get older, risk and pleasure are getting to be pretty much one and the same. As I approach my next birthday I am working myself up to a buck list item that I know once I try I won't want to go back.

I'm very turned on by messy sex, and have found that my cumming (typically on my stomach and chest) just adds to the mess and thus the lust factor and I just keep going. I'm not a big fan of being jerked off while being fucked, but I don't stop the top from doing so.

Most of mine are bed fucks. I've had more urgent fucks lately, mostly with a recurring fuck buddy of mine. We are on differing schedules and have been hit and a lot of miss with the connections. But man, the emergency fucks... they are definitely a lot of fun. I love the bed fucks and taking my time riding cock, but the emergency fucks and the risk of being caught really add spice to the encounter. The friend I mentioned above works in health care and we did it twice now in a bathroom stall in the location where he works. May not seem too risky to some, but for me and my mostly vanilla encounters it was a thrill. Definitely makes me want to try some more risky encounters!

The guy who taught me to deep throat would have me lay on my back with my head over the edge of the bed. It started as a learning experience, as it progressed it got more and more brutal and I fucking loved it. I know he trained me for his own ends, he wanted a ready throat to fuck and since we were friends he knew I was going to be available as needed (and always was until he moved). The experience served me well, and to this day when I am sucking cock and the guy grabs hold of my head I can't help but get frenzied because I know what is coming (and cumming!)

Absolutely. With age come experience, and I've been experiencing more and more thing that I like. With experience comes the desire to try things I never even knew existed a decade ago after meeting more and more people who share their likes, fetishes, etc. Experiences feed my slutty alter ego and make me take more fun risks. It's like a never ending loop where I want to try new and exciting things that drive me into a lust that drive me to want to try more new things that drive me into a lust that... You get the idea. I have reached a point of nirvana where once I am nude, anything goes. I have fuck buddies that know this and use it to their advantage to push the envelope. Who knows what I will be doing in a year, two, ten.

Yeah, I never understood this. I mean we all have our preferences. If "straight" married guys are what make your motor run, have at it! I've seen so many ads looking for likewise married, maybe for mutually assured discretion? Give me a gay top any day, a guy that is into fucking me and not imagining the woman he couldn't get in the heat of the moment.

I prefer second. Usually if we are 69ing when he cums it triggers me. I get off on getting a guy off, so this is normal for me.

Its not quite the same for me. Barefoot with other clothes on does nothing for me sexually. But being barefoot with no other clothing is a trigger for my slutty side. Thinking about it, socks always are the last thing I strip off. I quite literally feel different between wearing nothing but socks, and wearing nothing. Socks represent the clothing barrier and a freedom barrier in general. Once they are off and I am completely nude, I feel free to indulge all-in in whatever sexual situation I walked into. My regular fuck-buddies know that getting me completely nude means them getting whatever they want.

I have another: politics ranting. Ran into this over the weekend. I try to keep my political views separate from situations where they have no bearing, such as work, normal day-to-day, and sex. I was contacted by a top on an app with a great profile, but his second reply in the conversation went right into his political view with no prompting on my part. And his views were extreme to say the least. Needless to say, we ended up ending the conversation amicably with no physical meeting.

Damn, found out about Paddles during covid and was hoping it would reopen. I loved the pics on their site and wanted to see myself featured some day. Shame to hear that won't happen.

I'm a bottom, and if a potential partner asks to see a pic of my cock the conversation is done. We can still talk about fun topics, but I'm not interested in an encounter with someone who is interested in my cock.

Like others have said: squats, lunges, hip thrusts, etc. As I age, I'm reminded more and more about the need to stay active to stay attractive to tops.

Make mine messy. In my mouth, on my face, get it everywhere. I love the feel of cum on my skin. Adds to the "slutty" factor.

I'm a "bottoming raw and sucking dick" guy. Like soooo many others, which makes those ever elusive tops harder to find. But we persevere, right? Don't get me wrong though, like so many others those are the standard activities that I hope for. If I encounter a truly adventurous top into all sorts of interesting things, oh the fun we can have... 🤤

Agreed. When I am horny I want cock. I have a small list of friends that I like to have sex with, but when they aren't available finding a sexual outlet (or more so finding a guy to plug his outlet into my inlet) can be frustrating to say the least. The closest gay-friendly bar typically has a high ratio of bottoms to tops (isn't that everywhere?) and a hookup isn't assured. Online apps are a one in one hundred shot on a good day. So I appreciate the cocks I do run across. As for the "bored or horny", it can be both. Sex is a great way to fill a few hours/evening/night/weekend when I am bored or horny. I love to be nude and I love to be fucked, so whatever gets me there is a welcome feeling.

