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YourNoLimitsBottom

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  1. I agree with everyone above that said what comes down to bottoms having it tougher with age and the numbers were stacked against bottoms to begin with. I'm in great shape but I don't even try to answer ads where someone is looking for a twenty-something. Ads in general have become a matter of rolling the dice where five out of six tries do not pan out. Getting out in the world and meeting new people that have my interests have generated more hookups in the past ten years (covid excluded) than any ads in my entire life. Sooner or later age catches up with us all if we live that long, so I'll continue to get out in the world as long as I can.
  2. I equate nudity with freedom. When I shed my clothes I shed my inhibitions. In regard to nudity not during a sexual encounter, I love being nude around the house. I really love to exercise nude. Squats, lunges, kettlebell swings, jumping rope, it all feels so liberating doing it nude. There are no nudist events around my area, or I would be frequenting them as much as possible.
  3. I feel you on that one! I've tried some dating apps and while there are a lot of flakes on those, there are some legit tops. One thing I will say positive about the dating sites is that guys tend to leave clues in their profiles that have lead me to places where physical meets are more likely to happen around my area (living near no major cities means "my area" is rather large). I can honestly say I have had more luck with physically meeting people because the apps help narrow down areas where guys of my flavor congregate.
  4. I spent years running mountain trails for strictly fitness and ended up with very fit legs and as a guy told me a "hot apple butt". To this day I've never forgotten how surprised I was because I never thought about it and how good the compliment felt. Thanks to him, I have kept the fitness routine going ever since. Wish I could find him and thank him!
  5. #3, #5, and looking forward to being a #7!
  6. I wouldn't mind giving it a try. Hell, you never know, you could be "discovered"! Now when I say "you", I mean YOU. I have great self-awareness, and I am very aware I am one of many guys of my type in the world. But being on camera would be fun, and it would also check an item off my bucket list and raise my sex-score a few points!
  7. I was lucky to learn to deep throat from a guy that loved to face-fuck. Thanks to him, to this day I love breath play. I've never passed out, but when I meet an enthusiastic top I do my best to convey while swallowing him that he can keep his cock in place longer than he may normally by either physically keeping my head in place while using my tongue and throat to massage him if I am the one doing the moving, or by holding him in place when he thrusts in if he is the one doing the moving. Some guys have picked up on what I am trying to non-verbally convey and I've had fun testing my limits. 🤤
  8. I can't fault people for their fantasy hookup criteria, in the end they are just limiting themselves. And who knows, they may find that unicorn they are looking for. If so, good for them! When I am online I actually appreciate it when someone lists their criteria because I can go down their checklist and know to either move on or that I won't be wasting both our times by contacting them. I'm not in my 20s and can immediately skip those young age range requirement requests, which are a lot of them. Plus in the cases where the criteria are describing a superman in every aspect, it helps me get a feel for what the person is really looking for. I have to guess that many of the ones that have a way-out-there fantasy list of criteria are not really interested in meeting anyway. I've had more luck going out in the world and meeting people. It seems to be easier to attract someone when they see you in person. Sometimes they are ready to hookup right then, which is fun and as close as I have gotten to an anonymous hookup. Sometimes the people I meet want to get to know me and we may or may not go from there. Maybe all of them are going over their mental criteria checklist, but I like to think that they are saying the hell with their checklist and are just getting to know me when we are in the real world.
  9. While girth is great for fucking (make me FEEL it!), and length and/or girth is great for swallowing into my throat (make me GAG as you fuck my throat!) in the end it come down to the man behind the cock. I've had cocks of all sizes, and it's always best when the man wielding it is confident in his game. A confident (not the same as arrogant!) man that can use what God gave him to make me see stars is someone I'll come back to every time.
  10. Haven't done it yet, but I am looking forward to the opportunity to try. Just got to get into a room with at least two willing tops!
  11. Same here. Love this position!
  12. I'd have to go with pretty much anything Nirvana or Pearl Jam.
  13. For a hookup inside where we have privacy, I like to go half an hour to an hour, at least. It comes down to the time available, and I definitely try to fill it. I do my best to keep him going, getting him hard with some foreplay and we usually finish with a good fuck. Usually the guy can only take it for so long before he needs to unload, and once he does it is either done or if we have a long evening/night to ourselves then we can go for hours with intermittent sucking and teasing in between fucks or cums. I like when we have the time and can incorporate the play with something else going on, for instance I had a friend who liked to fuck me doggy while we watched football. You could really feel his excitement when his team was on the verge of scoring, lol. If we are outside it is quicker, naturally, and I'll take what I can get. Though I sometimes like to keep him interested longer because I have an exhibitionism streak and enjoy the thought of being caught at the moment of orgasm with an exploding cock buried in me.
  14. I'm in my forties and prefer older men because I more easily equate older with domination. Give me a top that is older, taller, and heavier, and I'm going to go wild on that cock. But don't get me wrong, I won't turn down a younger cock. As for staying desirable as I get older, I've enthusiastically taken to a diet and fitness routine for sex and just plain feeling physically and mentally great. I've had pretty good luck when getting out in the real world and guys are able to see the goods. I find that meeting people in the real world results in more hookups than online sites. The online sites can easily disqualify you when you list your age and guys don't even bother to talk to you, out in the real world guys appreciate being able to see the squats-and-weights built ass they want to sink their cock into.
