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    That was about the most positive thing you could have possibly said .... I've heard a lot through the years, but that one wins the "off-the-charts" award.
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    To the PrEP, at first, I was slightly a bit more "regular" than before, but that settled down fairly quickly. But, I eat a pretty healthy, varied diet anyway ... there's only one (excuse for) food that I simply will not eat.
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    That's an interesting topic, Thedogsbolloxx12, and thanks for posting it. Mentorship is relatively commonplace within the lives of those honoring the Leather Ethic. I notice that you chose a photo to post of yourself in some gear; perhaps your closer to your answer than you might think. Those men who live the Leather Ethic know well that mentoring the less experienced is a most rewarding task. I'm confident that there are organizations in London that would be a rich resource for you, when you decide to seek out that which interests you. Do investigate Bluf* - as well as others. I can guarantee you, there are Leathermen out there that find mentoring (a relative novice?) a supremely fulfilling task. I just googled organizations in London, and presto - a number of organizations popped up. Remember, however: the match between Mentor and mentor-ee must be carefully discussed (negotiated), so each man knows exactly what is anticipated and what is not. Good Luck !!! *Breeches Leather Uniform Fan club.
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    Thanks for that interesting perspective, 1hornyjohn. When a guy comes to the conclusion that he's able to get all the sleazy sex he wants, and do so in relative safety from serious illness, why not enjoy that advantage? Yes, there are medications that will preserve life, and allow a guy to indulge in sexual behavior that he needs in relatively good health. Yes, there are occasional infections from the lesser bugs that have been around forever, and are easily treated. But virtually complete protection from a disease that ripped through our community, killing many and emotionally injuring countless more, is an enormous accomplishment. We should be thanking whatever we pray to that we can continue our fantastically beautiful lives, in whatever way we need to live those lives, and in relatively great sexual health.
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    The way I read this is, you're either somewhat concerned (or maybe more than 'somewhat') about what your "gay friends... will say ...". I don't blame you one bit for having that eventuality in mind; anyone would. The question is, how much weight are you going to allow that concern? Clearly, you've spent no small amount of time on considering where on the "out" spectrum you need to be, and arrived at a conclusion that most would think of as healthy, self-affirming, confident and something to take pride in. No one wants to jeopardize long-standing friendships for nothing, but that wouldn't be the situation in your case. Valuing your honesty, both with others, and more importantly with yourself, is a very substantial accomplishment, and congrats for investing the time and effort in discovering the answer that's right for you. There may be a good chance that these friends that concern you will actually follow your lead, and begin a deeper assessment of their own. Every guy "gets there" when the time is right for him, and sadly, some simply never do. Kudos, jonaspnw, for "getting there" 😉
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    In the response to TallSlenderGuy's quote above, wherein he makes specific mention of fundamentalist religious folk using the term (gay) as a pejorative, use of that term in that way is hardly limited to the fundamentalist religions. It's used by members of more highly liturgical denominations in the same way. The use of "gay" as a pejorative (within the religious community of almost all traditions) is common. The users may think they're being less judgemental, but that's seldom the case. They think it's less damaging (this being in a "church" setting) than using words like fag, homo, cocksucker, etc. The language may be cleaned up a bit, but the intent remains unmistakable.
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    It's not just the fundies - the "mainline" liturgical denominations can be just as misguided. I know more about the Lutheran ones (WI Synod, MO Synod, Augustana Synod) that some of the larger, less myopic ones, but it's not just the fundamentalist ones. People who get the notion that they're better/more intelligent, more erudite than others (particularly via their churches), but inclusive of many different types of "communities", be it in-the-flesh, or merely over the ether, are never interesting folks, and seldom have anything interesting to say.
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    "What is your biggest kink to do with a slutty bottom?" To the OP ^ though, whoring out his Hole cums to mind too ... I guess it would depend in how hungry the guy is. It would have to be "negotiated" a bit though ....
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    Welcome, new guys. We hope to hear a lot more from each of you. Cheers !!
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    Neither do I, unless there was some kind of forcing unwanted attention on another guy, in which case the forcer should be shamed, and he forcee comforted.
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    Another thing that can help when (using the laptop) is using a VPN. I've used one of those for years - and anyone who get's ahold of an email address thinks I live a thousand miles away. Some of them (the VPN's) are free. One time though, some jerk figured it out, so I gave him the address (a thousand miles away) of a vacant lot. Had one of my friends back there find a vacant lot, figure out what the address* would be, and that took care of it. What I wonder though, is how many telephone numbers can we block? I get phone calls all day long from charities trying to raise money, some of which I respond to, most of which I don't. There must be a couple hundred numbers on the phone by now that I've blocked ... *not a difficult thing to do - all the addresses were 4 numbers away (plus or minus) by the city lot. One more thing; BZ is a public forum, so if the winners of the election come looking for folks to bother ...... well .......