Too bad there wasn't an app that could be installed on your phone that you could put your profile in and what you are looking for. Then you can set it to alert you if a compatible guy is within a certain range (they would have theirs turned on a well). You get an alert, check your phone, maybe get a pic if they set one, you could message back and forth to flirt a bit, etc. Gives new meaning to "pairing", lol. But as they say, I imagine "there's an app for that" already.

Great advice @fskn I'm a chronic introvert, shy.. pick one or something like it. It took a bit for me to get used to what little I do understand in terms of signals. One thing I can say is that if you have a best feature that you can exploit (for lack of a better word) and can do so legally, lol, do it! Guys are more bold if you have something they want and will come to you or at least be much more apparent in their interest. I run and lift weights and have an ass that generates interest. I like not having to always guess if a guy is interested, because I'm probably in the top five of worse people to pick up on signals. Good luck, and if you come up with a tip that can help the rest of us out, please post it!

Thanks for finding this story and bringing it back for others to enjoy!

I go through spurts where I'll visit the site several times a day because a topic popped up that interested me, and then there are times I can go several days or longer without visiting. In terms of content I know what I like and what I can constructively (or at least positively) contribute to and typically stick with those. There are things I am not really into, and may give some of those topics a passing read to see what is currently going on but usually I just don't click on them. I think that with age and experience we get fairly decent at separating the fact from fantasy posts. I mainly look at this site as a fun way to discuss experience, learn some new trick or technique, flirt a little with others, and read some stories which may or may not be real but what the hell, a little escape from the day is a good thing. I do see a number of topics that seem like a repost, and usually just ignore them. After all, how any times should I describe the first cock I sucked? That has to be boring as hell to read after a while! I can understand the argument that an impressionable person may take some posts or topics as reflecting the real world and act without considering the consequences. But fantasy is a lot of the world wide Web, if they weren't drawing questionable conclusions from here they can get them from numerous other sites. I have to give kudos to the moderators, they have an overwhelming task of making sure things get steered to the correct location and removing stuff that goes outside the rules. In the end, I think there are a lot of good people on this site that are more than willing to talk with people that have questions and will give them honest answers. There is a lot of fantasy on this site, and I'm going to guess that 99‰ of those fantasy posts stay as fantasy. For me it is a fun escape from the day when I do spend some time reading the stories and imagining myself living the experiences. And I have to say thanks to rawTop for getting this site started, and all the techs and moderators who keep it from going off the rails. And all the great contributors with their topics, comments, pics, and the occasional dirty one-on-one messages!

I had a girlfriend in my younger days who loved to ride my face after I came in her and made me eat my load. I loved the submissiveness of this act, plus it was messy and hot as hell. When I was a teen to early twenties I was flexible enough to suck my own cock (God bless the flexibility gained from running the hurdles in high school track) and loved squirting in my own mouth. Looking back, I'm surprised I didn't start sucking guys then. I wish I had, because I would have discovered the joys of being fucked so much earlier. And now I love to eat my cum that I'll shoot during sex after making a show of smearing it on my lips and licking it off my fingers for the top to see. A kind of messy performance art if you will. Naturally I like the cum from others more, but I am in the sex for the sluttieness of the situation, and the more cum the better.

Absolutely! It comes down to the guy backing it up.

Thanks for getting the escape room idea out there @Cumdumpoakland you have people thinking about some awesome activities. @fskn- great idea about bathouse revitalization, I'd pay to get in there. I'd have to agree that it would need to be private groups any way you did it. There are gay campgrounds, I have to imagine there are gay or gay-friendly farmers that would allow their property to be used for a maze (local laws permitting of course). The bathouse would probably be an easier route.

I had a thought about something like this, but with a corn maze. Have the standard maze, but instead of stations where you punch a ticket to prove you found it, you find beds with bottoms to fuck. Or tops looking to be sucked. Once you finish at a station, they stamp your ass. Once you collect all the stamps you have to find your way out and present your ass to get your prize. Which maybe another load if you are a bottom, maybe you get sucked by another bottom maze-runner. And if you are in the maze and meet a compatible guy along the way, feel free to have some fun! I'd volunteer to be a "station boy". I'd want to be naked in a low stock on a platform high enough for easy access that has me on my knees with my head and hands secure. My ass presented for anyone who finds me to fuck. Or mouth, if two guys find me and want a spit-roast. This combines a bunch of fantasies and fetishes: bondage, public sex, submissive anonymous sex, barebacking, and a whole lot of cum!

I've always been verbal about his cock when getting fucked. It seems to spur him on, which is exactly what I am looking for.