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SOMEBODY knows is way around what Dominance/submission is all about; what that life truly is. I'm hoping that the reference to "Chapter One" means there will be more chapters to this magnificent prelude !!!

Bingo. Reinforcing whatever compliments the Tops are tossing your way, only guarantees a hotter scene for you. If one (or more) seems hesitant to be verbal, you can give him "permission" to become more-so with a couple of piggish comments of your own (tailored to him, his cock, how he uses it, etc. Even Tops sometimes need a little "encouragement".

Bingo. You win again !!!

Well, maybe it's time for AI to head over to the garage for tune-up? The results seem a bit unreliable 🙄 Apparently, he thinks the White House belongs to him personally, and always will. However, what can be built up can also be torn down. Interestingly, when FDR initially began the East wing, apparently it was to cover up the existence of a bomb shelter beneath it. I can't help but wonder what use for that bomb shelter (if it's still there) we can come up with, when the Grifter-in-Chief is no more .....

This may be a bit too ethereal for some, but .... When men breed, they are "connecting" on a deeper level than we normally do with others. Each guy is offering up one of his most foundational, personal qualities to another man/men, and that's a real, intense, and important part of them they're offering. Whether T or b, each guy is offering his own truth, his own true self to the other, as they celebrate the mating ritual. That's a really powerful experience, and the proof is in how each man feels after a great fuck. So powerful, in fact, that many men try to repeat that sensation of "connection" over and over and over again - sometimes in one visit to a fuckjoint. Seeking that "connection" over and over again, whether cock to mouth or cock to ass, or the more extensive Leatherplay, BD/sm, or anything else, it's being connected to each other in beautiful ways that is so very satisfying. Pumping one's sperm up another man's hole is like saying "I love you, who you are, what you are, and you are valuable". Taking another man's cock/load up your fuckhole is answering in kind. Each man is sharing that which makes him feel alive, feel needed, wanted, and of tremendous value.

To the OP, I haven't noticed anything in particular changing in the daily bodily functions, and I've used PrEP for years now. I do all the things I always have (working in the gardens, trimming trees, transplanting things, all of that), and haven't noticed any changes. That said, I haven't been hunting for them either.

Thanks for that question. Given that the US has been seen (by many citizens of other nations) as the place to relocate to (if & when things go south in their native countries), the US appears to be the "default" location by virtue of our history in welcoming all peoples to our shores. The underlying misperception might be that everything is wonderful here, with nothing but largess to spread around, and those that created that wealth (over generations) are only too happy to share it. That perception goes against one of the more regrettable human characteristics, namely selfishness vs generosity. There's a fine point to be considered, namely generosity is easily extended when the recipients adopt US values, meaning adding to the society, as opposed to detracting from it. There may be a perception among some US citizens of several generations that there are too many non-contributing immigrants, but I believe that perception is a false impression.

According to the googler, the population of Norway is around 5.5 million, while the population of the US is around 340 million. That would suggest that a much greater percentage of the population in the US is (at least at present) not productive relative to the population than in Norway. In your view, why would that be the case (if it is)? Some would say the US has far more indolent citizens than your fine country, but one of the aggravating factors is the tremendous variance of cultures in the US. Do you know what the percentage is of recent (say, within 40, 50 years) of immigrants (non native-born Norwegians) that are contributing members of society (meaning, working, paying taxes, etc).? More bluntly, in the US there may well be a greater percentage of citizens who, for one reason or another, are not contributing members, but rather immigrants that have come to the US to escape more egregious strictures in their native countries, and thus would wind up in the cycle of recurring hardship.

I've occasionally wished I were versatile, but I'm just not. Can't help it - I'm just not. So, I remain happy with what I do best.

Here's how (I think) it works: When you're an active member - meaning participating in the discourse - you "earn" the right to use the little doo-dads to upvote, like, say 'thanks', etc. I assume it's to discourage those of ill will, but I don't know that. Keep commenting, posting your own content, and it'll happen sooner than you think, so keep responding to various threads of conversation, and presto - you'll have all the privileges available too.