  15. Yup, I've bottomed for a few "straight" single guys I know and some I just met. I have never called them out on it. I've very discreet, and they appreciate that. Discretion and being an enthusiastic fuck helps generate repeat hookups from these "straight" guys. If they want to keep telling themselves they are straight, I couldn't care less.
  16. Absolutely I would. It's called a "hate fuck". Might even punch the asshole on my way out the door, just because...
  17. Actually, no sex. I had people that I was doing shopping for and didn't want to risk anything. Needless to say I was ready to go once that second shot waiting period was over!
  18. I have to agree with @Fickloch. During a hookup I'm there for the sex. Once the clothes come off I'm ready for action, I don't need to make out to get me going. I like messy high-energy sex, but I will say if there is a messy cummy kiss in the heat of the moment, then hell yes lay it on me.
  19. I have been on a few of the dating sites and between flakes and bottoms pretending to be tops to lure you to them in the hopes you'll be horny enough to forget you are a bottom and just fuck them... well, I gave up on those sites a while back.
  20. I've made it a personal rule to not give out my phone number until after a few hookups. I figure by then they have shown commitment. And that brings me to pics.... it's kind of surreal to see a pic of a butt shaped just like yours with the same birthmark as you have taken in your bathroom.... on another bottom's profile. 😕
  21. I emphatically agree. We are all in it for something, I personally am there for the physical contact and the shared sexual energy. All of which he provides and hopefully I do for him as well. I find that when I get more and more into it, so does he, like an awesome feed-back loop of hot sexual energy. I've had to alter my favorite positions to accommodate a cock that may have been a little smaller than average, but I do it gladly because when we work together we are going to make that encounter a hot one to remember. We are all providing a fantasy situation for our partner at that moment. Enjoy and live for the moment!
  22. I'm a bottom, but wanted to throw in this after running into it AGAIN this past weekend: If a guy says and lists he is all top (not vers-top, just a standard top), and he converses in online chat with you that he is all top, could he please during the meet-and-fuck do not ask the bottom to fuck him? Hell, I like mutual oral and 69 in particular, and will mention that during the "getting to know you" phase, but if the guy I am talking to does not want to suck me, I accept it and don't bring it up during the actual meet-and-fuck. I am continually amazed at how many bottoms list themselves as a top to lure in someone, and bank on that person being horny enough in the heat of the moment to say the hell with it and fuck them. I'm there looking for a fun time, and starting out with that level of deceit shuts me down fast and I am out the door. I respect the profile and the conversation, and many guys do as well, but sometimes people's horniness can make them say or post things they may not normally do in an effort to get laid. These sour experiences can make people hesitant and not as trusting when dealing with others afterward, and can have a cascading negative effect on future meetups.
  23. For me sex is mostly about touch and sound. I have been fucked in a day-lit kitchen bent over the sink and I have been fucked in a dark bedroom laying on my stomach as he lay on top of me. But what gets me hot and horny is the feeling of his hands gripping me. The feel of his skin against mine, his cum running down my skin... The sound of our breathing as we get closer to cumming, the hot sound of wet fucking and skin slapping skin... I've never done a blindfold. I would if he wanted it, but I've never felt the urge to put one on myself. When I am fucking I lose all inhibitions when there is no fabric touching my body, I guess you could say when my body is free of the physical clothing, I am free of all restraint. Just thinking about a blindfold puts a small damper on that horny enthusiasm. It may sound strange because I can go wild on a cock in a pitch black room, so you'd think a blindfold would have the same affect, but for me it is a reminder of clothing. If he wants it though, I'd do it. But to get back on topic, for me sex is a free, spontaneous act that can happen anywhere and preferably with no restraints. Restraints for me would be mental, in being told or my feeling that "the room needs to be dark", or "I/you need a blindfold". Now, If you want to tie me up or handcuff me, well, that is a whole other restraint topic of hot kinky fun! Lights on or off, ... I don't need a blindfold or dark room to enjoy myself.
  24. I'm a fairly neat and tidy guy in the real world. At one time, the thought of being a sweaty cum-covered mess would make my skin crawl. It didn't take long for some meet-ups with some hot tops to make me see how foolish I was. Now I crave feeling his cum running out of me and down my skin. And since I love shower sex, the messier things get the better!
  25. In regard to bottoms not showing up, I suggest you vet each one either yourself or have another top do so, without the candidate asking anything about statuses. In other words, they need to prove they will show up and have sex with one person and not refuse the load before being considered for a group. There are a lot of guys out there that fantasize about bottoming, but when it comes time for the meet they disappear. If a guy is will to show up and not refuse one load, the odds are better they will show up for the main event. I can hear the argument.. "How do I know you don't want to just have sex with me and there is no actual gangbang?" Again, the premise is to be a no loads refused bottom... so they should be as excited to take a single load as they are a room-fulls worth.
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