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    Maybe it's just me, but I don't understand this OP at all ...... Sharing/Consuming that which the bottom has proudly received from other men is one of the most thrilling ways we "connect" with each other imaginable - at least to me.
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    I'm in the same damn boat - even after all these years of doing-the-dirty in all kinds of places. If a guy has skin-tight pants with all his stuff clearly outlined, it's probably a good bet, but I've probably missed out on a ton of hot sex because of my lack of one shred of "gaydar". The only thing that saves me, is going to the in-your-face fuckjoints where every guy is obviously there for the same purpose.
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    For Americans, I think almost any major city in Europe would be a great experience on several levels. Amsterdam is fun, Notre Dame is finished with the reconstruction after the fire, so that alone would be worth visiting Paris. GC is great too, but as far as I see it, nothing will ever beat Berlin for an all-out / anything goes destination.
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    Agreed. Any construct that allows a dominant group to continue to domineer a different group is messed up, no matter what you call it, or how you twist the original intent into something completely different. Odd how a determined group, once they feel threatened in some belief or another, can twist all kinds of clarity into knots.
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    This is spot on. Thanks, BootmanLA. I don't mind saying that although I've enjoyed the subject of history since grade school, I encountered not one word about the depravities (like bi-planes dropping artillery shells on the victims*) visited upon the unfortunates in OK ... not in any public school I attended. Same with "Juneteenth". I find that outrageous, and a bare-faced insult to those who the system was pretending to "educate". A large city, filled with people from elsewhere on the globe, folks of overweening false pride, inculcating that false pride onto yet another generation. It's not until we get out of the prejudices of the systems designed to reinforce the ancient wrongs, that we even have a chance to begin thinking on our own, and even that takes a bit of inspiration. *historically known as the Tulsa Massacre of 1921
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    There's a really easy remedy, rfo; simply block my commentary and you won't have to be so upset over such small potato's again.
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    Maybe you should try Atlanta ... I haven't been there in some time, but HotLanta used to be a lot of fun !!! If that won't do, then a little bit longer drive to So FL would be just the ticket for you.
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    Maybe you should take your own advice.
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    "Matter Definition & Meaning Merriam-Webster [think before following links] https://www.merriam-webster.com › dictionary › matter "6 days ago — a · a subject under consideration. Several other matters will come before the committee. ; b · a subject of disagreement or litigation" Thus, the issue, by definition according to M-W, was, is, and remains "under consideration", - or, (by my definition), still in a state of flux as to the actual, literal meaning. Convenient to use, but still unstable in meaning.
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    Of course. The prevailing mindset (of what mattered) was focused on the unspoken, obvious, clearly implicit "as much as any other" implication. That enlightenment had yet to be even acknowledged by the majority (meaning the empowered). After oh - a Century, anyway - of the folks who created the mess in the first place*, a terrible bloody Civil War, a failed Reconstruction, the obvious entrenchment of the notion that Black lives mattered less. The implication of "Black Lives Matter" shines a light upon the fact that for some, Black Lives didn't Matter one little bit, until their "usefulness" was used up, and it was time to sell them. Even those Americans who never committed the outrage of actually "owning" another human being - Northerners and poor Southerners - the "less-than" quality of the demeaned race was at the very least accepted by all but a tiny few. The recitation of that phrase - Black Lives Matter - is dwarfed by the thunderous, yet unsaid completion of that phrase: JUST AS MUCH AS EVERY OTHER HUMAN LIFE. Anyone who thinks that implication has been heard and compensatory action taken, only needs look to Springfield .... *Caucasians, both slave-holders and those who didn't, in both the North and the South
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    The dizzying pace of nominations to fill all the Government posts has had at least one great result: Gaetes has already resigned from the House, in anticipation of his elevation to the Cabinet. Now that that's over, he's got no where else to go, except shill for some other Republican (if there's still one that would have him). But all is not lost in the peanut gallery: Marjorie Trailer GreeneTrash is making a comeback !!! She's been nuttier than a fruitcake since the say she dyed that hair "whore-blonde".
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    Agreed. What I wonder though, is how big their balls are going to be about it. The R's are currently undergoing a sorely-needed "truth-test", and we don't really know yet which are going to choose Decency, and which are going to follow the pied piper into the dumpster. It won't be too much longer though .... Interestingly, even some of the scions of Wall St are forming up against the Muskrat lately. I think his whole "I love T" act is more for the benefit of his bottom line (and future prospects for building more billions) than any genuine belief in the repressions the Orangutang is planning. By the time these rascals are done with it though, will owning the World even be worth it? What good is having all the dough on Earth, with no place left to spend it?
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    Welcome, all you guys from the other side of the pond !!! Be sure to share all those Continental experiences with the rest of us !!!🐷
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    apologies for the double-post ... I'm probably the only guy that couldn't figure out how to make the one disappear and the other one remain.

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