Well, shucks .... if I could still blush, I would .... but it's waaaay too late for that 😉

That's the most important phrase so far. Tops are generally confident enough in their lusts to perform well in group-fucks, but when the bottom feeds, reinforces their lusts, it will almost always guarantee a burning hot breeding orgy. Prescient one, aren'tcha .....

Kudos, rawinme. Without the crucial bond of trust being established, the most potent facet of B/d S/m - the giving up one's control of the bottom, and the acceptance of control of the Top - the magnificent "connection" that is available to each man will be impossible to establish. Without that trust being well-established (which no true Leatherman would allow via what we call "a negotiation") the exercise is almost certain to - at best - fail.

Never having experienced that peculiar behavior, I would like to say I'd pull out and save the load for a guy that actually does want/need it. I'm pretty sure I would ... but .... it might depend on how close I am, too .... which raises an interesting question: In the fuckjoints, when every guy is fucking/getting fucked raw, why would a bottom gladly take a hard raw cock up his gut, if he didn't want the load in the first place? Just to irritate the Top(s)? That'd be risky business too. Some Tops would be all the more determined to breed the fuck outta that bottom, but then the question (for the T) becomes "do I waste my sperm on this asshole (pardon the usage), or give it to some other, more deserving bottom?

THIS discussion, sharing of viewpoints, is probably the biggest reason I like BZ: No guy has been throwing stones at some other guy. Each guy has well-reasoned, well-written additions to the conversation. Thanks, each of you, and please do continue. ❤️

Back then, RR was the very best breedbar around. You may recall the "patio bar", which is actually outside, covered by tarps in the event of rain. Back when you remember it, after around 10pm it was so full of guys fucking each other you couldn't walk through that area. Guys would have to wait for a guy to leave and try to grab that spot. If you had to take a piss, god help you if there wasn't a piss-guy within reach. The later at night it was, the more crammed full of guys it got. There was (still is, for that matter) also a pool table adjacent to the main bar in front, which was covered at night with a sheet of plywood, Bottoms would line up - shoulder to shoulder - all around the pool table, with the Tops crammed in behind them, also all around the pool table. I remember one night, a rather "heavy-set" guy trying to squeeze himself into the area around the table, and being rather rudely told he would displace too many slimmer Tops busy fucking holds. Then, after closing (when guys had to leave RR), they'd go behind a used furniture store on the corner, and keep going all night long. At the time, I had a dog, and we'd have our morning walk fairly early - and sometimes there were still a decent number of guys fucking each other. Of course, that corner was on our (the dog and I) morning "walk" route, and occasionally a guy would "fall in" next to me, following me home, if I wanted. Generally, I've never been much of a "morning man", but .... occasionally .... well, you get the scenario. Those days are long gone now, but I'm glad I got to experience it. My barber insists that currently, there's a commercial building across the street from RR where guys go behind the building and breed, but there are tall metal fences in front of every building over there, and they only open during regular business hours. Tangentially though, I do find evidence of filthy goings-on in my front yard occasionally. I have those thick, double-paned windows, so the only way I'd hear anything is if I left them open ... which I don't; the A/C is costly enough to run. Those days are long gone now, but I'm happy I got to experience it.

Sadly, the operative word in the above phrase is "years ago". Ramrod has faded in the celebratory breeding arena, one the Eagle (a few blocks up Wilton Manors Dr) opened. It's still a fun bar, but the "ups & extras" are no more, other than an occasional hookup in the backbar. Apparently, in the wee hours there's still some action - 2: am'ish, - but that's only on weekends when guys don't have to get up and go to work in the morning. RR used to be jammed to the rafters with men breeding each other, from evening until closing. Eagle isn't all that far - maybe a dozen blocks north, first building on 6th Ave - and they do have a "dress code", however there is still action available for non-Leathermen. Of course, there's always Slammer too ...

I have no idea what your reference to "collateral damage" is. If you would make it clear, I would appreciate it. Thanks.

Agreed. And, it's really a confounding character-flaw to analyze. How is it that some guy - any guy - gets that kind of mindset? The only potential answer I can figure out is, he was thoroughly spoiled as a little kid, and has never outgrown that emotional rot.

Thanks for the response, tobetrained.