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First, welcome, DanMac - we're glad you've joined up. To the quote above: That may be the case, but bear in mind that 1 in 12 males have some version of color vision deficiency, so depending on color(s) may not be all that reliable. For instance, I'm red/green, and had to learn to look for which light on a traffic light was actually lit up, rather than what color it was. I could always see the yellow one though. And, I can't recall seeing polka dots at all - regardless of preferred sexual depravity or position. Maybe it's a special "Aussie" thing? Most things about Aussie's are rather special anyway .....

Younger guys are sold the idea online that sex is theirs to take - just read half the stories on this site (and I'm sure there's worse out there.) They have no reference for the difference between fantasy/play and real life. You say "Agressive encounters happen very often without being "consensual"." Well, that's rape when it happens in the real world.

off meds and toxic. Looking for the same. Always horny with no limits and no loads refused. Chem pig. Anyone who is in the NYC area. Text me. 973 997 4934

I gotta say, I live for complements. Part of is a natural need for validation, but part of it is for genuine feedback. I'll always want to improve my service. I've joked about printing up some customer satisfaction surveys for afterwards. I certainly get off on a guy telling me I'm better at it than his wife or girlfriend. Or that my mouth feels better than her pussy.

Same fuckjoint as usual .... so far, it's never been a disappointment 😉

Some food for thought from a Brazil-fan (never been to carnaval though): 1. whenever I aimed for sex, it didn’t happen (expectations vs. reality) 2. carnaval is not matinee , it’s about letting go, yes but to have sex, you have to SHOW you are available … shy is not your friend, Brazilians don’t want to get harassed but flirting is key, otherwise they might judge us quickly as arrogant / cold hearted Europeans 😉 3. the action is NOT in Instagram-rich tourist places … if you want to see the real Rio, go in the dark streets 3.a and yes, most definitely, leave ALL valuables in the room! Do NOT bring your phone. WALK, explore, have some cash for a cab for the way home, no bling anywhere; just you and your horniness. I always have a „throw away smartphone“ with me that I could easily hand over if getting robbed. It only contains one credit card data and uber app and Google Maps. DONE. 3.b try become friends with Cariocas; the best sex I had in a Favela but I would never recommend anyone to go there at night by themselves - you won’t only loose your watch and wallet there … (whenever I go to suburbs - usually São Paulo - I go with people I met before and somewhat trust 😉 - they take me and bring me to a save spot where I can get an uber back home) 4. don’t accept any cock blocking behavior - this is Rio - leave egoism and jealousy at home. 5. the kissing is the „can he fuck“ test - if you fail there , nobody will wanna fuck with you. So don’t underestimate this challenge. 😉 6. to give you perspective: huge events like carnaval might increase pressure of „something must happen“ - I made the experience that off-season travels are my jackpot time: once in São Paulo , a hot breeder understood that I am a natural born cumdump and asked me if so would take ANY dick, if he takes care of me. I said yes… 4 hours later I was railed by a line up of men, cumloads dripping down my legs, dicks the size of kids arms , old and you, muscled bodybuilders and thin homeless - all loaded me up … I just happened to be a white slut being available (time, location and no competition that night were the formula 😉) 7. while saying all this and enjoying being a slut myself , let’s keep in mind they might be annoyed when tourists think they can just get what they want. At the end we all are human beings and maybe a cute flirt and some decent friendly behavior is exactly what will open the door for you to some little adventure 😈💦

Do you mean that guys carry different colored glow sticks to indicate what they're prowling for? I hope things haven't sunk to that - please please please say NO .....

Fuck that’s hot… got excited reading that. Most definitely love the slut life and being a total cock whore. I’ve accepted the risks and have experienced the consequences (STIs and other negative outcomes). I just can’t help myself. Like you, being a slut is what works for me and I’m satisfied with that choice.

I can't remember being asked at all. Not sure why; I think I look like any other guy in the fuckjoints - even back in Chgo I don't recall being asked, and around here, I'd be stunned if a guy would ask. It wouldn't surprise me if there were more poz guys than not at Slammer.

When you consider that I've been using the internet to hook up since the dial-up BBS days, you'd think I'd have run across more than 2 acquaintances, but it's just been 2. One was a guy (and his wife, but I didn't know her) on a swing site about 30 years ago. I had no interest but I sent him a note to advise a bit more discretion in his choice of public photos. He still doesn't know that I know/knew. The second guy is someone with whom I had a professional acquaintance - the company I worked for was a service provider for the company he worked for. He's been retired for a couple of years. Just the other day he reached out on A4A. I'm interested but haven't told him that we know each other yet.

I went last night, had low expectations because I'm an older guy, but it was OK. There were a lot of people there (sniffles reported 111 of their cruisers), all of the rooms were taken by the time I got there at 915. I got a locker, undressed and looked around. In the first hour there were just LOTS of people aimlessly walking around but not engaging (my pet hate at cruising venues - we are all here for the fucking, not the walking!). Then the fucking started, mostly in the big open area, in the rooms,and some in the corridor. However with lots of people comes the challenge that people start getting picky, they're all after a fuck with the few young adonis. So I took the strategy of working the darker corridors and slings. I get that not everyone is after a middle aged average guy when there is other fine steak on the menu so that's cool. In the end I took 7 cocks and 5 loads so I'm not complaining, but older bottoms will have less success here.

If you have become a no load refused hole for strangers, you can’t be safe all the time. I suppose PrEp and Doxy-PrEP are your only options. Or, you can just accept fate and keep doing what you are doing. Back in the 1980’s, I accepted the risks fully. My desires and needs outweighed the need to be “safe”. Although being mostly a top offered a little more protection, it was not without risk. I fucked everyone raw. I fucked anything that caught my eye. Back than, I even fucked women knowing they could possibly get pregnant. I suppose my need for raw sex overrode common sense. Eventually my luck ran out and I tested HIV+; but I was fine with that. I made my choice based on my needs. If you are doing the same, then enjoy yourself and be a slutty and take every raw cock and load you can get. Life life to the fullest with little or no regrets. Just remember, the only safe sex is no sex. The next level of safe sex is sex with the same partners exclusively who are 100% clean. Personally, I choose being a slut. It’s what works best for me.

Thanks for the responses, you guys. I always enjoy reading responses to thought-trains, hoping to read something worth pondering. Sometimes, it actually works, too.